My ex set awful expectations for sex for me

The first person I ever fucked was my ex boyfriend, who was my first serious relationship. We stayed together for two years. The entire time I figured everything was average, his dick was average, the sex was average. We split about 6 months ago. Since then, I've been with two other guys... And I'm come to realise my ex had a really big dick, and now sex feels weird with anyone average. The first person I was with after my ex I didn't even want to fuck because of his dick size. Now I'm with my current boyfriend and it just feels so loose. I literally can't enjoy sex because I'm so used to my ex boyfriends huge dick. How do I fix this adv. Like I can't believe it's normal for things not to hurt afterwards. It would burn (like carpet burns) like shit with my ex but god did he fill me up.

No not trolling, just want to enjoy sex with my bf but :|

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You should leave the pencil dick and get back with your ex.

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Nah he hates my guts and is fucking other girls now and I'm just trying to move on

don't leave him, stay with him and fuck your ex on the side. That's how it goes these days.

No I told you my ex hates my guts. Not an option

Offer him no strings pussy.
Dump the boyfriend. Or just tell him that his dick is small and yhat you feel like a watm mayonnaise jar when he fucks you.

“Now I'll relate this a little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score
Now I know I should say no
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb
But I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem”

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it's a real thing huh? One day this girl will settle down with an average dude but she'll always reminisce about her ex's huge cock. Talk about making a guy feel inadequate.

Anyway have you mentioned this to your bf at all?

Are you crazy? Why would I do that?

I'm sure I could get over it, but.. But he was my first. My first boyfriend, my first sexual partner. My first love. Two years. I feel awfully guilty

Find someone who can satisfy you sexually.
If you can't get over the feeling that you need a big dick and your current bf doesn't have one, just leave him.
Its better to do it sooner than later.
Imagine you stay with him, even get married and then you start to fuck around with some bbc because you can't stand the feeling of not beeing stretched.

Alternatively you can do one of those vagino-plastics (or whatever they are called) where they tighten you up so you don't feel loose.

This is a pretty good larp if you're a dude, but an actual female would read this and know you're obviously larping

Carpet burns? It feels loose???
Only a virgin would think these are how sex feels for a girl

She doesn't sound like a larper to me, might be cold hard facts.

but you sir have small dick, thats forsure.

Why does he hate your guts? What did you do?

She won't even reminisce. She'll just find someone with a big dick and fuck him behind (or in front of) her husband. There is little to no expectation of fidelity anymore. The settling down refers to "tricking" a beta-provider into giving you stability (i.e. money, housing, clothes, etc) without the expectation of a sex life.

If this isn't bait, post time stamped proof that you're female. Everything about your post screams bait, stop preying on poor insecure anons.

Memory is as natural as sex. Who doesn't fantasise about previous partners? You're probably just shit at sex/settle for relationships without any sexual chemistry.

>things that goes against my narrative are bait

Maybe its the dick size but keep in mind you were with your first serious relationship for 2 years and its only been 6 months since the break up. Its normal to feel weird for awhile being intimate with someone else.

The small guys I get, move on but there are acceptable, though not huge, guys out there and its probable you'll come across a guy bigger than first serious relationship guy.

However, I do know what its like to have one guy that stands out because of his size compared to others but I also know the big guy was not the best lover I've had. You say everything was average with first love but keep trying, you'll find a guy or guys later that will make you beg.

I do wonder why he hates you though now.

its a refreshing new take on the theme of OP's ex-GF had previous bigger cocked BF, what do? and def better than those tired ass reassure me regarding penis size threads.
8/10 bait, well executed, and a fresh fun new read on an old trope

I dunno man, I just feel sorry for the guys out there who are already insecure about it. All this shit is also just adding fuel to the incel roastie war and driving people apart, making us more isolated and hateful. It's sad

the penis issue is so low-brow. it's infuriating and sad.

psy-op

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The thing is, this guy is. Wow. Better everything than my ex.
I just am disoriented and don't understand if this is what sex is really supposed to feel like. Like I genuinely don't even understand how it doesn't hurt. If it doesn't hurt it's not hard enough?
I guess my ex never really bothered to wait much for sex either, so maybe I was never really lubed up enough for it. This guy likes taking it slow, I guess it also throws me off because that's not what I'm used to.

I'm just confused. I'm sure he could satisfy me.

I was his first relationship and he was mine and I tried hard to let go for a very long period of time. The relationship died long ago but he held on. Like at one point I tried to break up with him and he just said no.
He hates me because I moved on. It took him from May when I first called quits, to November when I finally found somebody I can kind of like and try to move on with to finally understand I was serious about the breakup. This November guy was the first person I was with actually right after him. That guy and I, we never even fucked, which compromised our relationship. I felt like shit, my ex made me feel like shit for even entertaining the thoughts.
To him it was betrayal. How could I?
He was a great guy, don't get me wrong. Just very different values to me. I hate to have hurt him, I hate that he hates me, I just wanted out. Now I regret it I guess even if it's been ages.

