Does it mean that I'm ugly if a girl has never approached or showed romantic interest in me?
Does it mean that I'm ugly if a girl has never approached or showed romantic interest in me?
Yes
There are ugly guys that get more girls than handsome ones.
The real problem is autism. Go out more, talk with more people.
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Women hardly try to be direct, don't worry man
Yeah it does
Maybe, but not necessarily.
Ugly is a relative state. You might be ugly but you can become less so. It just takes a certain amount of money and time for most people to become better looking.
First, you might be unapproachable and not actually ugly. If you constantly think anxious thoughts you can have a gloomy, sullen look on your face. No one will want to approach you.
The fix to this is free. Smile and be friendly. Say hello to people at school and work. Start remembering their names and ask about their lives. This might be enough for you to become attractive to others.
If you're a slob, you need to clean and groom yourself better. This requires minimal changes. Shower properly, get a haircut from a salon, wear clean clothes, etc.
If you're fat get fit. This takes more time and money. You need to start buying healthy food and exercising.
you might just exude a fuck off aura but being ugly can be part of it. you can try to dress well to compensate user. if you are really super ugly you wouldn't need to ask about it here
It means you're dumb
No, doofus. It could mean plenty of things besides that. I'vs got plenty of ugly friends who've scored because they're amazing people, talented, or just plain pleasant to be around. Work on your confidence, image, and presentation, and learn to start approaching girls yourself. You may find heartbreak here or there, but there's always a better chance of getting what you want when you look for it instead of waiting for it to fall into your lap. Go get 'em, champ. You can do this.
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I bet girls approached you and you didn't even realize it you fuckin sperg
no girl has ever talked to me unless i have wholly initiated it
You are a liar and dont see opportunity when it stares you in the face. Unless you live like bubble boy this is literally impossible.
Creating this post indicates the way you think and that makes you a puss and that might be a problem. There are all kinds of ugly bros with fine bitches.
It means you're ugly, not rich enough and not social enough.
You must 'fix' all three if you ever want a female to be interested in you.
i think i know my own life better than you do you projecting thundercunt.
i have never been approached by a woman. nor a man, for that matter. it is always i who initiates anything.
Change your attitude and outlook will work wonders whether you are ugly or not
How is it so unfathomable for you normies that there are people out there who are completely undesirable?
I'm just like OP, no girl has EVER even talked to me on her own volition. Not even a greeting.
Why is it unfathomable to you that a girl did say hi because she wanted to and in fact desired your company?
To answer that question you probably dont like yourself but luckily you can fix this.
Because a girl never did?
I tried
Not really, it could mean that you smell like shit, that you're just not a nice person or because you are sick
your more likely unapproachable, i have no doubt in my mind that your are a 7.5/10 chad lite but because you're most likely an unsociable guy girls won't really notice you, try asking them out or try talking to them. and besides girls always guys to make the first move.
please listen to this op, it is good advice
No, simply no
Its probably better than being approached but consistently watching them lose interest as they learn more about you. It's a mortifying experience.
No, it just means you don't have enough money.
You are implying that women care about looks, you could be a complete trainwreck and still get girls if you just have the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
That depends, if you had no interaction with girls whatsoever then maybe you're too good looking and don't place yourself in situations where approaching a guy wouldn't be considered weird(such as the club). But if you do have interactions then one must've showed some sort of romantic signal unless you're autistic and haven't picked it up
Ahem, you could be a trainwreck and still get girls if you're incredibly attractive too.
I wish that happened to me. One time a girl actually WAS nice to me, I immediately thought this was my opportunity to have a girlfriend, I was just worried about dying alone for nothing. Turns out she wasn't even into guys. I don't know why, but it seems like the group of people I could be in a relationship with (decent looking young heterosexual women) don't talk to me at all.
Not OP but I've gotten off with girls before by complete accident. I've stumbled into them by pure accident cause I have so little confidence in myself despite my belief I may be handsome. One of them told me she liked me despite not being her type (said she doesn't normally go for whites guys and doesn't trust white people) and another said the same thing and that she normally goes for blonde douches that are taller than average. Are these signs indicative of me being pretty attractive? I wouldn't say these girls I accidentally got off with were 7+/10 stunners though.