Be me, in a relationship for about 5 months

>Be me, in a relationship for about 5 months
>She seems like a rare catch, never used tinder, no tattoos, never tried weed, doesn't smoke, rarely drinks, does folk dancing.
>We are all over each other, occasional fight and so so, but we are really love and plan moving in into future and so on.
>She knows I am fairly conservative, and my negative attitude against weed and tattoos.
>She goes on to two day cruise without me
>Comes back, we talk about her trip and so on, I ask her how it was what they she was doing and so on.
>She gives vague answers like "nothing" and "partying"
>Ask her to show pictures from trip.
>See pics of her group which he did cruise smoking weed and shit.
>See a pic of her smoking a cig. Alarm bells ring in my head. Start suggestively asking what else you did. Finally ask did she smoke weed. She looks down at floor, then says she did smoke, and that everyone did, and it was only one time and so on. Doesn't apologize tho, but starys leaning towards me and grabbing my hand telling me to not be angry.
>I shut down, ask why she did when she knew I wouldn't like it, what she was thinking. She keeps repeating above thing that it was just to try and "you have to try everything once"
>We go back to car, I dump her and drive her home.
>Later she texts me asking if it was only reason. I say it was very disrespectful from her and she didn't even apologize. She also thinks my friends influenced my decision.
>3 days pass I feel like I shouldn't have been so harsh. I text her explaining how some things when even tried once can fuck up life, for example tattoo, which she wants, would fuck up her job prospects. I do explaining because she thought it's just me being controlling and punitive, but I want her to understand it's for her own good and for good of our future that she doesn't try that shit.

Deep down I want to be with her as she seemed like a catch at first, but I can't let things like these pass. If I should get back together, how should I handle it

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You are a controlling creep

You should be grateful that she didn't dump you for being a controlling son of a bitch. I get your point thou, I hate all of that degenerate shit, but sometimes you just can't control someone else, unless is your children

Nope. You have your standards. She didn't live up to them. You broke up rather than fester on it like a whiny little girl. She wasn't selling what you were looking to buy. At some point in the future you may find your standards aren't tenable, but for now, don't get stuck in that downward spiral of compromising what you want and what you believe in or you'll end up miserable as fuck. You don't ever have to be a preachy dick, but you have an idea of what you want just like everyone else does. I don't agree with your standards, but it's your right to search for what you believe is right and if someone doesn't fit the role you want them to, you break up.

Wow holy shit user she's lucky you dumped her. God damn

You're a fucking psycho m8. You're also stupid, naive, and close-minded.

If she doesn't meet your standards stay away from here. That is a massive flag red flag that she would do that and try to hide it. If your girlfriend tries keep secrets from her you need to dump her. Normal successful relationships work because people in the relationship don't keep secrets from one another. A relationship is doomed to fall apart if there are secrets going on.

You are little bitch with who wants to control other people's lives. She should have left you on the spot.
Jesus Christ man, she tried weed once and you show how an asshole you can be. Be thankful she didn't dump you on the spot and start working on your problems and yourself.

>does drugs
>wants tattoos
You really dodged a bullet there. 2 massive red flags there.

Christ look at all these cucks defending the woman. If you defend a cunt just take a heroin needle and overdose.

I'm serious... Don't ever complain about being single if you're willing to put up with women's shit. They're stupid, manipulating, and whores. All of them. Yes even your mother. Your mother is a bitch

Looks like you triggered the drug addicts who will never amount to anything OP.

you're fucking abusive
she's lucky

I fucking love your baiting powers user.

>abusive
>drumps her because she uses drugs and he doesn't want to date a drug addict
How dumb are you?

Nigga I swear this happened.

>Nigga
>I swear
>Conservative, anti tattoo, no smoking
>Nigger language
And you fucked up. Still. Pretty solid, have one more (you)

>Christ look at all these cucks defending the woman. If you defend a cunt just take a heroin needle and overdose.
>
>I'm serious... Don't ever complain about being single if you're willing to put up with women's shit. They're stupid, manipulating, and whores. All of them. Yes even your mother. Your mother is a bitch
t.virgin

>have girlfriend
>dont let her smoke cigs
>dont let her do weed
>doesnt let ger get tatoos
>she does weed once at a party on a cruise
>instantly dumps her

>Baiting
>Not a robot
>Baiting
Good try faggot. Jesus what an autist to type that much shit up.

Yes and what is abusive about that? She did the one thing he told not to do to keep the relationship She chose to do it anyway she he ended the relationship because she chose to.

