ITT: Ask the opposite sex anything

That's a man baby

Why does this 13 yo have a fully developed body? Why does she look so sexy?
Finding underage girls sexy is as rare for me as finding grannies sexy.

Do women remember cringe or perverted DMs they get from guys?

Oh. And here I am, the naive human assuming if they were interested, they would just use the conversational jump-start... Like I would.

Dude, you're really shitty at talking.
Why message "let's talk" when you could actually talk about something?

For the tripfag girl who breaks the rules

Yes.
I also share them with my friends and/or boyfriend all the time, and make fun of them.

Why does it seem like the pill ruins women? Once they start taking it, they turn weird and distant, and they don't seem to enjoy sex as much and paradoxically they seem more hypergamous.

You're a bad person. Stop that.

hahah i am 21 lol

What's this shilling against birth control on Jow Forums over the last few weeks?

The pill is hormonal birth control, it can influence the mood. It's one of the side effects. For many women it doesn't.
I enjoy sex more and am happier now that am on hormonal birth control. I only had sex with my boyfriend both before and after getting on BC.

Stop trying to slide in my DMs with your dick pics and your cringey jokes and I won't make fun of you with my friends.

Oh, shit.

Well anyway if I'll ever start dating again, I'm sticking to condom or anal/oral only. I won't force that crap on my SO through my dead body.

>Do women remember cringe or perverted DMs they get from guys?

Not a chick, but having met a lot of women doing online dating and joked about it with them on dates:

More or less, kinda.

There is a highlight reel of things that stick... However it's not as impressionable because for one, they get a fucking shit load of them. It's basically the bulk of the of messages. Only the most vile and grotesque of the shit at the bottom of the shit barrel tends to stick.

And second, because if they do enough online dating, they tend to end up with a lot of real life encounters that are much worse than most DM's that they get.

Even on my end as a guy, I don't really remember *too* many of the creepy texts and messages I got over the years. There are a couple that are highlighted... but by *far* more impressionable are the times I actually met someone and they turned into completely cringe-worthy encounters.

>tinder now has height verification for men
Thoughts on this?

I am OBVIOUSLY not talking about you.

Because the pill sucks. I’ve used it and I always had a huge libido (at least gor a woman, wanted to have sex 1-2 times a day). When I took the pill my libido went down the drain, maybe I wanted to have sex once a week or so and I felt a little nauseous all the time. After two years I stopped with the pill and within days my old self was back. Fucking docters don’t tell you it ruins your sex life.

You're acting like you'd have to force women to take birth control.
I never had a guy ask me to take BC. I took it since I was 20, I'm *so* happy with it.
First, I would never let another person being in control of whether I get pregnant or not since I'm the one who has to deal with it if it happens. I'm not trusting men to control themselves and "sticking to anal", or to not fuck up putting a condom on.
Second, it makes me feel good. Less period pains, my period lasts 2 days and isn't heavy.
Third, I experience no side effects.

You're being extremely sexist by assuming that women take BC just to please men and have no thoughts of their own about the pros and cons of BC.

Height verification is fine by me, but if they only do it to men it's sexist.

It's literally written as one of the possible side effects of the pill.
If you take medication without informing yourself, don't blame doctors.

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I don't message anyone, so that doesn't apply to me.

How are you going to make sure the person isn't cheating? (Now I remembered) In the US, your height is on the ID, right? My country doesn't have that.

Well my ex consulted this stuff with me all the time and she left the decision ultimately up to me. It's extremely sexist of you to assume that I'm extremely sexist when you even lack basic context.

But perhaps people could stop pretending that it's some kind of a miracle to mankind at least.

Where I am from, nobody cares about height on Tinder. There is no height option at all, you can only write it in bio. No girl has ever asked me about it, in fact I consider it bad manners to write height. I simply would not use it. What I dont get, is why Americans are so height obsessed.

>but by *far* more impressionable are the times I actually met someone and they turned into completely cringe-worthy encounters
Could you tell us some of those stories, bro? We usually only hear about guys being "cringy".

It is. It literally is the main reason why women are anything more than homemakers, it is a miracle to mankind.
Then it has side effects, like all medication.

Vaccines sometimes will kill you, but it doesn't mean they aren't miracles to mankind.

