Not a native speaker. I've tried my best to translate it to English
I am a horny bastard with really high libido, wife's the complete opposite. When I get back from work I've to rub one out or else I can't go to sleep. Here's the thing, we have sex daily, with her lying down doing nothing, saying nothing. Maybe she did say she was tired from work. But she NEVER actively protested. She never had a problem with this. Two days ago she was reading about some celebrity gossip, they were openly discussing their sex life. She says "You wouldn't discuss about our sex life with anyone, would you? ". I reply "Of course not, that's disgusting". I'm not the kind of a person who does that. She replies with "Of course you wouldn't, wouldn't want to go to prison now, would we?". I mean, what the fuck. This really caught me off guard. I tried to talk to her about whether the way we have sex was bothering her. She says "No I was born to please your dick, right?". All I'm getting are a buch of sarcastic replies. She gets like that when she's angry. I don't what happened to her, for her to react in such a manner, she won't talk to me properly. What should I do, my marriage seems to be in trouble. I can't discuss this with anyone so I've to post this on Jow Forums of all places.
Sounds like you habitually rape her for your pleasure, and your foreign sex traditions are why she is angry at you and herself. Therapy and lock yourself up before you do more damage.
>Sounds like you habitually rape her for your pleasure, and your foreign sex traditions are why she is angry at you and herself. She never really asked to stop. Or at least try to talk about it. >Therapy and lock yourself up before you do more damage. Huh?
Jose Wood
To continue, how would I know if she never even says anything?
Wyatt Jenkins
Seems like she doesn't want to fuck and only lets you do it because she has to. How old are you guys and where are you from ? Depends on the culture, but maybe she's developing feminist ideas from the western media she consumes. That's not a good thing but idk what can be done about it.
Don't listen to tripfags OP, they're all mentally ill.
Chase Flores
She's probably expecting you to notice that she is angry and that you should talk to her about her sants and desires for sex. Happens a lot. You both need a therapist.
Brandon Stewart
wants not sants excuse me
Cameron Martinez
It's kind of sort of rape, but im on your side in this because yeah, if she didn't say anything ever then I would think she was just a boring lay...
Im sorry femanons in the thread... You gotta say something. If you're married and you've been having sex it kind of feels implied. If you said no, I'd respect that. But if you don't for all I know you just really suck at sex.
Kayden Carter
In some foreign countries you can be stoned to death for expressing a desire to be pleasured mutually to your husband. Idk which country OP is in.
Evan Smith
Sounds like you’ve got a problem there. She Obviously minds it a whole lot and feels mistreated, but it looks like she never opened her mouth about it, which of course was wrong. OP on the other hand, if your wife is just laying there doing nothing, wtf were you thinking? Sure you didn’t think it was any more pleasurable for her then doing the dishes. Do you remember a time where you had sex and and she seemed into it? Try talking about that, or simply tell her you have no idea how to please a woman or make it enjoyable for her. For the rest, jerk off man, find some good porn.
Tyler Cox
>You both need a therapist. Don't think I am comfortable with talking to others about this without talking to her first. >It's kind of sort of rape, but im on your side in this because yeah Thanks, but I don't know how I feel about the rape part. That doesn't happen here. Also I'm not an animal, I wouldn't hurt her.
Luke Anderson
No you can't you retarded thot.
Dominic Murphy
Then go ask her what she wants in sex. Right now. If she says "I don't know" then you need to sit down and have an educational talk. plannedparenthood.org/learn/for-educators/digital-tools Also it's too late, you're consulting Jow Forums instead of a liscensed therapist like you should.
Xavier Phillips
I do please her. We do foreplay. And she enjoys the sex we have, at least that's what I got from her reaction. It's just she never initiates, I just thought it was that point in marriage where you just do stuff, without those exciting dating days.
Nicholas Flores
>Also it's too late, you're consulting Jow Forums instead of a liscensed therapist like you should. That's because therapy is shit in my country, it's not like western countries.
Xavier Robinson
That's not the picture you painted in the first post OP.
Bentley Wright
Where are you from?
Zachary Edwards
No, I mean like giving her oral and stuff. I do it. With her laying down completely still. It sounds weird when saying it but and maybe it does look bad, but I thought that's just how marriage sex worked.
Kayden Miller
Yeah, you tottaly didn't say that in the OP to defend yourself. Ya'll need to talk it out.
Adam James
If she just lays there but enjoys the sex she might have just found a way to cope with your libido. Try this. Neither of you are allowed to lay down. Knees, standing, or a chair.
Josiah Watson
Okay maybe you guys are misunderstanding something. When I said I pleasure I am not saying I make her cum like those hentai videos. Nor am I saying I'm having sex with her completely still body. It's somewhere in between.
Colton Flores
>to If you read OPs story, she apperently does not enjoy it
Henry Carter
It's nice that all of you are giving me advice for the future but, what must I do right now? To get her to talk to me normally again?
Tyler Taylor
Just don’t initiate sex until she does. That way you’re at least respecting whatever goes through her head. I’m not too sure what other advice to give
Jacob Watson
Okay but what right now? Should I just apologize? A letter would be better right because she isn't talking to me about this issue directly?
Leo Clark
Apologize to her to her face and say that you love her. Say this even if she doesnt respond to u
