So I'm 22 years old, and I started being out-going and trying not to be autistic when I turned 18, but what I found was that other dudes, especially frat boys and dude-bros, either really fucking love me, or they really want to start shit with me for no reason during parties.
Now, I'm not asking you to decipher everything for me, because I'm not a complete idiot, but what do you guys think it's all about? Has anyone else experienced something like this? Is this common? Is it because they see me as a threat, or do they just not like who I am?
Some background information:
>Used to be a beta in highschool until I started lifting weights and learning normie stuff like boxing and sports
>After 2 years, I started to look good, and girls would come up to me and say stuff like "Hi user! Bye user!", even if I barely knew them
>Don't really have interest in girls, not because I'm gay, but just because I'm pretty busy with school and work, and I don't think it would be responsible to get in a relationship if I know I can't give them my attention
>Now every time I go to a house party or something, there's always at least ONE dude-bro who looks me up and down, sizing me up (I'm not an idiot, I know what he's fucking doing)
>Every time I talk to a girl platonically, other dudes will try to wag their way in our conversation, and I'll just say "fuck it, I'm not going to fight over her, go ahead", and I'll leave them
>Even so, they'll always try and start shit when I back off
I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I'm a pretty happy-go-lucky guy, I like to laugh and sing and dance, I love fighting like MMA and stuff, but I definitely don't throw out a "tough guy" vibe, I always play peacekeeper, and I have a jolly face baby-face, especially during parties, so why the fuck does every dude-bro want a piece of me when I go to a party? What the fuck?