Some cam girls and porn stars sell their snapchats or similar apps for a monthly fee...

some cam girls and porn stars sell their snapchats or similar apps for a monthly fee. is it cheating on a gf/bf or husband/wife to do this if you are just receiving their content, stories etc. and not chatting with them? assuming the partner is ok with you watching and paying for porn.

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Seems like a waste of money considering there's hundreds of thousands of naked girls on the internet for free. Or is financially supporting them part of some cuck fetish?

OP here. nah just wanting more of their slutty content, selfies etc....

It's usually a deep-rooted thing about feeling entitled or part of something or under a special or specific attention. A lot of them have names for their subscriptions or groups or whatever. You know, how like every gamer youtuber guy says "what's up guys," they have 'the very important clara club' or 'the sarah specials' or 'bootsy's buddies' or whatever faggy shit they're up on.

Then you're getting porn that usually tags a lot of fetishes at once, these chicks almost all dabble into the cosplay shit because it's nerd cred and it gets nerd attention.

I think the real lynchpin of it all is that it feels like there's a level of exclusion for others. It gives them something, no matter how facetious, over their alleged competition. THEY get that girl's attention, and WE don't.
It could really be any number of things, but those're my takes on it. It could be as banal as 'that girl ticks all my boxes, I'll pay for it because it's the only porn I need.' I mean, I could sympathize with wanting a bead on porn you consider primo. I guess.

Not OP but your post was observant

Am I autistic for not being able to empathize with people like this? It feel like you have to be operating under numerous layers of delusion in order to be the type of customer you described, and yet there's so many of them.

yes but is it cheating ? as per op's question

>is it cheating
If you dont tell to your SO, definitely yes
Otherwise you can share the content and see it together

>is it cheating?
Depends on your partner.

In my case, both my current SO and my ex gf were very tolerant on me watching porn but didn't want me sex-chatting nor interacting with camwhores. Not only I couldn't participate in webchats with them but I couldn't receive pictures nor anything.

I think the point is that any little interaction is a sort of RELATIONSHIP, which doesn't happen when you watch porn that could be made by people who could be dead by now.

PD: I had a platonic love with whom we shared love letters, my SO was more worried about me writing again to her than about me interacting with some virtual prostitute. I stayed faithful because porn was enough in my case.

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It’s a gray area.

>am I autistic for not being delusional?
Pottery

if op is only watching the content and not chatting back I don’t see how it’s different than porn. also could use a fake account so your identity isn’t revealed

Would you tell your partner? the answer to that question is the opposite to the answer if its cheating.

I think people are entitled to privacy about their porn habits even in a long term relationship .

Ok but, if she found out by mistake, do you think shell be mad or be accepting?

Even better fireproof test:
Would you be ok with her doing the same? paying some dude online to see him masturbate, complimenting his rock hard abs, his long girthy dick how she would love to suck it and feel it in her...

would you be ok with that?

Ya I think most people would be pissed if their partner was saying stuff like that to a cam model, guy or girl . But if they’re just watching snap stories posted for everyone and not chatting it’s almost a non issue .

If your partner is okay with it, who gives a fuck. Just be upfront and talk about it beforehand so you know where they stand.
Me and my partner watch porn together and sometimes hires a prostitute together. It’s fine as long as everyone is okay with it.

Fucking kek that girl's expression in the OP pic. Lost it

If my husband started paying for special content from some dumb camgirl, I would leave him

Not only is it mild infidelity, but it's pathetic. Learn to torrent, learn to find the websites that leak the slut's content. I share my finances with my fiance and he shares with me. Sure, we have our own hobbies we fund, but porn isn't a hobby.
I would consider this not only a waste of time, blatant disregard of the relationship, but also plain stupidity.

I am in shape, have a high sex drive, and willing to try new things and change for my partner. If your wife isn't willing to make changes to scratch those fetish itches, you need to have a serious talk.
Sexual compatibility is a big deal, and if you're literally paying some whore just to get these needs filled, there's a bigger problem than "lol is it cheating if i give another girl money for her to fulfill my sexual needs and not tell my wife about it?"

how is it “moderate infidelity” but paying for porn isn’t ? It’s the same thing

paying for porn =/= paying/supporting the girl directly
what dont you understand, faggot?

adding on, it's pretty much like eating at a restaurant ran or owned by women vs eating dinner at a girl's house.

>is it cheating
Do you really have to ask?

That user already explained it to you if you bothered to read it.

Subscribing to porn outlet or website where you can watch hundreds of random videos of people fucking is VERY different from paying one person directly. The level of interaction is usually different and the mindset is different. If you can't tell that difference, you're autistic.

except its not because those are real life actions , this is virtual videos made for the masses meant for fantasy.
I buy art from a woman artist at a craft sale, therefore i've cheated on my spouse by giving her money? I could see if youre becoming a sugar daddy for a cam girl ya its weird.

If they're ok with it, it's not cheating.
That said, paying for snapchat premiums sm's cam show shit is stupid and a waste of money.
I can't wait for that shit to be taxed. Then we'll see how many hoes continue to do it

ya some are pulling six figures , lots of mental problems so they can make a living without leaving the house . having said that “living on the internet” can’t be healthy long term .

Ultimately it's up to the partner what is acceptable for their relationship, nothing is cut and dry.
Some people can be ultra lenient (open relationships) some can be ultra strict (sharia law tier)

Some can seem ok/insane to some and vice vera, ultimately what matters is the two individuals and what THEY think is acceptable for THEIR relationship.

nothing else besides what the two people agree is acceptable / unacceptable matters

Best post .

do it OP. and tell her. and if shes okay with it then good and if shes not okay with it it wasnt meant to be.

I would never tell any boyfriend I have not to do something. If he wants to do it, thats enough for me to not fucking like him anymore. if my boyfriend wanted to look at another girl were done.
i dont have time for guys that dont have eyes for me only.

>is it cheating on a gf/bf or husband/wife to do this
If you wouldn't tell them about it, you know something is wrong with it or they won't like it.
It's a bit weird paying someone to see them naked when porn is free and you have a partner who you can see naked. I personally don't get why anyone would pay for someone to snapchat them.

if you’re a fan of that performer then it’s just a way to get more content. Granted you can get a lot of that stuff free on the torrent / download share message board type thing, but depending who it is that stuff can be hard and time consuming to find so I see why people would do it. I think it’s sad if people are doing it for emotional or social support. That is just beta to the max