Why are incels such a failure with women?

Why are incels such a failure with women?

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Growing up unaware of their low emotional intelligence

I am quite aware of it and always have been. I have to psych myself up to go to mcdonalds and i have panic attacks every time i walk past someone at worj wondering if i used appropriate eye contact and greeting style. Its also really hard not to answer how is it going with a real answer.

>emotional intelligence is real
Because sometimes they’re ugly or give up or whatever the fucking reason, there are a lot of reasons that all lead back to insecurity, why do you give a shit?

Incels aren't failures with just women. They're failures to real men as well. Children, too. Probably also pets and houseplants.

They forgot women are just cum dumpsters.

When a girl eyes a potential mate, what is going through her head? -Cute?

-Tall?

-How much does he make?

-What is his earning potential?

-Is he funny? Will he make me laugh?

-Is he interesting?

-What are his friends like?

-Where does he go out to do for fun?

-Other girls like him. Therefore, I must investigate him further.

As men, we don't think about these things. Sure, we want a cute girl and all. But we never look at a chick and go,

"She's cute, Paul, but she doesn't have the earning potential that I'm looking for in a girl."

"Wowza! She is hot! But I wonder what her friendships are like?"

"I dont' like her at all! But George does, therefore, I must investigate what there is about her if George is attracted to her."

We don't think like this. It would be comical if we did.

If a guy is super hilarious, super comedian, the women go,

"I LOVE you!"

If a guy has millions of dollars, even if she knows nothing else about him, she will go,

"I will marry you!"

What is going on here? Are women's 'primal survival' skills operating?

Ask her,

"What do you want?"

She shrugs. She hasn't a CLUE of what she wants. Apparently she wants whatever guy the other girls want.

Women do not see guys. They see worlds. They see themselves exiting this realm of Nature and entering the guy's world.

Having an aura of humor, or having lots of money, or being cute and all, these are all different worlds to the girl.

She isn't interested in YOU, not in the way we think of it. She is very interested in your world. In other words,

If a guy has no friends, doesn't go out and have fun, is a drifter and has no path to get money, she is NOT going to be interested no matter his other elements.

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I dunno. Why is this thread such obvious bait?

Average looking incels could just be seen as a lazy version of average looking normie.

Average looking normies go to huge lengths to get sex, like committing to monogamous relationships.

The incel sees how little effort Chad has to put in compared to this and gets all whiny about it.

There are like the whiny socialists of the sex world.

Chad puts in a lot of effort. Incels are just too dumb to understand this.

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I'm a chad-lite and I literally just have to whatsapp a Tinderalla for a bit and invite them over or for a drink.

They're too quick to share their political beliefs. Women are either apolitical or lefty activists so if a man they've just met starts to get political, it won't end well. Keeping politics to themselves until woman likes them is all incels need to do.

Rejections in teenage years made me aware of crippling insecurity and non-existent self-esteem, caused by fucked-up parents.
Knowing my place I never dared to try again.
t.incel

Aspergers

But I am a virgin AND a socialist

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Maybe your not feminist/liberal/xenophilic enough. Also, apolitical women outnumber lefty ones. My advice is to get a punk haircut, shitty tattoo and lots of piercing. Then you can to nearest anarchist hideout and some trashy girl will fuck you for sure.

Incels never get rejected because they never ask girls out. You're making shit up.

Well I don’t believe that there are 1000 genders, so shit...

I got rejected back in highschool, as a teenager.
The term incel doesn't really apply to people who are still virgins in their teens. It's not that uncommon for a 17yo to be a virgin, but a 25yo virgin is a filthy, creepy incel that has something terribly wrong with him and needs to die.

Incels are usually ages 18-23. After that most grow out of that mentality and few older incels remain.

There's no mentality, incel is buzzword for any virgin lonely guy in his 20s+, wether he hates women and blames society for his problems or not.

No, incel is someone who identifies as incel.

The definition of the word is involutarily celibate.
But the most common use of the word is as a buzzword for lonely guys.

People here never actually called themselves incels, it’s an ironic term on Jow Forums that users who could be categorised as incels use.

That definition is invalid because it is not possible to be involuntarily celibate. An incel is someone who identifies as an incel and follows their ideology. Nothing else to it.

They're almost always overall social failures. Failing with women is encapsulated by that, but because most of them are young and extremely horny all they can focus on is the sexual aspect.

Isn't celibate by definition voluntary though? It's impossible for a healthy male to be a virgin, unless by choice. Even if you look like an ogre you can buy sex. Or become a rapist. It's only a matter of pride and morality.

>That definition is invalid because it is not possible to be involuntarily celibate.
Whatever you say, neurotypical

Because there bitter

>She isn't interested in YOU, not in the way we think of it. She is very interested in your world
i love this