He is 18 and I am 27 with a kid. I have had my eyes on him for over 3 months... we have been on the same DC server and finally about a week ago he joined VC with us and I took my chance. We talked nonstop for 3 days and it was the funnest 3 days of my life lately. He said he liked me so much. He even started looking for a job! I have only been with 2 men. And 7 years with the father of my child. I’ve never been this attracted to a man before. I got black out drunk the 4th night and videochatted (this is online friendship/relationship). I don’t recall a ton of shit. But I know that I showed my entire naked body to him and I am 125 lbs athletic build.
And the next morning, he sends me a message saying he never wants to private talk anymore only public VC. I am heart broken... what can I do? We are still active on DC right now. My heart literally yearns for this man. I want him back.
He won’t tell me why he’s cut contact and when I am in VC with him he barely speaks. It’s so upsetting we had a beautiful thing starting...
Zachary Brown
He used you. And you're a fucking whore.
Anthony Smith
Hes got autism probably
Caleb Smith
does he already know you have a kid?
James Phillips
Yes he knows I have a kid.
Chase Turner
Yeah I feel like a total whore dude. But it was a black out drunk moment. I don’t get one more chance?
Kevin Sullivan
So that makes him uninterested or?
Parker Collins
Something about your body probably turned him off
James White
Fuck u
Where's my chance.
Logan Brooks
How old are you bruh
Camden Robinson
Go away gay man.
Jace Parker
Be honest with him. If you don't remember what happened, ask him what made him decide to never private talk to you.
Asher Powell
Sounds like you're a gay man, or he's a gay man I can't tell which. If you're not, I doubt you had a chance to begin with.
Luis Scott
>single mother >get black out drunk
I am all for second chances but maybe start by making better life decisions
Nathan Sullivan
Red flags:
1. You're 9 years older than him 2. You have a kid 3. You got drunk 4. You acted like a complete jackass to a complete stranger on the internet 5. You didn't even get paid for the nude cam-whoring you did 6. You damaged his progress from getting a job, right back to being a NEET 7. You're a stereotypical "nice girl" wanting to date someone you hoped would fill your void of emptiness, probably stemming from a past sexual assault
Solutions: 1. You go to a counselor or a psychiatrist for your romantic emptiness 2. Get off of the computer, stop being a NEET yourself & actually go meet people in a more wholesome environment
Thomas Torres
the fook?
Dylan Sanchez
Yeah I guess I’m going to have to re-evaluate all of this. I wasn’t with my daughter when this happened. And yeah I’m glad you hit the nail on the hammer with this. Definitely didn’t mean to do that to a NEET I genuinely liked him.
Jaxon Sullivan
And thankfully I don’t think I ruined him he’s actually going to work out with an irl friend so I’m happy for that.
Aaron Perry
The problem with people with obsessive tendencies is that they build a secondary persona to whatever it is they obsess about. Do a cross eval of your ideal of him to the real him. They won't match up. If you still like him you should treat him like he really is and not like some prince charming fantasy. Judge harshly but speak with kindness.
Eli Mitchell
Also realize he's 18, the male brain isn't fully developed until 26. What that means is that even if you like him now, in 8 years he is guaranteed to be an entirely different person.
Isaac Anderson
You're a strange woman, but at least you care. I'd guess it was just a burn out in the relationship since when two people realize they like each other they tend to go to quickly and poof goes the fun because a sustainable relationship is much slower, or at least from what I've seen. I don't think the relationship is ruined but it'll take some time to piece back to a sustainable one. You do seem a bit hyper though so do stay calm. Good luck.
Dylan Kelly
Yeah, don't be a hoe beyond text to the young neets, it's still possible to lie on the internet for social contact. What if he was younger?
Charles Foster
Either well crafted bait the or a simply disgusting/disappointing story. You're a whore, first and foremost. Secondly, you are too much of a whore for this guy. He's afraid of your baggage, probably without even realizing what that baggage is exactly. Just leave him alone and keep being a strong, independent single-mom.
