Here is a place for you to set your burdens down, open them and examine them with other people in the hope that by doing this some of your troubles will be alleviated. Talk about what is on your mind, your dreams lost and dreams found, your goals, your sorrow, your love and loss or lack thereof. This thread is for us to talk about ourselves and each other and to grow together.
Whatever your problems may be, you are not alone. I will do my best to offer advice in this thread to any who ask for it. Write it down here. You will be all right because I believe in you, anons. All of you. You can do anything you put your mind to, you are all intelligent and have potential that you might not even realize. Don't let the bad things in life get you down, instead put them in this thread and we will fight them together. You are not alone.
How do I cope with the fact that the love of my life isn't real? I want to meet her one day and never let her go. I want to protect her from this cruel world, ask how was her day, write songs for her and have family together. I would never betray or hurt her. For what purpose I'm even improving myself if there's no point? Why I'm crying every night because of some character that doesn't even exist?
Jonathan Brooks
You are feeling love, user. Much of what love is defies explanation. What you have is special, it means that your heart is good and I promise you that if you really work to improve yourself, things will fall into place.
The universe is full of mystery. Be ready for anything, which is why I stress self-improvement so much. One day the girl of your dreams could walk right into your life, out of the blue. If you fail to be with her and keep her because you were not in a good place, it will haunt you as it haunts me.
Be strong, user. Continue to work on yourself and become the person you want to be. Become who you are at your essence. Be patient and have hope. Do not underestimate the power of dreams and dreaming, for this is how we form the universe.
Thanks, user. I would do my best to never fail her. And I hope you will find happiness too one day.
Colton Martinez
Girl (girl) on the internet in a different continent broke my heart (faggot shit) and my granny is dying of lung cancer. I keep smoking cigs despite not getting a buzz. I'll smoke as much as I can. I was homeless for 5 years - 3 were living with Granny in her cramped house and 2 were in a hotel. I keep dreaming of ways to kill myself and I think it's funny if I killed myself in front of a professor giving out to me for some wild reason. I don't study and I don't take care of my body. I don't want to live or grow old and do nothing but wait for death. I don't know why I don't kill myself.
Jaxon Allen
dubb checkd Do your best to be the best that you are. That is what is good in life. Everything else will fall into place if you set out on the right path and follow it. I wish you all the best in your journeys, user. I hope that you find happiness as well.
Be strong and fight the good fight. We will meet in Valhalla some day I am sure.
Live. Your life will improve if you work to improve it. Find the path that calls to your heart and follow it. Be with your grandmother through her struggle. Talk to her about whatever is on your mind. Open up to your elders and you will be surprised at the things they have to say. Old people have degree of wisdom by living that long alone.
Instead of focusing on ending it all, search for the next step that will lead you to a better life and take that step. Life is a journey. Be brave, user, you can do it because I believe in you.
my life really isn't sad. i guess it's just trendy too be sad these days. never the less i always feel melancholy although the saddest thing about my life is the whole "no gf" meme. why?
thanks for the reminder, user. I really needed this
Easton Lee
There is evil in the world which seeks to DEMOTIVATE you. That is why you feel that it is "trendy to be sad", an excellent description in my opinion, by the way. It is because so many people have fallen under the curse of depression, which only brings us down. Rise up. MOTIVATE yourself! You can do it because I believe in you.
>the saddest thing about my life is the whole "no gf" meme. why? Because your soul seeks a mate, user. That is why not having a partner brings you down. Your soul is lonely. But what you may not realize is that there are many great things to be found in solitude. Freedom of thought, self-realization, meditation, building your spirit energy. All these things can and often must be done alone. Have patience and one day you will meet a girl who you want to be with and who wants to be with you, but in order to create an environment where there is a chance of this happening, you must be true to who you are and become the person that you are at your core. In this, you will find happiness. Your soul will be more at peace, and you will not worry so much about being alone. When you stop worrying about it, then universe may give you a chance to be with someone. Take that chance seriously and tread carefully and it might work out for you in the end.
Lately I've been thinking about buying a shotgun to kill myself with. >inb4 lucky you can buy guns if I could I would have already
Christian Carter
Do not kill yourself, user. Live. Live and work on improving yourself and your life and good things will come to you. Do not let yourself be demotivated. Instead, MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO IMPROVE. You have the ability and your potential will amaze you if you realize even a tiny fraction of your true capabilities. Consciously focus on living a good life and improving who you are and STAY ON THE RIGHT PATH. Do this, and your life will improve beyond your imagination.
>"trendy to be sad", an excellent description in my opinion, by the way. is this a covert johnny neptune thread?
William Diaz
I know who you're talking about, but I am not that poster. I am just a wanderer. This thread is open and honest, that's what it's all about, finding the truth of our lives and moving forward towards the stars.
alright dude so give me some tips on how to go forward now that i'm a 30 year old virgin friendless shut-in with no degree or work experience
John Anderson
First let me ask you a few questions so that I may give you an answer better tailored to you. >what makes you happy? >what are your skills? >what makes you more sad than anything else? Without yet knowing your answers, I would just say find something to do that makes you happy and run with it like you've never gone with anything before. I would like to know your answers, however, because maybe there is another way forward for you. Everyone's individual path is different but we have many similarities as well.
