OP here, I wouldn't worry that much if I were you, not many guys get to this point as most of them are happy once they socially unretard themselves to get into relationship, that they stop improving immediately once they got what they wanted.
Fuckers like me that go above and beyond the call of duty and think "Wait, I got this good at handling women, it would be a waste to stop here, I can get even better and more efficient at this shit.".
Most of the girls aren't that adept at social game, just that they are step above guys which are fucking awkward, because most of them don't know how to engage in socially or are solitary and don't care. But once either one, man or woman breaks through the level of normal people, it becomes like shooting fish in barrel for them.
Also, not sure if its what you wanted to hear as answer to last question, but generally I get feelings through sex, but its more like adrenalin shot, one moment its there and Im in it, and 20 minutes after, its gone and I don't feel shit for girl. So I would say yes, we do bond through sex as thats how we express 85% intimacy, its just that its gone very fast.
One thing I usually do is that I'm generally nicer towards girls that don't make it hard and are chill about hookups.
If they act like they know that the relationship might end tommorow at my whim and don't care, they just in for the ride and good memories while it lasts, kinda makes me feel they understand, so I treat them better than girls that make a big deal out of having sex and maybe spending some time together.
Be glad that most guys are fucking clueless about this shit and fucking treasure them.
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