Why is getting laid or having a girl considered a sort of reward in this board or anywhere else on the internet?

So wtf is wrong with me ? I don't know, might as well gargle the muzzle of a 12 gauge

That's where robots stop asking the important questions. When you get a girlfriend, you are accepted... as what? I got accepted as a customer at the grocery store the other day, I got accepted into a yuri anime fan Discord server as a member.

When you get a girlfriend, what are you "accepted" as?

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And how this results will make people don't yell intelterorristvirgin! at you?

all of your examples are just people using the person in particular for their own goals or entertainment, rather than because they legitimately want the person

sexual revolution or not, intimacy is a very real and important thing, especially for those who never have the chance to properly experience it and determine otherwise for themselves

As human

That is precisely where you are wrong.
When one gets a girlfriend or boyfriend it is 100% for practical reasons. The interests are in most scenarios 'you give me a nice body and compliments and I give you a nice body and a reason to make your friends envious'. That's the reason why you would rather date a feminine beautiful girl than an unattractive, manly girl with the same personality.

An anime reaction pic in catalan. I've seen it all now.

Being shunned for being an incel is more about being bitter, scornful and uncomfortable to be around because you make it clear that you have made the entire other half of the population your enemy. Not about being a virgin, not about not getting 1000+ matches on Tinder.

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>sexual revolution or not, intimacy is a very real and important thing, especially for those who never have the chance to properly experience it and determine otherwise for themselves

That's not how it works.
Your girlfriend would accept you as a tool for her own benefit precisely as you would accept her as a tool for your own benefit. If you want to be accepted as a human, get a friend and work hard to keep it.

>Prisoners get laid. Ghetto thugs get laid. Subhuman fiends get laid. Retarded tall guys get laid. That brainlet black guy from your neighborhood who still thinks he can become a rapper gets lots of pussy, and has a girlfriend. Unemployed people who are eternally on welfare have frequent sex. Drug dealers have girlfriends.
That guy who molested your sister now has a girlfriend.
Yet I can't get it. I am of south asian origins and a software developer with experience. I make 70K a year. I tried so hard and always have been met with failure. I am also not even bad looking. So there is some value to it if it so hard to acquire.

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>Retarded tall guys get laid.

LOL. I wish that was the case

Wait, so you are not from here, norman? Ok. Can you explain how I am bitter etc etc? Because for now incel is just reddit term which used in typical nigger hysteria. It just shows how normalfaggs are blood thirsty.

And really, you should keep doing your thing, I'm proud of you. I don't want to sound like a whimpy middle schooler, but girls go for bad boys. It's as simple as it gets. Your money and accomplishments will never betray you friend of mine; cherish them.

That's not how it works. I have friends. It doesn't matter in the eyes of the others.

>dude just be okay with being loveless and sexless
just fuck off already faggot

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I used the term incel because I am responding to a comment which uses the word incel for implying that he will be called that and be frowned upon even if he becomes an irreplaceable respectableperson by other means than becoming a boyfriend.

>Unemployed people who are eternally on welfare have frequent sex.
What? The last time a girl touched me was 22 years ago. Having sex is not even remotely a possibility.

And it will be so despite the fact, that no one is bitter or actively making his situation worse. However society mocks people like that to the point they are worse than criminals and terrorist. It looks like if you have no personal life you are not very accepted.

You do understand that being depressed about not having a sexy girlfriend who loves you unconditionally is like being depressed about not winning the lottery, right? You can be loved by friends and you can get laid with roasties. The cute devoted lover who wants you for your personality is miraculously rare and manga, series, and songs make you believe that these exist as the default girlfriend when in reality, these creative people are crying every night longing for her precisely as you are.

Forget her.

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Reproduction is immortality.

>you can get laid with roasties
You have a very narrow view of the world.

If not with roasties, then with prostitutes.

Those are radically different. A prostitute is a service, you pay for it. This is not the same as getting laid with any woman.

Because you definitely mean everything to a roastie.

Could you explain further?