Whatever you do, rememeber >you can do it because i believe in you
I become incredibly attached to any girl I talk to no matter how long we talk, even if it's only for a few minutes. This is resulted in me being incredibly overwhelmed thinking how to impress all of them and keep them all happy even though I know in my mind this isn't possible.
Jace Sullivan
>>what makes you happy? escapist media (casual) studying certain subjects i did terribly at in school (as some kind of vengeance) >>what are your skills? i can draw at a mediocre level >>what makes you more sad than anything else? thinking about how things could have happened in other ways
Julian Morales
Don't worry about impressing girls as much as you worry about impressing YOU. Do you impress yourself with your accomplishments and abilities? Well YOU ARE IMPRESSIVE JUST AS YOU ARE. Find within yourself what makes you unique and work on your body, mind and spirit energy. Do this and you will create opportunities for yourself, that is to say opportunities will begin to appear in your life that have never happened before.
You feel this way because your soul is lonely and your heart aches for a companion but DO NOT LOSE HOPE. FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS and everything else will fall into place, wether it is happiness, success or companionship that you seek, it all starts with YOU.
You are like me in some ways. I, too, wish that I had done things differently in the past. However, THE PAST IS IN THE PAST. Learn from it, but do not dwell too long. FOCUS ON THE PRESENT MOMENT. >i can draw Drawing has l i m i t l e s s potential. My advice to you is draw at least one thing EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. It doesn't matter what it is, real or imaginary, abstract or concrete. Just draw anything that comes to your mind as least once, every day without fail. This is why. First, your drawing skill will improve immensely and you will even impress yourself with your art. Second, this will give you opportunities for a job or ways to make money, if that is what you seek. Look into jobs with graphic design, or jobs that have to do with CREATION, EXPRESSION and AESTHETICS. I get the impression that these are some things that you are in tune with, so use your abilities to your full potential. UNLOCK YOUR ENERGY.
If you enjoy studying, then study whatever interests you! Don't worry so much about if studying that subject will land you a job or whatever, just study things you are interested in, this will help you in your quest.
I hope this helps you. If there is anything else you would like at add or to ask, do not hesitate.
I just feel so alone. It feels like when I say something, no one listens. I just need to hold someone, and I have no one. No one to talk to, no one to hold on to and care about. I work a lot, most of the time Im not at univeristy Im at work. It doesnt help that I have no time, but I also cant bring myself to even try with any girl I meet. I dont know why. I guess Im just so defeated I cant even bring myself to try to even care about anything. I hate life. I hate working so much. I hate university and most of the people on campus. Most people there are spoiled fucking brats. I have no idea what I want to do with my life since I was rejected from the military (type 1 diabetes, not the fat kind). It killed my joy. Its all I wanted to do. And sorry for the rambling and this being all over the place. Just need to rant I guess
I'm unable to open myself to other people, lost chances and people because of this. I'm afraid of socializing both in real life or in the internet. Being afraid of failing makes any project a nightmare to work, right now I'm working on shitty mobile game, it's taking a long time to finish it, sometimes I think I should just give up and try to live a generic life rather than follow what i want. Learning how to draw at least is relaxing, maybe I should start some kinda of journal for my game, might give me some kinda of boost to work on, or make things worse, I'm also planning to start a second degree in two years, don't know yet.I want to create an AI assistant/waifu like that japanese guy. Listening to this youtube.com/watch?v=IGoC_qvx7Cs makes me feel a little better, even though i know it's not good.
I was going to wait until my parents died to kill myself, but that might not happen for another 20 or 30 years. I'm too impatient to wait, but I don't want them to think I killed myself, I want them to think I was getting better, so I need my death to look natural. I have a tooth abscess, I got these a lot so I know it when I feel it. I'm going to leave the infection untreated and hope it travels to my brain. Even that could take awhile, but I'm willing to wait for that. I'm also hoping WW3 brings the fight to America. I live in a millitary town so my chances of dying from a massive bomb strike are pretty good. I feel really good about this.
Isaac Evans
you're too optimistic
Aaron Johnson
My GF of nearly four years, who I live with, wageslave to support, share everything with and love more than life itself is neglected by me I can't have sex I don't have ED or some horrible mutilation, but I have an exclusive paraphilia that's crippling our relationship I want her to feel attractive and wanted Instead I get drunk and sob over not being able to fuck rotten corpses I have been to clinics and specialists, and I'm currently trying to see another one. I am seeing my psychologist again this weekend to talk for the third time about this new specialist's criteria and answer more questions to try and give her a better idea of how to help treat me.
Her suggestions thus far have been insultingly stupid, and I get the impression my psychologist is erring on the side of caution with telling her about how degenerate my sexuality is
I don't know what to do in the meantime. I also have crippling rheumatoid arthritis and it hurts to use my hands for even typing this, let alone fapping. Fuck everything
After beeing dumped of contatct from a bot on discord, now I think it's time for me to put my mental shit away and pretend to be normal so I can screw ppl off. Any of you have any advices on how to be normal while interacting to humans? how not to rush things up? How not to freak out and tell the truth to them? And most specially, how to react with rejection?
