A pretty humiliating question here. So it was after exams party and that's like THE party of the year. This guy started hitting on me, one thing led to another and a little later I was giving him a blow job in the bathroom and he necessarily wanted to give me a facial. I wiped it off asked him if there was nothing left to see on me (no mirror anywhere to find) and he said no. I went back to the party and saw some people laughing. Luckily I didn't walk around longer than a few minutes till one of my friends told me that I had some come in my hair and not just a little. I went back to the bathroom to get it off with some toilet paper but it got messier. I had to go home real early to wash my hair and didn't go back. So my night was ruined cause of this guy. So girls: how the hell can you get it out of your hair without a shower? And guys: I know there are a lot of nicer guys out there, but do some of you find it funny to humiliate a girl after sex? I mean I was giving this guy the time of his life without him having to do anything for it. It's like I just gave him a free gift and he doesn't even feel like being a little thankful and not humiliate me, cause he obviously saw it.
A pretty humiliating question here. So it was after exams party and that's like THE party of the year...
Could he have genuinely not seen the come in your hair? Was there bad lighting? Did he barely check?
Sorry this happened.
I've never had anyone else's cum but my own in my hair. (I suck my own dick occasionally). Mine's fairly thick and stays together so I usually can pinch it out with a tissue.
He had no respect for you so he didn't care to look. I wouldn't either. Any girl that gives a guy a blowjob just as they meet is not a person worthy of respect.
Yeah... no. That’s a shower requirement.
That’s why you need to get it all in your mouth if your out and about.
Also I don’t suck off random guys, who knows where that PP has been before.
But you do you.
If you're gonna blow a random guy at a party don't let him come on your face maybe?
if this is actually real then damn u dirty. dont blame him too much because you're at fault as well. you decided to give a blowjob and not come prepared. and its a party. its get down and dirty, there is no real incentive to double check everything.
being a girl who gives a guy a blowjob without having him work for it, and at a party no less, is the equivalent of a dude confessing his love to every girl he meets.
You gotta rinse that cum out with cold water. Hot water will solidify it and make it chunky like over cooked scrambled eggs.
lol thats you in the pic
You thought you were hanging out wit the cool kids cause there was 40$~ in cheap beer
Unfortunately you are a poor waifu that got used by losers
next time just swallow like a good girl
You are literally the typical girl i expect to be spawned of years on this site.
>not using your phone camera as a mirror
ya dun goofed
Damn OP tell me this is bait. If it ain't at the least tell me you learned something
Here
Since nobody is actually helping you here and instead roasting you
Here's reality:
You are now known as the school slut
You can ruin your life by showing up a parties and getting made fun of by the girls who hopefully idk help you cause they are the only ones now that can
Or the guys will just use you as a cumdumpster
Take this one on the chin is my advice (hehe)
aw jeez this whole thread depresses me
least some dude got a blowjob out of it- bet he felt like a king for the night
I dont understand what the appeal of giving blowjobs are. Like wouldn't it be weird for a dude to give a chick oral and then just get up and leave lol. Is it even hot? What's hot about it? Is it just the IDEA of it? I don't fuckin understand women it's like they WANT to be used as toys.
I think the lesson is, get ready for nasty STD ridden cock. Disease flavored, mmm.
You know what scared the shit out of me?
Last year illegals with the worst STDs known to man came in the country at 2000% the normal rate
The Melting Pot just got Spicy
It's funny because none of you chicks want nice guys, then you go complaining that you had some dickhead jizz in your hair. I might just become a Buddhist soon due to the Karma of all of this.
>do some of you find it funny to humiliate a girl after sex?
So in your mind, the guy who hits on girls at a college party to get a quick bj in the bathroom is the kind of person who has the tiniest shred of either respect for you or concern for your well being?
I don't know if he did it on purpose or not, but I'm 100% sure either way he would not give a single flying fuck about you or how you look 3 seconds after busting a nut, you've served your purpose as a cock sleeve, he doesn't care about you and he DEFINITELY doesn't mind that he had left a mark on you that says you sucked him off.
I'm not trying to come off as the sort of user that goes "REEEEEE sluts GTFO", you do you, but as a one night stand (or just a passing by cum dumpster in this case) the most respect you should expect is the guy pointing you out to his friends later and announcing "I got her on her knees in less than an hour! aren't I great?".
In short, don't be a retard, if you're going to fuck around don't expect anyone to be nice to you after the deed is done, during that time you are, for all intents and purpose, a used up slut.
oh hey, I was just looking for a fitting reaction image and came across this, how appropriate.
baka how did you all fall for such easy bait
Based Chad.
And you must admit, OP, it was pretty funny. He was probably out of your league anyway, and in fact, it's you who should be thankful.
idk
it just piles up these days
You expect a guy to show you respect after you blow him in the bathroom of a party?
What about that statement gleams respect to you?
