How to deal with being ugly

>22 y.o.
>virgin

I know it's every other thread here, but I am ugly dude and I am still can't get over the fact that I am ugly. It just eats me everyday. What should I do?

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How do you know you are ugly?

I mean I see myself in the mirror. Besides this, my mom, father, sister (i am not joking or overexagerrating here), girls in high school, girls in uni, my friends told me that in different ways. From "ugly" to "below average in looks" to "you should study and have lots of money, son"

You look like a 7/10 on the pic

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>Besides this, my mom, father, sister (i am not joking or overexagerrating here), girls in high school, girls in uni, my friends told me that in different ways. From "ugly" to "below average in looks" to "you should study and have lots of money, son"

I know you believe that, but don't you think that awful parenting had repercussions in your life? If your parents nuked your self esteem it'll be hard to feel good about yourself.

if it was me on pic i would be smashing mad pussy 24/7 and not sitting here asking for advice

Dude looks doesnt matter, no matter how attractive you are you will still be alone. Well atleast that is from my experience lmao, girls like snapping with me, but usually go cold after some time.

And I never get approached, even though they find me attractive. There is no point with those fucking whores.

Really? How would you rate yourself? All my handsome friends got approached constantly.
If it was only parents I would believe it, but it's not only parents unfortunately

>If it was only parents I would believe it, but it's not only parents unfortunately

So, people have literally told you you are ugly or do you "read it" in their words?

Look into confirmation bias. I know it's a hard cycle to break, but you gotta try.

Well it might because im skinny, so there is that. They cant see that when snapping, girls want the perfect guy and shit.
I would rate myself a 7 out of 10. If I actually got Jow Forums maybe an 8 or 8.5.

Yes, I was told I am ugly straight to my face. Not out the blue of course. Some conversations led to this and girls had no hesistation to tell me I am below average in looks or that I am unfortunate guy.

this guy looks like me when I take off my glasses

How often have they told you you are "alright" or "average"?

Never, they only talked about looks when conversation was appropriate or when I asked them directly. Nobody told me I am average ever

kys? i mean do u really want to risk haveing children and passing that on?

>Nobody told me I am average ever

So you've never met a liar? Or a pleaser? Someone that would rather make shit up than deal with an uncomfortable truth?

That doesn't sound likely. What's likely is that your issues make you feel bad about every interaction you have. That's actually logical, more logical than the idea that you've never even been lied to when it comes to looks.

Not OP, but here

I get bullied for having a serious look around brainless retards that gossip behind frat walls or to their buddies that smoke weed or drink. They only use me for money and something to talk about.

I'm having a children and it would be a crime not to cause these people breed then break up from alcoholism and their kids all come to me for a role model.

In town among adults I am respected very much- especially from elders, but my peers are all killing themselves, drinking themselves to death, or having so much reckless sex it destroys any time to get lunch and socialize like normal people

I feel like if I had blonde hair and went to the gym all the time and joined a frat and sucked some dick people would accept me into their gay clubs

>Dude looks doesnt matter
Biggest lie told to men.
This is why you got these ugly PUA guys trying to approach girls and embarrassing themselves. A meme I fell for a few times myself.

wtf do I know you

I am saying that wether you are attractive or not you're still gonna look like an idiot. There is no point in this fucking game, you might be attractive to her, but there will be something ruining it. Height, hand/wrist size, dick size, teeth, hairline. Whatever it is, if you aren't above average in everything, you aint getting anywhere

Same boat here. I already accepted that no woman will ever be sexually atracted to me. Romantic love is still probably possible. As to career and social status - those will be a constant uphill battle, so don't expect much respect unless you are a physically big guy.

Consider plastic surgery and moving to live in another place.

>OP believes he's ugly.
Ok there's a good way of getting past this. Go to the gym and get Jow Forums. Even if the lifting doesn't improve your looks, it will hella raise your confidence and self esteem. Besides it's mostly personality which makes or breaks a relationship if you do pursue one.
T.formerfatperson.

I know that feeling, man. My mom tells me I'm ugly at least once a month. The last time, she whimsically said I was the ugliest person at the dinner table (me, my brother, my dad, and my mom) and tells me I have no friends "like her" when I stay home and play video games.

I don't know how to react when she says things like this and I don't really have any advice. Just showing support as another user.

Just fucking kill them dude, unironically. That dumb ass bitch gave life to you, and makes you suffer even more than you already do. There is no point in this modern world anyway, might aswell rebel against it, show that whore whos boss

If you want, I'll take away your virginity and show you everything that is :)

Not op, but that's a very tempting offer.

Want to get catfished? Don't be stupid. This SF is trying to scam people all over the board. At best it's just a roleplayer pretending to be a girl.

Oh, I haven't been on in a while. Thanks.

Totally agree

A gym won't fix deep seated self image issues. Without some therapy he will work himself to death, shrink his balls with steroids and still be single and unhappy.

Well she did have a big part in making you who you are. Not that being ugly is your fault or hers, but telling you that you're ugly makes her fucking disgusting in comparison. I'm really sorry you have to put up with that user.

>Shrink his balls with steroids
Are you serious dude? Being Jow Forums isn't about steroids. You don't need that shit for everday lifting. Going to the gym is good for confidence. And I kinda agree on the theraphy if theres an underlying problem OP is facing.

>Being Jow Forums isn't about steroids.

For you. But if OP decides to use it to fill the void inside he can go off the deep end. That's like people addicted to plastic surgery. When you don't like yourself, getting fit won't make you happy.

I knew a guy who was severely burned but had some pretty hot babes...Asked them why they went out w him...he had real good body he kept in shape was answer...I was nearly murdered by mafia family member associates...really...survived became really pretty tough as FBI now says...never had much luck with girls before that..looks so - so but after babes told me I was so intense...so had more babes than ever...not only looks...

I just want to help, I am a girl with a lot of free time and many things to say. The same I take away your virginity if you want;)

Are you Jow Forums?

stop fixating on your looks, it will eat you alive. try to cover up mirrors and the like while you spend some time just trying to build up other aspects of yourself to gain confidence, like a sport or other physical activity
once you come to appreciate yourself in other aspects, it should make you less obsessive over your looks