they'll say they love you and care about you but then later they'll dump you for someone else who's hotter and buffer than you. then there's some girls who'll hang out with autistic or disabled people only out of pity, they never really stay with them because 1. they can find better guys and 2. they're only doing just to make someone temporarily happy before it wears off.
why is true love nothing but a goddamn lie?
To survive.
Girls are complicated user. You need to go to the gym and make progress with your personality. And do not cling on a single woman.
Why do you use the advice board to wine about women when exists?
That's pretty much what Jow Forums is though:
>ordinary guys whining about girls
>ordinary girls whining about guys
>all the while in other threads incels debate whiteknights and toxic females
as women do nothing to improve themselves?
They do it to secure Chad's seed by any means necessary. Then when a better Chad comes along your genes aren't needed anymore.
They do not pretend. Female love is different from male love and also requires constant interaction and flow of information to validate the relationship status.
The thoughts and feelings are fleeting - but she commits to them. She was not lying when she said she loved you, but that reality may be short lived and now she no longer does.
>Female love is different from male love and also requires constant interaction
What if she only interacts with you because she wants materialistic trendy bullshit?
“True love” has nothing to do with what you think it is and everything to do with maximizing the survival of offspring
Tl;dr: Hypergamy
>they'll say they love you and care about you but then later they'll dump you for someone else who's hotter and buffer than you.
This is called monkey-branching. Once again, the drive for the offspring to have advantages (good genes, and resources like money available).
This guy gets it
First off, if you're below the age of 30 then you should always treat claims of love with great suspicion. Hormones make every feeling super intense and people get confused easily.
As for intentional lies, we're just human beings. Our cousins are chimps. All of us are imperfect and most of us are deeply flawed at that. Be the change you want to see in the world and do your best by others. The rest is up to them. Don't get your hopes up.
Basically this. You're the best of her options until you're not.
more importantly, why do you believe them?
Women are bullshit
It’s not a lie, true love exists but it’s rare because most of you are morons.
Most of us are more than just simple organisms moron.
Have you ever jerked off to a vid and then found a better one and jerked off to that? There’s always someone/something better than you at something and it’s not your fault. Usually. Be the best you can be and find someone who can appreciate that. Do you really want your gf to settle for you if it turns out she’s way more interested in the guy who can lift a car or suck his own dick?
I find the implication that gene have no influence on our development kind o preposterous desu
She craves status, and for you to have status and pursuing trends is one of the way to maintain it.
Find a woman with higher IQ or a different personality.
Yup.