Anons who are in relationships, could you please answer the following questions?

Anons who are in relationships, could you please answer the following questions?

>What gender are you?
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
>Who first asked the other on a date?
>Who first went in for a kiss?

This is for research. Thanks.

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>What gender are you?
female
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
him
>Who first asked the other on a date?
him
>Who first went in for a kiss?
him

I reciprocated everything, he just expressed himself more, sooner, and better than me entirely at the time

Wrong.
You whored yourself out to him. He nervously reciprocated because he was afraid of you. You forced yourself on him when he didn't want you. You're a slut, a harlot, and a succubus, just like the rest of you broads.

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Me (Had a crush on her in HS, got friend-zoned, but reconnected many years later)
>Who first asked the other on a date?
Neither, we just kind of hooked up one night after seeing each other for the first time in a long time
>Who first went in for a kiss?
Me

Okay. Did you not show any interest in him at all until he did?

Stop.

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Pretty much both at the same time
>Who first asked the other on a date?
Both at the same time
>Who first went in for a kiss?
Both at the same time

>Neither, we just kind of hooked up one night after seeing each other for the first time in a long time
How does that happen though? I've never in my life ever been in a situation where a hook up "just happens"

How though? I don't understand how things like this happen. I go about my life and I never get relationships just "naturally developing" like that in the way you describe...

We hadn't seen each other in almost 4 years, then saw each other at a Halloween party at a bar with our mutual friends. We got hammered and ended up going back to a friends place. I eventually made a move and started making out with her, so when things got hot and heavy, I suggested we go back to my place. We did, and we banged.

It was incredible for both of us, the chemistry was insane, and the next morning we were both smitten with each other. Never looked back. It's been 10 months.

>What gender are you?
Female
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
We both hinted for a while be he did first.
>Who first asked the other on a date?
I asked him.
>Who first went in for a kiss?
He did.

We use to work together, but I had to leave that job and we ran into each other a year later or so and just hit it off.

Fuck off cia nigger

Based and heterosexual pilled

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Me
>Who first asked the other on a date?
Me
>Who first went in for a kiss?
Her

She practically raped you. You should sue.

>Male
>She did
>I did after she dropped more than a few hints
>I don't remember exactly but I think it was me.

Male
Me
Me
Me

>What gender are you?
Female

>Who first expressed romantic interest?
It was an office-wide running joke that I was in love with my coworker. We were good friends, and hung out sometimes. We went out drinking and I said “wanna know something funny?” and professed my love in a slew of word-vomit.

>Who first asked the other on a date?
Technically he DID ask me for drinks, but he left it purposefully vague and friend-zoney since he didn’t know if I liked him (he’s an idiot).

>Who first went in for a kiss?
It was mutual after my undying love was revealed.

>>What gender are you?
Male
>>Who first expressed romantic interest?
My gf. She outright confessed her undying love for me while mildly drunk.
>>Who first asked the other on a date?
I did, after she sobered up the next day.
>>Who first went in for a kiss?
Me. She had 0 experince with relationships and was really taking her time. I needed to push things forward a bit.

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Probably me, not sure
>Who first asked the other on a date?
She made me to do it, so basically she
>Who first went in for a kiss?
She

>We got hammered and ended up going back to a friends place.
But how? How does that happen? I get drunk with girls all the time, and we have conversations, but we never end up alone in one-on-one scenarios where intimate things happen. Girls just never suggest that.

Why did you ask him on a date? What made you do that?

Did your GFs show you any signs of romantic interest at all before you made a move, or did you just go in blind?

Why were you in love with him? Do you have any idea why it is that no grl has ever been in love with me? I've never even been a girl's crush

Why did she confess love for you? How does that even happen? And why?

Bump.

>male
>girlfriend
>girlfriend
>girlfriend

I was a dense lad that didn’t understand love

Female
Me
Me, I suggested a place
Him

Female

We got drunk on a business trip and he missed me first, then chickened out. But the though was already seeded in my brain and I developed a huge crush. We'd bounce around kissing awkwardly on parties and then stressing out in the daylight fro 3 months (we both thought the other one isn't serious about it due to the party nature of what happened). 1 year and 2 months together. Just moved in with him and its a fairytale.

How did you find a girl who was willing to initiate?

What made you make the first move?

But how does that happen? Why do things like this never happen to me? No girl has ever even expressed interest in me

I don't know, I don't know you :(
For the record, I don't even find him that good looking, but he has the best personality I've ever seen and is an angel to me.

I was on Tinder.

His profile dangled the promise of cute kitten pictures on request. I have such a weakness for cats, I adore them. His overall attitude was chill, upbeat, friendly, and self-aware.

He was also one of the few dudes in my area that weren’t shirtless, holding a dead animal, or showing off their raised truck.

I’m used to making the first move, but I’ve never made it past the second date with a guy before. Somehow, I’ve made it 8 months with him.

>What gender are you?
male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
me
>Who first asked the other on a date?
her
>Who first went in for a kiss?
her

>>What gender are you?
Male
>>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Tinder and me
>>Who first asked the other on a date?
Tinder and me
>>Who first went in for a kiss?
Tinder and me

In highschool my first gf initiated first and went for the kiss first and all that. I think from solely that she lost attraction. If you're a man you're expected to make the first move. A woman might but if she does she will 'wear the pants' and maybe lord that over at you times.

extremely insightful you retarded hole

I’m .

