I think my boyfriend (22) finds me unattractive. He has to watch porn during sex to get off...

I’ll try again but I feel like he just keeps giving me fake answers

Post your pic.

Hmmmm and risk being roasted? No thanks

You literally came here to ask if he finds you unattractive. How are we going to offer any advice on that if you don post anything. Just blank your eyes out

Well, give him an ultimatum. No more watching porn. If you're attractive to him, this shouldn't be an issue for him, right?

Roasted by anonymous strangers on the internet? What a tragedy! But who will be honest with you?

Strangers with nothing to lose or friends who don't want to hurt your feelings? Doesn't the notion of the truth have an irresistible pull?

But yeah, porn is a parasitic entity onto men but we couldn't help it. 13 and horny and oh my god look how fucking hot these women are. 13 years later...

Cmon, how many guys do you know have to watch porn to get off in the middle of sex? Hes obviously not that interested in her.

Fine idk how to block out eyes so gonna delete once I get an answer

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you're fine
your bf is not

If he has a porn addiction how do I help him?

He shouldn't watch porn at all. This is fucked up. And fucked up of OP to have no self respect and let a guy watching porn fuck her

I'm 25 and I have ED too. I can get it up pretty easy with porn. Honestly I think it's sexual anxiety for me, plus an issue with basically growing up watching a ton of porn through my formative sexual years.

Quitting porn might help, I haven't been able to for long enough to know for sure. It's not easy tho because getting off is a stress reliever for me.

You're not 10/10 but I'd fuck your face/10

Tell your bf that if he stops looking at porn for a week you'll deepthroat him or do anal or something.

That’s odd I’m kind of scared our relationship will flop if he constantly gets limp dick because he quit porn

The last two girls I was with left me over it. This morning I looked into getting some Viagra or some other ED med, plus I only fuck a flesh light when I masturbate now. If a guy jerks off with his hand and squeezes, it can often cause issues getting off any other way. It's called "death grip syndrome", look it up.

Lady, porn hiatuses just make us extra horny after a few days because we have no valve. Jacking off to porn too much causes the limp dick.

btw if you want a cheap version of viagra, tell him to take L-Citruline Malate (2:1 ratio) 45 minutes to an hour before sex.

Porn addiction is severe and everyone downplaying the problem ITT should do nofap and see the difference

I actually think that may be the problem because he’s been getting into cock rings and it looks like he’s just cutting off circulation at this point

Could be. It's not just squeezing too hard either, any method of jerking off where you're basically stimulating one specific part of your dick to get off, or doing it in an odd way has the potential to cause these sorts of issues.

Also, more commonly, SSRI's can cause this, along with diabetes, psychological issues (lack of communication in the relationship, anxiety, depression, stress), injury to pelvic nerves, hypothyroidism, low testosterone, alcohol, etc. Nearly all of these are treated with cialis or Viagra though... I'd definitely recommend that he go see a doctor.

I'm also like that poster I absolutely love my ex found her sexy but my lack of being able to cum normally ruined it partially I think of her seconds before coming even when looking at porn and want to die at this fact.

Porn addiction in the sense of needing different visual stimulation in order to remain sexually excited could be an issue.

Your physical appearance should be fine. There may be emotional reasons why he has a hard time having sex or an orgasm with "just" you. I wouldn't want to speculate on what those could be though because I don't know him.

I think it's something you need to address head on and not just let him deflect and pretend it's not an issue. "If this relationship is going to work, you need to be able to trust me enough to talk to me" or the like can be a way to approach this if he continues to be reticent about it.

I’ll try to address it this way along with everyone else’s advice thank you

Again it might not be you and he might feel like shit about it. Make sure not to put too much pressure on him to come bc then it becomes an even bigger thing in his head. I did this before in a relationship and it backfired

OP. It has nothing to do with you being pretty or not. Listen to some of what the anons are saying about him being a porn addict.

He needs porn because he's addicted to it. But good luck getting people to admit to something that they don't even think they can be addicted to. Shitloads of Western men have a problem with porn and are completely oblivious to it. If only your bf had a problem with something like heroin or meth; at least those addictions are recognised and treated.

I didn't realize porn could be a harmful addiction until I one time spent 3 hours watching porn instead of preparing for an exam the next day. I decided to just quit for a while, and couldn't. 4 years later and I still can't go more than a week without a 4-6 hour binge. I lost my virginity to a girl who guys constantly orbit and salivate over - I could barely keep it up and I couldn't finish. Shit can get real severe

You look like you could be really fun in bed.

Dude has a porn addiction that probably has nothing to do with you.

Get him into cbt. Seek out a licensed psychologist.

Cock and Ball Torture could be the cure, that's a good idea.

Men with a porn addiction need more and more extreme and explicit content in order to continue to become aroused. Things that are not new will not arouse them because they have become desensitized to normal sexual stimulus. They also always prefer their porn to real women, because they already have a digital harem of constantly new and hyperstimulating women to view.

