My Gf doesn’t ever want to give me blowjobs...

My Gf doesn’t ever want to give me blowjobs, but always wants be to give her back massages and lick her breasts for foreplay. Should I stop doing these things? I’m not gonna force her to blow me, but shit, I can’t help but feel she’s being kind of selfish. Especially when I go out of my way to pleasure her sexually

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offer to 69. if she refuses, talk to her about this

She’ll only 69 on very rare occasions. We’ve talked about it and her response is always “I don’t know I just don’t like it”

Bruh you can’t seriously compare back massages and tit licking to a goddamn blow job...
The way you started, I expected you to say that you give her oral all the time but she doesn’t return the favour. And it’s a bit weird you consider licking breasts as something you do for her, and not as something you enjoy a lot to do for your own pleasure?

Are you dating my ex? She would suck my dick for 5 seconds and barely go down. She'd ask me for massages all the time and I'd go down on her for a long time.

The BJ issue is one of the reasons I broke up with her. She said BJs were gross.

I mentioned it to another girl recently and she said my ex didn't really love me. I think she's right, I don't think my ex was sexually attracted to me. She just liked that I had a decent job and didn't do drugs.

Wash that cock, pumpkin spice soap son, thank me later

Yeah it sucks but it’s the truth.

OP, when a woman is genuinely attracted to you, she will do pretty much anything to please you. Her not ducking your dick is just her covert way of saying you don’t make her wet when she sees you.

Either step your game up or just leave her. You shouldn’t have to negotiate for sexual favors

Some people just don't want dicks in their mouth. My wife read "the proper care and feeding of husbands" and I started getting beej all the time. I don't think it mentions specific but just how you can keep men happy.

That feel when mine likes doing this but I don’t think she likes receiving which is a pity because it turns me on

Withholding giving head when you don't get head is fine. Withholding other forms of affection comes off as punishment, which is manipulative. Just get a better boyfriend if it bothers you that bad.

Somewhat same situation. My girl wanted massages all the time but they really strain me, then she would let me "fuck her" while she laid there and I did all the work. In the end I said fuck it I don't like massages and stopped. Took some time but now she blows me for every minute of massage I give.

This is me.
Except I rarely get sex because shes just not as horny as I am.

I feel like I'm doing something wrong in the relationship, which after reading this I guess I am.

I just want her to care as much as I do. She fucking loves me to death, but we very rarely see each other and when we do we don't have sex. About to stop caring at this point and deny any and every advance in the future as rare as they come.

Licking titties and sucking on a dick are 2 different things. Like WAAAAY different.

If i was forced to either suck a mans dick or a mans nipples, i would rather suck his nipples.

We pee from our dicks. Girls dont pee from their nipples.

But you should still tell her to put in as much effort as you are putting into the foreplay. Doesnt have to be blowjobs but she should please you too during foreplay

The trick is, you gotta be quick with the blowjobs. Just tell her to suck for a few seconds and then sex. That way you get blowjobs every time before sex. When you bask her to blow you for 10 mins, she sees it as a chore versus forepkay

I dont want to have sex though. I just want a blowjob. I dont even care about cumming in or outside of her mouth. I just prefer blowjobs over sex

My ex gf once asked if I wanted a blowie and I said no. Mfw still a virgin.

are you two serious?

BJ = LOVE

This proves neither of you have a clue what love is and obviously never have been in love. For you, as most men so you have company, sex is the only thing you care about and you don't care about who you get it from.

Then go pay a whore to do it

My gf is basically a free whore though so why would i go pay a random whore to do it?

>My gf is basically a free whore
So you told her this and she's ok with it.

Hey man, dont judge her. Shes into some kinky shit. I just go along with it, but apparently shes not willing to put the same effort into my kinks

I'm not judging her, I'm judging you

Why are you judging me?! I just want a blowjob! Shes the one who has a dirty talk and humilation fetish and likes to be called a whore and even nasty ass slampig! Do you know how hard it is for me to call her that during sex? I can only say it once before my dick wants to retract itself into my body.

>Men are sexual beings
Stop the fucking presses.

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Any guy who doesn't get more sheer joy from making his woman come than from his own orgasms is missing out a lot

People like/dislike what they like/dislike. If this is a problem, you guys are incompatible. Try to find a gf that you actually like.

Sex is all they want, they are incapable of love only possession.