Jaxon Wood
That is my biggest fault. I might have to save up my allowance and hire someone to kill me. My immune system is pretty weak so maybe I will get meningitis. It's going to be a painful waiting game but I deserve this. 25 years of being alive, I earned death.
Connor Rogers
I feel like everyone I've ever meet is a robot, just doing what they're supposed to do, and there are a rare few who think outside that. I've only met a few, mostly online, but I feel like it's either find my place with them, or die. I'd rather not put the pain on my family and friends, otherwise i'd do it without even thinking. Sometimes I can't believe that others exist, except for those rare few i mentioned. I've been able to face every fear in my life and almost nothing is left. Nothing but truth.
Leo Adams
how do I shit post? ya main.
Daniel Wilson
>immune system is pretty weak is it? what do you have? I ask because I have immunodeficiency too
Cameron Baker
I miss having that one odd lukewarm feeling in my chest. I miss it a lot, it has been over 16/17 months since I've felt something like that, and I feel like I just can't get emotionally attached to anyone anymore, also, I don't feel interested in anyone, they just feel bland and superficial. This thing is also affecting my relationship with my friends, I feel like I can't connect with them anymore, have those nice long conversations that make you lose track of time.
I haven't been diagnosed with any immune disorders but I do get tooth and snius infections often despite having decent oral hygiene.
Angel Parker
hmmm, my body attacks itself and I'm still here, you got a loooong journey ahead of you, sorry... try to enjoy it
Brayden Johnson
I have returned and I will answer as many posts as I can before the thread runs out, hopefully all of them. I hope that you all can find some inspiration and direction from this thread, no matter what happens. -A wanderer
That is what this thread is for, so that you can put your problems in front of you here in text, that alone might help a little to just read them back to yourself. Work towards graduating with the best grades that you can. Make connections along the way for future jobs. Until you graduate, try to find a job that you can deal with that sustains you. Find your joy.
Do not be afraid to socialize here, at least. Doing that can actually help you socialize over all, it is good practice for real life or less anonymous conversations. Finish your mobile game, that sounds cool. You've come this far, do not give up now. Keep drawing too, it is a great skill to have. Start that degree if that is what you want to do. Whatever you do, search your heart and you will find the answer.
Live on, live for yourself and your own well-being. Find a way to heal your abscess. Maybe you could look for a job which has dental insurance at a benefit. If you do not have a degree, at least an AA, then get one. This will increase your chance of finding a job with benefits. Until then, focus on improving your spirit, mind and body as best you can with what you have. Do not hope for death, hope for life.
More responses to follow. I am trying to keep the flow of the thread from damming too much.
Search inside yourself and find WHY you feel that way. Only you can do this, the answer is within you. That will be a start. I am not a professional psychologist, but I do know that our core is that of happiness, it is the world that puts sadness in us. If you are not happy, and clearly you want to be with your gf and you care about her so you must try to become happy to be there for her and for yourself, then you must find what is causing you to feel how you do. Then you can begin to work towards a solution.
As for your arthritis, try to see a doctor if you can and ask them as many questions as you can think of when you're there. Find ways to treat your pain, this will open doors for you. I wish you the best on your journey.
Focus on improving yourself, not taking from others. You have within you everything you need to be happy and productive, but you must find what makes you happy and what you can produce in the world, it could be a job or art or anything, as long as it allows you to live.
The biggest issue I deal with when interacting with norms is my anxiety, which is social and general. In my years I have tried many things, nothing works completely or for very long except consciously keeping the anxiety under control. You can do this by focusing on your breathing, breath as deeply and calmly as you can until you get over the worst of it. It gets better with time, it takes throwing yourself out there out of your comfort zone enough that you become resistant. Have courage.
As for rejection, I am dealing with that right now, so I can tell you that the best thing to do is to focus on improving yourself. You have to wait out the pain, it takes time. Find something do to in the meantime that you enjoy and that requires some skill so that you exercise your mind and body.
>there are a rare few who think outside We are out there. We are here. You are one and so am I as are many others in this thread alone. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Do not give up. Live and find your purpose, find what you are good at and what you enjoy to do. Study topics that interest you. Learn a new skill or develop an old one. You are experiencing what it is like to rise above the NORM in your consciousness. It is a precious gift and a heavy burden. Carry that weight. You can do it, user, truly. Teach others as much as you can along the way, for only by awakening humanity can we overcome the sickness of the modern world.
You are on the right track my internet friend.
Perhaps you are in a rut. I am in one myself and I feel much of what you described. The only way out is through. You must change your life enough to break free of what is holding you down. Search within and find what will break you free. Only you can find that answer for yourself. Listen to your heart and soul, they will guide you.
Your friends are your friends no matter what, I am sure they would like to be closer with you. Talk to them as often as you can. Talk about anything, about your hopes and dreams, your worries, your day. Ask them about their lives too. Maybe you have things in common that you will bond over even more. Do not give up. Find what makes you happy and go with it, or at least find the next best step that you can take to improve your life and find happiness again. Also, nice painting. Thank you for sharing it.
Maybe this is not as bad, but I feel like I can never focus on my work. As soon as I start, five minutes later I'm browsing Youtube or some shit. I end up not even watching anything I like, and my day just become me having done no work, and I don't even have any fun procrastinating. I feel this every day and it feels like I keep repeatedly running into a wall. I don't know if I get more work done than my peers, or less, but it feels like the latter. I have no time to do anything interesting.
