Haha user you will forget her in a month it's not the last girl in your life just move on :DDDD

>haven't had a gf or sex in 5 years
>meanwhile my ex has had like 5 LTRs and is settling down with a guy that makes like 100k
>she sends me updates every so often that I never respond to

This is honestly the worst feel. I haven't met anyone I've wanted to be with in that time really. But it still kills me that she's had it all. She won.

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Then you're wasting time on someone who really isn't worth it.

Someone that feels the need to send updates of their life success to an ex from 5 years ago is not as happy as they claim to be.

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Woah, thanks for sharing your wisdom, my man.Gotta flip that switch on my head and magically finally stop caring about her after all these years.

you're a stupid delusional dumb retard who needs help. stop behaving like women do.

go see a psychologist stop rationalizing your lack of capacity of talking to women as "its bc i miss my crushhh". if it weren't for your little gay crush you'd still be autistic retard who can't speak to women. figure yourself out ASAP.

>she sends me updates every so often that I never respond to
That actually sounds weird. Why does she do that?

tell her to stop doing that and you can't keep talking with her because you can't get over your love for her so interacting with her is a daily reminder of something that's tragic for you.

stop fucking talking to people who make you weak. NO GOOD CAN COME FROM THAT.

I did. They said i have schizoid personality disorder and no one cures it. I also can talk to anyone freely, if you are talking about social anxiety. Now fuck off from here, faggot.

Is that sarcasm im detecting?

First off, don't speak to me as if you were my equal, you are not. You're literally so low below me that you obsess over a 4/10. You could have gotten some good advice, but instead you acted out like a child.

Good day.

This is retarded advice.

I laughed solely because i can't actually understand if that was written ironically or not. One of the things i like about Jow Forums.

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>cures it
70 IQ mongrel detected. you can't cure mental illnesses, but you can treat them. you're emotionally dependend on some bitch you used to talk to 6 years ago. get help, mongoloid.

Not that guy but how is that bad advice? People cut off their exes for a reason, and the reason is shit like this where they are nothing but a miserable reminder of what you once had and will never have again.
But you'll try and rationalize it as being "friendly" and "civil". No, you're being a pushover.

yeah i take that back, it's better off if you just keep talking to someone that makes you feel awful every day bc they're not with you. sounds healthy.

It's not the cutting off that's the problem. It's doing it by saying "whaaa stop sending me messages. I'm still all choked up about you because I have no self-worth"

How about you replace that snark with common sense. You fucking loser.

English is not my firs language. No one treats it. That's the point of personality disorders, they are not mental illness.
Also you seem very upset for some reason. Had a bad day, Champ?

the best thing is that she's not her, because "her" isnt good enough for you.

What irony do I need? Do you come here for advice or just to whine about your self-inflicted """problem""".

how about you replace that ego with some humility. you are gonna be saying "whaa stop sending messages i'm still choked up about you because i have no self worth" because it's the truth. you are. admit to it. be truthful.

if it wasn't true, you wouldn't be talking about how bad it feels on an internet forum. stop talking to us, go talk to that girl.

Here's how you do it my friend, in fact this technique has risen to popularity in recent times due to the cutthroat effectiveness of it.
Simply stop responding. Don't contact her. Block her number or social media accounts if you must.
You must Ghost her.

Just bee yourself, user. Is that what you want to hear?

the only reason you don't get treatment is either if you have no cash or if you aren't seeking any. there's definitely ways to treat what you're going through. see a clinical psychologist, you're suffering from emotional dependency and you need pro help.

Yeah she's definitely fucked. She actually said in her last message she wanted to hook up but after I called her bluff she backed out at the last second.

Probably gets off on knowing I'm alone and trying to get my shit together while she's been sorted out since she inherited $1mil from a relative.

I am over her. Got over it a long time ago. I mean I'd still bang her but I never wanna be with her again. I just haven't found anyone suitable for a long time while she's had all the luck. It wouldn't matter what I say she still sends me stuff every year or so. I told her a while back only to message me if she wanted to hook up but she ignored it.

>how about you replace that ego with some humility.

I got my dick sucked this morning. I'll have as much ego as I'd like.

>you are gonna be saying "whaa stop sending messages i'm still choked up about you because i have no self worth" because it's the truth. you are. admit to it. be truthful.

So it's truthful. So what? What benefit does it have to tell her that. She is obviously getting off on making you miserable so you show her how much she's hurting you? Great idea.

>wouldn't be talking about how bad it feels on an internet forum. stop talking to us, go talk to that girl.

You seem to think I'm OP or one of the other losers in this thread. I am not.

I agree. You should direct this to the guy with the jerk ex. This guy,

Why don't you just block?

>got my dick sucked this morning
you can literally be fucking 72 virgins as you type this. on the inside you are still a literal manbaby crying about a girl you used to date.
>What benefit does it have to tell her that
she stops sending updates and reminding you of her existence. no wonder it bothers you, that's like if a vietnam vet watched liveleak war videos everyday and then wondered why was he having so many episodes. sure, you're gonna make yourself look puny in her eyes, but who fucking cares, she's not dating you anymore, you can make your weakness transparent. ultimately it will do you good to have her stop messaging you.

eh reasonable. block her or something.

Are you actually sure she actually has this good luck and not making shit up publicly? You'd be surprised how often women present an idealized version of themselves.

I'd ignore her texts. Focus on yourself. Get fit. Learn stuff. Advance your careers.

Why would I be crying about the girl I used to date? She's completely inferior to my current partner. She didn't cook/clean, was emotionally abusive, gained a shit-load of weight, and is now hitting the wall hard.

Do you really believe that by saying the text hurt his feelings she will stop? She's doing it for that purpose. It's like telling a bully he's bothering you.

just think user she could have chad THUNDERCOCK! balls deep in her right now having the best orgasm of her life and here you are still begging to get her back isn't life funny

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Whew, good thing i got over the "she is fucking someone right now" period few years ago.
Also when Chad fucks your crush it's not that bad. When some short poorfag, who literally was crying because she wasn't with him, gets the pussy, that's much worse.

>when Chad fucks your crush it's not that bad.
m8 you need serious help immediately if you believe this
I'm starting to feel sorry for you

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Read rest of the post, dude. It's not that bad in comparison.

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>22yo
>still can't get over high school crush

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>6 years

That's like bordering on mental illness, senpai.

What the fugg, literally just meet new people and get to know them
>get feeling like i'm betraying my first crush, even though we weren't in relationships
Oh I see, you're crazy. Well, good luck with that.

this.
I don't even think of ((her)) anymore, my oneitis went to another country 4 years ago when I was 22.
It's just that I'm unable to form a bond with any other girl I get to know.
And I met a lot of pretty women in the past 4 years, colleagues at workplace, friends of friends, girlfriends of friends, escorts and so on.
I've had a few good conversations with some of them but never even a glimpse of that warm, overwhelming feeling, or not even a tiny bit of genuine interest.
I think something inside of me is fundamentally broken and I don't know where to go from here or why I should keep up in the first place.

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I feel you, my man. I really do.

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This hits too close to home, user.. I feel you

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>never had a gf
>still can't get over my imaginary gf from highschool
I wish i was joking. It still hurts.

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nigger . some girls dont wanna talk to you ! therapy wont do shit .