How often should a man masturbate? I understand the reasons behind nofap but it’s simply too autistic for me to get behind.
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a couple of times a day to a couple of times a week
Too autistic?
...or just too difficult?
Never, fapping is against god, just find a wife and fuck her.
So either twice a day or twice a week?
Okay maybe I should get into my reasons for asking this. I suffer from delayed ejaculation, making I can fuck a girl for a couple of hours without. This would be good if I were preforming optimally, but I end up getting bored and tired after the first 15 or 20 minutes because I won’t get that first orgasim out.
It’s kinda embarrassing honestly, the girls are usually super wet at first then around 30 minutes they dry up, after that I’m just pumping a dry hole and have to use lube.
I asked my doctor this and he said there has never been any proper studies done to know whether there's actual health risks in not ejaculating, and the studies that have been done are shit, so basically nobody really knows.
Just find a wife? Why don't I just go strap on my wife helmet and blast off into Wifeland where wives grow on wifeys?
This, preach it brother
I’ve gone 30 days, my body just doesn’t feel right after a while. I have sex often so if I have sex I end up jerking it right after.
I’m the guy from here
Why not try it yourself
Firstly no one is the same. Second it takes fuck all time to test. Try not fapping for one week, then fapping. Then two weeks and fapping, then three, ect.
2 sex questions.
1) any tips for making a girl cum?
2) I can't seem to cum from sex. What can I do to fix this?
I don't watch porn often. Nor do I death grip if I do. I find myself getting tired or dehydrated from sex all the time. Pretty much after 45 minutes I feel like I'd rather just pull out and jerk off next to her until I cum. Blow jobs can get me close to cumming but never from sex alone. I know my fetish will make me come but that's not something I introduce into the bedroom early in relationships.
Just ask someone in your family to find you a wife or just marry someone who needs asylm
I’m OP.
1. Fingering can make a girl cum multiple times in a short period of time. Make sure your fingernails are cut, curbs two fingers upward you should feel a textured area on the roof of the vagina finger, poke at that while rubbing her clit with your thumb. Instant orgasims.
2. To cum from sex I usually have to drill the girl from behind really hard and really hard and really deep for about 2 minutes straight, then I’ll cum with the intensivity of 1000 suns and be out of breath. If I’m out of stamina by that time though I just get the girl to blow me or give me a handjob.
As someone who's fingered dozens of women, this is great advice for some women, HOWEVER
1. Communicate with her to find what she likes best.
2. Make sure she's wet before you pet.
3. Clit is King. If you don't know where that is yet, do some research. You don't need to penetrate to get her to cum. In fact, the longer you tease that the hornier she will get for when you do decide to bone down.
And I'm not crazy about the thumb personally, I play bass and go ham with my next two fingers so it usually does the trick.
Was he a urologist? Not ejaculating has not been extremely well researched but it has been linked with cancer among other things. I doubt your 'general physician' really knows his shit.
IME fapping daily without porn is what makes me the horniest. Nofap kills my libido and fapping to porn makes me only turned on by porn
shut up charlie
>fapping without porn
This is how psychopaths are born.
Stop lying to yourself. You are jerking off all the time and you know it.
Twice a week for strength, twice a day for volume. Anything between does literally nothing, more than twice per day is cardio.
I try to do once every 2nd or 3rd day without porn.
I jack off 2-3 times a day. Anything less is torture
If we're considering our biological history, a man should ideally never masturbate. In the distant past (pre Medieval ages, minimum), you'd find a woman willing to fuck you and then go on about your day/week; this woman wouldn't even be a complete hag, either. It'd be easy because most men couldn't accumulate any notable wealth and, thus, women were both less attached to any one man and less hopeful for a knight/prince to appear and lead them to wealth/fame/power.
Nowadays, the standards have risen considerably. I think that as long as masturbating doesn't interfere with your goals (which may include sexual goals), you should do it as often as you like, however you like.
2.) Do kegels while pounding her
This is honestly the single most ABSURD, absolute, completely unsubstantiated bullshit I have EVER read on this board
HNNNNNNNNNNNNGGG
Do you know ANYTHING about history??