>Why were you in love with him?
That’s hard to explain. He was so nerdy cute, without any bitterness, and his disdain for the corporate bullshit at work- oof, it SENT me. His whole demeanor was just... kinda uncomfortable but cute about it... idk how everyone wasn’t in love with him lol. I’m a bad person to ask, because I’m just smitten. I’ve know him for 5 years and we’ve been together 2, and I’ve never been happier.

>Do you have any idea why it is that no grl has ever been in love with me? I've never even been a girl's crush
Well, he had NO idea I had a crush on him, despite the whole office being aware, and it being a running joke. So maybe you’ve had no idea and just didn’t get the break we had? I’m tall, skinny, pretty cute, and make much more money than him- he’s short and fat and still... ugh, he’s SO fuckin cute. I’m 28, he’s 30, and I’m his first REAL real girlfriend. I don’t want to give false hope, I REALLY don’t (maybe we’re an odd couple). It’s fuckin awful out there; but.... I just kept holding on and giving chances to whoever seemed like a good guy, and he did the same. Eventually we found each other.

Honestly, we were both coming out of bad relationships and when we ran into each other and caught up it turned out he had a job opportunity a few states away and was getting ready to move. We hung out for a few weeks before he left and even though we were still in rough places, I felt like if I didn't try I'd regret it for the rest of my life. Took a chance on a friend and I'm so glad I did.

Male
Me
Me
Me

>What gender are you? F
>Who first expressed romantic interest? Depends on the relationship. Mostly me.

I had a friend who asked her bf why he didn't go for me...he said well, I thought she would turn me down (he's an idiot). My friend hated me after...like it was my fault. Bottom line...go for the girl you want.
>Who first asked the other on a date? Depended on the person.
>Who first went in for a kiss?
Guys only. I won't do that.

I'm F, he did everything.

>What gender are you?
female
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
probably both of us at the same time
>Who first asked the other on a date?
me bruh
>Who first went in for a kiss?
me

A girl has never asked me out. :/

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
She did
>Who first asked the other on a date?
Me
>Who first went in for a kiss?
Me because I’m not a pussy

>What gender are you?
Female
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
He did
>Who first asked the other on a date?
Neither, it was a weird situation. Our parents were dating and living together so it just kinda happened.
>Who first went in for a kiss?
I did. We've been together ever since (13 years).

I'm sorry to hear that, user. If you're a typically reserved person, then opening up little by little and slowly taking off that mask will make the girl trust you more and possibly like you back! I started liking my boyfriend after he told me he had a foot fetish (im the only person who knows, hes ashamed of it) and called my feet cute.

Don't worry, I already have a plan for the future if you know what I mean. ;)

>What gender are you?
Male
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
She did
>Who first asked the other on a date?
She did
>Who first went in for a kiss?
She did

She was going through a rough break up so I let her do the work.

OP here. Reading this just makes me depressed. I am 100% certain that no girl I've ever met has ever felt that way about me. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I'm a normal guy, I have an active social life, I meet plenty of women, and girls sometimes tell me I'm attractive. But they never view me as a potential partner, only as a friend...

So why do girls never take a chance on me then? What is it that I'm doing wrong?

I can't go for the girls I want though, because no girls ever show any signs of interest in me.

>probably both of us at the same time
How? This has never happened to me. Girls I'm interested in never show even the slightest bit of interest in me, so i don't even bother trying.

What do you mean by "reserved"? Like I said I meet plenty of women, and I have friends who are girls. It hasn't helped on the romance front. Girls just simply do not show any signs of romantic interest in me, not ever.

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>>What gender are you?
Male
>>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Girls always have
>>Who first asked the other on a date?
Girls always do
>>Who first went in for a kiss?
Girls always make the first physical contact

But because girls always make the first move, rarely have I been with a girl I kinda like because she waited too long.

Heres one example. College bar hangout and several group of girls and spot W and she comes over and we chat and shit and next time she does the same and floats off so C a hot big tiddied girl thats been in my face everytime I walk in grabs my hand and pulls me out the bar, we fuck for a couple months and unfortunately W backs off. FF and C is expelled for academic reasons and I see W, she comes over and said she is transferring but she wanted me to know she wanted me so bad but I started fucking C and she hated C. Goddamn

How does this happen though? Why do you have so many girls expressing interest in you? I just... don't get it...

I don't know its just always been like that. I've got a quick wit and that helps when the girls come up so they are entertained.

You might be short, unmasculine, or unattractive. It's okay to be ugly just give up and save yourself the pain.

>What gender are you?
F
>Who first expressed romantic interest?
Both
>Who first asked the other on a date?
We discussed it while on our first date
>Who first went in for a kiss?
him

>What gender are you?

female

>Who first expressed romantic interest?

he did, a couple weeks after we met.

>Who first asked the other on a date?

again he did, I rejected him the first time because I was scared of certain circumstances. then agreed when he asked again a couple months later.

>Who first went in for a kiss?

we both did at the same time.

Always? Even in school?

>short
Nope. 6 foot actually

>unmasculine
You might be correct on this one actually

>unattractive
No I don't think so. I'm no less attractive than some of my friends who have cute girlfriends. And I've been told by several girls that I'm attractive. They weren't really flirting they just said it matter of factly, for unknown reasons. One time a girl I barely knew spent 20 minutes while drunk at a party telling me how she thought I was really hot. That was a bit full on and creepy desu.

Male
Her
Her
Both

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