I'm a 21yo man and this 16yo girl start texting me on Whatsapp because she got my number through my cousin, they are neighbours.
I was uncomfortable with the age gap, because she is basically a teenager, but she had this low-trust face, or "slutty" face in her which make her look way older but still sexy.
One of my friends who knows her told me "dude, she is a slut..." and i hear she had a bad reputation, i was insecure since the beginning of the relationship.
So we were texting and she told me how "good-looking and beautiful" and all the others things that i wanted to hear, everything she say on text was childish, i haven't talk to her in person in my life, so i visit her at her house. Her mother was 100% Ok with me which was weird, and they didn't want her father to know about me, so we talk for a little bit and i leave.
The next day i visit her at her house and we spent like a hour toungue kissing, i feel like things were moving too fast but i didn't care, she told me se is virgin and i told her i am virgin too and it was a turn-off for her i don't know if it was because she believe me or because she think i was lying and breaking the trust (I am a virgin).
So we date for some time and...i found a lot bad things about her past through other people (the past of a 16 years old wtf).
-Her father doesn't own a car (they are broke) and a guy who is 32yo who is friend of her and live close to her house pick her up at school.
-She also had a friend who is 34yo who have a wife and kids who also lives very close to her, used to go out with her (i don't know where, i just know the fact that he pick her up).
-She used to text a guy who is 30yo with a wife and kids, when she was 14-15yo
-She had her arms harm through a guy who go to her house and begging to fight with her (probably a ex-boyfriend, cheating)
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