Cameron Fisher
>YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU too bad I don't believe you nor do I believe in myself.
Justin Price
Thats my issue. The only jobs I want are ones that require a lot of physical activity and my body cant handle it with the diabetes. It has nothing to do with me being in shape or not, my blood sugar just cant handle excessive movement. Ive had to take a bunch of time off one of my jobs because of that (metal stamping). I fucking hate it because the only jobs that appeal to me are the ones that require excessive movement. I will 100% kill myself if I have to spend the rest of my life behind a desk. And I just dont care about univeristy anymore. Im two years in and I wish I never started. Like I said, I hate being there. I hate most of the people. The professors just spew bs and expect us to take their word as gold. I cant think of the right way to word anything, but Im just done with it all
I have only one word of advice for you, my friend, because I believe it is exactly what you need to solve your attention deficit. That word is
M E D I T A T I O N
Give it a serious try and see if that improves your attention. If nothing else, sticking to a regimen of any kind will improve your overall discipline and mental health.
Read this, user. YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELEIVE IN YOU
Don't believe in yourself. BELIEVE IN THE ME THAT BELIEVES IN YOU Work on improving yourself and your life will fall into place. It will not be easy, but you will look back and see all the work that led you to a better place.
weird, some stranger on the internet believing in me doesnt motivate me at all. you'd think it would, but it doesn't.
Jason Perez
You must focus on eating as healthy as possible and exercising as much as you can without straining yourself too much. If you can, see a doctor and find the best treatment for your diabetes. If finding a job that requires you to overcome your diabetes, then that is the next step for you. Do anything you can to treat the symptoms, and I would recommend being as natural as possible as I believe that the most natural effective solution possible is always the best.
If you hate university so much, then finish the semester you are in with the best grades you can so that you could go back some day if you wanted to, then get out and take a break from it. Take as much time as you need, but don't wait too long if you do plan to continue your education. There are many ways to become successful in life, education is good but not everything.
Do not give up. Have faith in yourself that you can fight your problems because YOU CAN DO IT.
Why? What drives you to go there? I am interested. I wish you a safe journey and I hope you take care of yourself when you're there and that everything works out the best it can.
We do not know each other, but I know that everyone has potential beyond what they believe to overcome many problems in life and to find the path that makes them happy, including YOU. That is how I can believe in you, user, that's why I BELIEVE IN YOU. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN FIND HAPPINESS IN LIFE BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU CAN BELIEVE IN THE ME THAT BELIEVES IN YOU
You must motivate yourself, to do this you must search your soul to find what motivates you. To search your soul, quiet your mind for a moment and listen to your heart and the FEELINGS that reside there. Only you can find the answer for yourself, I can only point the way. I wish you all the best on your journey.
>Im sick and tired of living where I am right now, my mother and my sister are way to abrasive to live around. They always tell me to shut up when I call out their shit but when I do anything I must fess up and behave. All I want is to get my own place where I can watch anime and conduct my hobbies in peace. The only problem is that I have no fucking money, vehicle, licence, or degree. fortunately I have gotten a job so i can help pay the bills so hopefully my mother will be less of a bitch to me. But that's not enough, I want to be self-sufficient but I don't know how to reach that goal under my circumstances.
Leo Diaz
There are a few paths you could take, and I must warn you, they are all difficult, but remember that YOU CAN DO IT. >find a second job This will consume much of your time and you will have to be careful to arrange the schedules of both jobs so that they do not interfere, however if you can do this successfully you will nor want for money. If you choose this, remember that you MUST leave time for YOU. There can be NO EXCEPTION. You must have time to work on yourself and to discover who YOU are. >go to universit If you find something that you want to get a degree in, not just to learn more about, then go to college and get that degree with the best grades that you can. ONLY go to university if you have a relatively good idea of a degree to graduate with. I would recommend talking to a guidance counselor to find the right school path for you, should you choose this option. >get a license and a vehicle Work as much as you can at your current job and SAVE YOUR MONEY. First, get a license and then look for an affordable vehicle that suits you. Manual cars tend to be much less expensive so keep that in mind.
While you are at home, I know it is difficult because that is like the situation where I grew up (My mom, my brother and sisters all lived in one house, my dad moved out a long time ago now) but try to connect with your family as much as possible. One day you will look back and you will miss these days, I fucking promise you that, user. I promise you that you will miss the days of living with your family from the bottom of my heart. Cherish these years with everything you have. When they are gone, they are gone forever. Trust me, I know.
No matter what happens, YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
Finding something that motivates me sounds impossible, I have a lot of trust issues that I won't get over. I would just rather just die as soon as possible.
