participating in life is such a challenge
how do I find what I need to actually do anything in life
Life motivation
stop leading an unhealthy lifestyle and get some willpower
and how do I go about this?
thing is I know it's unhealthy and bad
but I just can't find a reason to change
Girls was my motivation until i realized that being shirt makes you not dateable.
Video goes dont help. Strippers and drugs help alitttle but im hoping for a slut someday in my life that will rejuvinate me amd help me see what i have been missing out on all these years.
because youre in pain, and change is the antidote
is the struggle from the change itself, or because you loathe yourself and would rather remain in pain?
Dont. Less competition for the rest of us.
I've got a girl in my life, we're not a couple but we've been seeing each other for like 10 months now, it's weird but it is what it is.
desu I think she's kinda made me a little worse
I eat a lot of shit food when I'm with her (last few months I've been actively trying to avoid it works like 76% of the time)
all we do together is spend days in bed watching shit and fucking
because it's easy
something I've been trying to explain and talk about with my shrink
I know it's bad for me but when shit's easy why put in the hard effort to change something
what's the competition?
Im little. A short man. It sucks.
it clearly isnt easy because its causing you so much pain and actively corroding multiple facets of your life
what are your goals in life? dont worry if you cant come up with something like a specific career, go as basic as you need to. happiness? helping others?
Pic related is grill
>what are your goals in life?
I'd have said nothing but since you added on basic
the only thing I'd consider a goal would be money
I don't really care about anyone or anything
but I could do what ever I wanted if I had the money to do so
but getting money requires a job and then that's where I start running into trouble
am working on it though eventually.
maybe some day soon
is money the ends or the means? what would you want to do if money wasnt an issue?
it's not really what WOULD I do
more what COULD I do
I could live on my own, drive a nicer car, go to nice places, travel, holiday, do shit.
You have to stop looking for huge dramatic changes. It's not like there'e some button in your brain that you can press to become a new, more motivated person.
Every thunderstorm is still made of tiny droplets, just as your life's path consists of your added decisions. The only way to change it is to make choices that you are not used to. It's not particularly hard, but a little psychologically draining to keep out of your comfort zone for an extended time.
tl;dr this shit doesn't happen overnight, just make small changes and they add up
nice post.
I know you're right.
and that's the real kicker of all this shit is that I KNOW the issue
I'm just not able to bring myself to change anything.
I need that dramatic change
and for me at this stage it would be getting kicked out of home or my mother dying kek.
then I'd be forced to change or die homeless
I will check this out tomorrow morning
calling it a night as it's midnight here in Aus
you might get through to me some day Jow Forums
Thank you
>I will check this out tomorrow morning
Lol the irony.
were all gonna make it
>not getting your 8 hours
never gonna make it
up at 8am regardless of what time I go to sleep
I will, I saved it to my desktop
hope your dubs confirm it
peace out
The irony is the posts in the screenshot tries to explain prioritization.
You know you'll forget about it tomorrow.
I know you'll forget about it tomorrow.
And it precisely explains why.
I have absolutely no motivation for life. I've lived years on welfare in my small apartment and barely go out.