I have used this pic a couple of times, but honestly, yours just trumps everything. The fact that you managed to put this coherent thought together is truly amazing, because one wouldn't think someone this stupid would be capable of formulating an idea like this.
>t. Fat ugly incel blaming history for him not getting laid
Any advice on resetting the deathgrip sensitivity? Ive jacked off pretty regularily 2x a day for years. Once in the morning following morning wood then sometime in the evening.
Ive never been able to come from head or fucking alone. Im 25.
How long do I need to hold out to see changes on average, 1 month, 2, maybe more?
90 days
>I know my fetish will make me come but that's not something I introduce into the bedroom early in relationships.
post that shit dude you know the rules
>if i could only turn the clock back to prehistory, then i could get laid
holy guacamole
desu we would all be statistically dead before puberty in pre Med times
for me it was getting more attached to my girl
early on when we were fucking and getting to know each other, we'd fuck until she got off, then i'd jack off on her tits to finish. now i cum from PIV every time
Topkek
Who jelq here? Does it actually work or just fuck your shit up?
I can never tell if I'm doing it properly
Just work with what you got. Working out and a healthy diet will add a bit of girth over time as your circulation and erections will improve.
I have a foot fetish. My ex used to give me foot jobs, I'd cum in like 2 minutes. I know it's common and most girls seem to be with it so I just have to wait till this girl starts saying how obsessed she is with me and how much she loves me before I can introduce my fetish
Some girls are into them. I say go for it, if the girl isn’t into your fetish then a relationship won’t last with her anyway so just pump and dumb. I miss my ex, we are still on good terms so she will give me footjobs, but she is away at college right now so I have to wait until fucking May. A good footjob is hard to find fellow footbro.
Yeah, but I still want to cum from regular sex. It's great but this girl I'm with now asked "Why don't you cum" and I'm just thinking do I say it's because I want to fuck your feet, I just told her i have too much stamina so it isn't easy for me to cum
Just start by playing with her feet or massaging them if they are cute feet. I’ve gotten girls who weren’t even into it to try giving me footjobs that way. Honestly that anxiety that she won’t exceot your sexuality is probably what’s holding you back in the bedroom.
>im a virgin because of history.
Screen shotted.
Alright thanks. I'll try that out for next time. Her feet are very ticklish which I noticed last time I was with her. I don't know if that might cock block me. I'll try and ease my way into it.
you gotta do the reset bro. 90 days, 100 if you're a god
Yep, if you’re still afraid to try it, use this text thread for reference, just got one of my fuckbuddies to agree to it.
Someone needs to screencap this thread for future nofap bullshit. I’d do it myself but I’m not at home.
Pathetic
Most chicks are down for most fetishes that aren't too painful or degrading. And even the painful and degrading ones, there's usually a level of attractiveness you can be where they'll do it anyway.
does anyone have swoleesi's nudes?
>every person who came of age before computers was a psychopath
lul
>Casual sex was more common before modern day birth control
>magazines and literal carvings/statues of naked women
True actually.
Excessive birth control and bc in the water supply has basically neutered women and men.
No one is having sex.
I think I'm turning gay.
you might not, I sure as fuck am
Speak for yourself kiddo
>Cancer meme
Complete myth.
Never. If you have to just get a whore for a bbbj.
Biology fag here. This has to be bait.
Bbbj sounds kinky
Lel
wtf she has nudes?
Freely masturbating sans porn works for me too. When I watch porn my sexuality is just this gross thing that I feel like I have to do, and when I nofap I always fucking relapse and the porn habit comes back. I’m not sexually active at the moment but I feel like nofap would just make me terrible at sex. Masturbating to my imagination whenever I get horny seems to be the healthy medium
IF I DON'T GET LAID SOON IM GONNA PUNCH A WALL
I DON'T WANT TO FUCK 4's ANYMORE, IM NOT EVEN UGLY
STACEY IS SO FUCKING STUPID I TALKED TO ONE AT A BAR ABOUT LOTR AND GOLLUM BEING AN EXAMPLE OF EXTREME DRUG ADDICT AND SHE JUST GAVE ME A SHITTY SIGH AND WALKED AWAY FUCK STACEY REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Not being aroused by your own muscles/diick
How much of a dyel dicklet are you?