No, it's not.
You're just assuming your future girlfriend will give you control over her body because your ex used to. It's still sexist, but now also dumb since you're generalising your ex's behaviour.

Look I can't stop my future gf from fucking up her own body, but at least I can advise her not to.

> just let me tell a woman what's best for her
> I know everything about BC despite never having taken it, better than the women actually taking it
> I'm so not sexist

I'm 19 1/2 and I have none (and never did have any) social media really. No Facebook, no Instagram, no Snapchat.
I have a phone and I just ring / text people if I want them.

I have this crazy fear that when I admit to women (after they ask for my insta or something) that I look like a fucking pyscopath when I tell them I don't have any.

Whats the femcels on Jow Forumss take? Am I a mega weirdo?

I studied at med school, why do you assume that I know nothing about the human body?
>well meaning advice is sexist
yikes

I feel like most femanons don't really massively use social media, so we're not the best people for this.

I only have IG and I use it really rarely (I posed maybe 3 times over the last 18 months). If you told me you didn't have social media, I'd be happy about it.

I read a bit of your convo and either you're being trolled or that girl (guy) is retarded. Let it slide.

Not like I've got much better to do, I'm on a night shift.

Because if you finished med school they would have taught you that giving medical advice to people who don't ask you for it isn't something you should do as a rule.
And also that giving medical advice when you aren't a doctor isn't something you should do.

If a woman doesn't ask you your opinion about her birth control, it's best to shut the fuck up.

Oh yeah

personally hate it when chicks have a huge amount of orbiters online, which 90% of good-looking chicks definitely have.

>Because if you finished med school they would have taught you that giving medical advice to people who don't ask you for it isn't something you should do as a rule.
It's called "edification". And you see it on TV every day, usually from laymen, and you trust those people every day.
>And also that giving medical advice when you aren't a doctor isn't something you should do.
Who said I'm not a doctor?
>If a woman doesn't ask you your opinion about her birth control, it's best to shut the fuck up.
"No Katie, don't swallow that rat poison!" "Stop being a sexist pig user, this is my body"

I'm afraid as said, this is the wrong place to ask. I only have Facebook with

To be honest, some part of me suspects that the kind of people who are responsible for those absolute most cringe worthiest of stories, are also the same type of people that might post or browser on here.

I don't like talking behind peoples backs and making them feel like shit for stuff they've done in the past, and the cringiest details are also the ones I think might clue them in that I'm talking about them, because they were pretty... unique... so I'm going to decline, but I will give a few random brief examples.

>asked me what color my cock was, 10 minutes after meeting
>Told me they loved me and wanted to marry me after 1 date
>Literally tried to shove their hand down the front of my pants during a goodbye hug to feel how big I was.
>Left drunken, sobbing voice mails and text after a second date where I put things to a stop
>randomly interrupted me during a normal, non-sexual conversation to ask me if I had condoms, but it's Ok if I didn't because they had an implant.
>acted like an over-eager puppey that bolts to fetch every possible thing I could conceivably need before I could possibly think of it (this one was actually kinda cute and I didn't feel cringey, but also a bit too much).

Are women aware of beta orbiters? Do you use these guys or just endure them?

Srs

No, it's not. Birth control is a medication that is highly beneficial for some people even beside the avoiding pregnancy part, has no side effects for other people, and it is ultimately none of your business if a woman wants to take it or not.
By pretending that all women who take birth control are damaging their bodies or are ill informed you're doing a poor service to them and to the medical profession as a whole, if you're even involved in it to any degree.
Even your example about rat poisons shows this. You think of BC as poison, when it isn't - it is a medication with side effects, like all medications.

>Who said I'm not a doctor?
Because doctors say they're doctors, not that they went to med school.
You're just an asshole who claims they're doctors on the internet.

Where do you femcel losers hang out? I want to meet people like you maybe. not sure.

I go to school and have a pretty normal circle of friends. I don't like posting my shit online for everyone to see because I've been on Jow Forums too much and people online are creepy. I have no photos of myself on the internet.

>Where do you femcel losers hang out? I want to meet people like you maybe. not sure.

Not them, but going from my GF's sister:

At home.
Probably hanging out with mom, playing PS4, or baking something.

It's kinda sad because I've heard her family kinda give shit about it during thanksgiving dinners and what not, and she's actually a pretty fucking outspoken person whenever I see her, but when that happens she always kinda drops like 4 notches and whispers things like, "No... I'm always going to be alone.. Just me and my kitties..."

