How do I lower my standards user? For real.
How do I lower my standards user? For real
user can you give me sauce on that video?
Don't, hold yourself to high standards instead.
Make yourself a person who deserves what it is you want.
I just know her name is Rileee Marks
Cheers I'll drink to that bro
>lower my standards
How much? To what exactly
I keep chasing 7/10+ pretty white girls
I have zero attraction the the girls that have shown interest in me.
Is not lowering your standards is developing a sexual aura or demeanor.
"Chads" don't fuck only "Stacies", Chad fucks pretty much every girl he lies upon and fucks them without regarding if he likes them or not, he just wants to but and move on, so he fucks the shy girl in math class, the prude Christan girl, the slutty teacher, the qt girl at the grocery store, he certainly doesn't show them off as he would a Stacy, but the Chad has fucked plenty of girls, from 10-5(there's a limit he is not a beast master), and he doesn't care, he just nuts and moves on.
What I'm getting at is don't think in all that gay shit of liking a girl or not, get used to have a sexual vibe all around and it will help you.
>get used to have a sexual vibe all around and it will help you.
elaborate on how to cultivate this sexual vibe around me
It's hard.
Normally when you look at someone unattractive you just sort of switch off and don't feel any interest, start looking for ways to leave the encounter.
Ironically, the more socially capable you are, the easier dismissing unattractive people becomes, to the point it's reflexive.
What you have to do is rationally say, how many people are there of this overall attractiveness, and at what rate do I encounter them.
And if that rate of encounter is low, you say, ok this is pretty good for me.
And usually that realisation is enough to thwart the lack of a snap attraction.
What I mean is be flirty even with women you don't find sexually attractive, then if they are not complete goblins fuck them, and move on, rinse and repeat, is a way of get used to talk to ALL women in that way and being comfortable around them overall.
Tease the "lower" status women Inna playful non sexual (almost dismissive way) way openly around "higher" status women.
Unironically stop watching porn and stop masturbating
Every time you do you are tricking your brain into thinking you are having sex with a hot female so when you see anything less than a 10/10 in real life you will be disgusted
I should know, it happened to me. Don't really care enough to change it but the science seems to suggest this is the key
thanks user!
>stop masturbating
even without porn?
If you talk with a chick your standards will automatically lower. Was this super fat chick today, 2/10 but she was able to turn me on a bit.
stop watching porn
orangutan
>being this much of a fag
Lower your standards to wanting a woman that are absolute loyal, that will love you and are somewhat stable (the absolute minimum)
A small and pathetic hint to help in that:
The more beautiful exponentially increases the possibility of betrayal
If Chad stuck to Stacies we wouldn't be doomed.
I did this once and you are right. Girls I wouldn't really glance at before would give me boners just imagining fucking them,
Idk about this. This sounds like how you end up getting labeled a creep. You should feel comfy around them though.
1. Don't watch porn
2. Nofap
3. Be a piece of shit who actively lowers his self esteem
That's how I lost my virginity to a fat, annoying latinx bitch and will forever regret.
lowering standards is sloth, OP. don't do it or you will end up tied to a bed by Kevin Spacey
>end up tied to a bed by Kevin Spacey
I'm not a 14yo boy so I think I'll be ok
>will forever regret
This. Don't lose your virginity just to get it over with. You'll feel worse and want to die.
You only come out as a creep if you have zero social skills and can't feel context or calibrate.
Look at 9/10 without make up. It worked really helped me and was quite the red pilling moment. (I used the app makeapp)
unironically, browse for porn.
chaotically, got to pic sites and hit the ones you like. Eventually you'll find yourself appreciating girls for one or another single feature, like a perfect wide hips / flat stomach, but a bit of a butter face. Or absolutely perfect tits and so on.
Of course, there will still be a definite cut line which you won't allow yourself to go below, but I always find myself enjoying girls with the right amount of ugly than perfect dolls.
Oh my god. That pic is the worst thing I've ever seen.