don't cheat on him like every other military gf or wife
that's out of the question, this guy is for life
Hopefully at least you f'd his brains out before he was deployed.
Then he will probably cheat on you. I was in the military for 8 years and 99% of deployed men cheated or had wives that did. I remember one guy who's wife was super devoted and affectionate with him. They had kids and were always all over each other. Six months into an Iraq deployment, she tells him she can't wait and starts fucking some dude she met at work.
My guys went through almost the entire nurse's barracks in Iraq - nearly all of those females married or with bf's. Personally, I never cheated but I am sure my gf at the time did.
If you two are the 1% that don't do this, then enjoy the suck because it won't end until he is discharged.
This will certainly help OP during her time of need
A reality check is what OP needs, not someone who says it's all going to be okay. Being with someone in the military is not for the weak-willed.
you can smell it off people when they're loyal
so what do you suggest I do?
get contacts and talk to him whenever possible
yeah for sure but that's not what I'm asking, I'm asking what do I do with myself in my free time
Ayo lemme get yo number he ain't gonna find out
Unless you're a fat bitch like all military wives
Find 2 hobbies you can attend weekly and a third you can do by yourself. Between that and work, you can keep yourself busy and the time goes a lot faster. You also meet new friends which is good.
why even bother dating military people
they are all low quality
>5th contract What does that mean?
he's signed 4 contracts and voided them
they're either gay, suicidal, or have no aspirations.
lol you sound like a fat bitch
Sorry to hear you're going through that user, if you can write to him it helps. Hopefully he'll try to write frequently so you dont feel the distance too much. Theres also Skype nowadays but I dont know if they let you skype in the military.
Anytime someone says to me that they're loyal, or faithful in some fashion it's because they know it's what I want to hear.
But in the end they choose the easy path out and give up their words and promises.
Too many times people are far too weak to hold themselves to a standard and be strong enough to elect a path of good faith.
If you can, it's something I suppose I should praise you for, but I reckon you won't. The fact you're so emotionally attached does say a lot, but suppose someone else comes in and he's not around, would you *actually* be strong enough to resist temptation? Be truthful.
of course no matter the satisfaction in the moment, the later consequences aren't worth it
Good for you. Now go out and make some friends so you don't go crazy by yourself.