>Prisoners get laid. Ghetto thugs get laid. Subhuman fiends get laid. Retarded tall guys get laid. That brainlet black guy from your neighborhood who still thinks he can become a rapper gets lots of pussy, and has a girlfriend. Unemployed people who are eternally on welfare have frequent sex. Drug dealers have girlfriends.
>That guy who molested your sister now has a girlfriend.
yeah i'm Iess desirabIe than these peopIe even though I'm a hard working medicaI student
That fucking hurts Imao

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You did not really understand. I mean to say that being a low-level human being the main condition for getting a girlfriend suggests that getting a girlfriend is not at all a reward for your virtuosity.

>being a low-level human being the main condition for getting a girlfriend
And I don't even meet that condition haha.

I am this guy . But here is what I do not understand. Even though we are hard working educated citizens society/state deprive us of what we most want. That makes us feel like losers more than the low lives you just mentioned.

Don't you get it? Discrimination. Real one, not sjw-lgbtq bs. At school, at uni, at work, at home etc. People see you as a subhuman. You need to fucking AVOID the theme, give no clues to not be seen as some sort of freak, alien, robot. It force you to enter this horrible loop of self destruction and you like... don't want it at all. And then people ask you "why are you sad?.. Just beeeeeeee yourself. Giggle."

You may have other experiences, but most people will accept you as that guy who is a bit reserved but a nice person at heart.
you overestimate the validity of normies' advice.

WTF is wrong with people like OP? What is there to not get? Fundamentally, as the doorkeepers to the next generation of human beings by biological fucking default, if you are not seen as a worthwhile partner to procreate with, then that invalidates a huge part of your existence! Humans are lucky that procreation and genetics is not their only worth as an entity like so many other animals, but it still hurts when all the signs since you've become aware of them point toward the cold fact that your genetics, your physical existence has zero inherent worth. No worth. Nothing.

Even if a robot swear at some point that he won't let this stop him from creating himself, and realizing some semblance of worth from his own efforts, it's a huge, ever expanding hole that he must climb up and out of to do so, OP. I guess the old saying is true, and that on this day, OP really is a faggot.

If having children is the goal, I'm very certain that a 40 year old childless landwhale of a woman is willing to have a child with any robot who is at least a bit financially stable. What people here are beating themselves over is not finding a moderately attractive loyal young woman who appreciate them for who they are and give them sexual attention. You can get all of these things from different sources (a prostitute + a very good friend + a dog), but robots here want the entire package in one girl, which is possible on paper but impossible in reality, a bit like pic related.

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All those people you mentioned all have charisma even when they are the worst degenerate scum they still get sex.

Personally I can see why I failed on my journey to have sex, I was simply too nice and honest. No one appreciates it, women just want to see dominance.

i would be so happy to have a lana rain girlfriend

i mean, i hate that she does porn and shit, but she actually has really in-depth and nice tastes in video games and anime. actually, i wouldnt mind just being her friend since i dont find her that cute anyways.

>Prisoners get laid. Ghetto thugs get laid. Subhuman fiends get laid. Retarded tall guys get laid. That brainlet black guy from your neighborhood who still thinks he can become a rapper gets lots of pussy, and has a girlfriend. Unemployed people who are eternally on welfare have frequent sex. Drug dealers have girlfriends.
That guy who molested your sister now has a girlfriend.
Yes, they have. But you forgot one important thing.
Subhumans dating with subhumans. People here want somewhat pure gfs, not sluts.

3D is a fucking meme. I learned the hard way a long time ago. Never again.

>be trash tier neckbeard neet
>expect quality girl to keep herself pure for him

>(no. I do not consider that there is one more category of woman other than roastie). There is no waifu material girl in reality. There is no pure girlfriend who feels affection for your inustriousness, responsibility, manners, and integrity; that's an idea that was once born in a certain stressed alcoholic mangaka's fever dream about escaping reality.

if you all can get over yourselves and be nice trans women are the answer

they're smart and interesting and extra-feminine and submissive in a lot of ways yet they're easy to talk to because they still think like men in some ways

And the majority of those losers do it with drugs, manipulation, lies and significantly reducing their standards. Getting a gf through these means is not going to make me happy. I need a gf who wants to be with me because she actually wants to be with me rather than being with my money, status or just fulfilling a fetish.
I've seen so much fucking awful relationships play out from afar that i'd rather be alone than with someone i don't love. I'll probably kill myself if i don't get that by the time i'm 40 since by that age i'm at least not going to be missed by anyone. I don't want to cause people pain.

