so I made this chart to show the responses of the times I asked my gf to come over
is this result normal? we have been together for 7 months
and most of the time when I ask her over she tells me that she can't because she needs to do something (not literally "something", it's a legit reason btw)
The fuck is the question? If it's a legit reason then there's a legit reason.
The only thing that matters is if you are okay with. If you want a gf that always comes over, then it's not working. If you are okay with her busy schedule then everything is fine. There is no standard for how many times a gf must come over when you ask.
Ryan Perez
>so I made this chart to show the responses of the times I asked my gf to come over >is this normal? Lol no it's not
Joshua Torres
You should cross reference the times she doesn’t come to your place with the times she’s at her other boyfriends place and look for a pattern
Joshua Price
fuck you i love data
exactly the response i was looking for
jokes aside, yeah your right, i just don't feel appreciated when she declines all the time
Caleb Ramirez
no, it’s not normal that she doesn’t want to come over 65.4% of the time, nor is it normal for you to make a chart about it. But now I’m super curious, what other charts do you have user?
Adam Diaz
This, post all the strange paranoia analytics please.
To actually answer OP's question: It mostly doesn't matter. Like said, there's no golden metric for exactly how many times she should come over. Every relationship is different and requires some amount of playing by ear. Are you happy with the relationship as it is now, even though she doesn't come over as often as you would like? Does she seem happy with the relationship? If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then you have absolutely nothing to fret about. If the answer is no to either one, then the next logical step is to communicate with her about it. Don't show her this chart.
Nolan Hill
eh Relationship wise, i have one for everytime we Made out, and the duration, and on what surface.. now that im saying it it Sound Kind of weird there is a visible 1-2 month gap in there...(pic related, the above one) also whenever we have seen eachother (also pic related)
other than that, i have one for every day that i have masturbated on one for the Times i have cried (9 total) one for the Times i have worked Out (0 total) and i have an App to Track my mood.
please post all of the graphs. We need to analyse the data
Justin Stewart
Outstanding. Thank you user. But the left column with the percentages makes no sense. Shouldn’t it be a number stating the times you fucked or that she came over? I strongly suggest you incorporate her period into your metrics. It’ll help you with the fighting graph if you have one.
If you don’t mind me asking, what other graphs do you have in your life besides relationships?
Dominic Jackson
Don't ask for tings you don't want to see. I'm sure he has a stool cycle graph...
Austin Rogers
dont want to Post too much Personal stuff
thats it, everything i just said she hase become Kind of dull lately so i wanted to See if it gets better so i Made a Graph about how i think her mood was that day
and i have one called "Relationship gambling" about 4 Relationships and 13 Friends Voting on who the Person will be who Breaks Up (yes they all voted)
no
Noah Flores
Roasties will tell you it's not normal but every male should make charts like this. You can see how much she likes you. She doesnt obviously. Future is roastie free and it's beatiful.
Isaiah Miller
might as well Post it
nah, i wouldnt recommend it.. i just do it because i started already
i should say that i use Google Sheets and also the "mood" thing at the bottom is, her mood every time we went out. just to explain it a little
l law? what
Evan Morgan
Is it me or the more you fuck thhe happier she is? Also, I insist, getting the “she has her period”, considering not only the day she bleeds, but 2 days before or so, when she is all cunty, will help you figure the whole thing out.
Easton Hall
Lol this is like that guy who made a chart everytime his wife refused sex and the reason. And guys act like they don't just want sex. This is so sad lol.
Jaxon Evans
wtf is going on with all this fucking at the stairs? Is it your place or hers?
Julian Long
he's probably fucking terrible at foreplay and sex and being likeable. it's always the guys fault because either he doesn't like her but wants sex or she doesn't like him as much but he wants sex.
Colton Hughes
dont have any way of knowing when she is on her Period but its a good idea
ha.. that Sounds Like a crazy Person Link?
her place
im very good actually
Camden Price
it was in reddit a while back and made it to the news Idk the source but I bet you could find it
Ethan Gray
>dont have any way of knowing when she is on her Period >but its a good idea Never ask her, but if you’re fucking her it’s fairly easy to know, then add 28 days and keep calibrating since some times goes a bit before or after. I’ve got the feeling you’re about to crack some kind of code user.