Turning down advances after getting fit

a 6/10 face with an average body will eat shit from women but a 6/10 face with a 7/10 body is a chicks magnet. Idk what world you live in

I've done it before...You've got to be honest with the uggos, fatties, and autists...Otherwise they will never learn

im ugly as shit and girls from work flirt with me all the time now

DONT date coworkers unless you dont give a shit about that work, and even then it can backfire hard
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This

You've never seen a woman's reaction when you deny them relationship or sex have you. It's not pretty, they will be extremely passive aggressive with you for a long time, will keep bugging you on if you're gay or if your dick doesn't work or shit like that. At least not in my experience.

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Is she attractive? Why don't you like her?

And honestly I would just ignore her. Maybe take it up with HR that you're being harassed if she takes it too far or you're overly annoyed. If she's just casually talking then I wouldn't bother.

You must associate with really low class women.

>get back home after a year of travel
>shed a lot of weight, gained some muscle and some life experience
>back at my old job at a hotel
>have to wear a suit now
>every girl fucking mires

Just had a girl from the restaurant bite her thumb and looking at me while I was processing some bills for her and was very focused on the screen.

I've learned the hard way not to dip my pen in company ink though.

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Tell her you just got back together with an old gf or some shit.

Or maybe he's just attractive and gets approached by women a lot, unlike you

lmao dyel

>I've learned the hard way not to dip my pen in company ink though.
Oh this sounds like it could be a juicy story

>listening to the advise of someone with an edgy sword display

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Dated a girl from the restaurant for 6 months back before I started traveling. After the breakup, the rumors and back talk was insane.

>implying that the social environment women live in due to their sex doesn't condition their mindsets into one of extreme privilege, allowing them to pick and choose whomever they want amongst their countless orbiters
>implying with this mindset that they would take rejection well when they've likely never faced it before

y-you too

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>Amount of women that tried to pull me in while on Autism

I pay more attention now, but just missin out on young poon hurts.

Been there, done that. First of all, never ever EVER date someone from work, even if she's from another building or another country, even if she's the best looking woman you've ever seen and literally suggests sucking your dick under your desk, just don't - the risk it will backfire is high enough and in today's climate the results are catastrophic. So good on you for refusing.

This is also your way out: keep giving her the cold shoulder so she takes the hint and stop, like most normal women do to me; if she doesn't and directly approaches you, tell her you'd love to but as a rule of thumb you don't date coworkers, sorry, he he. Be kind and polite but don't give her false hopes. If she doesn't stop and keeps approaching, tell her politely you've told her before you won't date coworkers and that's not going to change. If she still doesn't stop well shit, you might have to go to her boss and/or HR, but that's dangerous fucking territory and I wouldn't do that if I were you unless she was stalking you, leaving you presents, using office data to find out shit about you etc..

You could also get a gf or start dating someone, then you'll have a real excuse. Don't tell her you have one if you don't, she'll ask around and find out or keep pestering you to test your limits.

Good luck, and keep it in your pants. Never dip your pen in company ink.

LOL @ cucks who don't fuck because of work. Takes the meaning of wageslave to a whole new level

I openly talk about going on dates at work for this reason.
I'm without a doubt the fittest guy in the office so that helps. Everyone else is DYEL or Fred Flintstone mode.
Her body type is similar to pic related. I fell for the T H I N meme and like very petite girls.

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>because of work
You're 16 and have never had a workplace that doesn't pay < minimum wage so I'll forgive your ignorance.

When you're 30 and have seen some friends crash and burn or ruin their workplace environment over some pussy-turned-cunt, feel free to reply.

I have had a co-worker accuse me of being asexual because I turned down sex from her. But after I explained that I don't shit where I eat, more eloquently may I add, we continued to be friends.

Report to HR for sexual harassment. Its what she would do if some fat slob behaved the exact same way towards her

I work at a news station and our morning anchors are fucking. Sometimes it is unbearable to work with them because they'll be at each other's throats fighting during commercial breaks. You can literally feel the sexual tension watching a 6 a.m. local news show. Never date inside the company bros.

That sounds like great television actually

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>T.ugly dyel

I mean, men aren't that different. Shit, at least women don't go killing people over it.

