I might be having sex with a girl in the somewhat near future...

I might be having sex with a girl in the somewhat near future. I am considering losing my virginity with a escort before then go get it out of the way

Is this a bad idea? I am 27 years old (yes.) and the girl is 28.

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We need context. Explain how you met this girl and the series of events that led up to you "might" getting sex. There are no guarantees in life user so maybe you might not be having sex.

We've known each other for a pretty long time. It kinda started heating up the last two months after we went partying, we made out, then she asked me on a date and we made out again. Now I think she's waiting for me to make the next move (which I will), but right now I'm afraid of going to her place or bringing her to mine because it might lead to sex

It's not a bad idea. But not a good idea either. Without knowing the context like the other guy said we really can't say. Do you want to use the escort for practice so you will be better at sex with her? That is a legitimate reason.

Yeah that's a bad ducking idea.
If you've known each other for such a long time, why doesn't she know you're a virgin?
Also, shit comes natural so don't worry.

I don't talk about my virginity with people usually, you see.

That's a reason together with wanting to remove the virginity hangup.

Numerous anons on here over the years lost their virginity with a hooker and they all said it was terrible because when they got girlfriends or someone they like to have sex with, it felt cheapened.

Don't do this.

Do not let the girl know you are a virgin but admit after you have sex my dude. That way all the cards are on the table and if she accepts you for you are then you got a keeper.

Nope i did use an escorts services for my first time and it was great fuck you. But i didnt have a potential girl that i made out with on the regular.

I don't give a damn if it is a good fuck, what I am saying is losing your virginity to a hooker is a cheap pathetic way to get the monkey off your back that normal people don't do.

And no amount of mental gymnastics will convince me that you would prefer a hooker over a girl who gives a shit about you. Trust me the sex is noticeably better.

If you don't want to admit virginity you should at least say it's been a while or whatever so you're not expected to be a sex god.

But I mean virginity doesn't really mean anything (well, it's a net negative in a male). I think getting it out of the way and at least having some idea what to do in my first time with the girl I liked would be better.

I didnt say if the fuck was good or not j bum bum. I am talking about loosing my v card to an escort. The rest of your post is already moot.

I was 28, being a virgin was nothering me, i handled it now i am more relaxed. I wasnt making out with girls like OP, if i was i wouldnt do that. I was a sperg who failed romantically and i get it over with.

If you want to know what to do than watch porn but losing your virginity on a prostitute is just not the way to go because

A) you might be too nervous to have with her a random and are not comfortable with this person
B) won't have enough time to practice and run out of money

It takes months of practice to get decent at sex bro and so getting it out of the way one night with prostitute won't do you any good besides burning your money.

Horrible ideas all around. Don't do any of them.

You didn't handle anything besides wasting away money and are still the same sperg as you were. The way to handle this would have been to find a girl to have sex with you that at least know and had sex with her.

Instead you are the loser who lost his v card to a hooker. Congrats, tell your buddies about the sunshine finish.

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Stop making shit up bitter virgin. Nothing wrong with practicing with a hooker. Your first time will suck anyway and be embarrassing so it's better to get it out of the way with a hooker instead of a gf.

I already did you self righteous prick.

The way you handle it might be different. You are already wrong, you literally said "ALL SAID IT WAS TERRIBLE" and i proved you wrong. I dont care about your moral highground or virtues, you are wrong.

OP, dont hire an escort if you already have a girl you like. I didn't have a girl i liked so i took the escortpill, thats it. I wouldnt have done it if i had a gf.

So now I am a biter virgin huh? Amusing. So you want OP to fork out money, potentially get arrested and might not even be hard due to the time constraint and pressure all so he can practice on a hooker.

VS

Having fumbling bad sex like everyone else on their first time. If the girl likes OP enough to make out with him, then she won't mind improving his sex skills through practice. That is what normal people do. No one is perfect the first time you autist.

So you are the outlier, you want a prize faggot? What exactly is the point of this post besides waving your hand and saying you are special? How miserable are you that this is the acceptable response to a thread like this?

Nope, i am just proving you wrong. OP should disregard any of your ideas. I mean i even agree with you about how OP should act, but you are so self righteous and have a stick up yours ass. You believe your subjective opinions are the objective truth.

I am not an outlier. I am not waving my hand to prove i am special, i am waving it to prove you are wrong.

You are wrong.

Agrees with my advice to OP. Knows this is a board about advice and nothing else but continues going on an autistic rant about "being self righteous and stick up your ass".

What site do you think you are on? This isn't reddit basedboy, keep your sensitive ass somewhere if you can't take some light banter and stop being such a prune.

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You are the one not being able to take banter. This time read it out loud dum dum.

You are wrong.

I gave my piece to OP, enjoy the rest of your day you miserable existence.

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Run away dum dum. And remember.

You are wrong.

Femanon here

How can woman find out that someone is virgin?! I mean there are a lot of virgin men that can do better than non virgin ones. I guess if you don't overthink it and can keep it for a long time no one will figure it out which makes the virgin status not a big issue.

>I am considering losing my virginity with a escort before then go get it out of the way

Why though? Having sex with a hooker once wont make you better at it
>all said it was terrible because when they got girlfriends or someone they like to have sex with, it felt cheapened.
>what I am saying is losing your virginity to a hooker is a cheap pathetic way to get the monkey off your back that normal people don't do
This and this. The vast majority of women find it disgusting, creepy and pathetic. Dont do it

Doing one thing once massively reduces the chance of fucking up something you've never done.

>I am considering losing my virginity with a escort before then go get it out of the way
What is it you're trying to accomplish by 'getting it out of the way'?

Fucking an escort once isn't gonna give you any kind of useful experience or target practice. You need to have alot more sex before you become half-decent at it.

Unless you actually want to have sex with a hooker, it's not gonna do you any kind of favor in terms of being successful with this chick you're involved with.

I vouch against.

>you don't learn how to fuck from having sex once, the premise is really easy and all the hard stuff is more long term and needs experimentation
>there's way more information online on e.g. how to eat pussy than any sex worker can quickly give you even if she's actually trying to teach you
>just because you have once before stuck your penis in a woman doesn't mean you won't be nervous to disappoint the girl you're crazy about
>for most women it's a huge turn off to imagine their guy fucking a hooker, not everyone is the kind of person who can omit info without feeling uneasy about that
>there's definitely a risk that you are going to regret not having your first time exploring a woman's body with a woman you actually really like, especially when you had an easy chance in front of you
>it's quite possible you get a bad experience (she's rude, visibly bored, you lose your boner during, she scams you out of more money than was agreed upon) and then what?