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FAQ: >Do girls/guys like ? >What do girls/guys think about There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .
>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick Fuck off
>[insert humble (or otherwise) brag] Fuck off.
>Why is there no new thread? Just make one. You can use these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2
Why is this girl looking at all my instagram stories but never even opening my message?
A bit of background >lab partners a few time >really friendly with borderline flirting (could be interpreted both ways, in all honesty) >semester ended, lost touch >couple months later (now), find her on instagram and follow her >she follows back and I message her >she replies, and I reply asking how she's been >tell's me she's been good and asks how I've been >now it's been a couple days and she hasn't even opened the message but has looked at all my instagram stories since then >she has 1k followers, so she must have a lot of stories to go through
Carter Wilson
Most importantly why do you keep asking the same fucking question Log off
Brayden Bennett
Because nobody's answered, friend.
Nathaniel Reyes
I had an ex hit me up a while back that I still have feelings for. She admitted that she missed me and we were talking and it was just like the best of the old times, then suddenly she got cold and said I was "suffocating" her (even though she came on way strong and I only just reciprocated.) This was months ago and we haven't talked at all since, and it's very likely we won't again. I get this was just her feeling really emotional and using me as the tampon and I bit the hook like the dopey fish I am, but I just wanted to ask any femanons this: have you ever done something like this? What was the aim? Why did you do it? And was does the bullshit phrase "I'll never love anyone like you, no one can replace you" mean even though you're actively looking to replace that person. Just some curiosities, don't need any advice really, I know it was dumb to bite. Thanks.
Girls Asked last thread and apparently this is a common thing to ask but what does it mean when a girl respond with some interest to your messages but waits for ages to do so and never actually has a conversation with you? One that you don't know well that is.
Mason Wood
Girls: Have you ever had a crush where you were super weird around him? Almost not able to keep eye contact or seemed like you were avoiding him when you didn't mean to?
If you view someone's story it starts to appear higher and higher in the queue. Same goes with new follows. This girl followed you back, your story got bumped up her queue, she watched it, and now it keeps appearing high on the queue. I'd be surprised if you were any more than three or four places down in hers.
Nolan Garcia
Girl I've been (pathetically) trying to flirt with, trying to gauge her interest, told me one last joke during a convo when we were telling stupid juvenile jokes.
What did the television say to the remote control? You really turn me on!
Should I read into this more than I should? I really want to discount this for various other reasons I won't bother getting into here. Won't lie, almost want someone to tell me no, so I can move on.
You just ask women out, straight up In a relaxed way, of course
Colton Gutierrez
If a girl opens up about her shitty past , tells me that dating will change my not wanting to socialize and likes my pride is that a good sign of a relationship starter?
Gabriel Cook
Posted in the GIOYC thread, but maybe I can get more input?
What should I assume with this?
Basically a girl from r4r wanted to borrow a book. Told me to bring it to the city. I did. The said to go outside the bar I was at with it. It felt off, so I didn't do it. Ended up to be true. (Keep in mind, I never said where I was, but it was open that was my regular spot. And she never actually said she was there, despite me asking. Also never saw her prior to that night before)
She waited 2hrs for me... Then walked 20min to another bar. She was gonna break off. Ended up staying. Didn't say a word to anyone. Nor did she drink.. Later on, at the bar she would just sit in the corner, reading messaged why I kept glancing over, and then said she wanted to go home and bake cookies..
And when I asked her about her name or age would not answer. I was fucking standing next to her.. And still nipe
For what it's worth, she had a slight smile on her face most of the time I was talking to her...
Also was so quiet that I could barely hear her. Even when it was deadly quiet out... Basically had to put my ear right next to her ear
Easton Watson
>Liking anime >Not being a weeb Idk, I have yet to find someone who has liked anime and not be some sort of a weeb. If you have body pillows and figurines I consider this being a weeb.
Gabriel Howard
It could indicate her trusting you and maybe she likes you.
Is this a great relationship starter? I would say it really depends. Has she healed from her past? If not she could be using you as an emotional tampon and two people that are not healthy usually
Just go in with caution and see if there are any red flags.
Asher Cooper
For women
At a wedding me and this girl kept exchanging looks and smiles. She was there with someone who I assume was just for appearances (shes friends with the bride, guy friends with groom).But I could tell she wasnt emotionally invested in this guy.
