Are some men just doomed to die alone?
I'm 25, been single all my life. It feels like it'll always be this way, and I'm pretty torn up about it.
Are some men just doomed to die alone?
I'm 25, been single all my life. It feels like it'll always be this way, and I'm pretty torn up about it.
same user. just remember to use that anger to get rich. buy some bitcoins sell them at the next top. women are a meme anyway, they want to be treated like men, which means they'll go and fuck around and have multiple partners instead of settling down, its annoying but once you realize that a women is just a man with a hole instead of a dick it becomes clear they are just as prone to being horny and hard all the time as you and i. all you need to is treat them like they are one of the guys, and pick up on the slight hints. ie, if she wears a choke collar, she likes throat jobs among other kinky stuff, if she looks like a 10 probably is 5 or 3 IQ, so exploit the diversity of individual humans to tactically plan out your move.
>just remember to use that anger to get rich
It's not even anger. It's just sadness. I see girls I have a thing for pass me up for more appealing guys, and it's honestly a pretty heavy blow.
get a wingman have your wingman initiate conversation then come through with a drink to give you wingman and ignore the girl, she'll ask about you, and by ignoring her you make her want you and she has already seen your wingman so she is curious if you are better of worse, then all it takes is a few jokes, and for your wingman to get convenient break.
I have a theory - yes, some men are doomed to die alone and it is because women have gained too much power in society. Women don't settle down in status as far as relationships go. Men sometimes do, but women only settle up. A successful woman won't want a man who makes less than her financially or is seen as of lesser status.
This means there's less women to go around as women gain power. And even of the remainder women who are not successful, they get to pick and choose of best males because of supply and demand - women are in high demand but low supply. This would explain how even ugly/fat women can get a decent looking guy.
>doomed to die alone?
I'd like you to imagine how life would be if society were different, and men were encouraged to never interact with the opposite sex, you would not feel so bad about it.
Relationships with women, especially modern ones, are not fairy tales or magical, they are tiring and stressful, and more often than not, end very poorly. You should be glad to be alone and know that you have time to be able to learn to love yourself.
I got my first girlfriend at 31. Just focus on being the best person you can be and stay positive. Do those 2 things and be in places where women are and you will eventually find someone.
>I'd like you to imagine how life would be if society were different, and men were encouraged to never interact with the opposite sex, you would not feel so bad about it.
No, that longing would still be there. We are social and sexual beings, so that would still be the case.
I'll agree with your second statement though in that modern women are difficult.
Maybe. I thought otherwise for a minute but that chance seems to have slipped through my grasp about as quickly as it appearrd. Hurts.
The male to female ratio at birth is something like 105:100, I'd assume so.
Add that to this thought: And yes, men are screwed.
I can hook you up with my ex... she is fucking horrifying ball of constant masturbation, junkfood and playing Doom 2... but she sucks dick like a champ.
I meet about one per half decade I'd actually want a relationship with. Time doesn't seem to be on my side.
If it helps, most married people and parents die alone. People tend to avoid you or make your life hell when you are about to kick the bucket.
If you even have enough success too take care of yourself, go for a young one. If you can buy gas and pizza and a movie whenever you want, thats a sweet deal for them.
Doomed? No, enjoying it. It's never been a better time to be single and be able to do whatever the fuck you want.
I wouldn't say anyone is 'doomed', that implies you can't change. However, plenty of people die alone and childless. You need to act if you don't want to be one of those people.
You are 25. You barely started. You just need to put yourself out there and ask a girl out. Do them a favor, pretend you know them or like something they have.
I could bother explaining the whole "I've never met a woman who got horny over self-defeating permavictims who have problems being self-awareness" but then maybe you have a condition and that requires a professional and oh my goodness.
Stop having all your eggs in one basket I guess
How many girls have you asked on date this year?
None, but that's because I have no friends, worked night shift and online dating sucks.
If we go by online dating I read profiles and try to strike up conversation often. But there's like two women in my town, apparently.
There is brand new research material which suggests there is strong correlation between single males and small number of women they asked on date.
Try yoga, dancing lessons and mormons meetups.
>online
Nnnnnno. Do you want the full version or will TLDR: too much space to hide, not enough time to look, suffice as an explanation?
In 2019, if you're a man and dating online there's literally no way to be doing it more wrong right now-- even not asking girls is better for you in the long run, compared to online dating.
Oh, I know online dating is shit, user. But I live in a small, very cliquey town without a lot of people my age. I figured trying was better than not trying.
And be small I don't mean "omg my town is so small only 40k people XD" I mean there's barely 5k people here.
>There is brand new research material which suggests there is strong correlation between single males and small number of women they asked on date.