This is an awful thing to happen and I’m terribly sorry it did but please let this serve as a wake up call. No man who is willing to do something like that with you at a party when he has just met you is going to respect you. Ever. You need to respect yourself more and not allow yourself to be put into these situations. I repeat. No man that respects you will pull you away into a bathroom at a party to get a blowjob and cum on your face.
Is this really that big of a fucking riddle to women?
Jesus Christ, imagine having had this told to you to actually fucking realize this.
talk to your mom about it OP
I had to learn this the hard way too I was way too naive and thought that anyone who showed sexual interest wanted to be with me forever
>giving a random dude you meet at a party a blowjob in the bathroom and letting him cum on your face.
>I know there are a lot of nicer guys out there, but do some of you find it funny to humiliate a girl after sex?
I gonna be honest here as guy.
If you do something like this, we immediately label you as a dirty whore who deserves nothing from us besides our nut. He gave it to you, and doesn't give two flying fucks about you after it.
How surprising.
To be fair OP is in College and is having a High School-Tier Party (Liberal Style)
i know this is bait but the real scary thing here is the fact that some woman actually think like this do what op baited with.
Imagine your daughter doing something like this
Maybe I just don't dance this social dance most people do, and because of it, my outside perspective gives me insight to things that don't occur to most people because they're too busy being blind to it. Yet I'm mocked for not partaking in this social behavior.
I'm not gonna say I feel sorry for you, but I'm not going to state the opposite. There's really nothing I can say to change anything, it's a chaotic mess and I'm a spectator. And yes, I realize I'm being an asshole by saying all of this, but can't really blame a guy who was mentally disfigured by society.
>a whore getting what she deserves
Huh
maybe dont suck off random dudes at parties maybe?
But what the fuck do I know, I'm just some schmuck
Holy... incels.
Incel
>everyone that doesn't respect literal whores are incels!
Naw, some of use have actual relationships, and standards.
Is this what you have to tell yourself to sleep at night? Or does the random guy's cum help weld your eyes shut enough on their own.
Don’t feel sorry for me it was a lesson I had to learn. Society is retarded and no one is obligated to navigate me through it so there is no one to blame but myself for my actions. OP must realise this too.
>no u
Shocking
Whatever you say, bud.
Incel
Kepe going. I'm dying over here
Even if they are, it doesn't make them any less right.
The guy didn’t ruin your night. You ruined your own night by sucking off a complete stranger within an hour of talking. Don’t be a thot and you won’t have to worry about that happening again.
Ah, yeah, it does. Incels have no place to criticize women.
Incel
Roastie
sorry i forgot Jow Forums was soft these days i guess y'all really blew the fuck up. I'll be more honest next time and not spend so much effort to make you kill yourself. I am a nice guy. But i hate thots.
Christ is it normal nowadays to just suck off random guys you just meet on a party? Letting them even cum on your face? wtf, how will I ever find a self-respecting gf in the western world nowadays.
>it is normal to suck off random guys at a party when being a teenager
Fuck off. I am in my twenties and have had plenty of sexual encounters, but this is just dirty.
Luckily for her future boyfriend/husband, she'll never tell him about this disgusting act.
This. Keep it under wraps, girl. SLAAAAAYYYYY
Why not?
If OP didn't want to be potentially criticized harshly by people who may or may not be incels, she shouldn't have made this post. She put herself out there on this board just as much as she put herself in that bathroom.
And people are surprised that men are opting out of marriage in developed countries. There is even scientific evidence of increasing promiscuity being linked to higher cheating, divorce and STD rates. Women are also more unhappy than 40 years ago. Apparently things aren't going in favor for wholesomeness and stability, but mostly hedonism and egocentrism.
>Ad hominem
The NPC argument tactic of choice.
Same old disproven talking points... yawn.
>a bunch of statistics
>no sources
Fucking actual retard, and I'm not even in disagreement-- you just conduct like a 16 year old boy with a boner
The real problem is that too many men are letting their 'experience' of women come through the internet
What the fuck do you expect? Well-adjusted, socially healthy people with diverse lives? No you fucking pillock, if they're on the internet they're probably lacking in something.
>I'M NOT LOL I'M TOTALLY NORMAL DESPITE BEING ON Jow Forums
Swill your own kool-aid but spare us pls
That's why people enact socially on the internet and why you see situations like OP (who was baiting, note the 0 OP replies here), because it's not like the successes are going to go to Jow Forums or Reddit or Facebook. They're going to be living that success, enjoying it, milking it for all its worth.
Remember, children: there is an ENTIRE WORLD outside of the internet, and the internet is really only good if you want to see the absolute worst of it at any given time.
>if they're on the internet they're probably lacking in something.
Do you live in the 90's?
>denying it
Very quick
I really hope this is bait. If it is then OP you are fcking autistic
not that guy, just think that statement is weird since almost everyone on earth uses the internet now
this thread is hot desu
>uses the internet now
Not what I said but hey, suit yourselves
This story is fake because there are no bathrooms where you wouldn't find a mirror. Nice try, faggot.