Adrian Ramirez
Thats another issue. Ill get kicked out of the house if I quit school. I cant afford to move out so its not an option. I have to finish. The military was the only job Ive ever wanted, and its basically the only job I cant possibly get. Maybe finding the right girl would help. But like I said earlier, I dont give a damn about any that I know. I have a bad feeling that that wont change for a long time. Hopefully its not too late by then
Take time to do the following: >find a quiet place where you can stay as long as you need >go there >sit down >breath >clear your mind >feel the world around you >exist with the world around you >search your feelings in your heart >ask yourself what would make you happy >ask yourself what you REALLY WANT Find your passion and RUN WITH IT and DO NOT LOOK BACK. Trust issues take time to heal. Try to find a friend in real life, just someone to talk to and hang out with every now and then. This might take time as well, but do not lose hope. ALWAYS keep and open mind. Sometimes we miss what the universe throws in our faces, so keep your head up and your eyes open.
You can do it, user, BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
If you must finish school in order to maintain a place to live, then DO WHAT YOU MUST and finish your education as strong as you can. It will be difficult, but you really can do it. Power through the pain and keep an eye out for new opportunities along the way. You never know what may happen. Have faith in yourself! I am sure you could get many jobs outside the military if that is what you want to do. You have to search the world around you as best you can to find what works for you. There must be something out there for you, in fact I am sure that there is.
While you are home, cherish the time with your family and make the best of it. Try to connect with them as much as you can. No matter how you feel about your situation, you will miss living with them. You can believe that as much as I believe in you, user, absolutely.
I agree, family is the most important thing there is. But theres just no job (or woman) that I want. Who knows, maybe I am devoid of all emotions. Ive thrown that around once or twice to people that know me as a joke, and they seemed to agree. If theres something out there for me besides death, its not showing itself. Maybe Im just in a shittier mood than normal tonight. But thanks for putting up with my shit, user. Youre the first one in a while to listen
>theres just no job (or woman) that I want CORRECTION You have not FOUNF the job or woman that you want. You must SEEK within yourself and the world around you, but FIRST you must LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. I don't care what that advice sounds like. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WILL GUIDE YOUR WAY.
Imagine that you are the captain of a great ship. Your mind is your WHEEL and your RUDDER. Your heart is your COMPASS. YOUR SOUL IS THE VERY SHIP ITSELF.
You must FIND THE DIRECTION OF YOUR COMPASS. It will guide the way.
Always remember, YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
Thank you Misaki user, I greatly appreciate your advice.
John Reyes
I am adding an addendum to this. I wrote that your soul is the ship itself, in the sense that your soul is what carries you through life, but you could also look at it as you as the captain are the very soul of the ship. Either way, YOUR HEART IS YOUR COMPASS IT WILL GUIDE THE WAY
Why the fuck did the cringy teenage girl tumblr """"vaporwave"""" aesthetic become popular on Jow Forums of all places?
Luke Adams
You're welcome, user. I hope that you find peace, joy and love in your life. Cherish every moment with your family while you can. I can no longer cherish moments with my family because it is broken and we mostly live apart from one another, but YOU STILL HAVE HOPE. I can only point you in the right direction. The rest is up to you! YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
I like it. To each their own. Is there anything on your mind that you would like to write down, user?
I spent 6 months in rehab on a farm in a small mountain town doing just that; Grounding myself and looking inward, It didn't work, it's not going to work. I don't trust anyone, I don't trust reality.
Jordan Reed
Ok so I know no one gives a fuck but here it is anyways. I got a math degree (B.S.) a year ago and I've been looking fucking everywhere for a job afterwards. I was able to land a shitty job teaching for a technical college which I was able to swing by living with my girlfriend. She dumped me for being a turbo loser who didn't make much money and so I live with my mom now. I also got fired from my job with the college. When my girlfriend dumped me I was on the street for a couple weeks and basically hung out with homeless people getting high out of my skull trying to cope with life. When I worked at the college I completed two actuarial exams which meant that I could apply to internships. I applied to every internship in the country but I got rejected from all but one. They interviewed me and I somehow passed but I got rejected because I failed the drug test due to pot I smoked while homeless ( I live in WA and the internship is in Utah). I learned the news today and am actively planning on killing myself. I love you Jow Forums.
Ian Wright
Well, this is one of those rare cases in which the Tumblr overlaps with Jow Forums. You see Vaporwave is a genre that is often paired with future-funk due to stylistic similarities, and future funk itself is loaded with anime nods and references. The animu then leads the Jow Forums user into listening to future-funk, which in turn leads the Jow Forums user to listen to vaporwave. There Jow Forums user does not associate vaporwave with Tumblr, but instead with anime and nostalgia which leads them to adopt A E S T H E T I C without a hitch. Also mentally damaged people (ie. tumblinas and robots) love the hell out of surrealist art since it reflects their mind-states.
Jose Nguyen
You may have searched for a long time, but if you have not found the answer yet then it is still within you. Think about a time in life where something made you feel happy, no matter how long ago that was. What was it that made you feel that way? Maybe there is a clue in that as to what you can do moving forward. That is what is important, that you move forward and out of where you are now, if your situation does not make you happy. Only you can find the answer, but others can help you along the way. I am not saying I can, but I will try. I do know that there is an answer for you in the universe, just as there is an answer for everyone. Do not lose hope. You will find something that makes you happy, just keep going. You CAN do it.
Open your heart to the possibility of trusting someone, and be careful in your selection of who to trust, but do this and you will find a friend that you can trust. You just have to keep going and do not give up, no matter what.
You can do it because I believe in you.