>tfw no qt gf
Why do you complain ? Loneliness is hell.
Women cant give proper blowjob anyway. They just put it in their mouth

yeah mate

just watching her feel so good makes me really happy and fuzzy

a lot of times i didnt orgasm but she did at least 3 times

>Implying love isn't inherently a form of possession
There's no "everyone" in "I love you."

there are actually girls on Jow Forums holy shit

OP here, she also claims that she doesn’t want to go “all out” with sexual acts until we’re married because she feels some type of guilt about pre marital sex in general, which sounds fair. Is she bullshitting? I feel like sexual acts before a marriage are an indicator of what’s to come after a marriage.

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>tfw user realizes she in fact wanted him to force her.

Tell her only vaginal sex counts for that. So you can be doing anal and oral without breaking any rules. Literally tell her "anal, it's nothing babe, nothing"

i kinda see where she's coming from. you should just have a serious conversation with her but without saying "you better start blowing me after we get married".... your real issue is that you think she is a selfish lover.
Also, who doesnt want to lick some boobies.

She knows if she goes all out you will never marry her. You probably won't anyway and blame it on not going all out.

It’s not that I mind waiting til marriage, its that I don’t know if things will change. She makes it seem like she’ll be way more open to doing all sorts of sexual things after marriage, but what if it’s a ruse to avoid being dumped? Although I love everything else about her, Sexual incompatibility is kind of a dealbreaker for me.

I do think she’s being quite selfish, and I also feel weird because I really enjoy pleasuring her, but I feel like she doesn’t enjoy pleasuring me the same way. That imbalance is really fucking with me.
I absolutely plan on marrying her though. I’m just being cautious, as any man should in the current year.

“It's layin' your hands in a familiar way on Marsellus' new wife. I mean, is it as bad as eatin' her pussy out? No, but it's the same fuckin' ballpark.”
>”Whoa, whoa, whoa. Stop right there. Eating a bitch out and giving a bitch a foot massage ain't even the same fucking thing.”
“It's not. It's the same ballpark.”
>”Ain't no fucking ballpark neither. Now, look, maybe your method of massage differs from mine, but, you know, touching his wife's feet and sticking your tongue in the holiest of holies ain't the same fucking ballpark. It ain't the same league. It ain't even the same fucking sport. Look, foot massages don't mean shit”

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>OP here, she also claims that she doesn’t want to go “all out” with sexual acts until we’re married because she feels some type of guilt about pre marital sex in general, which sounds fair. Is she bullshitting? I feel like sexual acts before a marriage are an indicator of what’s to come after a marriage.

If she's saying blowjobs are disgusting, then shifting to the whole 'I am saving myself for marriage' then she's probably full of it. If her main concern was 'I am saving myself for marriage' that would be the first and biggest defense. I see red flags with this and her. My guess, she's given blowjobs to other men and didn't like it, or she's given blowjobs to other men and just doesn't want to give you any.

I believe if a girl loves a guy, she won't be able to keep her hands off him.

Not only did my ex not give blowjobs, we barely had sex. She claimed her ex boyfriend complained about not getting blowjobs too.

If you're not interested in sex, good luck ever getting a guy to stick with you.

This.

The real question is, who wants it more? Women generally have the power to say no to actions because you'll settle for just being able to have sex with her even if you have to work for it. If she isn't really worth it emotionally or sexually you can move on, but honestly if you stop massaging her you probably aren't getting laid.

How to get her to want more sex? I don't want to leave my girl, but fuck.
What the shit.

Tell her she doesn't ever have to work and you'll pay for everything.

I don't know about that now.

I want sex, but I also want money. I want money more than I want sex, because money can take me places.

I just want her to want to be around me, talk to me, want to fuck me.

You can't get her to want more sex. You can, if anything, get her to fuck, or allow you to fuck er. But the want part you are not gonna make happen. It's either there, or it not. Don't fool yourself user, this is important.

Stop letter her control you. If she wants a massage, she has to give a massage one first. Start flirting with her friends, and random women. Make sure she knows you have options without explicitly verbally stating it. Workout more as well.

If she brings up the topic of you cheating, tell her she's acting crazy, and you won't tolerate it. Something like, "No, I wouldn't cheat on you, but thanks for giving me the idea."

If she says something like, "This is cause of me not giving you a blow job?!" Say, "Damn straight. So how about you talk less?"

Don't break eye contact or look/sound nervous. If she tries the whole, "I'm saving myself before marriage!" routine counter it with, "Then why are you saying blowjobs first instead of saving yourself before marriage?"

back massages if done well are arguably harder than blowjobs desu

Lol

Breast licking goddamn i could lick nipples all day

My GF deepthroats me. Holy shit its the best thing ever. I showed her some of those Heather Harmon deepthroat videos on pornhub and she saw it as a challenge.