Quick note for those thinking I'm larping, being a douche, etc. I hate feeling like this. I feel awfully guilty. That's why I'm on Jow Forums, asking for advice.
You really don't have to call me out for it.
This is literally comparable to not being attracted to a morbidly obese woman. It's about attraction, which is involuntary. I adore this man. I feel like shit for feeling this way.
I don't really care to be honest if it makes you feel insecure, it's literally the same thing as fat chicks being insecure about their weight. Their insecurity won't change anything. Men just aren't going to be attracted, period. I literally can't do anything about this attraction.
I was trying to find a way to put it that makes sense. It did burn to pee sometimes, it burned when he put it inside me a second time in a day. Once or twice I cried.

Go back to r9k or whatever the thread is where 300 pound basement dwellers cry about "beta" and "alpha".

Yea the sex we had wasn't mind blowing. I was a bit meh after it. I did TRY, I'm willing to learn for sure.
But I want my brains fucked out of my body, man!
Is it possible if you're average?
Also, he likes taking it slow.. But I'm used to it being hard.

I'm young, I have time. But it's scary being out there and thinking you'll break up.. Again. I just want to cling to the first good option.

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For some reason, I read the subject line as something like "my boyfriend set awful expectations for sex for me"
Then I see "big dick" and stop reading.

Please don't come to Jow Forums with shit like this.

How big was his dick? Was it bigger than 6x6?

Why are you getting so mad, roastie? I'm just saying you could, no, *should* find a big-dicked guy to satisfy yourself. You boyfriend can either accept he's not up to the tast of providing you with a proper relationship or he can man up and let someone else take care of your physical needs, while he continues to provide you with the rest.

Friend was about to lose my relationship, SHIT, thanks. we are going to try it thanks bro

Mammaries or fare thee well

Well OP is a girl an pretty much has only been with 3 guys, maybe her 1st bf was just a little over average an these new guys are below average, remember girls don't know anything really about cock size with the average being 5.1 inches, I'm a bisexual male and this is true, I'm 7 inches long and have been the biggest, I'm 5.4 thick so I've seen short thicker ones, but even lots of condoms I rip an pussy pockets break. An 7 isn't huge just above average and girls say it's the biggest they'd have.

So OP just has perspective issues an only cocks she sees on the internet are big or penis pump swollen.

Yea, maybe 7.5 long, 8 Mb, unsure for width. He was an extremely scrawny dude, very skinny, only slightly taller than me. He looked like a kid. You wouldn't expect it out of him.

THANKS MAN LOVE THIS COMMENT AND YOUR ENTHOUSIASME

Read the rest of the post and, for some bonus points, my replies.

You're reaching really hard

How can someone "man up" on dick size. What are you smoking? How is this his fault in any way. I won't treat him like shit.

You're a woman living in the current year. You're allowed to set dick size as a prerequisite to a relationship. Be upfront about it, and get size verification before meeting, because guys will lie about it. If you're not getting any offers in your desired size range, your appearance is shit, and you'll need to work on that.

Oh, hey, that's my dick size, with a 6.5" girth. In the real world, that size only qualifies as "kind of big", so size queens aren't interested, but it's still big enough to hurt/scare off about 30% of women.

My body is smoking hot. Like my body easily compares to a dick like that, I've had gym rats falling over giving me their numbers and asking me on dates. Had so many people buy me free shit it's insane. Not to brag, I'm just saying I'm not settling or whatever.

I like this guy. I want an honest relationship. He's genuinely very kind and very funny and has his life together. I like this guy, I'm not sure if I want to compromise his everything else that's perfect to his average dick size.

Congrats.

Gaped lol

I WILL GRIND YOUR TINY ASS DICK INTO NON EXISTENCE

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Yet, no timestamped picture for proof. As expected.

Kegel user here, and it's funny that everyone assumed that I'm a man/dude etc. I'm a woman too, and kegel exercises are a life saver. If you learn to flex your pelvic floor you will literally get less loose and feel more as your beloved boyfriend fucks you. No matter if you stay with your current love or move on, being able to tighten is sure to impress any guy in bed.

A good kegel workout also helps you fake orgasms, but that's for pussies who can't demand the pleasure they deserve. And for the record, your ex seems like a dick, pun intended.

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Another femanon here, can conform the carpet burn feel after taking a massive dick. Can’t confirm the loose feeling, as I’m always extremely tight so it doesn’t feel loose even when taking a small dick after consistently taking a bigger one.

It's litteraly not how the pussy works

It stretches and like goes back into same position as before.

I've dated Guys with huge Dicks and average Dicks
And my current bf have a decent normal sized Dick i don't feel loose or feel like his are too small, His are just perfect for me


You should try tighting up because honestly it sounds like you are just loosr and don't know how to work the musccles in the vagaina

not my prodest fap but....

Yes agreed being able to tighten your vagina is an extremely handy trick and your dude will love you for it!

This sounds like my e-gf. Fuck it's over for me.

>All these idiots falling for the bait
>Placing value in a womans opinion
>Especially when it comes to relationships
>Sex outside of marriage
>Believing in 'love' outside of it being a mutually benificial cold and calculated biological transaction in which both parties mask themselves to entertain each others social personas

You reap what you sow, degenerate filth.
Now enjoy your self-inflicted and neccesary suffering, they are truly the greatest of joys in this short life.

I don't doubt it didn't go back to the same position, I haven't had sex in 6 months. It just doesn't feel the same. Feels less filled up. Yaknow?

Love you anonette, thanks.
He wasn't a dick. Just oblivious.

Is kegel just squeezing it?