>tfw no social skills
>cannot articulate well
>can make eye contact, but not when I'm nervous (all the time in conversations)
>no friends
>32 year old khv
>only hobby is lifting
what do?
how do i become a confident, well spoken guy that doesn't sperg out in front of people?
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an hero, kind of like all might
How did you get good at lifting weights? Practice.
there's tons of youtube videos on this shit, watch them.
Just become a powerlifter
Here's what you do: download VRChat and play it nonstop every day until you can hold a conversation with anyone about anything.
It's like lifting and right now you're DYEL status
Just become a nightstalker, you still get the girl with the shortcut of not needing social skills
Watashi ga kita!
any examples? I've looked at some rsd ones before
actually going to try this, getting it now
Atleast you have good taste, user.
charisma on command is one i know of
Literally no rap. Additionally start small and work your way up.
1. talk to cashiers or uber drivers
2. make small talk with nurses or doctors/ other people where you go places
3. begin talking to girls on tinder for practice
4. talk to regular guys about sports
5. talk to class mates
6. talk to friends/people at parties or bars
7. start talking to ugly girls, then ok girls, then pretty, then hot
viola
except it's like the weights always crush you and you fall over and people yell at you for making noise
Find better people
thanks
no rap?
thanks, i can try a few of those
Go on Tinder, go on dates with ugly girls/ones you're not intimidated by, practice social skills.
a little worried no one will match with me tbqh
and worried someone i know in real life at work would recognize me
no fap* also dont tell girls youre a virgin
>20
>articulate like a poet
>always had the right thing to say
>never been rejected by a girl, even when they were definitely out of my league
>fit af
>depressed and never talk to anyone anymore because drugs are taking over my life and destroying my soul
>still hit the gym and get good grades but becoming a husk
fuck help me. youre the only friends I have left.
I had a tinder from college that I hadn't deleted once I started teaching. Took my students about a month and a half to find it and start teasing me about it. How did i respond? Ignored them, and let the girls keep thirsting.
>and worried someone i know in real life at work would recognize me
this happened to me, but we matched so it wasn't that bad
did u get it
>tfw no gf like the one on the right
... no,
i'll leave this thread now in shame
user, try CBD oil in vape or tincture. its good for anxiety and will probably help you feel better
>i never thought i could just look random people in the eye
>now im shooting the shit with everyone i meet i wasn't expecting to feel like this i just wanted to get high, jokes on me, i made myself less of a weirdo!
what drugs
Alcohol.
benzos
Terrible advice. Don't do drugs (even weed), especially if you have an anxiety disorder.
>tfw no social skills
only thing my mouth can open and say is "hi how are you" then my awkward side and anxiety kicks in
>tfw never will get a gf, khv
forget any chance with stacy's like op's pic
Those girls are fucking gorgeous
howd ya start
this
source?
my friend forgot them at my house and one day I just felt in the mood. it felt pretty damn nice. like nothing else honestly. it just kinda spiraled downward from there. that was about 10 months ago.
Holy shit you're 32 and a khv? Lmao that has to fucking suck. Just keep getting fit, learn how to dress for your body type. Learn how to talk to girls and guys and be a fun guy. Having a good time at bars and clubs shows you're a confident fun guy. Pick up social cues and just keep working. You'll be in your 40s with experience and will ultimately get that lay. Keep at it OP
Ive had issues with painkillers so I know what you're saying, it is like nothing else. Although one thing that helped me drift away from drugs is that the feeling I derived from them was like a bootleg version of the real thing. A good example is mdma, alot of people say that the level of happiness you get from it ruins everything because its unmatched but its honestly kind of flimsy compared to real fulfillment. Do you have enough goin on in your life right now? Chase real things my friend.
just be yourself
I'll be your fren. You live near pittsburgh?
trying this now
a lot of swearing and yelling.. i haven't said anything yet, it's too weird tbqh
This is you
online chatting is bullshit. you have to actually go out and talk
like where?
the only people i see regularly are coworkers. and i don't think they want to talk to me tbqh
name?
Dude is also pretty good looking and fit. Nice videos too
underrated alpha behavior
>32 year old khv
Ok, I can believe being a virgin at 32, and I can even believe that you're a KV at 32, but hugless/handholdless? Nigger women give out hugs like candy, there doesn't even have to be remotely any sexual attraction between you two and you can get a hug if you just ask.
to be completely honest, I've never held hands
i have received two non-romantic hugs before, both were from girls i knew that were graduating from school, and leaving. they were hugging everyone. i don't count these hugs
Ibogaine is root
Try asking a girl out. 50/50 you end up getting laid.
>decent looking, relatively fit
>dress well
>fixed my crippling anxiety, feel totally confident and comfortable in most situations
>mind goes completely fucking blank in any social situation and I can't say anything whatsoever
This has always been the fucking root of my problems
>good looking
>just started lifting but wasn't a fatass before
>dress well
>can make a group of 10+ people laugh with one joke no problem
>24 yo virgin
Why
Try to make yourself better looking. Get male friends that aren’t losers or weirdos
Ayahuasca is vine
It's gonna be some tough shit man, you gotta put yourself in really uncomfortable social situations over and over again. After a long while you just stop caring and go on zombie/instinct mode saying whatever stupid shit comes out of your mouth. Girls love this because you won't give a fuck what they or you say anymore, and what comes out of your mouth will be vapid trite nonsense but it will get you laid.
it is kind of like with everything
its practice
Cocaine, my man.
because you dont actively pursue women?