>Prefers passive aggressive bitch behavior

>will keep bugging you on if you're gay or if your dick doesn't work or shit like that
Holy shit, this. Women are such narcissists. If you're not attracted to them, they think that there has to be something wrong with you.

>at least women don't go killing people over it
You've never heard of Munchausen by Proxy syndrome? Women literally kill their children to get affection from unloving family and attention from doctors.

Tfw fat for my whole life. Not terribly but 40 lbs overweight. No muscle. People always told me I had an amazing personality and wondered why no girl wanted me. All my friends that were girls said the same thing. Finally have enough of it after getting rejected a bunch

>Start losing weight
>Lift every day
>Eat clean
>Do this for about 4 months

Now here we are. Things still aren't perfect yet. But girls that were one wording me and ignoring my text messages are starting to text me first and asking me to come over. Obviously body isnt perfect yet. But I feel like they know what will happen if they invest now and wait another 4 or 5 months .

>Just fuck her
You don't get your honey where you get your money.

are you me?
I've been told so many times 'your personality is a 10"
Time for a feels.jpeg green text, m8.
>be me
>24 y/o veteran
>funny, outgoing smart, masters degree almost done
>about to be in wedding
>get introduced to brides maid
>hit it off
>"talking" for about a month because LDR
>"user, you're everything I'm looking for! sweet, romantic, funny, smart...."
>Decent brapper, great taytays, cute, wants 4 kids, trad catholic, good family
>Its her birthday weekend 2 weeks before the wedding we're both in
>Spend $1,000 to take her to NYC (roughly half way between us)
>Go to broadway show shes wanted to see her whole life, $200 dinner, rose petals in the bathtub type romantic shit when we get back
>fugg like 3 times
>Next day
>bar crawl, meet up with her sister and 2 friends
>we all get wasted, dancing, having a great time
>finallymadeit.png
>Last pay in brawl crawl, around 5pm
>"user, I need to talk to you"
>pulls me aside, tells me "something is wrong," starts crying, "I only feel like you're a friend, nothing more"
>Breaks my heart, leaves
>2 weeks later, see her at wedding, keep it cordial because on nodrama
>2am after party, her fat, obnoxious friend tells me "Katie said you were a catfish, thats why she didnt want anything to do with you"
>devastated, because average looking but certainly not a catfish, plus we video called, had each others facebook, how does that even qualify?

This was probably all about a month ago. Luckily, I was bulking anyway, put on 25 pounds in about 8 months, now I've been cutting since the wedding and am down 6 pounds, becoming visibly more lean. My goal is to take some awesome beachbod pics this summer, combined with me finishing my degree and getting a job, and making her want me back, not because I want to be the one that got away, but because I want to be the one she (and others that have done similar things to me) can never have

Don't.
Break it to her easy and tell her you're a bastard that will just use her for sex and probably go full use her then ignore her and that your friendship is more important.
She'll understand but she'll always be down for a fuck because she's curious.
When one of you get fired or leaves the company you can fuck her at your leisure.
But now, don't do it.

I know that this is basically how most working women get any dick or get a relationship.
But it's way WAY too dangerous for men now.

I repeat.
Don't shit where you eat.

he served in 3 wars, almost died in 2 of them

unlike you armchair warrior

it doesn't sound like shes going to ask you out, shes waiting for you to

When one wants you, they all do. It's a hivemind.
Don't ever get tempted though. If you do, they gain power over you to wreck your reputation and will cause drama to raise their own status.
Use your alpha male status to benefit everyone around you. Protect the weak and do what is right.

This

record them and expose on twitter #metoo

Then she turns into a stalker

just enjoy the attention but don't ask her out, women don't to make the first move she wants you to,

you have literally never rejected a women, they become extremely vindictive in most cases.