>femcel
Please stop trying to make this a thing

It's not a thing. I'm the girl who has only IG, and I have a tall handsome boyfriend who I fuck regularly.

I occasionally drop in here always in time to witness actual femcel autistic rage and every time it is hilarious lol

>No... I'm always going to be alone.. Just me and my kitties..
I'm fully erect, user

Home, gym, and going out with a buddy every weekend to every second weekend. I quit going shopping alone after being approached by dudes several times so I only go with my mom now, except for groceries.

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>probably hanging out with mom

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>girls don't want to be approached by dudes
>girls don't want to be texted by dudes
>girls don't want to talk to dudes
I see, this makes perfect sense. Unless you are 10/10 they don't want to talk to you, got it.

There's no problem as long as you're a decent person when you approach me.
I might reject you if I don't like you physically, but honestly I won't be rude if you're not a fucking moron.

Women have a disgusting mindset, if you want to be happy, just have sex with women and don't entertain their mental delusions by dating or marrying them.

How do you even get to that point if they don't talk to anyone who isn't perfect?

im a beta orbiter and women use me

I'm just a total commitment phobe. Most just look for ONS which are a total no-go for me, but guys I'm actually interested in are even worse because I just feel like running as fast as possible. That's the result of years of ugly duckling syndrome + bullying; a tiny voice in my head shrieking "ABORT ABORT! DUDE CAN FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU ANYWAY, YOU'D JUST BE SETTLED FOR! RUN BITCH RUN."

Girls, how do I know if you're being friendly or if you're actually interested in me ? Do you do anything differently with someone you like that you wouldn't do with friends ? There's a girl I like and I don't know if she likes me because she's just friendly with everyone

If I act differently towards you than everyone else, I probably feel something for you that I don't feel for most people. In your case, it seems like she's just being friendly.
Also ask girls out, that's the only foolproof way to know if someone likes you or not.

Girls

I’m Jow Forums and sometimes when my gf and I talk about food, and I mention my diet she will look at me with this big mischievous smile and say “lean meat”.

I don’t like it. I think it’s really awkward

Femanons, how do you feel about social media nowadays?

I guess she thinks it's a funny phrase?

I'm fine with it. Strictly scrolling past bullshit posts, only looking at content I'm interested in. Same strategy applies to YouTube.

>It literally is the main reason why women are anything more than homemakers
Only if you assume that women are by default whores. Otherwise they wouldn't need the pill anyway.

In any case, the past 50 years haven't seen an improvement in either the female condition or the general social condition.

ftp.iza.org/dp4200.pdf
>"measures of subjective well-being indicate that women's happiness has declined both absolutely and relative to men. The paradox of women's declining relative well-being is found across various datasets, measures of subjective well-being, and is pervasive across demographic groups and industrialized countries. Relative declines in female happiness have eroded a gender gap in happiness in which women in the 1970s typically reported higher subjective well-being than did men."

>"Social and legal changes have given people more autonomy over individual and family decision making, including rights over marriage, children born out of wedlock, the use of birth control, abortion, and divorce (Stevenson and Wolfers, 2007). Once again, men may have been able to disproportionately benefit from these increased opportunities: Akerlof, Yellen, and Katz (1996) argue that sexual freedom offered by the birth control pill benefited men by increasing the pressure on women to have sex outside of marriage"

Thanks for the pointers. Getting to the gym is something I've been working on, been going most every day for the last month and already seeing results in terms of energy, which is great.

As to her skipping meals... when we go out she only eats dinner, and she insists that she only eats one meal a day, and that it's somehow healthy. She only eats chicken and white fish dishes. And she winds up pushing stuff onto my plate. I've not wanted to fight with her about it, we're still too early in the dating cycle for me to really feel comfortable pushing her, because I don't want to push her away.

I dunno I wish I could come up with something that she couldn't resist just so she'd eat more. I get the feeling she's sorta okay with sweets, which is my opposite... I'm a savory/meats guy and don't really care that much for desserts.

I dunno why I like her so much either. She just... I can't leave her alone, you know? She hits that masculine "I want to protect this girl" instinct that I really haven't had before.

