I'm entering university in a few weeks and I've really hoped for a while that college would be where I could finally find a girlfriend. Do a lot of people end up finding significant others in college or do they just study all the time/party with no romantic commitment? I don't know if I am naive so I figured I would ask here so I don't get my hopes up too high.
If so, any tips for meeting people would be appreciated. I am looking for a girl that is mellow and quiet like me which makes it a bit harder.
Is college a good place to find a gf?
Nolan Brooks
Mason Cook
Join groups, go up to women in the food court, most likely you'll find a gf in the dorm but if you stay in your room all day nothing will happen.
Daniel Collins
It's a good place because it's a good place to meet people in general.
Caleb Bailey
yeah you can find a gf in college if you don't mind her getting gangbanged every thursday-sunday at one of the frat houses.
Nathaniel Davis
My uni doesn’t have fraternities like big US schools.
Xavier Morris
>Do a lot of people end up finding significant others in college or do they just study all the time/party with no romantic commitment?
Obviously, this depends on where you live (culture of your country) and what kind of university you are going to. Anyway, join many clubs, socialize with everyone you meet. I don't care if you are shy and quiet, you will need to overcome that, because it fundamentally puts you at a disadvantage. Most women will want you to make a move on them. Also, I advice against what this guy said
>go up to women in the food court
When you want girls at college it's all about building connection with social circles. These sniper like approach attempts and specific girls mostly won't work and if you do it long enough you will catch a bad reputation. Just socialize with everyone, get invited to shit and then flirt with girls when it becomes appropriate, e.g. parties. Exceptions of course are when you are already sensing interest by girls you casually talked to in those social circles. Then you can straight up make a move.
Ethan Ortiz
It's okay if I can have them monday-wednesday.
Dylan Sanchez
With regards to school culture I’m going to a school that is known to be pretty low key and definitely not a party school.
I didn’t really intend on going up to random girls so you are right about that either way, but I’m not sure if parties will even end up materializing either. My school isn’t known for parties and I really hate them anyways. I can’t do alcohol or loud music well due to a neurological problem. I think I’ll just focus on clubs
Ty for the advice
Grayson Adams
In my experience, every girl that was worth dating in college got a BF within the first 2 months and stayed with him for the entirety of college. If you miss that window you're pretty much fucked, after that point the only girls left are some combination of crazy, boring, or only interested in casual sex.
Elijah Martinez
Ok, I will keep that in mind. Thanks user. I think I’m gonna try and join some clubs early on and hope something comes from that.