Just pretend you can't tell and then when she eventually makes the first move say something along the lines of "oh god I'm so sorry I didn't think I was coming off that way. I'm not really looking to be in a relationship right now." And really act sorry about it it'll make it less awkward and leave your foot in the door in case you want to pursue that relationship later on

just be a manlet, specifically 5'6
i've been lifting for 4 years and never in my life has a single woman given me a compliment
i'm now 28 and a kissless, hugless, virgin who hasn't touched a girl in over a decade. manletism is a curse

Sounds like an ungrateful bitch. How about you spend $1000 on yourself first

Do NOT do this. Don't even slightly mention anything between the two of you. If you reject her outright she'll go nuts and work will still blow. Either get a gf, make one up or hope she gets a boyfriend. Chill out with texting even if it's k thanks, just don't respond

She said you catfished her? But, she's met you in person. How does this make sense

I got into a relationship with a girl from work. When we broke up it was a living hell of passive aggressive nonsense, cold shoulders and standard female drama; worst one was screaming about a bunch of personal shit loudly in order to force a reaction out of me because I'd been ignoring her passive aggressive bs. Told her she was embaressing herself and to have some dignity. All the women at work thought I was an "emotional bully" etc because I refused to engage with any of her nonsense and she played the victim.

DO NOT fucking do it unless you're happy to walk away from that job in a heartbeat.

"you're totally my type but I have a rule about not dating coworkers" done

im o

fucked up last post

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Senpai I need some advice. There's this cute coworker who recently got divorced. She keeps staring and smiling on me. But I know I shouldn't shit where I eat. But senpai I can tell she's going through a hard time and muh dick gets hard from thinking she's prolly craving sex. Wat do.

Guys im a virgin social outcast, should i lose my virginity to some 40-50 year old woman who is a 4-5/10? they flirt all the time with me at work but i think they're semi ugly, but im on nofap so they seem more beautiful then, but would i regret losing my virginity to some old hag afterwards, or will it cure my social anxiety?

should u as a man not care who u lose ur virginity to, just practice and have as much sex at every opportunity to get good at it?

advice please, i have no friends...

it's not your height
t. 6'5" 23 yo KHV, lifting for 8 years
I see manlets with gfs all the time

Kek

you treat them like a friend.... but for some odd reason, most of the time the girl gets extremely angry and thinks you are an asshole. They stop talking to you and try to act like they never wanted you in the first place.
But if i did this to a girl, everybody would call me a little bitch. Which is what i would be if i did that....

Assuming you legitimately have no interest in fucking her:

When she flirts with you, just shrug it off and smile. If she tries to make plans with you just tell her you are busy. It's not that difficult m8. I had 2 chicks at my last job who were after my dick on the daily. One was a 40yo married with kids and would flirt with me every chance she got. Just be cool about it and they will think it's charming. They'll never stop but it's better than the negativity and awkwardness that comes from a direct rebuke.

its funny. guys love to be sexually harassed by women.
And girls get pissy as fuck when they get friend zoned.

your virginity is not important, but if you are Stockholm syndrome'd by society into thinking it is (like most people) then it is a terrible idea to lose it to someone you are not that attracted to and also not emotionally invested in.

It will make you feel worse

This is actually a great question. Personally i'd rather pay a better looking younger escort a few hundred dollars than fuck some old hag, but there is something to be said for sex with a woman who really wants your dick. Either way i'd get it over with.

5'6 manlet here. You're probably already too far gone, but the only thing stopping you from getting women is yourself.

Munchausen is the condition where people think they have an illness where in reality they don't, and they fake an illness for sympathy or other emotional reasons

Munchausen sydrome by proxy.

google moar

sure it is in your head

at the end, it's all about face and height, a thot will determine whether she will have sex with you or not withint 5 seconds of seeing you

Money > women

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Dude I feel that with women being ungrateful for shit and then after you do the most for them "let's be friends". For me it was a party where I got rejected so many times. I told myself I would never let myself feel that way again. Some days I wake up now feeling like this is all for nothing. And other days now when women complement me and text me first I feel I'm starting to make it. 19 now. Finally feel like there's Hope by next year. I won't have to eventually settle for someone. I'll be able to find someone like me.

You can buy women with money.
You can't buy money with women.

Ergo, money is superior.

>I'll be able to find someone like me
Don't be hard on yourself, I'm sure you can do better than that!

:^)

>You can't buy money with women
You can if you're a pimp.