Anyway, is it creepy if I add her on social media? I don't wanna come off as beta. I can wait and take a chance hoping I bump into her in the future again.Only reason I didnt come up to her, was the guy
Dylan Flores
I don't have it, i just enjoy manga and anime, that's all
So I know this russian gal, don’t know if she’s into me, but starting to get friendly. Would it be “cute” or whatever to say hi in russian? I’m just wondering if it would come off as friendly, creepy, or flirty. Assuming it’s in a confident, joking manner of course.
Christian Williams
She seem fine talking about it and I visited her at her residence, she seem more comfortable around me verus her friends there
Connor Lewis
The more you are into things people might think of as "loser" things. The more good looking and self aware you gotta be. Don't go around showing your power level. And like that user said. Don't have statues/pillows if you wanna get taken seriously. I know plenty of good looking guys that like anime who got some hot ass gf's and didnt show their power levels till the girl was already in love with them. Now they got these hot ass girls going to conventions and watching anime with them.
Gavin Hill
No idea what manga is but I'll take your word for it.
I say all that since that will be one thing if you were super into anime a lot of girls won't like and rightly so.
Jaxson Myers
I am loser because i like something?, no you are a loser for being a beta and afraid of saying the truth, jesus christ you guys are fucking sad
You reacting all butt hurt makes me think you are a weeb.
It's prolly good you don't have a gf yet with this ridiculous attitude.
Joseph Diaz
Lol you guys are sad, hiding the truth and pretending to be someone else no wonder there is many breakups >ridiculous attitude Kek, i am just myself not like you normie scum
Alright ladies, your date has taken you out for karaoke.
What's your favorite song to sing? What songs would you like to hear your guy sing? What songs are cringe/deal-breakers?
Adam Robinson
Whatever makes you sleep at night weebs.
Your unhealthy obsession of a "Japanese culture" that only developed after we nuked them to hell is really going to get you far in life.
Your lack of real world experiences is showing.
Gavin Howard
I dont think it makes you a loser thats why i added the " ". People just perceive it that way unfortunately. I'm not saying hide who you are. Just don't go on first dates telling girls "I WATCH ANIME >.
David Flores
Ocean man is the answer to all three
Easton Young
>Bennie and the jets >sweet Caroline >baby one more time >bye bye bye Everything else is trash
Zachary Roberts
I am not a weeb you fucking retarded normie scum, you keep on talking same thing over and over agin, you are the definition of a npc
good luck being single then lol. Even Geeky anime girls eventually want an Alpha. Unless you find the lowest of the lowest ugly female that is just glad to be with anyone. And even those still get tired of guys like you.
Henry Jones
That's a good sign of interest. shes dropping on you
Jordan Bailey
If she's hot/confident, then she's just kidding around. If she's ugly/unconfident, then she wants to date you. If she's your coworker, then she's just kidding around.
Tyler Hughes
If you say I'm a weeb I guess that makes it true. Go back to >>>/reddit/ where you belong disgusting normie trash.
Austin Wood
Depends. I work in retail and I've had a customer call me that. I think some women just use that as a term of endearment, like hon or sweetie
I dont need someones validation i dont need to lose my virginity, i will rather die alone then die with wrong person, this way i can help people out rather than helping myself
>text girl last midway through week about doing something she had talked doing >she says she's interested with exclamations and sounds enthusiastic >suggest sunday afternoon >says she has a work event the night before and will probably be tired/hungover, but she's not sure how it's going to go yet, so that time might work >i'm like alright yeah cool, we can play it by ear >don't initially say anything else because i assume i'm going to actually from her >yesterday, sunday >don't hear from her >debate about checking in but seemed like ball was in her court >never hear from her
am i being autistic and should text her or should i let this go? this is a girl i've seen recently and seems relatively interested. it's something i will end up doing myself anyway whether or not she is there so i feel like i should maybe give one more invite when i decide to go, but set a hard time
Caleb Phillips
She would be the first one. Not looking for her as a gf, but does her calling me babe mean that she likes me as a friend?
Christopher Hernandez
Nah we don’t like each other in that way
Nicholas King
You really should have put a message in on sunday to see if she was still on if you think she's relatively interested. I ran into a situation with a girl I'd seen a few times where I thought she was blowing me off on a plan we'd made, so I left it up to her to get back to me, meanwhile she was leaving it up to me to get back to her. It was funny in retrospect but I was super disappointed on the night.
Michael Roberts
How much does it bother a guy when he's unable to perform?
