ITT: you tell me how sex usually goes, so I can get an idea of what normal people expect when I go to bed with them. I was raised in a cult, and as a result, every country on earth is a foreign place to me. Sex in my cult unfolded like this: at exactly 9:00, women were expected to be available in their room, on their bed, either naked or dressed in sexual ways, and men were expected to come in and just go at it until they came. Our leader advised the men not to mess around too much and not touch women, so it was a matter of in and out and was done within 10 minutes for the most part. It happened every night and was generally regarded as a chore by both men and women. I think our leader wanted more members this way. It turned out that most members only pretended to have sex most of the time.
Help me understand normal human sexuality. (Selina is another cult member who browses this board also, we found it together, but I have lost contact with her and don't know if she still lives.)
Start with kissing and gently touching her. Touch her in as many places on her body as you have time for, gently though. After you start kissing more "passionately" you can also start touching her in the more private areas, go in under her bra at this point.
Idk about other ppl but when I'm with a girl and we're about to have sex I will either lead her hand towards my dick to let her know she should suck me off. Or I just start kissing her(I was kissing her before too) down her neck/stomach and eventually around the poonani. Eat her out, your tongue should be soft and massage her clitoris, you can have a taste in the vajayjay as well but it doesn't do much.
Then just go with it and stick it in when the both of you are hard and wet and ready to go. Go slow if you have a big dick, fuck it go slow to start with regardless and work from there.
Ian Howard
Still me. Remember that you don't have to rush anything. I would touch her around her head, neck and face. Kiss her gently everywhere with soft lips. Kiss her forehead. Lean in towards her ear and just breathe normally at/around the ear(gives you shivers, try it). Be gentle with her. I myself have a bad habit of being so drunk or on some drugs so I'll go at it aggressively, shouldn't be like that imo desu. Good luck anons.
Jace Jones
>I will either lead her hand towards my dick to let her know she should suck me off. Is this real?
Aiden Williams
Yes. At least the last few times with more experienced girls I just gently move her hand down my pants. It gives them the go ahead, if they only start jerking you off then you've already begun anyway. Or you can be the one who kisses her all over her neck and chest and stomach and end up eating her out.
Eli Anderson
In my cult experience, women actively enjoy oral sex, to give, I mean; is this also your experience?
Chase Morgan
Depends on the girl. Also your dick should be clean, you should wash it once per day. Shower daily, you don't have to use shampoo every time. I stopped using shampoo and conditioner completely, just body soap.
The last girl I met with was better than any other girl I've been with at giving oral. She was a special kind of girl also.. We 'broke up'/stopped dating 2 days ago and now I'm just high and lonely, off from work for 3 days without anything to do but be sad. Sorry for hijacking ur thread.
PS girls should never ever touch either part of your dong with their teeth, then they're doing it wrong. It should always be soft and it doesn't have to be DTFing. Porn and especially hardcore porn is skewed afk desu
Jacob Butler
This doesn't seem too complicated and rather intuitive. Do people normally speak during sex?
Adrian Brown
>Sorry for hijacking ur thread. I don't mind, this is interesting, go ahead. Enough room for everyone here.
We showered daily in my cult, so I still do that.
The only oral I ever received, I felt teeth very regularly. This girl was an awful kisser, so I guess it makes sense. I imagine good kissers are good suckers, but I have no idea.
What is DTFing?
>always be soft
Interesting.
Luke Ross
You don't have to talk if you don't want. I think I don't talk much. Once you get to screwing you can just grab her by the hips to move her around if you want to switch positions and you don't have to say it out loud.
You can moan as a guy btw, it lets her know you're enjoying yourself.