Is college a good place to find a gf?

I'm entering university in a few weeks and I've really hoped for a while that college would be where I could finally find a girlfriend. Do a lot of people end up finding significant others in college or do they just study all the time/party with no romantic commitment? I don't know if I am naive so I figured I would ask here so I don't get my hopes up too high.
If so, any tips for meeting people would be appreciated. I am looking for a girl that is mellow and quiet like me which makes it a bit harder.

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Join groups, go up to women in the food court, most likely you'll find a gf in the dorm but if you stay in your room all day nothing will happen.

It's a good place because it's a good place to meet people in general.

yeah you can find a gf in college if you don't mind her getting gangbanged every thursday-sunday at one of the frat houses.

My uni doesn’t have fraternities like big US schools.

>Do a lot of people end up finding significant others in college or do they just study all the time/party with no romantic commitment?
Obviously, this depends on where you live (culture of your country) and what kind of university you are going to. Anyway, join many clubs, socialize with everyone you meet. I don't care if you are shy and quiet, you will need to overcome that, because it fundamentally puts you at a disadvantage. Most women will want you to make a move on them. Also, I advice against what this guy said
>go up to women in the food court
When you want girls at college it's all about building connection with social circles. These sniper like approach attempts and specific girls mostly won't work and if you do it long enough you will catch a bad reputation. Just socialize with everyone, get invited to shit and then flirt with girls when it becomes appropriate, e.g. parties. Exceptions of course are when you are already sensing interest by girls you casually talked to in those social circles. Then you can straight up make a move.

It's okay if I can have them monday-wednesday.

With regards to school culture I’m going to a school that is known to be pretty low key and definitely not a party school.
I didn’t really intend on going up to random girls so you are right about that either way, but I’m not sure if parties will even end up materializing either. My school isn’t known for parties and I really hate them anyways. I can’t do alcohol or loud music well due to a neurological problem. I think I’ll just focus on clubs

Ty for the advice

In my experience, every girl that was worth dating in college got a BF within the first 2 months and stayed with him for the entirety of college. If you miss that window you're pretty much fucked, after that point the only girls left are some combination of crazy, boring, or only interested in casual sex.

Ok, I will keep that in mind. Thanks user. I think I’m gonna try and join some clubs early on and hope something comes from that.

This actually happened to me and my bf.

I never had a boyfriend before him (I'm old school and picky).


One day on my first year at uni, he stopped me to ask where to find the History class. I was going to the same class.


Started as good friends, and now we are in a long time relation and ready to marry.

It doesn't matter if it's at uni or at work or walking streets... Every random meeting could be the right one.

Two VERY BIG factors make it a good hunting ground.

1. No one there knows you. No one knows the reputation or type-casting you got in high school, where being labeled a loser or nerd or outsider or Goth seemed to doom you for life. You start with a clean slate and can present yourself to everyone as you want.

2. EVERYONE starting college is in the same boat - strangers in a strange place and eager to make friends. Talk to EVERYONE - the people next to you in class, your neighbors, people on lines. They're as lonely and insecure as you and eager to make friends

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>EVERYONE starting college is in the same boat

I remember thinking this right before I entered college.
Then during orientation I noticed that 90% of people were already in friend groups. Lots of people come into college with an established group of friends, and even more people are able to form friend groups within the first couple days.

If you don't manage to connect with people in the first few weeks then you'll have to constantly try to insert yourself into friend groups that have already formed.

I think that situation would depend on the university. A bigger more internationally focused school would probably have less of this sort of thing that a local smaller state school. Although maybe I’m wrong

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Eh, I went to a small school and during orientation it did kind of appear that way but looking back and hearing from others, it just looked that way because people clung to each other instantly and since its an exciting time, everyone was just trying to have fun. These people typically dont mind if others want to join in though too. Just dont be weird, be confident.
Also I met my wife day 2 of college by just standing around and making small talk. It can happen to anyone.

Yes, but people taking the same classes rarely date. Unless they're going for medicine, then everyone in the group will fuck everyone else in the group sooner or later.

My college was a big fuck fest. I knew a few bleeding heart guys that tried for long-term gfs, and got fucked over repeatedly.

Protip: Go to community college if you're into MILFs. Seriously, I've met sooo many desperate divorcees that just want the D and think a pathetic Associates in Arts will give them a chance at that point in their lives.
And yes, I understand that's not for long term relationships, but still ;)

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its that teen girl sam hyde abused.

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Do you think your college was an anomaly or do long term girlfriends generally not work out in college?

college is good, because it is kinda like a job without shitting where you eat, and 4 new teams every semester. Just sit with random people in your 100 levels chat to people, and just ask the number of any girl who seems cool. Most people don't know others and you will never see them after anyway. also join clubs.
Lastly a protip people don't understand here. Getting a GF/laid/ whatever, is not about going out and trying to get a GF that agenda doesn't work. You just need to he social and talk to people. talk to dudes as well, they may have hot friends, or become your friend, or even just make you look better. talk to ugly girls as well, groups of girls be friendly to everyone. Being antisocial until you lock in on a girl with sniper focus doesn't work. That actually comes off as forced, creepy and fake. For example I got the number of a girl I dated in uni by basically just grabbing the best seat and she sat two over from me after. I just conversed with the people in the general vicinity of me which happened to include her. Then I copped her number on the last day and never talked to the other faggots again. I think if I just sat right next to her, ignored other people and just tried some PUA shit she would have shut me down.

The poor girl samuel hydenstein, sodomized.

i mean yeah, if youre a sugar daddy thats already graduated from college

If you like whores then yeah dude, it's great.

The only women you'll ever find that are worth shit in a relationship usually don't pursue college.

Yes but you have to do the legwork, i.e. Talk to people in your classes/clubs and make friends, get into friend groups, talk to people in your dorm, go to parties and events, straight up ask them out, etc.
The worst thing you can do is sit around in your dorm or whatever and piss away your time, every day is a golden opportunity and you have to use it