How many guys fap to the same picture of the same woman everyday for years? If someone did that I’d expect you to be some sort of deranged lunatic.
With that being said, why does society expect a man to marry abc have sex with the same woman for the rest of his life? That’s like fapping to a picture of one girl for forever when there are billions of other pictures of women on the internet. I don’t there there is a man on Earth that has loyally fapped to one image.
So am I really in the wrong fir cheating on my wife? I still love her all the same I just wanted to try a different image so to speak.
Brah, there's a difference between being in love and the convenience of being in love. If you love someone just because being in a relationship makes you feel like you've got stability, your life is gonna get worse sooner or later.
When you really love someone it doesn't matter if there was somebody else more attractive. Cheating means that your true feeling of love has disappeared, leave your woman and try to find someone else. It's for the best to end it in a good way.
Is there a difference? Realistically all love is convenient. By your long all relationships are temporary, I doubt someone can feel completely the same about someone for decades. Even the initial feeling of love is completely convenient, it’s a way you don’t feel about anyone else but eventually it subsides too and you’re left with the just the feeling of familiarity of a person in your life.
It's the same as saying: ''why should women be expected to stay monogamous''? Their instinct urges them to continue trading up to a higher value male. If you're married to a woman, the second she can get her hands on a better guy than you, she should be allowed to jump ship without getting any backlash.
So why do we put these social norms on people? To stabilize society. If all men and women start mindlessly hopping around from partner to partner just following their natural instinct, our society would go to shit. Monogamy is one of the primary means to keep society stable and in check. It's also best for children to grow up in a household with legally wed parents who are loyal towards one another.
Also just saying, this whole men and women mindlessly hopping from partner to partner is something that's already happening to some degree. We've seen the disastrous effects if we look at shit like children growing up with single moms and women cock carouseling from guy to guy.
user, you are perfectly un your right to pursue a polygamous relationship and there's nothing wrong with that. Your partner, however, also has the right to know this is what you want, and then decide based on that information. Fuck whomever you want, but be honest to all the people involved.
Why's it matter to you? Can you even get ONE (1) girlfriend, much less multiple?
>How many guys fap to the same picture of the same woman everyday for years? None that I know of. >With that being said, why does society expect a man to marry abc have sex with the same woman for the rest of his life? >society People with traditional values expect you to do that, they're but a part of society and their expectations are merely opinions and in no way do you have to live up to them. >That’s like fapping to a picture of one girl for forever when there are billions of other pictures of women on the internet. One is a living being, the other is a 2D object with no changing properties about out or any depth. These aren't comparable things. >I don’t there there is a man on Earth that has loyally fapped to one image. I don't understand this one image bullshit. A lot of men have favorites when it comes to pornstars and some might even just use one pornstar as material because they like her and don't need any other pornstars.
>So am I really in the wrong fir cheating on my wife? Always. >I still love her all the same I just wanted to try a different image so to speak. That doesn't excuse you breaking her trust. If you want to fuck other women, let's say it as it is and stop with this image analogy, then ask her for permission or break the relationship off.
Imagine asking your wife for an open relationship/threesome instead of going behind her back. Imagine talking to your partner about things.
>Realistically all love is convenient No, it's not. That's narcissistic behavior. Watch our for people like that, or go see a therapist to sort it out if you are the narc.
>I doubt someone can feel completely the same about someone for decades.
It's only possible if you believe in it. Like religion, it takes a lot of faith. The difference being that having faith for love will get you something useful.
If no matter how many times you try, you end up craving with relationships with other people, consider finding a partner that is okay with having that kind of relationship
But women are not expected to be monogamous anymore.
>anymore Has something changed? When?
One of the effects of the hormone oxytocin is to subconsciously promote monogamy in men. It causes them to perceive their partner as more attractive, other women as less attractive, and the men subconsciously space themselves further from other women.
Ironically women don't experience that effect from it.
I know. That's what i meant in my last line of the post.
And we've seen the result. Single motherhood has skyrocketed the last few decades and you can do a simple google search on how children raised by single moms compare to children raised by wed parents. The difference is shocking.
What a stupid analogy. Porn has ruined your brain. People stay loyal because they value other aspects of the relationship MORE than they crave sexual novelty, they make the marriage a higher priority. There are ways you can keep sex interesting & fun in the long-term if you're both into it.
>Why are men expected to be monogamous? No. If women find you attractive (physically, successful, confident etc.), men aren't expected to be monogamous. Most women don't care as long as their resources don't disappear.
>With that being said, why does society expect a man to marry abc have sex with the same woman for the rest of his life? Cause you've been conned by women, the state, betas, and the people who profit from such a system. Legal and ceremonial marriage is a big shit test.
>So am I really in the wrong fir cheating on my wife? I still love her all the same I just wanted to try a different image so to speak. Cheating is wrong, cause you exposed yourself to a bunch of problems like STDs, creating a bastard child, and having your wife divorce rape you.
>People stay loyal because they value other aspects of the relationship MORE than they crave sexual novelty, they make the marriage a higher priority LMAO Imagine still believing this.
Some people do it, m8.
>ask her for permission
Imagine having to ask a woman for permission to do anything as a man. You ask your wife if it’s okay to stand up when you piss too don’t you?
Alright, just don't expect her to be happy when she finds out or that you'll be happy when she finds someone to cheat on you with just like you did, dum dum. Why even be in a relationship if you're just going to break your partners trust every step of the way? That's unhealthy.
Who cares, I’ll just find another girl. There are like literally a billion bitches on the planet, if I’m cheating I’m probably just bored of her anyway. This is why I’ll never propose to a woman, I know I get sick of them too easily.
>How many guys fap to the same picture of the same woman everyday for years? I do, but it's different photos of the same girl.
How do complete degenerate faggots like you even get married
He was being himself.
This is b8 move along
He’s probably an 18 year old edgelord
As a guy married for 7 years now, the idea of having sex with other women is more exciting than any toy or kink that I could do with my wife. You can spice up things in the bedroom, but it's still sex with the same woman, and that's fine for a while, but I think eventually every guy out there wishes he could bang someone else.
Because he’s a degenerate.
We have been saying for years, women love degenerate cheating assholes more than respectful nice guys, but for some reason you guys still refuse to believe it.
Imo most guys "put a ring on it" because they don't have many other options or it would take significant effort to get questionable results. You're perfectly within your rights to just stay single and live as a rich playboy. Your family might think it's weird but in the end it's your life and decision to make. Frankly, marriage has very little upside for men these days. A lot of risk with negligible benefit.
>one woman marries a degenerate >ALL women must love degenerates
I bet you’d think the sky was falling if an acorn dropped on your head.
However you got to rationalize it kid. Keep believing that being the perfect gentleman will get that hot girl in chemistry class to notice you, while she’s getting railed by the entire college football team.
You’re giving the wrong speech for my demographic, my dude.
Whatever, if you aren’t dating college chicks then sure maybe.
I would never date a woman over 25 so yeah all young women like asshole degenerates. Older women like beta nice guys because they are more likely to give up those resources and marry her, but they still cheat with degenerates on the low.