U cute
-from dude

It's hard to say what your bf's problem is OP. It depends why he's watching porn in the first place. It might be an addiction, he might want to experiment and needs to watch porn to see better ways to make sex pleasurable. I don't think you're the problem though, you sound like you're trying to make things work.

Okay, now post your feet just to be sure.
:3

Ween him off of porn ASAP
He's addicted and it can take up to 3 months of nothing for your brain to "reset"

Your boyfriend is repressing his homosexuality and needs to watch other guys fucking something to get off.

Exactly. I know that feel, too, bro. After experiencing a startling amount of anhedonia and ED for a man my age, I quit watching porn months ago; although I occasionally relapse. Aside from renewing that battle, I'm deciding to try nofap for a time and see how that goes.

You look pretty cute, desu. Your bf sounds like he has a problem.

Porn isn't the root cause of the problem. The reason he can't get a boner isn't because he finds you unattractive, it's because he finds himself unattractive. He's basically using your body as a giant fleshlight to masturbate with, the porn is to distract himself from the bedroom

thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/02/hes_just_not_that_into_anyone.html

Even if he's lying about how pretty he finds you, it shows he cares

I don’t think he would give up porn for a week that would be very difficult

That’s honestly how it feel to have sex with him like I’m getting used thanks for the link

>I’ve talked to him but he makes it pretty awkward
he's ashamed of admitting his issue, probably

For future endeavors, open the pic in paint, draw a rectangle and fill it with black color, ez.

He might have a porn addiction, that seems like a more real problem. It affects guys mostly, but if you jerk to porn too much you lose interest in things around you in general. It can also affect the standards of anyone watching porn, you start to think that is how sex works. It ain't. Talk to him honestly about this and don't let him avoid the subject.

His dopamine receptors are fucked. The only way out is by quitting porn, good luck telling him that.

Dont post pics. If you are confident in yourself then thats good. Try having a straightforward concersation about this voicing facts in a way where he doesnt feel attacked. If he doesnt change then cut your losses. Your bf is a douche.

You’re naturally pretty and with makeup/a haircut you could be an Instagram thot.

Your BF is either a porn addict, has an embarrassing fetish or he’s a repressed gay/bi.

You can do much much better sweetie.
Get someone who cherishes u.

Let me tell u a story about sex.

I remember when I couldn’t have sex with my BF for 2 weeks prior. When we were intimate he was all over me and it was very intense, like usually we rush through foreplay but this time he was more holding me and hugging in this intense kinda way.

I never really speak during sex, I only make noises. But With his dick inside me and the way he was holding me I felt overwhelmed. I paused and said ‘it’s like we were ment to be together’. He had slight tears in his eyes and he shot the biggest load.

We are Young, but I think this is budding love and I think that time we didn’t have sex, we made love.

Find someone to make love to you.

I am a guy and every time but once I quit porn when I was in a relationship and never had issues. If the dude has trouble respecting his gfs need to feel like the one, he is disrespecting her.

What was wrong the one time you didn’t quit?

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without actually seeing what you look like, he probably just needs to lay off the porn. If he's jerking it to porn every day he's going to have trouble getting off without it. If he can't nut in your ass then he's jerking it waaaaay too much

doesnt sound like he's worth it for you. just dump him, he's clearly not interested in actually dealing with the issue.

Timestamp or fuck off

It sounds like you need to talk to him about this issue. I recommend just coming forth and saying hay why do you all ways watch porn when were having relations? allow him to answer, don't get angry, don't press the issue to far where it leads to a major blow out fight... simply ask if he dose not wanna talk about it, then allow him time to think it over... meaning sex comes to a stop till he's ready to be a adult and discus the issue at hand.. you will be amazed how many couples don't talk about what they like in the bedroom and out of sex till many years later out of far the other will not understand... talking and being 100% open is key... of he dose not wish to ever open up then its on you to decide if you wanna stay with him or not... hope this helps you out some and best wishes...

He obviously has a problem and you should confront him/ leave.

ur fucking ur son and it looks like banging Frau Merkel to him even though you probably look slim

This. My bf prefers porn to sex, even though I have a slim, 5'0" pear shape body, and a face that makes people think I'm underaged. It sucks, especially because I used to have a crazy high sex drive and wanted to fuck multiple times daily, but after being refused so many times because he'd rather fap to 2D girls getting rekt by horse cocks(not even joking), my own sex drive has gone down.
I've talked to him about him in the past, and got him to quit watching porn for 2 weeks before, but the thing is he didn't fap at all during those 2 weeks. It's like he can't fap without porn. Those 2 weeks also did nothing for his sex drive.
He'd never admit he has a porn addiction, though. He always just says he has a low sex drive, but is it really low sex drive if he's cumming daily to porn?
I've chosen to just live life sexually frustrated since I love him, but sometimes I'm so tempted to break up and become a thot. I feel like my cute body is being wasted.
Goodluck, OP.

Just get it through to him that his porn addiction is getting in the way and that you'll stop having sex all together if he doesn't quit. If this isn't enough to convince him then yes, you're unattractive to him, get a new boyfriend.