I don't understand what you're saying here, that I need to ask more women out, right?
>Try yoga
That's mostly housewives, and to be honest I'd be pretty embarrassed.
>dancing lessons
Maybe, but I don't think there are any. Unless you count square dancing.
>mormons meetups
The mormons here are of the 'crazy polgyamist' sort. The head of the clan has like 150 kids.
You need to learn communication skill. Watch films where the guys slick and gets any women he wants. Copy there behaviour. Above all be confident.
No. The bottom 80% of women are fat, rude and mean with herpee flaps and not worthy of any effort
>even not asking girls is better for you in the long run, compared to online dating.
Holy shit this is the truest thing I've read in a while. I wish someone had told me that a few months ago.
Online dating pretty much made me give up completely
If this is your major problem in life, count yourself lucky.
But you're in the bottom 80% of men
Why would you be worth a top 20% as anything but another top 20%
Like, "self-defeating cynic on Jow Forums" isn't your strongest sell here buddy; even not paying attention to your physique in any way, your personality is whiny and you shift blame and goalposts
I've stopped trying to express that
They're just too self-absorbed and not self-aware enough
Nothing anyone will say or do will convince you otherwise.
so maybe
What makes someone in the 20% of men? Is it only how nice your face looks?
I lift, have healthy body weight, college educated, play an instrument, have a fair circle of friends, well-read and have passions and interests. If men (or women, honestly) are doomed to be in the bottom simply because their face isn't model-tier then don't be surprised so many people end up dropping out of society
>Are some men just doomed to die alone?
Yes, but you'd probably have a much bigger success moving to somewhere in Asia.
I'm in the top 20% for men my age, over 50, but even if I go down to 40 year old women not even 1 in 10 is bangable, they are hideous and I would rather pay money to not see them
Try online dating, okcupid is pretty amazing at matching up people with shared views and interests. Just don't message girls with "hey" or some stupid sexual crap and you'll be fine.
Also, approaching any woman with the feeling that you're entitled to a girlfriend is toxic af. Basically don't be a pathetic incel.
No one is entitled to intimacy, as it inherently involves the conscious choice of another human being.
Sounds like all you need is some basic PUA to be there or close
>Try online dating, okcupid is pretty amazing at matching up people with shared views and interests
There are two girls on Okcupid in this town and I messaged them both with personalized questions.
Months ago.
Oh might be, but I'm not interested in dating at all. I just strive to be the best man I know.
oof yikes, small town is a big problem. Move away asap lol
I want to move to find work.
But I need money to move.
It's almost always a matter of personality. Just make sure you don't approach women with this bizarre mindset of "being doomed to be single", its childish and turns women off hardcore.
#yanggang2020
get that bag
move on out
I'm Canadian.
You're a fat chinkette. Totally kosher to suicide in the messiest way possible.
Check the Bible for references in-between tears
>implying that's me
revolution then
>come to MGTOW thread
>read MGTOW opinions
This one's on me.
I've come to accept the fact I will not be attracted to anyone who would possibly be okay with dating me and decided to simply continue on as I have been. It hurts. A lot. But at least I'm alive and working...?
But MGTOW is voluntary.
Can you elaborate such places where women go and its not weird that a man goes there as well, outside of uni/job?
Lmao move to Asia and receive the pussy you don't deserve
Alt recommend kys
What have I done wrong?
>tfw no Doom 2 playing nympho gf.
What am I doing on this gay fucking Earth, do I exist just to suffer?
I've never understood that reaction.
It's not like people don't know that, and repeating it yet again will help them how exactly?
Please are incapable of changing their fundamental nature anyway.
Lmao you exist. No game. Probably still think storks bring babies.
Bitches are bitches. Treat them as such
祝你好运
>it's your mindset bro!
Go kill yourself.
Dude her Discord is CherryBawble#6696
Have fun
>CherryBawble#6696
How are her tits?
Beggers can't be choosers.
Don't beat yourself up over it, being an average or below average man is living life on nightmare mode right now. Women do the choosing now. Basically you and me are in the bottom % of men so we are 2nd class citizens or like black people during Jim Crow : despised and seen as lesser. Yes it is feminism and social medias fault. I'm a 26 y/o virgin and in the same boat as you, but I don't take it personally anymore. I've become asexual and have some goals I'd like to achieve before I grow old and die. A word of advice? Don't tell people you are a virgin, its the worst thing you can be in a hypersexualized society
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When was the last time you went out and talked to a woman?
Here's a better question, When was the last time you did something that made you an attractive man that women would want in their life? Take a long good look at yourself and think, would you date you?