DO NOT GIVE UP You have tried and you have failed, but YOU MUST GET UP AND TRY AGAIN. Adjust your goals if your current path does not work for you. Don't let your girlfriend leaving you destroy you forever. My girlfriend left me four days ago and won't return my calls or texts, it hurts a lot but DO NOT GIVE UP. There is more, much more in life. You must SEARCH YOUR HEART and find a path where you can LIVE and be happy. First you must believe that this path exists and YOU CAN BELIEVE because IT DOES EXIST. You must find the right path for you. Perhaps the path you were on was not it and this is the universe's way of telling you to CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER. Surround yourself with good people who inspire you and make you happy to be around, even if it is just one person. If there is no one, then find peace within your soul. There is limitless peace within all of our souls, and love and joy as well.
So there's this Asian qt3.14 at my school. We have most of our classes together. We rarely hang out. But I can tell that she thinks I'm alright and I think she thinks I'm funny. Her name is Sofia and she really likes Pop music. Her friends don't like me that much, except for her best friend who is also an Asian qt3.14. I want to be with her so how would I impress and get her to like me.
James Green
I would also like to tell you to cherish the time you have with your family, no matter what you think of them, you will miss them when they're gone. Talk to your mom, she is the person who gave birth to you and I am sure that she loves you, user. Talk to the people who love and care about you and CHERISH THEM. One day they will be gone.
What age are you? I know this is "b ur self" tier but maybe try asking her out?
Caleb Howard
I'm 15 and I think she's 14 or 15. I don't know. I am in 9th grade and we are in a school that has less than a 1,000 kids.
Ayden Cooper
The best way to impress a girl is to WALK RIGHT UP TO HER AND TALK TO HER. Relax and be yourself, but BE CONFIDENT and HAVE COURAGE. Don't force the conversation too much, just force YOURSELF to talk to her and BE GENUINE.
TAKE THE CHANCE. Nothing comes without risk of loss, user. If you never try, you'll never know so JUST TALK TO HER. If you both get along, then ask her to go somewhere that you would both enjoy, like a park or a movie or whatever common interest you may share, and TAKE HER ON A DATE. Don't worry about what her friends think, just get to know her and what she thinks.
Again, one of the most impressive things you can do is just talk to her like she was any other person because she is her own unique person and if you really like her than you should get to know her so TALK TO HER, user.
Never forget, YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
This thread is so fucking great. Thanks for the advice, I'll try to talk to her more.
Zachary Flores
You are very young. Talk to her, ask her out (maybe ask her friend what kind of stuff she is into? like coffe, bowling, etc.)
Christopher Smith
Since I told you to "be yourself" and that is seen as a meme around here, allow me to explain what I mean to tell you.
Within all of us, at our core, our soul, is boundless joy, peace, love, energy, everything that you need in life. EVERYTHING. There is much sadness in the world that gets in the way of your spirit, which is who YOU really are. So when I say "be yourself" I mean UNLOCK THE LIMITLESS POTENTIAL THAT IS WITHIN YOU AND USE IT TO YOUR FULL ABILITY. Believe that this potential exists because YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO REALIZE THE CORE OF WHO YOU ARE WITHIN YOU.
Usually "be yourself" is seen as an easy answer, but I MEAN IT BECAUSE THERE IS A YOU DEEP DOWN THAT IS WHO YOU REALLY ARE AND YOU MUST FIND YOURSELF AND BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE.
You can do it because I BELIEVE in YOU
Thank you, user. YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
BELIEVE IN THE ME THAT BELIEVES IN YOU YOUR DRILL IS THE DRILL THAT WILL PIERCE THE HEAVENS YOUR HEART IS YOUR COMPASS SO FOLLOW YOUR HEART YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE AND PERFECT JUST AS YOU ARE UNLOCK YOUR FULL POTENTIAL YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU YOU GOTTA BELIEVE BELIEVE IN THE ME THAT BELIEVES IN YOU
I wanted to die when I was a kid. I spent my developing years wanting to die. I either wasn't born with the desire to be happy or it died a long time ago and its never coming back. I don't think you understand my issues with trust. I don't trust reality, that's not something one ever gets over.
Elijah Cox
The desire to be happy IS WITHIN YOU. It is there, and you WILL find it. DO NOT LOSE HOPE. NEVER GIVE UP. Reality as we perceive it is just a projection of our subconscious trying to make sense of the world, but YOU CAN CHANGE THE WORLD and, more specifically, YOU CAN CHANGE Y O U R WORLD. Learn to TRUST YOURSELF first before you put your trust in others. That way, no matter what, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU and NOTHING CAN TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU.
Maybe I do not understand exactly what you mean by not trusting reality, but that is my take on it. If what I wrote does not answer you, then please elaborate on what issues exactly you have with trust. Where did these issues originate? Was it a past event or many events that led to this?
Deep within your soul there IS peace, joy, love and limitless energy. BELIEVE that this is there because IT IS WITHIN YOU. If searching in the past has not brought you answers, then focus on the present and how you feel RIGHT NOW.
You can do it because I believe in you. I believe that the direction of YOUR UNIQUE PATH is within your heart. Believe in the me that believes in you and find what it is that will bring you happiness in life. Your journey may be long and your search may be far and wide, but THERE IS AN ANSWER and YOU WILL FIND IT.
