so, the other day, my mom and i found pornographic materials on her phone. y’know, melon-melons, that kind of stuff.
we dug deeper and found 2 yaoi games and she’s also in some aminoapps + discord furry groups.
should we confront her about this? i know it’s a part of growing up, but we’re pretty concerned. thanks.
This is pretty strange, what the heck were you and your mom doing ?
Also, why the heck you AND your mom? This sounds like incest lol
Just let her be, theres people obsessed with fanfiction too.
Also, get her a psychologist cause shes a teenager.
that's really harsh, I'd say you and your mother confront your sister. If she doesn't see that it's fucking weird she'll either realize it's so as she grows older or she doesn't. If she doesnt then at least you tried confronting her about that problem
Just leave her alone. Don't let her know you invaded her privacy in a major way and don't try to change her. She needs to have her own space to explore her sexuality, and what you described sounds pretty innocent in that regard. Maybe subtly brush up on internet safety policies (don't talk to older guys, don't send nudes, etc.), but that's as far as you should go. She would be DEVASTATED if she knew you knew and also didn't approve.
>yaoi
Thats completely normal. Practically every single woman gets aroused by seeing two cute bois molesting each other. Its just a porn. Try out watching lesbian porn yourself. You will see its almost always better than typical hetero porn.
>discord furry groups
Sexting is harmless and she may meet her future boifriend there. Again some people use snapchat, some ise discord but the ides is the same: its always more fun to interact with others, fursuit or not.
>pretty concerned
No reason really. Maybe tell her before she will go on date with somebody that she should tell you or mom about with whom.
What most of the.people in this thread have said, let her be.
What about weird porn and shit you and your mom look at? No one is going through your shit.
Yaoi is typical for young girls especially straight ones. Furry shitnia weird but it's most likely a phase and means she is part of a community although discord is pretty fucking bad place desu.
Wither way if you're on Jow Forums you're probably into way worse shit fetish wise.
Let her come into her sexuality like said. I've had siblings an we've all done stuff like this growing up.
The pornographic materials aren't too big of a deal, but discord. Yikes. She's at a vulnerable age and should not be in any kind of chatroom, much less a fucking fetish one
>discord furry groups
theyre not "hrmless". discord is a fucked up place. being furry is fine being in a furry discord isnt
The only thing wrong with this situation is snooping on someone else's phone
>text and pictures on screen can harm you
You remind me of trump and tv media blaming mass shootings on videogames.
Think the only thing you need to watch for is if someone is grooming your sister in discord, lots of older men especially in furry discords will have smutty rp with minors.
Only one amid thousands of stories that prove that having a daughter is perhaps the most clucked thing that you can do
yeah, sorry, i should’ve elaborated! this is my main concern. i already know she talks to adult guys (she skypes them on speaker).
yeah, snooping on her phone isn’t right, but my mom had decided to when she noticed big ol’ tits on the phone. she called me over because my dad is very homophobic and not really present in her life.
i don’t know if this matters either, but my sister has mild aspergers, so i don’t want to overwhelm her with any harsh confrontation, but i also don’t want her to be preyed on.
Fuck off. Porn is definitely not normal and not the way to explore sexuality. Also there's nothing harmless about "sexting" on d*scord, watch her send nudes to some mentally ill trannies and get her life ruined because of it.
Surely this must be bait. Any decent parent would confiscate all electronics the first time they saw them doing that.
i also think that her electronics should be confiscated, but she’s a freshman in highschool and that particular school makes chromebooks mandatory. at the moment, we’re still deliberating how to confront her about this.
The solution is simple.. public computer use. If she needs to use it, she uses it under supervision of an adult. If nobody is there, she finds another way.
Have sex with her and disappoint her to kill her sex drive
What's wrong with yaoi and yuri when you're 14? I'm a girl who was into that when I was 14 and I turned out fine.
so we ended up talking to her and i think everything went ok. we gave her a ‘stranger danger’ talk, stressing how fucking weird the discord furries can be. turns out a friend pressed her to join that group.
either way, i think things will be ok. thank you, anons! have a nice rest of your day/night
nothing really— it just wasn’t the softcore stuff she was being exposed to. i’m referring to the slut pride kind of shit
>media viewed at a young age has no effect on how a person will behave when they grew up
Why the fuck would there be kid shows then. Don't get me wrong playing COD as a 12 year won't won't make you a mass shooter but the online community would turn that kid into a disrespectful little shit
Oh, ew.
Why were you going through your sisters' phone with your mom? You shouldn't confront her for the sole reason of not exposing yourself as an invasive control freak who doesn't have basic interperson etiquette like principled boundary recognition.
Very shameful OP
prolly tryna find her nudes lmao know what im sayin?
>being a furry is fine
have you seen the shit they do at conventions?
>we’re concerned
Fuck yourself op. Stop invading her privacy, stop judging and stop contemplating coming out to her as somebody you cannot trust because I promise you, you will fuck her up mentally 500x more than you think she is. Fucking faggot. I hope when she turns 16 she gets to work and buys herself her own phone right away
>NOOOOO STOP TAKING AWAY MY UNDERAGE ERP PARTNERS
fuck off discord tranny.
I remember back when I was 13 and had a mommy 23 year old ERP partner. We were friends on skype and stuff. Eventually she got bored but ever since I had a thing for older women.
I miss her.
Only issue is the discord shit desu, children shouldn't be on that cancer.
Yeah, the furry discord is a problem. Not because of it being furry but the she's very vulnerable a lot of things at that age and people withing those chats are not the most mentally stable. You've already invaded her privacy and if you mention it, she'll never totally trust in you two again but that's the only option. Don't approach her with a blaming stance or like you're disgusted with her, she'll just feel even more disgusted with herself. Try to calmly explain how that chat could influence her and what could happen if she takes on such life-views.
Why would you be involved in this at all? That’s the weird part.
The hentai is fine but it’s dangerous for her to be in a discord talking about sex. I would talk to her about the dangers of talking to strangers online but I wouldn’t mention her hentai preferences, that’s mostly harmless.
>The hentai is fine
No it's not, porn is degenerate and bad for your mind
You don't, what the fuck, OP. Leave your sister alone to jill off to NaruSasuke in peace.
Discord is pretty shit though, if you're in the wrong one, and can be toxic for adults, let alone children, so good on you for dissuading her from that.
Prove it
>>text and pictures on screen can harm you
They can definitely make you say and believe certain things you wouldn't otherwise. Do you think all those people who joined suicide cults weren't convinced primarily by words? Why would words told to you by a friend in person affect you but words told to you by a friend online not?
Especially now that so much of our lives is online.
Fuck off prude. Everyone needs to unwind
Then do sports or something, degenerate.
Ah, another thread on how to be a shitty parent and make your child hate you
Just keep doing what you're doing, user, your sister will enjoy seeing your mom rot in some shitty retirement home
Leave her alone. She is exploring her sexuality through safe means (fantasy) do not be a creep and police her.
Yeah his parents should let their underage daughter watch porn and ERP with pedos on discord
>M-MUH PORN BOOGEYMAN :(((
Have sex, virgin
>he thinks watching other men fuck women is normal
Keep defending porn, cuck.
Literally everyone watches porn, the only people who advocate stupid shit like nofap and noporn are virgins who think that they will magically get some testosterone boost and get laid, which we all know isn't going to happen
Stay mad virgin boy
In that case
Shes underage and skypying sexually
Get her a psychologist and talk to her why thats bad
Besides that we have no actual advice since your situation is so advanced
Aspergers+ underage+ sex+ etc
>messing into your 14 year old sister's sex interests together with your mom
What a retard family.