An escort approached me at the gym and wanted to fuck. We met up, fucked into the early hours of the morning and had a great time. During the post sex cuddling she kept touching my lips, my chin/beard, and kept remarking how big and hard my dick was.
How do I deal with this?
An escort approached me at the gym and wanted to fuck. We met up...
Deal with what? She's an escort, you ffucking chimp
It was all play, no business.
I'm wondering if I should bother trying to chat with her, or just keep it as a fuck buddy, only text when we wanna fuck type of thing.
Currently I just told her I was gonna be at the Beach in a couple of days and that she should join me
If you have to ask, you are being played by someone with MUCH more experience in this field.
>An escort approached me
STOP, just stop, you're being played, hands down. They can sense loneliness in a heartbeat and know exactly how to capitalize off it. I would remove all communications.
DUH! she's an escort. That's why I'm asking for advice, Im admitting I need help. What the hell is up with this place
I ain't gonna pay for shit for her. But I agree with you. She's a pro and I'm just some guy in need of fun
Nah, don't get personal. Keep our strictly sexual
Also, I had no idea shes an escort this whole time until I asked what she did. She didn't want to tell me directly. All she said was, "i think you know." that tipped me off so I went searching online
Did you pay her?
No. As I posted above I didn't even know she was an escort. She alluded to it when I asked if she worked or was a student. And she seemed keen on going out clubbing with me and hooking up again the next day.
Ok so just treat her like a normal human being and keep seeing her if you want.
She sees you as a provider/boyfriend and not as a lover/someone who pays.
Care to elaborate?
If she didn’t charge you, then she was willing to do it. If she only told you she was an escort after the fact, it was all in good fun. Escorts fuck people for their pleasure, too, ya know?She didn’t see you as a John. What is hard to understand about this?
Oh. The lover and provider terms have different connotations for me desu
Just enjoy the ride OP. Fuck off if things start to get financial
Hope you are not in US
Nope. Not worried but thanks for the PSA
first off, congratulations you lucky bitch
second off, like others are saying, have said and will continue saying until the end of time: She's a fucking escort, she's not your girlfriend, she's not a romantic interest, she is a woman who fucks men in exchange for monetary compensation for a living. Keep fucking her (using protection) for sure as long as it suits your needs but do not get emotionally attached to her, these women play off men's feelings for a living, they couldn't get to where they were if they weren't world class emotional manipulators and I suspect that may be a potential goal of hers; sneak a few free fucks at first then once you're hooked she's gonna pull the bait and switch
>oh well the first couple were free because I think you're cute but now you gotta pay to get this pussy user
>A drug dealer came up to me and gave me some crack, he told me "the first hit is free". Does he like me? I think this drug dealer must just be a really friendly, generous guy cause I don't see any other reason he'd do something like that.
This is how retarded you look OP.
She’s a whore, dating a whore sounds great on paper but you’re not the only dick she has in her life. Every woman I’ve slept with say I’m a great fuck, I stopped letting it build my ego because it’s just fucking. If I can keep a woman around that’s the hard part.
Just be glad you’re fucking someone attractive and don’t let your feelings fumble it up.
I hope you didn't eat her out
Found the virgin.
Classic rope a dope. Hey kid, want some free crack.... oh well now it'll cost you. Can't just give shit away.
this basically.
I have some experience with pros and now I've completely quit them. it used to baffle me on how many people they "love". scary actually.
don't get emotionally involved. and the only sure shot way is to not get involved at all.
just wait for the "oh I'd quit if I only had this much money."
Nothing wrong with eating out a girl but not one that gets fucked for money by a ton of different dudes.
>They can sense loneliness in a heartbeat and know exactly how to capitalize off it.
Escorts never come at me...
Damn, they must know I'm stingy. Must the the nose and silly hats I keep wearing.
OP here. I ain't gonna pay for shit. We hooked up at her place and due to my living situation I might put in for a hotel room on the rare occasion that I have a day off from work which is almost never.
The bait and switch is really what I've been worried about, as soon as that happens I'm out. Even though her body is amazing. We work out at the same gym and I've been checking her out for almost a year ever since I first saw her. So I'm sure that's also fucking with my mind.
>she kept touching my lips, my chin/beard
This is something I have had women do, when they felt very very intimate with me.
They without fail turned clingy.