I don't date degenerates either. I have told my girlfriend one of the main reasons I am with her is because she doesn't use drugs. Also told her if she ever does I am leaving on the spot. It is a simple easy standard to keep. Its like telling your girlfriend not to fuck other guys.

user is boss

Someone explain to me their problems with drink and drugs

I rarely do either and don't understand what's wrong (ik drugs are bad but fuck off)

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I planned future with her. I didn't want to have to drive her around for 2 years in case she lost driving license in case she failed a drug test at road stop. Got nothing against alcohol.

Op is a controlling faggot dating a roast who probably cheated on him yw

>getting triggered over drugs

Lmao, when did robots became such uptight normie cunts?

I didn't think about that but I don't have a car or licence but if she didn't smoke and drive what can they actually do about it

ITT: LARP power fantasy garbage where Jow Forums autists totally wreck roasties epic style for being "degenerate"
Good bait though

don't
you dump her, she dosn't like the lack of control and rejection that gave her
get back together and she will eventually dump you because this shit is a control game.

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Now is the time to procure some weed and smoke it with her, kiss and make up faggot

It can be a fun pastime or hobby for you two

Cop can take you to drug test on any suspicion. Theg dont measure thc levels, if it's in urine, they count it as driving high

She betrayed your trust, and didn't even think to apologize for it. She didn't apologize because she still believe in her mind that she did nothing wrong.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to have a druggy girlfriend.

What fucking assbackwards country is this?

But if she's sensible and didn't drive high why would the cops question it?

Ik about crooked cops and just pure angry bad day cops but when would she ever be questioned about it ?

>implying she did anything wrong and OP isn't a boring overly-controlling cunt wanting to live out a cuckservative fantasy

If you were planning a future with her you should have forgiven her you dumb shite head

Cringe as fuck jesus christ

t. virgin Jow Forumstard

I'm neither, but nice try.

>I-I'm not a virgin, I- swear!

Lol, whatever you say incel.

have you guys had sex yet?
if so than youre contributing to the rising single motherhood rates and are putting yourself at a bigger risk than if she smoked weed once
weed is only addictive if you have as little self control as 400 pound land whales

t. pathetic pothead.

Women don't have self-control, user.

You did the right thing OP. If you marry this woman and she has your kids, do you really think she would have self control? What happens if she feels the urge to have an affair? Do you think she would resist it?
>You have to try everything once

You dodged one m8

Using virgin as an insult means you engage in the game.
However, posting on here means you are in the bottom 80% of the game. At best, you are in the upper 50% but still below the top 20%.
Which means you have been ducked, multiple times. It also means that none of your girlfriends will ever rate you as their best (despite what you guilt them into telling you)
Every single girl you have a relationship with has had someone better, and she will always know it. And honestly, so will you.
By definition, you are a loser.

are you op? If so then answer question honestly

>how dare people have fun on holiday

pro-troll thread

Not op, just a random guy.

>I have to smoke weed to have fun!
Pathetic maggot. Absolute scum.

lmao so dishonest

What do you do for fun besides complain about what other people do for fun on Jow Forums?

What do you even mean.
Listen to music. Read. Talk to people. Go to the movies. There's a lot other things to do, pothead.

ANSWER MY FUCKING QUESTION OP DONT BE A LIL BITCH

Nah, you made your values clear to her and she clearly didn't share them, you would have been unhappy down the line. It was best you broke up then. It's like expecting a man who wants to keep the baby to stay with a woman after she has an abortion.

NIGGA WE HAD REGURAL SEX WE BOTH SAID IT WAS BEST WE EVER HAD AND NONE OF US WERE VIRGIN BEFORW THIS RELATIONSHIP.

I dont smoke cause Im not a fan of the smell. You can literally do all of that shit while high, in the company of others who are high or otherwise. If you dont like the obnoxious DUDE WEED LMAO types thats a valid reason to dislike those people, but it has nothing to do with the plant itself.

IF YOURE CONSERVATIVE THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WHAT IS CONTRIBUTING TO RISING BIRTHRATES/SINGLE MOTHERHOOD AND WHAT YOURE DOING IS ACTUALLY MORE DANGEROUS THAN SMOKING WEED ONCE SINCE YOU MAY BE BRINGING A REAL LIFE INTO THIS WORLD WITH SOMEONE YOU ARENT EVEN SURE YOU WANT TO STAY WITH
TRUE OR FALSE

She didnt apologize u faggot.

BE TRUE OP

I WANT HER BACK RIGHT FUCKING NOW NIGGA

But what about condoms and birth control

Also I rawdogged her this month so in case she is pregnant i want to be there for a kid so I need to get back with her.

Birth control causes autists and condoms yea, I use them. Once i tried new brand tho and lost my boner so I rawdogged out of frustration.