>Going to bar's
>Talking to women about LOTR
>Going to bar's to talk to women about LOTR
What exactly are the reasons for nofap? I mean from an evolutionary standpoint, if the argument is "it makes you have less sex drive" then why the fuck are we still capable of masturbating if it's counter intuitive to the idea of spreading your genes?
How could we preserve the "masturbation gene" if the people who developed it theoretically had a lower probability of reproducting? It honestly makes no sense.
If we're still capable of masturbating after all this time, then masturbating has some evolutionary benefit to it - it somehow increases the probability that you'll have sex. I guess that being addicted to it does hurt your sexual health, but not masturbating ever seems dumb.
That’s not wrong tho
Whatever helps you cope soyboy
I like two or three times a week would be optimal. That’s implying you’re having sex regularly (like I am). Otherwise 5 or 6 times a week would be fine too.
>be me 5'4 asian
>manlet meme takes over me since im 5'4
>become depressed and have 0 self esteem and self worth
>work fast food (im a student) so i get to see different kinds of customers
>notice wmaf couplesmore often and never amwf
>self worth decreases again
>begin thinking all women including asian women really do hate asian dudes and only go for white cock
>realize hapas actually are suffering and can't get a gf
>suddenly develop fetish overtime for genetic downgrading
>fap to porno's where white dudes impregnate asian women
>get hard not cause of the woman, but because of the future hapa that they will unleash upon the world, and that the son will get ultimately cucked out of superior genetics such as height, or looks
>been fapping to this over the past few months
AM I BEYOND SAVING user'S?
Ideally, there should just be a rotating team of slutty dimes to come and wake me up in the morning when I don’t want to go to work and put me to bed at night and they don’t speak any English but they cry out loudly in their native languages, and they all wear succubus outfits and are more than OK with stuff going on my butt, but that would just be absurd, wouldn’t it?
Anecdotally and from what I’ve read from others, it trains willpower because it makes you resist instant gratification when you feel the urge
this gives me hope
Source on these user?
YOU need nofap
reddit com/r/raceplay/comments/87zd8e/f4m_i_need_a_white_baby/
i would sometimes read shit like this and it would give me a hard on immediately. there are videos but this is one of the shit that i read that gives me these thoughts of a hapa getting screwed genetically
Yes, it actually works. You HAVE to warm up though, hot wash cloth for 10 minutes. Then 10 mins manual stretching, 20 mins jelqing. I used to be 6x5 about 1.5 years ago and am now 7.5x5.5 from sporadic exercises.
Go to pegym and thundersplace
It can work. I won over a 9/10 with a Gollum impression.
Is just doing it wrong.
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PUT ME IN THE SCREENAP user
My gf and I have sex every now and again and we explore fetishes together. Currently working on having a threesome for the culture but guys are strictly hetero pussies and girls flake
T H E P I N N A C L E OF B L A M E
user i dont know how to tell you this. . .
I actually surprised myself that I could go 2 weeks without it.
Didnt think it was worth a thread but this girl i was interested in who i thought ghosted me, was actually going through some family problems, made sure she was okay and tried my best to set up something but she was busy, so after a while thought she was uninterested in me so i deleted the contact info and what not
so she calls me the other day saying that she was invited to a movie by her friend and her friends boyfriend and wanted me to go with her as her date had a few exams amd couldn't just leave campus, told her to go and I'd see if i could make it. Couldn't leave texted her to see if we could do something later but didnt get a response
What the fuck should i do Jow Forums?
No you're right I should restrict what I talk about with Stacey to Kim Kardashian and Justin Beiber
I should completely hide my personality and hobbies from Stacey while attempting to get laid while also letting Stacey drone on and on about her vapid opinions and 0 fucking culture
I've spit in the mouth of and slapped ever girl i've hooked up with
they all loved it. random girls too that i met an hour before
>I-I'm not a virgin because of me, it's SOCIETIE'S fault
user, you have gone full retard circle into a feminist-tier argument.
>yfw the only thing that separates user from losing his virginity is a literal eon.
And I thought I had it bad not getting laid for six months.