Lol of course not. Who would ever respect a slut that sucks you off within minutes of meeting you? You got bamboozled OP
Be grateful he let you succ his peen
Muh go to insult the second anyone disrepects wimmens
i'm totally honest here
if you're going to suck off a guy in a bathroom don't expect respect
whether you deserve it or not is a different matter, but getting it isn't gonna happen
i know multiple guys who got sucked off in a bathroom at a club or party or whatever and usually they talk about it like it's a funny story rather than an intimate moment, because it's not an intimate moment, it's quick and dirty relief.
If someone really respects you they'll take you somewhere classier than a bathroom to do it
Incel
got a gf
if this is just a reaction because you interpreted my post as "you don't deserve respect" then improve your reading comprehension
Fuck off, incel. An ankle cutout isn't a girlfriend, sorry. Don't shoot up a school, please, ok sweety?
I don't understand what makes you respond to my post "incel"?
honestly i would like to know why you have this reaction
have I said something unreasonable?
Because you're obviously a misogynist and that is defining trait of incels. Sorry I deleted the post
But he's right even if he's a virgin, Anonymous. A girl who hands out blowjobs won't have anyone's respect save for maybe a pimp. And that's a big fucking maybe given the businesses pimps run.
Girls (and guys) who are sexually easy stop being admirable after high school and people kind of just wonder what void they're trying so desperately to fill
Imagine defending this mindset. Feminism exists for this reason
No amount of sanctimonious scolding will make people respect a woman who sucks off a dude in an act that takes longer to complete than time she's known him prior.
Sorry, Anonymous. You can't force peoples' respect.
Not trying to, but please understand you are apart of the problem.
Incel
>a part of the problem
I've never received sexual acts from someone I'm not dating or trying to date; I'd never give, nor receive, sexual acts in that 'casual' sense. Unfortunately, whether or not I espouse casual acts of sex does not mean people will respect them.
It's not about defense, Anonymous; it's about what's happening. If that lady wants to blow someone it has no bearing on my respect toward her; I don't care because I just think she's making a bed she doesn't want to lay in is the worst of it.
But you won't make people respect her and by denying them their platform to speak, you're just as much part of the problem because you affirm to them that they're defending their position rightfully, as they are being attacked.
So long as they are attacked, they will defend. It's just that simple, Anonymous. What would you have them do?
I'd have them not be bigots. But that's a lot to ask, I know.
>I'd have them not be bigoted against literal sluts who go out and fuck someone in the middle of a party
Let's be open-minded, sure, but not so open-minded our brains fall out.
There is nothing disrespectful about a girl being sexual. Stop being a pervert
That's what happens when you're a thot
No one has claimed she is disrespecting anyone; I do not have to like someone just because they are nice.
I believe the disrespect is rooted in the fact that they chose to do this with someone who clearly did not have respect for them in the first place, Anonymous. It is a show of fickle character to engage that, and then be unhappy that they were treated with disrespect.
The alternative is naivete which is no crime, and for which this is a cruel wake-up call, but then that is all that is. There is no alternative explanation in that case; she simply has to move on stronger from this unfortunate situation.
The irony is that this whole discussion is secondary to the thread, to which the answers are, "No, you should shower to reliably clean it all out," and "Yes, some men derive satisfaction of any and many kinds from sexually humiliation-- both of men and women."
The idea that this thread is worth more than 10 replies of anything but pedantic exchange between virtue signalers is simply absurd, since the answer is as easy as a literal, "No and yes."
But let's be honest, you're here for those sweet and sultry (You)s.
Aren't we all, in the end?
He should have raped her instead. Make us proud user. Do it the next chance you get.
why you calling me an incel just for asking about blowjobs you dumb fuckin internet apparition fuck off
lame fuckin idiot lol, espousing opinions about 'the problem' while being a female chauvinist - you just dumb as fuck, you cant make any points, you cant argue, you got shallow polemical abilities, either say something intelligent or shut the fuck up u illiterate fucking midget. I'm going to rape you.
Which comment is (You) user, maybe I can help
its this one
Cum coagulates from hot water(imagine how eggs go from liquid to solid when you scramble them)
So use cold water to clean it out
If you used hot water already, try using a lice comb or something similar to literally scrape the curdled cum out of your hair.
you didn't read my post
regardless of what you think, promiscuity of any gender isn't respectable, sex is taboo so sex in a public place is seen as "airing your dirty laundry" in a way
to expect respect in that situation would be incredibly silly and has nothing to do with gender, misogyny, misandry or anything like that, it's just generally trashy
>gives bjs in bathrooms
>wants respect
Listen to this cunt.
If it has proteins in it, use cold water to wash.
You didn't respect yourself, why the hell do you think the random guy whose dick you sucked would respect you?