I posted this here before but I want to know what femanons think because there were some... developments.
I shot my shot with a girl a while back. She didn't want none. I'm a nice guy so I completely backed off and things were like before. But basically ever since after that it's like she acts like I owe her attention or wants me to be one of her orbiters. I politely distanced myself from that and now I keep hearing from other people how I'm such an asshole for doing this. She's also gotten really petty with me (i.e. doing things to try to get a response out of me or make me jelly).
So? Start orbiting fuckboy. Maybe you can get some rebound pussy by offering a shoulder to cry on once chad pump and dumps her ass.
Gavin Mitchell
You are doing the right thing. There is a double standard with this that girls really can‘t handle perceived rejection and society doesn‘t really check women‘s petty attitude when they can‘t cope with it. Yes she rejected you initially but despite she not being interested, she sees it as a problem if you can easily back off and go your own way. Don‘t give in to any of the shaming. Talk to other women. You have done nothing wrong. And the little self awareness she and her friends have doesn‘t go beyond their pride to start considering that you don‘t even owe her shit.
Josiah Taylor
Just continue to disregard and she’ll forget it eventually
Charles Russell
Imagine putting time and effort into friendship with a person. Then >Person confesses feelings. >Respond by telling them you’re not interested. >Person fucks off >wtf? Confusion? >was that person sincere at all or did they just want to fuck? >only good for sex not genuine friendship >feels like shit
That’s what’s going through her mind right now
Xavier Murphy
OP here.
There wasn’t much of a friendship to begin with.
I fucked off? No. I didn’t respond to her constant talking about herself or her issues, because I don’t want to be her therapist. I know I didn’t put these details in my post but tl;dr: I know her life story she doesn’t even know my full name. I say goodbye and she flirts with my friends. So there you go.
Gavin Adams
How fucking dare you treat a woman like that. All men are pigs
Noah Nelson
imagine putting time and effort into someone you're interested in just to be told you're not good enough for her
two can play that silly game. you can be sincere and still want to fuck. it's not either or. why do people like you think this? is sex an ulterior motive unless feelings are reciprocated then it's completely normal? why is "genuine friendship" separated from sex in your hypothetical?
Jaxson Russell
>why is genuine friendship seperated from sex in your hypothetical
If OP no longer has interest in a girl because she doesn’t return his romantic interests then he obviously wasn’t being sincere. Why does it have to be all or nothing? Is OP unable to maintain friendships without having sex? Or did he only want friendship with this girl because he wanted to have sex with her ?
Camden Wood
Well maybe you shouldn’t vague post
Angel Barnes
You literally made it sound like you were taking to a girl and getting to know her then started ghosting her when she expressed disinterest
Robert Bailey
You think guys would actually talk to girls if not to have sex with them? Y'all are boring and shallow af. Not friend material.
Asher Watson
>If OP no longer has interest in a girl because she doesn’t return his romantic interests then he obviously wasn’t being sincere. Why does it have to be all or nothing?
i don't understand your definition of sincerity. it seems to just be "you'll accept a friendship with this person if they turn you down, even if you really want more it doesn't matter how you feel. you have to deal with that but she doesn't." it doesn't have to be all or nothing but most people when rejected aren't ecstatic to know they are lower on the totem pole because they are not prospects. i think OP is a dweeb but your original response is fuckin' ridiculous to me and i don't get your mindset at all unless you're being purposefully ignorant. is it not ok to get to know someone before you ask them out?
not OP but where is the issue? do you not get to know people you want to have a relationship with or is the only way to express interest to go as fast and hard on "unga bunga me wanna fuk you"?
You misread or... just don’t get it, I don’t know. I ghosted because she wants me to be the type of guy who will listen to her go on and on about her issues or other guys when she has absolutely no interest in me as a human being or any sort of “friendship” as I put it.
Or you could just wait a goddamn second to not draw conclusions.
Brayden Cox
That person could easily think to themselves "they are hurt because I'm not reciprocating those feelings and that's why they left". Very simple.
Noah Sanders
Retard. You constructed an entire narrative in your head about something that was never said.
Kevin Sullivan
>you were taking to a girl and getting to know her then started ghosting her when she expressed disinterest There is nothing wrong with that.
Tyler Moore
You did good user
Juan James
You can tell who the female is ITT.
James Jackson
There are none just an obvious troll post with obvious troll replies.
Jacob Wilson
Why not just tell her you feel that she was being shallow?
She does not know your full name. She does not seem to be considerate, or interested, in your life, or you as a person.
You just want to move on, so ask her to do the same and stop bothering you.
As much as you may find this to be possibly embarrassing, or a hard conversation to have, surely the grief your current situation is causing you is worse.
Mason Campbell
Fuck off.
Jace Hill
You are doing the right thing, keep maintaining your distance, avoid to be captured in her orbit. From what I see in your post it's not like she was worth your attention anyway
Wyatt Martinez
If anything, that just makes the user you're trying to look better.
Ethan Barnes
What?
Joseph Adams
Use your braincells nigger, it wasn‘t that hard to discern what he meant.