Girls, what can a guy do to be more attractive to you ? Things that can't be changed aside

>Only if you assume that women are by default whores
People aren't capable of waiting till they're 25+ before having sex if they have a normal sexual and emotional development. It means waiting 10 years from when you start normally dating, and almost no one does that.
If everyone waited till marriage, people would marry very young. If there was no form of birth control, women would get pregnant fairly soon. Which would obviously stop them from being anything different from homemakers.
Doesn't matter if they're "whores" or not, being able to control when getting pregnant gives women the chance to determine who they want to be in life.

And I say this as someone who wants to be a stay at home mother, but I am glad for having the choice of doing this or doing something else with my life, which I wouldn't have if I couldn't control when to get pregnant reliably.

>but guys I'm actually interested in are even worse because I just feel like running as fast as possible.
All you have to do is not run away and you could make something happen.

>literally hitler
You’re still alive? Jesus Christ,

Ok my question for you. What do you think about “a girl who breaks the rules”

girls, does a relationship count if you never plan on marrying the guy?

Nah, I'm good. I'm perfectly fine alone in my room, the gym, and some mountain trails. And Mr Right will find someone else to be happy with and be fine, too.

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Dress well. Be clean. Take care of your hair, skin, teeth, nails. Wear clean and nice shoes.
Make me laugh. Be actually interesting to talk to, and interested in what I have to say. Be polite. Have a spine.
Have your shit together. Be rich, but don't show it off (>inb4 gold digger - I want to have a bunch of kids, kids cost money).

If a woman sends selfies via snapchat but rarely or never responds to conversation, is she just fishing for compliments and validation?

>girls, does a relationship count if you never plan on marrying the guy?
I would drop a guy as soon as I realise he's not husband material.
The relationship obviously counts, it's not like it gets erased. But I wouldn't stay with a guy I don't see myself marrying.

yes. she can send to a group but only respond individually so lack of response means you've fallen into the audience

Dammit I gotta work on myself. Would you say it's the same criteria if I'm 18 and only looking for teenage love rather than a long-term relationship ?

What do you think makes a guy interesting ? I know I'm boring but I'm not sure how to become more interesting.

would you continue to have sex with a man you dont plan on having children with?

>Be rich, but don't show it off (>inb4 gold digger - I want to have a bunch of kids, kids cost money).
Ah ok, suicide it is.

>Would you say it's the same criteria if I'm 18 and only looking for teenage love rather than a long-term relationship ?
I didn't care about money or about the "having your shit together" part as much when I was a teenager.
Everything else, yes.

>What do you think makes a guy interesting ?
Knowing a bunch of shit and knowing when to say it. Fun anecdotes. A good sense of humour. Hobbies, interests, etc.

It's very telling that in a list of 10+ things you could change about yourself to make yourself more appealing, you pick the only one that takes long term work and can't be done by taking action immediately.
It's almost like you're finding excuses.

She is pregnant to my son.
I am likely to see the first 12 years of his life.
Any years after that is time borrowed from beyond.
She knows I wont live a long life. But I just got my sentence. I have 15 years at the max.

How do I make this as easy as possible for her?

Alright thanks. I'm good on most of those except hobbies, I don't have a single one. I stopped gaming and martial arts to focus on studies, don't have close friends to do any kind of activities. Doing high-level studies + part-time job to pay for them so I have very little free time and when I have any I do nothing because I'm not used to it. Fuck.

It's never going to be easy.
Make the best of the time you have together and make sure she feels loved and cared for at all times. Make memories with your son. Be a loving father and husband.
Save money for their future, if you can. Leave something behind for when he grows up - a letter or a gift for big occasions like his marriage, or his graduation, or shit like that.

No I feel I have most of the others. That is the one thing I feel I can't change.

when I learned I was going to die this soon. I was about to hurl my insides out at the fear or my own future.
Now a couple of years later, my wife still has no idea, and my nausea is from the pain I will cause to those closest to me.
Only my younger brother knows...

Don't tell her till she has the baby or she might try to abort or run away.

>She is pregnant to my son.
Ok the way that's phrased i can't tell if it's your wife carrying a boy, or your daughter in law and you're talking about being a grandfather.

None of those were even requirements, just things you could do to improve your attractiveness.
Even if you can't change that, it doesn't matter.

wife carrying a son.
Englisg is my fourth language, so I do mistakes.

Why are you dying?