I want to move on with someone better but nothing so far.
I feel like the person that did me wrong is actually the only person that ill ever have a connection with i love her to pieces still and we still text and call her every couple of months or so we are in contact still.
I've dated a couple of people and had some good connections but it NEVER develops into a relationship or it never works out.
I want to be with her and try things again but its either she isn't ready or i need to respect myself and walk away.
I want to know if will ever have her back and i want to see if we can fix things again
It keeps me up at night knowing that in reality I'm all alone and that whatever I do to try to change that is pointless.
Is there anyone out there with the same experience that can give me advice on this?
I just want to be with her, and stop thinking about all of this and be able to sleep at night
Dont think about her. This may sound cliche but there are so many bitches out there waiting for you user. YouTube search patrice O'Neil, hes one of my all time favourite comedians and his approach towards women is spot on. Also hit the gym and make more of an effort to get into shape. Stop talking to her and show that you really dont give a shit about her, talk to other women and get your game up, let her come to you. It'll be tough for a while but you'll get over it. Fuck some other bitches to get over it faster.
Camden Bennett
what the fuck does ill dodge a bullet for your mean? i mean no shit you would want to dodge the bullet anyways
Connor Ross
Hard to say, shes trying to be sweet but idk lol
Wyatt Gomez
Why don’t you just let it pan out and fuck silly hoes on the side? Smh
Austin Sanders
7 texts in a row, this bitch is nuts. The fact she said she would dodget a bullet for you says she is a scatterbrain.
OP you are schmuck and a pathetic pussy who is too scared to be alone and so you want to crawl back to your toxic girlfriend. No respect for yourself at all.
You want advice? Dump her, delete her number and move on with your life and keep on dating. If you could meet her you could meet someone else who would treat you right.
it will never get better. When you see people around you every day, all you see are unhappy people, who at best took the second best option. Guys and Girls alike. Nobody is happy, nobody belongs anywhere, and the meaning of life is what you gather from those leftovers you have.
Welcome to adulthood. Try to remember the last time you genuinely smiled, because the next time you have that smile is on your deathbed. Have fun user.
Tried doing this multiple times it never works out like i mentioned above no one is at the same energy level as me usually they want someone distant , cold and doesn't give a shit if they are texted. Instead im the reverse of that i reply in seconds ask about their day and try to make small talk and figure out what type of person they are and its too much for the people I've dated
Cooper Watson
Well then just talk to her like normal and deal with whatever she does if you love her so much, can’t control her or force her to love you, still should go to the bar and enjoy yourself with some easy one night stands for when you’re stressed out
Lincoln Peterson
20 Yr old still lol Going to a new university soon wont be dorming there but maybe someone will come by who knows im just stuck and so far people have said delete everything but its hard when you know the persons phone number by heart you know?
Alexander Morales
she sounds like a dumbass.
Hudson Diaz
>20 Yr old You sound like an old beaten up grizzled faggot. Stop sulking like a bitch and man up dude. Jesus. >muh girlfriend issa spochal >me need her because codependent Your parents failed you. Imagine your old man seeing his son acting like a weeping widow because sonny boy's girl can't man up and dump the cow.
She's a dumbass when she gets emotional what i liked about her quirks the most
Nolan Smith
What the fuck does your college town not have under bars? I’m 21 btw so sorry there, shit man just go to the gym and play like an instrument or draw or write poetry
Michael Long
My dad died like 3 years ago but this does resonate with me, if my dad were alive at this time he wouldn't want me to be sulking Thanks for this
Hunter Morales
I do these stuff i play the piano and the melodica lol and im studying a language i do stuff to help myself improve i also started learning how to drive stick
Austin Baker
sounds like you already know what you need to do. sounds like youre afraid to let go of what's familiar.
the reason you dont feel like youre getting a good connection is because you havent moved on from this girl. you shouldnt even be thinking about dating other people until youve moved on.
Josiah Powell
Well man you seem like you are doing the right thing, it’s okay to be head over heels for a woman I know it’s taxing on your mind but it gets easier over time, keep up with that type of stuff and hanging out with close friends, give her the space she needs and just talk to her like she’s your friend and don’t bring up relationship shit to her and pressure her cause that’s gonna push her further away, if you really love her you just gotta act like it’s not a big problem man otherwise she’s gonna feel suffocated
Levi Nelson
Lmao OP post the rest of this retard convo. The "huh" left me in stitches. You two really are soulmates at how retarded you are.
yes, that is what he said. i want to see the rest of it too just out of boredom, i wont make fun of you like the other anons. we all know what its like to be hung up on someone, im sure everyone here has acted like a hopeless idiot because of a girl.
oh fuck, youre gonna do it? youre only drawing out the inevitable and making it worse, but w/e man, youre gonna do what youre gonna do.
Bentley Fisher
>tfw broke up with gf of one year last week >it was mutual and inevitable (i'm going to grad school across the country while she'd still be in undergrad) but still hurt >happened over text message despite my wanting to meet and at least be there to comfort her and talk in person >everybody has been voicing how I could do so much better (I could), but the pain is still there >found the birthday card she wrote me last night >"I just want you to remember that you make me so happy and you are an amazing person" >read through last messages with her >"breakups are never easy, but we were both so miserable that it was probably the right thing to do"
Daniel Scott
Not sure yet, like the user above me people say i could do better but i think its doubtful because IVE TRIED nothing still but eh best i can do is go out have fun and stop sulking in this shit and if she comes back GREAT if not then ill continue the search. I love her still but i have to move on eventually
