My husband hates me. I'm not overexaggerating and I don't have low self-esteem; I can just tell when someone hates me, and he does. He sequesters himself in whatever room I'm not in, we don't talk, and we definitely don't have sex.
It's a devastating feeling, but what's worse is being in limbo. I've tried asking him what he'd like me to do differently, and he always either flat-out ignores me, leaves the room, or asks me to leave him alone. I ask if he wants to just call it quits, and he just rolls his eyes as if this is a stupid thing to suggest.
To clarify, I don't want him to leave, but I hate feeling like I'm holding someone hostage. We're one of those couples that has been together since high school, and I think he just resents me at this point.
Has anyone been in this situation before? How did it shake out? What am I supposed to do?
Rape him. Drug him and then rape him. Don't ask me about it, don't think about it, just do it.
Jack Lopez
if he refuses to talk about it, hes not leaving you with many options. sounds like he is a coward, and is playing the "wait for her to end it so i dont have to be the bad guy" game with you
Brandon Perez
Sound like he's really angry. How long have you been married and how long has he been behaving like this? And why do you think he resents you?
David Evans
I've heard a single experience of doing MDMA together can do more to fix a failing marriage than years of marriage counseling. I'm not advising you to break the law though - possession and use of MDMA is legal in many countries(I believe Portugal is one such country).
Lincoln Long
He's waiting for you to break up with him so he won't take the blame
Certified narcissist right there. That behavior is extremely abusive, ignoring you in that matter constantly when you are trying to be an adult and talk is childish and abusive. I would be very concerned if you have been with him less than years because if that's the case then you haven't even seen the beginning of what he's capable of. He might be a evil sociopath who unironically gets huge pleasure and thrills from making you miserable.
Hudson Flores
You got issues dude. You immediately saw this very very short post and assumed it as fact he's a narcissist.
Colton Young
people round here are dumb. check my posts for quality advice