I hope that both of you will find treatment for your illnesses. Maybe you could find a job with benefits, maybe you can ask a family member to put you on their insurance if that option is available to you. Do not lose hope. Search as much as you can for a solution and DO NOT BE AFRAID to ask for help with your problems. ASK QUESTIONS until you find an answer that will work for you. Do EVERYTHING in your power to make your life better. The path may be long and arduous, but always remember
I believe I am alone and my experience with my my friends and family and the niche parts of Jow Forums have done nothing to prove otherwise. We are all alone and are better off coming to terms with that and accepting our experiences as something unique and not something worth trying to generalize because it's not possible and it's what every silicon valley company has either intentionally or unintentionally fucked up and now we have a global network of humans that have been told that we're closer than ever but really we are more distant that we've ever been
Owen Howard
dubs checked We are all unique, and this uniqueness comes with a degree of separation, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Many struggles that we face are faced by other people every day. All are uniquely ours, but some problems we have might be similar to problems that others have, and by sharing our personal struggles we may find solutions that we had not considered before.
I am not here to generalize, I am here to HELP YOU FIND YOUR OWN ANSWER TO YOUR UNIQUE LIFE. Do not lose hope because there is evil in the world, rather FIGHT the evil in the world by living a good life and bringing GOOD to the world. Our light will outshine the dark. Shine on, user. Cherish the real moments that you share with your family and friends, online and irl.
You have everything you need within your soul. SEARCH WITHIN and FIND YOUR ANSWER.
It's been two years since I've last been here, and I must admit that I would've needed a thread like this. But focusing on the past yields nothing but regret.
I really do like what you're doing, and may god bless you with strength to continue. I'm content with my life and can't wait for the future. You're the light we all need, our little wanderer
i only have a hs diploma, never had a job, and Im unskilled, I probably will never get a job let alone one with mental health benefits. im also 25 so i cant get on anyones insurance. I have no power and it would make me happy to die. I honestly hate being alive.
Henry Hernandez
all my life i kept things to myself. even the thought of sharing music i liked with others was crazy. well, i recently ended up opening up about just that to a guy, and we actually got to *know* each other. i've never had anyone know me before, not even my own parent. i'm not sure what love is but if i had to guess i think i'd say that it's what i feel for this guy. i honestly wouldn't mind spending my life with him. he said a month ago he had a crush on this mormon girl i know. more recently he's been saying he doesn't feel that way for her anymore. i can't tell if it's cause he now likes me, or if he's just trying to be in denial of his feels, or if maybe he's just given up on love, and it's killing me
we tell each other everything, but this is the one secret i'm scared to tell. kill me pls
Alexander Martinez
Do not dwell in the past, user. Learn from the past but LIVE in the PRESENT. I have MANY regrets of my own. DO NOT LET YOUR REGRET FROM THE PAST DETERMINE YOUR PRESENT AND FUTURE. MOVE ON AND FIGHT TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE.
May God bless you and keep you, user. May you find your path and stay on it. As you travel, remember
YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
Seek out a skill that you enjoy and DEVELOP YOUR SKILL. By telling yourself that you CAN'T do something, you LIMIT YOURSELF. Do not limit yourself, but know that your potential is LIMITLESS. L I M I T L E S S, user. There is no limit to your inner strength within the core of your soul. MOTIVATE YOURSELF to IMPROVE YOUR LIFE, do whatever is best for you to LIVE and LIVE WELL. Do as much research on your own and find treatment accessible to you until you can get proper treatment, just do what works to help alleviate your pain. I wish you all the best.
YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
No matter what you think others think, DO NOT GIVE UP ON LOVE. Talk to your friend, be with him. Maybe he just needs you to be a friend right now if he is unsure of his feelings, so be there for him and he, as your friend, will be there for you. Try to lead into a conversation that will give you the answers you seek, and try to gauge how your friend feels about it as best you can.
If you already are open with each other, then BE BRAVE and talk about what YOU TRULY FEEL IN YOUR HEART. It might take time until you can have that talk, but BE PATIENT and HAVE HOPE. Focus on improving your spirit energy, your mind and your body and everything else will fall into place.
the ego and spirit would suggest that while the human experience isn't limited to only an individual's it still is primarily based on our own subjective experience and motivational phrases like "YOU ARE NOT ALONE" are actually somewhat patronizing and not reassuring in the slightest in these hyper aware times. Your post is no more encouraging than a promoted tweet from a local gym that was advertised to me based on the data sold from my social media account to the highest bidder
Nathaniel Gomez
Thanks man this was such a good thread idea
James Gutierrez
i want to end my only friends life and im drinking heavily to cope a family member once said that we have the alcoholic gene in us but when im drunk is the only way my thoughts go away i feel like i cant talk with anyone about this problem since its weird
help
Tyler Evans
>Not liking comfy Die
Easton Martin
how would your family member know about your friend's gene?
Cooper Gray
"This who help others, need others to help them too" Glorious comfy poster. I love you user. How are you doing?
