Hi Jow Forumsisors, my gf has become lazy when it comes to sex. she doesnt initiate anymore and when i bring up that its probably the time for some "action" she mostly says she's not in the mood or that it requires too much effort. her sex drive has gone to below 0. now, i know that she actually enjoys it very much while at it, but the problem is getting started, like a mental lazy block.
i also understand that transactional sex is never hot or enticing, if we both were like "shall we have sex now?" "yeah ok" or schedule a session for later.
this said, how should i go about just forcing it onto her at first to get the ball rolling? i know that after a while she'll get addicted to it and be generally more horny overtime, but I need a way to kickstart that process.
what? she almost lives at my place. should i have her move out?
Robert Richardson
Don't do this. It will only make her drift further away. She'll start to doubt for entire relationship and will dump you.
How's your relationship otherwise? Do you still do stuff together, go on dates, flirt, have a good time? Women need some romancing to get in the mood. If the relationship has gotten stale, work on it and sex should follow.
Julian Lewis
Dont argue with this hole
Have you talked with your gf about it?
Gabriel Morales
cheating on her is better than raping her.
Angel Morales
relationship is fine. of course she might still be getting her sex needs from chad but any relationship has that kind of risk.
yes, she says in general the idea of sex for her requires "a lot of work" and shes lazy about it. or doesnt feel good about herself/stressed/other emotional bullshit. i know it's not true once she gets into it. she just needs the spark.
i really just need to find a way to push her over the edge.
is it "raping" her if she enjoys it and its her bf doing it?
Jaxon Ross
Autist detected
Nolan Moore
>is it "raping" her if she enjoys it and its her bf doing it? It's rape if she tells you she doesn't want to do it and then you do it. No matter if she comes or not, no matter if you're her boyfriend or her husband.
Blake Moore
as i said, she doesnt have to be 'raped', just needs some kind of a pushy initiative
James Edwards
>It's rape if she tells you she doesn't want to do it and then you do it. It's rape if she tells you she doesn't want to do it and then you do it. If she tells you she doesn't want to fuck, and you use your "pushy initiative" to fuck her, you're raping her.
Camden Hill
Seems she told you there were underlying issues that isnt really related to being lazy. She has stress and emotional issues, maybe attempt to drill into that and understand it, then help/ support her getting through those issues. This way you will be associated with this positive result(getting better after a difficult time) and in extension your penis. Tldr: support her resolving the underlying issues, get sticky dicky no time Incel hole detected
Jace Morris
>Incel hole I'm not familiar with this meme.
Robert Myers
you’re talking about being more aggressive or what? i mean you could try that and maybe she’ll be into it but if she’s not? the moment she says no or tries to push you away and you keep going, it becomes rape.
Kevin Butler
There's currently no consensus on what to call leftover females that hit the wall so hard not even beta providers will step in
Another word could be singcel
See story on charlize theron crying about no beta to cover her nigger babies, great example of someone we could call incel hole
David Ross
Sure, go ahead and rape her. That will show her how much you love and respect her
Chase Moore
>Incel hole So just another group of women that won't fuck you, huh?
Brody Lopez
Looks like no woman in this thread is willing to give constructive advise besides shouting rape. Sad.