This happened with a guy I'm dating when we decided to have sex the first time. The main issue was the condom and it ended up with him going completely soft. He was very embarrassed in the moment but I wasn't, and I tried to comfort by saying next time will be better and then we just continued watching a movie and cuddled instead. Like he seemed alright the next day but yeah...
Just wanna know if I handled this okay and what to do if something like this happens again
As in she’s trying to get me to like her as a person? She says things like “hey babe” and “thanks babe”
Jonathan Fisher
LOL
You unironically look like what someone of your character and your kind of attitude would look like.
Christopher Rogers
You handled that perfectly imo. I’d be relieved that the girl would find it ok and happy to try again tomorrow
Nicholas Williams
You handled it well, he's probably pretty embarrassed. Don't bring it up ever again unless he does. Having sex is a deeply personal thing and it's probably just plain old nerves that did it to him. Condoms don't help because they tend to dull the sensation to almost nothing, but he could also just need a larger size.
In any case practice will make perfect. The more comfortable you are together the easier it will get for him to perform. If you two engage in a cautious amount of alcohol (like 2-3 drinks max) before your next attempt it should help to calm his nerves without being so much alcohol that he gets whiskey dick.
Noah Sanders
>asks how to get gf >people give him real advice >doesnt like it >REEEEES at everyone
even if you did find someone, judging by how this whole conversation went. you'd scare her off instantly.
Kayden Bell
I talk to girls all the time on the internet, but not irl
I like him so much, my biggest concern was his feelings at the moment because I can imagine how much more embarrassing it is for the man Thank you! We already had like 3 beers that night actually. And yeah he didn't buy a good brand and it was too tight for him. As much as I am against hormonal birth control I am thinking of trying it out for this relationship because condoms really are shitty
Gabriel Reyes
bump
Sebastian Wilson
WHat do you think about a single guy who has been single for 5 years? If he likes you, would you give him a chance?
Levi Nelson
Girls: How offended would you be if a much taller guy picked you off the ground to hug you?
Say that this guy is technically a stranger, and this is your first/second/third date. I assume it would be pretty much okay if he's your boyfriend of 5 years, but would you be okay if it was a guy you've been dating for maybe 5 weeks?
Ethan Sullivan
As a guy, the longest I've been single was 9 years, and I'm still in my 20s. Women still give me a chance.
Christopher Foster
Condoms ruin sex desu.
Just be as natural as possible about your next attempt to have sex.
Evan Reed
Yes, my bf thought I hated him, or at least strongly disliked him for the first year we worked together.
Chase Mitchell
Would most girls be into fucking my ass hard with a big strap on if we were loving bf/gf and how long after we start dating should i bri g it up?
Idk I think you could find someone who is willing to try it out there, I personally would not.
Brandon Morgan
Guys, if I'm constantly letting my partner know how much I want more frequent sex, if I'm vocal about wanting more caress and affection. He just doesn't seem to care to please my sexual urges, I'm torn. I love him more than anything. But is it ever okay to seek another man's attention? I know you are going to condemn me and tell me is never okay to cheat but I'm not willing to lose him over this. I know he loves me but he is just not there for me sexually. This has been going on for 2 years now. I just want someone to want me so bad. I think he might be asexual.
Logan Thomas
I gave my guy a chance, he had been single the same amount of time as you, altho sometimes I feel like his life would be better without me.
Benjamin Lopez
ah who cares this is a bait anyway but do what you want, it's not like you'll feel any fuckin guilt or worry anyway, so just go ahead and fuck around you don't really give a shit.
I'd definitely give it some time and not bring it up immediately (unless you meet via a sex or fetish themed event/social media), but you can definitely ease into it.
There are definitely girls out there who would be happy to do this, myself included. You'd probably have more luck with girls who tend to eschew traditional gender roles.
Levi Nelson
I haven't done it and I probably won't because i would feel horrible but also Why should I feel guilt when I'm not being heard? When he's annoyed with my affection? Idk wouldn't you do the same?
Robert Davis
Ask him if it’s okay to sleep with someone else
Brandon Evans
I don't like being picked up but that's probably because I myself am very tall and never get picked up. Like I won't get angry but if it's a man I been on only a couple of dates with I won't feel fond of it either
Adam Sanchez
>Idk wouldn't you do the same?
no, i wouldn't. i'd either try to find a solution from within the relationship or break it off, not try to get some side pussy and pretend it solves the problem.
Jonathan Nelson
Guys:
I have a boyfriend who seems to have kind of a thing for being dominating in bed, and I only really recently became aware of this.