>birth control causes autists

Cite literally ONE (1) credible source of this shit you just pulled right out of your asshole

what about em
unless youre snipped or she has her tubes tied than there is still a high risk
which is why single motherhood was lower when people were waiting till marriage combined with the fact that there were less types of birth control then
then tell her you were completely wrong since youre being a hypocrite

1) I know
2) you know
3) everybody knows

>then tell her you were completely wrong since youre being a hypocrite
meant for this

>She seems like a rare catch, never used tinder, no tattoos, never tried weed, doesn't smoke, rarely drinks, does folk dancing

heck, why does this describe me exactly?

Sometimes you just have to just deal with it people cant always be exactly what u want them to be

did i get ya good op?

Birth control pills are 99% effective if taken correctly. The issue arises when roasties take them at different times of the day or skip days.

Because you're a fucking loser lmao

>actually wants his woman to be a fat, ugly, mean, desireless, infertile cum-bucket
ahhh millenials. Gotta love em

maybe, still a risk since people are still fucking up while taking them somehow
op has admitted himself that hes rawdogged before tho
so
gg

Gf is still cute as a button after the 3 years we've been together. She's been on the pill for 2, literally nothing has changed about her appearance or personality. If she's infertile it won't really give me sleepless nights.

People fuck them up because of what I said. It's not that hard to do. You really think half the roasties that take the pill are responsible enough to take their shit the same time of day every single day of the week? Even with an alarm I can barely remember to take my dog out at the same time every day and I'm pretty responsible.

3 years together
2 years with pill
ima assume she was on the pill the 2nd and 3rd together
so the the first year you met you were fucking without a pill and possibly bringing a life in
and this isnt as dangerous as smoking weed once?
also
anecdotal evidence
>but im different
statistics buddy

also, comparing a dog to a pill is A REALLY FUCKING BIG DIFFERENCE IN COMPARISON
a pill wont bark and pull you to the fucking door senpai
1 time forgetting can fuck up life...

FA M
im not calling anyone a fucking senp**

You sound like an insecure controlling asshole. If your gf wants to smoke weed, go on cruise ships and party with other guys thats her business. You do not control her life.

also
IF YOURE TALKING ABOUT CHANCES
WHAT ARE THE CHANCES THAT SHE'LL BE PULLED OVER
OF ALL THE THOUSANDS OF CARS PASSING BY
THAT HER 1 CAR WILL BE PULLED OVER
99.9 AINT SHIT COMPARED TO THAT
YOU THINK SHELL MOVE ONTO HEROIN OR SOMETHING BUD?
WHILE YOU ARE THERE WITH HER?
COME ON MAN U NEED TO GG OUT OF HERE TELL HER YOURE SORRY AND LET HER SMOKE WEED AT THE HOUSE ONLY TO MINIMIZE DANGER

We used condoms the first year and didn't fuck that often since we lived far away from eachother. Didn't fuck first 3 months of dating. I'm financially secure, she's financially secure, so if we bring a kid into the world I'm not too concerned either.

And don't go starting on statistic shit when you didn't post any statistics.

>fat ugly mean desireless infertile cum-bucket

wow such mathematical data, totally not subjective shit at all. Women have different reactions to birth control, and there are many types of birth control that inhibit egg release but via different hormones. They're still 99% effective when used correctly.

I'm not comparing a dog to a pill, I'm saying people can be irresponsible, even for little shit like remembering to take a pill. It's so easy to forget, and yes, that one little mistake is what contributes to ruining lives.

I'm not fucking op you retard stop quoting me. I don't smoke it but I don't have a problem with people who do.

>text
If you think any tattoo you can't see when wearing a shirt will hurt your job prospects you're either 50+ years old or mentally challenged.

fuck you i thought you were op we already agree on everything
im not

Good on you mate.
You have your principles and if needed stay to them. She knew about it and willingling brokle them. Her at first not tellin g it to you, then trying to justify it (everyone was doing it) and not even apologizing in the end, just showed what little respect she has for you and your principles.
I wouldn't be suprised if she did way more on the cruise and at first didn't want to tell you, but now will in due time just to see how much she can actually hurt you.
Stay strong.

Holy shit all of these. You probably thought you were being "Alpha" by acting like a narcissist, controlling creep. You fucked up.

So this is what the straight edge kids at school turned into.

you sound like an ass and a bore, idk why she would even want to be with you

This is top level bait...
U had me until the "she didnt even apologise"... n the "knowing it angered me" line was a lil poor...
Good bait though.

I see the roastie protectors are out in full force

I'm covered in tattoos (including knuckle tattoos) and I have two motherfucking jobs. I've never been turned down for having tattoos. People who use that as an excuse are just lazy and don't actually want a job.

>If I should get back together, how should I handle it
I wouldn't do it, man. You drew a line and she crossed it. You don't even know the extent of her "try everything once" philosophy. Does that include cheating? Feel me, homie?

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