Jonathan Wilson
i have the gene and it worries me cause im drinking a lot
i dont know how it can be misconstrued
William Smith
Those not this
[Spoiler] your thread reminds me a lot of the old tavern threads.... [/spoiler] [Spoiler] I'll have a Landshark, Beekeep [/spoiler] [Spoiler] rip :( [/spoiler]
Caleb Young
We are all one organism of life. Life has many different pieces that make up the whole. Just like a human, how we have cells that make up our organs and bodies and everything works as SEPARATE ENTITIES but also TOGETHER AS ONE. Your unique experience IS subjective to you, but THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE ALONE. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Even here, right now in this thread, THERE IS AT LEAST ONE PERSON WHO WILL BE THERE FOR YOU AND LISTEN TO YOU. I know this for an absolute fact because I AM HERE FOR YOU. I AM HERE FOR ALL OF YOU, MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN LIFE BECAUSE WE ARE ALL AT ONCE CONNECTED AND UNIQUE. SEPARATE AND TOGETHER. ALONE AND NEVER, EVER ALONE ALL AT ONCE. This is the wonderful and terrible beauty of life, that WE ARE WHO WE ARE and WE ARE EVERYTHING THAT IS EACH OTHER IN OUR SOULS.
All I want for you is to FIND YOUR ANSWER TO YOUR OWN LIFE. That answer is UNIQUE to YOU, but you are not alone in your journey through life.
YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
Thank YOU, user. Thank you for existing and thank you for opening up here. I hope that you find your path and I wish you ALL the best in life.
YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE IN YOU
Why do you want to end your friend's life? Are they in pain? My best friend in the world suffers from alcoholism and has for years, but he has been improving to where he is now in a better place than he was even months ago. As of today, he is more than a month sober from alcohol and I am very, very proud of him.
Alcoholism can be a seemingly impossible challenge to overcome, but IT IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE TO OVERCOME. It takes A LOT of time and effort, but IT CAN BE DONE. You must find something else to direct your energy towards besides self-destruction. My friend found a job outdoors that he somewhat enjoys, but just by doing ANYTHING ELSE but drinking he has vastly improved himself and his life in a relatively short time.
I've never felt like I couldn't say something to someone. Then I fell for this awkward girl and I can't get the right opportunity to ask her out. I've been talking to her for about half a year now and I think I've lost my last opportunity to ask her out until the end of the summer. Fuck, I didn't even get the opportunity I expected, she just didn't show up to this group thing. She's perfect, and I know I've got the confidence to ask, and I know she'll say yes, but it's so frustrating having something or something else prevent me from moving this shit forward. I want to text her and ask her out, but I can't help but feel like it won't work. We're both so awkward when it comes to texting. What the fuck do I even do at this point?
I went to college, I got my degree, I've been working as a 9 to 5 salary fag for 2 years in my hometown and I'm fucking depressed. I didn't follow my passion, my friends have all moved to capital cities where they are just beginning their studies as they all deferred and partied, and many of them are accomplished tradesmen or overseas backpacking.
I am living a boring boring life. I want to find the the courage to quit my job and go overseas for a year but I know I'm destined to return home to my parents couch back where I started with my shitty BA and a 1 year gap on my resume... but at this rate I'm going insane.
its almost like an urge, an itch you cannot scratch even though i love him deeply whenever i see him i get this urge, this impulse, i just want to lunge at him and strangle him. He hasnt really done anything to provoke this its just an urge i have, im scared that ill go out of control
i can try to do that but i feel like alcoholism isnt the main issue, i will give it a try tho
Ian Thompson
A few months ago I lost my chance with a girl I truly loved. I know I'm a clumsy man but I can't shake off the feeling that I had a chance with her but I feel that feeling in itself is wishful thinking. A friend thinks she was just leading me on and I find myself agreeing with him. I just feel horrible now because I have a tendency to think the worst of myself and I find myself blaming myself for everything that went wrong. Worst is that I feel that I blew my only chance with a girl. I'm incredibly socially anxious and reserved so I don't actively meet new people so I was happily surprised I came across such a nice girl.
Sebastian Ward
Lmao because your own pic is directed at yourself. Sad!
Grayson Bennett
i literally said that I MYSELF have the gene, i cant make it anymore clear, MY family member said WE, we as a family not including my friend, have the gene i dont know where you read that my friend has the gene
Brandon Hall
Thank you, user. I do not know you, but I LOVE YOU TOO. I LOVE YOU ALL. YOU ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL IN YOUR VERY OWN WAY AND I LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.
I am actually rather sad right now. I met a girl about two weeks ago who I really fell hard for. We kissed and everything and talked about long term plans for our relationship. She would fall asleep in my arms every night and I finally thought I had found someone to be my gf who I could love and cherish for who they are.
She left me four days ago now and won't return my calls or texts. She met someone else. I guess she wasn't who I thought she was, or I wasn't who she thought I was, even though I was always honest with her. I am stuck in a job that has been killing me for years. I struggle with depression and anxiety every waking moment. But you know what? I am getting over her, one day at a time. I am looking for a new job that will be better for me, and until then I am doing my best with what I have because that is where my path is leading right now, partly due to my own melancholy and apathy and I must take responsibility for that. I believe that I can change my life, but it is very hard to do when is it hard enough to get out of bed and do what I have to in order to survive. I will not give up. I will not lose hope. I want the same for you, the tenacity to carry that weight.