Trouble is, I don't really know how to give him a submissive or shy girl experience and I wanted to know if you had any tips for what might pique your interest if you were into submissive types of women.
I know he likes it when I wear feminine, flowery sun dresses. But I don't really know what else and I don't think he's into anime maids so I'm not sure what else to kind of go for.
Help?
Christopher Johnson
I have, its come to that point. He says that its not fair that he gets to deal with my problems and day to day shortcomings for another guy to enjoy my body, isn't fair. He would divorse me. Still he doesn't show any change. I wouldn't want to lose him tho.
Kayden Torres
You can't go wrong with a sundress and a thong.
Colton Baker
I feel like thongs aren't coy.
Grayson Ross
I guess not, but they're very flattering to how your ass looks and they're very feminine.
You really should just ask him about what he wants. Being submissive isn't a one size fits all thing and even if he's into dominating he probably won't do it unless he knows he has a green light. You can do little things to improve the experience for him, like making sure to arch your back deeply when doing it doggy, or taking his hands and putting them on your head so he can control the motion when you're blowing him.
Jack Morgan
>On my way to work and back to home me and this little girl cross paths >We always make eye contact >See her in the distance >Know it's coming >She looks at me >I fucking blush smile and look away Dammit, I'm a fucking weirdo now, I might have to use the other street.
Anyway, Wear something comfy, like an oversize hoodie and panties only. Super hawt imo
Brody Rogers
He clams up when I ask what he'd like. He's weirdly traditional, almost. He doesn't want to do doggy or let me be on top, which I think is a little unusual but maybe is a comfort thing (I don't have any idea how that stuff works for guys). I think he likes to see my face. He doesn't like the lights off, he has a bit of a foot fetish and he loves blow jobs, but can't focus on anything else when I give them so he's not great at input at that part. He likes to do to public places and cop a feel, so maybe there's something there.
Jason Powell
I love men! You're always very helpful even on our bad days!
Noah Cruz
Girls, I lost my job and didn't get the number of this girl I was trying to peruse in time, now I do have her friends number and we text semi-often, is asking her to the other girls number weird? I really have no other way of ever seeing her again.
Mason Ward
No, that's like saying "ni hao" to a chinese girl, how shit it is, is amplified if she's not even chinese.
Brandon Young
This is normie tier dogshit advice, plenty of couples at anime conventions, just go to clubs and events about your interests and meet someone like minded there.
Adrian Flores
Yeah okay, you may need to give him a shove and be clear that you want him to be that way with you.
Exhibitionism is a little easier because you've got classic movies like >not wearing a bra >>I'm not wearing any panties right now and, unironically >sundresses, especially if they're those really thin fabrics which are sheer-ish in direct light
Andrew Baker
Thank you, user.
Juan Bailey
How little are we talking? You should say hi to her.
Grayson Bailey
I...can't tell. She's short, but she has to be in the double digits maybe.
Xavier Diaz
Well, talking to people isn't illegal (unless you're in the US then you may be in a tough situation).
Dominic Flores
I'm murrican but I don't think I should do anything past the mutual eye contact, could come off as insanely creepy/weird
Oliver Jenkins
I guess that's for the best. I understand where you're coming from though. I once had a group of three flirt with me before though. And when I went to my apartment door, one of them said "we know where you live now". I was blushing like crazy.
Nathaniel Davis
>constantly letting my partner know how much I want more frequent sex This is so damn annoying. This is the opposite thing to do, if you're a woman, and you want more sex.
If a woman wants more sex from a guy, you have to use allure. Never ask for sex. It makes you look disgusting. Be something he likes, give him special attention, wear his favorite PJ's or something... you know him better than I do. Just attract him. You gotta give before you take, femanon.
Zachary Gray
Absolutely not okay. Don't do it unless you're sure that she's the type that is fine with it. I personally hate losing contact with the ground.
Hunter Nguyen
Sure. Now that you’re not co workers that’s totally fine. You might have to admit to your friend about your motive, but it’s all good. But! Big issue is that you need to have a job or a job lined up. No one likes a neet
Blake Lee
>altho sometimes I feel like his life would be better without me. Why do you think so?
Hudson Allen
Females how do I stop worrying about my GF not wanting to actually make a life together with me? We've been dating two years.
Hudson Howard
Ladies, would you want to know the sexual history of the man you are hoping to marry? And if that sexual history included a lot of visits to prostitutes during his youth, what would you think?