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Fuck off Reiko. All trannies are mentally unstable and extremely low iq. What else do you expect from crossdressing gay men.

>All trannies are mentally unstable
yeah but so are most of the people on this board. mentally ill people date each other well
>and extremely low iq
they're basically all either ridiculous geniuses or really really stupid, not much in between. but the smart ones exist.

Itt : mad as fuck madonna whore complex faggot tries to trash talk other pathetic faggots

Ha ha fucking ha.

accepted as someone worthy of love

>i dont like caviar
yeah well ive never got to try it so i dont even know if i dont like it

telling someone whos never experienced a thing that its not worth it doesnt make them not yearn for that thing to determine it for themselves

>Prisoners get laid. Ghetto thugs get laid. Subhuman fiends get laid. Retarded tall guys get laid. That brainlet black guy from your neighborhood who still thinks he can become a rapper gets lots of pussy, and has a girlfriend. Unemployed people who are eternally on welfare have frequent sex. Drug dealers have girlfriends. That guy who molested your sister now has a girlfriend.
Yes, because to society they worth more than we.
Your mental gymnastics don't matter, society chooses who's valuable and eho isn't. Criminals are allowed to breed (by society, I'm not talking about lae), while we are thrown away. Don't try to cope with that, it's just how the world is.

if you're in the west go back to asia (not in a racist way but in a looking out for your best interests way)

white girls hate asian men, its really sad that asian men have become a group that you're allowed to shit on in the west, but im sure you'll have better luck in asia

>cant get sexy girlfriend
>cant get laid with roasties
>cant get average gf
>cant get ugly gf
>get rejected by literal prositute

YOU DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE SPEAKING TO NORMALFAG

even if the roastie doesnt love you, she liked you enough to let you stick your dick in her thats called acceptance

no matter how much you pay a whore you will NEVER get this acceptance, which is what we really want

>having children with a 40 year old
sounds like a good way to get a disabled kid who will suffer even worse than me, why would I willfuly inflict suffering on my offspring

i dont care if the girls ugly, but 40 is way too old to have a kid if you're a female, thats rotten egg territory

Someone who has a person that gives a shit about them

Never had true friends in my entire life. I hated the friends I had because I started to see shit they would do that pissed me off. The only thing that filled the hole was sol anime. When I somehow got a girlfriend, I felt as if I didnt need anime since I truly felt like someone truly cared about me. When we broke up, I started to see why having a girlfriend was a huge goal for r9k and a lot of generally lonely people, because were fucking lonely. Weve been by ourselves for so long that we wish for someone not to fall in love with us, but to fucking care about us in this shit hole. We have people like Eliot because them being by themselves all the time causes them to say shit in their heads to the point where they cause these massacres. Being by yourself with no real life social interaction fucks or has already fucked people over.

If you still can, make irl friends that you can truly appreciate. Please. Its for the betterment of yourself.

>huurr its not my fault im unfuckable, its society and ((them))

Christ you are a flaming faggot...

Real men stands on his own.
No one cares about you if you dont care about yourself.

Who exactly are you quoting and why are you replying to my post?

And at the same time it's me who's living on my own for years, while a normalfag would kill himself long ago.

Sex or a relationship? Choose one OP.

So that's why the world is filled with happy "not a real men" who never spent a week relying only on themselves, while "real men" need mental gymnastics just to not suicide. It's all makes sense now.

evolution, blame orginailo

I see tons of guys who won the lottery everyday then, that makes me feel better!

Accepted as dick

>society allows them
No. They achieve this shit themselves. They dont whine, they dont ask for permission, they dont bitch etc.
They fail with dozens of women, they learn and they get what they want.

You on the other hand shift the blame on other people, society etc.

Oblivious people are always happy.
This board is the living proof that obliviousness dont come with being a pathetic faggot blaming other for your problems.

Did you read the post or are you just here to copypaste "generic_normalfag_reply_53.txt"?

"Muh blame others" is a meme, normalfags always whining and bitching about everything all day long and no one gives a shit.