>Specifically coworkers.
Tell her you don't dip the pen in company ink.
Although I don't practice what I preach. I nailed a colleague at a recent conference, but she works out of a different office in a different city, so I think it's probably ok.

Use woman language. "You are such a great friend!" Basically just act as if every flirtation was totally nonsexual, as if the girl is not a sexual being. This isnt just "You are unattractive", it's "You are not even being evaluated for whether or not you are attractive."

Guys, how do you get chicks? I intentionally held myself out of the game, even purposefully rejecting girls that came along for most of my youth. Now I want to get into it, but I just don't understand it

If she's a co-worker or somebody you have to interact with often, under no circumstances should you flat-out say "no." Even though that's the logical and honorable thing to do, women simply cannot handle rejection and she WILL make things awkward, even if initially she doesn't seem hurt by it. I'm speaking from experience here.

This is one of those situations where a white lie is the best course of action. Just tell her you're already seeing someone and don't elaborate. That's much more palatable to a woman than a "no."

Dont do the virgin walk

Just tell her that you don't date coworkers. Also I'm sure your company has a policy about it.
If it happens make sure you shoot HR an email just so you can cover your own ass.

Here is a non-autistic convo/response
>H-hey user will you go out with me on a dinner d-date?
>Frankly. I'm flattered but I strictly do not date coworkers and it's against company policy. I hope we can still be friends because I value your friendship.
>O-okay user. I value you too.

>will keep bugging you on if you're gay
I've had this happen to me multiple times. If women feel at all like they're not the center of your attention and desire at all times they pull out the homo card. They're just desperate and trying to get a reaction from you.

>How do y'all deal with women you're not interested in.
just ignore her signs and don't flirt back. most women will get the hint pretty quickly and stop it.
if she straight up asks you out, just decline and say you're not interested. if you feel like you need to justify your answer further, say that you dont date inside the company as a matter of principle.

tell her to stop sexually harassing you otherwise you're going to make a #metoo tweet about it and expose her

This. I've had it happen to me as a teen and a friend has had it happen to him at his last job.

>b-but the reactions

Either A) you take your edgy Jow Forums persona IRL and don't know how to be polite yet honest, or B) fucked around/flirted back to where when you said no, you were a cunt

Use this exact words. I would not be interested in ______. That is all you need.

pls god send me anything I can fuck and not go to jail the schoolgirl thing is getting really tiring

put a bastard in her and move on

>punk chick with at least half a kilo of slut shrapnel, shaved side of head, commie etc
>tells mutual friend that she is frustrated that I never flirt back when she flirts
>naturally drop into conversation that I am attracted to feminine women
>flirtation comes to an abrupt end

make yourself unattractive to her by saying some utterly heinous shit or casually dropping the type of woman you are attracted to. (Obv don't say Thicc asians)

Tell her

I have a above average face, great frame, and I'm tall. The only reason I got and stay fit is for all the attention I get, if the attention stopped I'd probably put the 70 pounds back on.

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you have to be straight with her bro. Let her know this office stuff is inappropriate and that YOU not her could get in a lot of trouble if were banging caught an Asian in the same office. lunchtime BJs in the car are fine tho, no strings

I act really interested in them, invite them over to my house, turn on my laptop, and show them my Jow Forums folder, which exclusively consists of Pepe pictures, Nazi/NATSOC memes, and Black Metal memes.

Or, if she's more on the liberal side I just show them my war room which is filled with stuff I acquired over my time in the USMC and Army SF. I have this Hadji manbelt thing I snagged from Yemen and tell them I stole this belt off a 13 year old kid's corpse.

Works every time.

"Hell Hath no Fury like a Woman Scorn'd."

It's the truest shit ever. Women absolutely cream themselves over denying men, but if you've ever denied a woman, you know how fucking insane they get.

I have a girl snapchatting me nudes and following/unfollowing me constantly on instagram because I refused to fuck her. I know a girl who sent me like 50 snap messages in a row because I ignored her over Thanksgiving break and wouldn't respond, had to block her. Some girls go fucking insane if you ignore them.

Yeah, I’m sure it’s you’re height
You’re an emotional manlet and girls smell that miles away

if you’re lifting for anybody else but yourself you should kys or hit puberty
whatever’s easiest