Only option is to die and hope you get isekai'd
Talking from experience
stop making jokes and be sexier
>tfw even if I get Jow Forums I won't have gf like these because I'm a poor chink
Stop giving a shit about other people.
>this fucking guy AGAIN
>never listens to any advice
>always feels sorry for himself
>posts this shit at least twice a week on Jow Forums for months
It's time to end it, literally. You are weak willed.
Keep posting those models you'll never be getting and cry some more.
That's why you start with the bar
How do I get friends? Seems impossible when starting from zero and when you're awkward
>tfw coworkers are friends with each other, but you're too aspie to make friends with them
What kind of social situations can I put myself in? Right now I don't know many people, rarely leave the house
I've looked at meetup, and the events there don't interest me tbqh (top active groups are tech related)
What's the equivalent of starting with the bar for social skills?
You must have interests.
a sport, chess, climbing, cooking, gaming..
There are group for every goddamn thing in the world. Hell, people who like to eat shit even find partners with the same fetish.
What do YOU like?
Find a group that revolves around that thing.
Find 5 groups.. go there 1-2-3 times.. and choose.
Which one was the best (or least fucked up).
See my post:
He has received so much advice the past months, including all kinds of activities and all he says is: "I don't think that's for me/I can't do that".
Spot on ;_;
How do I become sexy?
Behold, anons! For this will be your future if you keep avoiding your problems!
Say hi to people at the gym
Thanks, I have tried climbing and dance lessons
But I need to get back in to them
I have a home gym.
Though do people say hi to strangers at the gym? I used to go to public gyms, no one said hi to me. And most people wore headphones or were with their friends already
rsd old videos are best. Watch his second and 3rd video on success, gave me shit ton motivation for a long time. BTW you have to TAKE action to change yourself man, watching stuff is not enough, you have to implement.
>banging pussy is the biggest achievement you can have in life
t. everybody on this board
Who are you quoting?
he's quoting you
Thanks
Except I have no friends either and can't find a better job because of my shifty social skills too
Join a local co-ed kickball or volleyball league. It's full of normies who drink beer and talk about normie shit. If you are a kv at age 32, you really should focus on gaining overall social skills first before you try to get your dick wet.
Can you hang out with a few normal guys and average looking girls without spaghetting all over yourself? Focus on learning how to do that first, then look into pickup shit.
its the god dammned simplest approach in the world.. you see anyone.. a cardio bunny even (might want to work your way up to her by approaching dudes with similar builds as you).. "hey how many sets you have left..?" smile and say thanks
what's this pose called where the stick one of their legs in front and up to make their ass look huge
Is the inability to grow a proper thick beard the ultimate sign of beta-genetics?
Also, no body hair = omega status?
dleet
thot squat
Well, at least you can write in a foreign language..... no wait, don't tell me you are an English mother-tongue.
What about you learn a foreign langauge?
Whatt about instead of complaining on Jow Forums you go and read a book?
What about you don't start talking ABOUT ANYTHING for 20 minutes a day, and record and post it on youtube? Talking about anything for 20 minutes is what the Royal Navy train it's sailors for, to boost their confidence and talkative skills, btw.
Thanks
I only speak English, trying to learn french. . But I don't see how it will improve my social skills
I do read sometimes, but not enough
Haven't found a source for the 20 minute talks done by the navy, but I can try it out
I'm going to recommend two books. Read or listen to them. Dying To Be Me & Inside Out
You need them, bad.
Watashi wa....
HE WA NO SHOUCHO DAKARA!!!
I dunno man. Same situation here. Overly afraid of the consequences of being visibly and vocally socially retarded, so I just stay a silent retard. Have you considered going to a different city to get practice? Sometimes I think that would be the only thing that could work. Just endure the pain while learning and hopefully never meet those people again.
the Disney movie?
gym shark thot
>start at the gym. Just start nodding and saying hey to people you recognize.
>Talk to old ladies at the supermarket, the ones around here will randomly start talking to everyone and everything that will look in their direction; they seem to ignore cues when youre trying to leave the convo, so they wont notice sperging and just going "yeah.. uhuh" etc can get you far. Add in random comments when you can.
"hey son, have you ever ate sushi here? Im 65 years old and only had chinese last week...it was ok but i never really ate rice...." wasnt until 5 minutes later she realized i wasnt a native speaker and she wandered off to the next person asking them about their bread choices.
Talk to a doctor now before coming off them risks your life. It may seem like weakness but those are a too steep and too slippery slope for human hands and feet. I wouldn't want to see anyone else, even an user I have never and will never see, fall off the end
Stop replying to this attention whore. I know you can relate to this guy, but he's literally retarded. see
thanks
Who cares if they recognise you, if they want to make fun of you in front of people they have to out themselves as being on tinder too
>how do i become a confident, well spoken guy that doesn't sperg out in front of people?
The same you get better with everything else nigga.
Practice
youtube.com
Go to a shopping center, optionally in another town, and smalltalk with everyone.
On the plus side you probably won't bald. Just shave every other day