Bullshit man.
This board its in entirety devoted to the concept that someone else is responsible for your lack of pussy or life.
Society, jews, feminists etc.

Normal healthy well adjusted people dpnt habe to bitch because they are too busy living their lives.

>This board its in entirety devoted to the concept that someone else is responsible for your lack of pussy or life.
You see what you want to see.
>Normal healthy well adjusted people dpnt habe to bitch because they are too busy living their lives.
Oh, i see, so that's why all poorfags, blaming rich, racists, criminals and many others have never had a single person in their life, accepting them.
Wait, that's not true. It's just you trying to cope by using "just-world" psychological defence.

This entire board is dedicated to outcasts in general. Or at least, that's who congregate here. Its really dedicated to originality. Outcasts who blame others that are only part of the population. A majority here blame themselves for their problems and are so depressed that they're borderline catatonic.
Also, you probably have zero self awareness. "Jews lmao" is almost always someone making fun of neo Nazis, by being as ridiculous as possible "Jews did 9/11". Feminists are annoying fucks and deserve to be made fun of. Society is decadent.
Normal well adjusted people just go with the tide. Thats what makes them normal, you stupid fucking normalfaggot.

Why did you think your agreement to be a rebuttal to my post? A 40 yr old landwhale has negative reproductive viability, so any pretense of acceptance from her can only be an attempt to use you for other purposes. Her eggs will have deteriorated, the quality of her eggs will be affected by her health, and she's probably only trying to trap you with a child support and/or divorce alimony. Considering the fact that she is morbidly obese, she probably won't make a good parent anyway, so her intentions was never with having and raising a child with you, but to turn you into her perpetual checking account.

>have had 2 gfs
>tfw they never truly loved me
I didn't ask to be reminded of this.
Even if you get a gf guys, chances are they will never love you the way you love them. Remember this.

Then that's one hell of a lottery because almost all people are claiming a significant part of the prize while robots are barred from even paying to buy the ticket. Fuck off.

Most people are miserable with everything they could ever want in life. We are a failed species.

Only ones barring robots from anything are robots themselves.
Dont blame others for your fucked life.

For a failed species, we sure accomplished a lot. No, rather it's because of our relative success that our failures are exaggerated, magnified. Because normal accomplishments like "not die" have become a triviality for humans, we are forced to find the as elaborate and fucked up ways to fail as possible.

You're not even trying anymore. Go troll somewhere else.

>There is no pure girlfriend who feels affection for your inustriousness, responsibility, manners, and integrity;
b...but Jordan Peterson said that if I slay the dragon I will get the virgin!

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Truth hurts, eh bitch ?

This is the so-called motte-bailey fallacy.
>incel means you're bitter, scornful and uncomfortable to be around
>incel just means you're an involuntary virgin
Since we allow people to switch between these definitions as they please, "incel" has now become a weapon to be aimed at every virgin, rather than just the "bitter and scornful" ones.

That's a very nice and optimistic perspective. On the other hand, look at it this way:
>low-level human beings can get one of their most basic human desires satisfied
>we, despite not being subhumans, brainlets, posers, drug dealers or sex offenders, cannot
This seems to suggest that we are, at least in some ways, inferior to all those categories of people. You don't need to have an IQ of 140+ to understand why this hurts.
We're not gods. We're not perfect. We suck at lots of things. We're not automatically entitled to sex just 'cause we haven't killed any babies recently. But we are better than those people. We're good to our peers. Some of us are even a net positive to society. And yet Tyrone and his gangbanger crew get all the good stuff, while we sit here jerking it to porn in order to not kill ourselves. Why?
I can't speak for everyone here, but for me, it's highly uncomfortable to think that all my efforts to become a decent person - someone likeable and worth interacting with, instead of someone I'd want to punch in the face - were probably a waste of time, and I should just have become a ghetto thug or violent sex offender instead. Apparently, they get more validation from society.

Does getting laid that important to you guys? I really don't give a fuck about relationship anymore because women in real world are fucking trash.
Also real love is a myth nowaday, divorce are everywhere. If you want to fuck then sure fine but if you want real geniune love, someone care about you then i suggest don't bother.