>have a well paying job + lot of free time
>own house
>drivers license + own car
>debt free
>live with gf
>healthy
>educated
>young
>stronger and better looking than average but dyel by Jow Forums standards
>never happy
>always unmotivated
>always feel tired despite good diet, doing sports and sleeping well
how do i get happy Jow Forums
should I get jacked as fuck
will that help?
I feel miserable
Quarter life crisis.
Drop everything move to some tropical paradise to fuck exotic trannies.
Your choice brazil or thailand
Why are you defining yourself so externally? Read a book retard
what kind of books?
I gave this list only to skip through all the usual "advices"
I dont want to fuck trannies
but I do want to travel to exotic places, maybe I should try that
The kind that blow your hair back.
Start with Man and His Symbols or The Hero with A Thousand Faces.
>live with gf
there u go
what are you on about?
she takes care of my home, washes my clothes, cooks for me, etc, I enjoy living with her
>have eveything most people dream of
>still not happy
Growing a pair could fix your problem
and how do I do that
Grow some brain cells please.
Get a teenage fuckslut and share her with your wife.
grow up please you preteen fucktard
how did you get a well paying job if you're an unmotivated piece of shit?
I'm my own boss
I'm not the one incapable of basic abstraction.
Doing what?
I rent my asshole out to basketball teams
Fuck off brazil is full
selling alternative fashion accessories / clothes wholesale and retail
you say you have a lot of free time, so find a hobby you find interesting and do it so you love it. you have great physical qualities and value in your life but it sounds like you're just personally empty. develop yourself.
How do I do this? Advice pls
Here you go. You need to be the best version of yourself. Learn new things, start a new career, do whatever you want to keep improving.
Also
>lot of free time
Right there is your fucking problem. Happiness is having a purpose in life, and you have nothing to live for. Maybe it's time to impregnate that gf and raise some children.
You need to find something you're passionate about, what you've achieved in life is awesome and you should be proud but what do you live for? What is your goal in life?
People don't do well with a daily grind with no orientation, we crave something to work towards/new experiences. It's the reason rich people are so fucked up.
happiness comes from within, no one ever makes it because there's always more
Second this
I only lift and videogame
how do I find hobbies?
I feel like nothing is interesting or worth pursuing
find good resellers, manufacturers, shill your shit to every webshop in the field, start manufacturing, I dont know what to say really, I either manufacture most of my shit with the help of 2 guys, or bought local franchise rights later on alternative brands, both goes for x4 price to merchants who then sell it for x2 price
you're living the life dreamed by the jew. Get your own dream, even if you get fucked geting it.
I'm not ready for children yet, for starters I might have my own house but it's not suitable for more than 2 people, neither is my car, I also feel very immature to be a good father
also my gf doesn't want children yet either, she is still in college, and we are not married or anything like that yet
Thanks for replying! - any books, courses or videos you'd recommend that helped you get into this? Or did you figure it all out on your own?
Try growing plants. It's very rewarding to grow your own vegetables
I dont think anybody has ever pulled themself out of an existential crisis by growing plants
my dad has been doing this for more than 40 years now, never watched any books or courses or anything like that, learnt everything from him, especially how to trick the local IRS (not from usa) and the goverment with accountings
cratz for being retarded
>but I do want to travel to exotic places
do this, eliminate unknown unknowns
it may have been two or four or six years ago but I swear I remember you posting about your business
Become Catholic and go to Mass at least every Sunday.
>what kind of books?
It's the only way trust me.
I dont know what my own dream is
I want to look really fucking shredded but don't want to throw my natty card away, no matter what, so I guess that's not really achievable
I live in a downtown condo
you are not helping
impossible because I've started 2 years ago, and definitely didn't mention it to anyone in the first 3-4 months when it was nothing but a struggle and a money sink
why not pick any other religion then
>I also feel very immature to be a good father
it seems that youre stagnating as a person, you need to start developing yourself, become more understanding of what kind of a person you are, what makes you tick.
Instead of being shallow, you have to become deep, as cringy as it sounds
>esoterism
>hitler
thanks I will definitely read that!
but this post literally didn't achieve anything, what the fuck should I do?
I feel like I either stay like this, which is awful, or I need some indepth guide I can follow to get out of this hole, or I don't know what it is, but it feels awful
also there's one thing I miss and dont have in my life
I have no social circles or friends, only my gf and my family
but I have no idea how to fix this, I feel like you can't really make friends past 23
>why not pick any other religion then
Because it's the only true religion. But if you don't think you're ready yet, try reading some mainstream books that are into spirituality, Dostojewski's Brothers Karamazow, Crime and Punishment or Bulhakow's Master and Margarita for example.
if you need to be spoon-fed, go to a therapist
nigger, pursue interests and soak up knowledge
>Because it's the only true religion.
this is what the followers of other religions say as well
is there a point of going to a therapist if I absolutely refuse to take any shalom pills? because I feel like if I go to a therapist it'll end with me being depressed and getting prescribed goodgoy pills
In the same boat as you. Life is objectively fucking great. In graduate school to be a nurse practitioner. Job is good. Married to a veterinarian who is great. Tons of money. Huge house. Nice car.
I want to die every day and everything that should be enjoyable isn't. Pretty much felt like this since I quit drinking. At least when I drank I had a few hours of happiness a day.
if youre not a danger to yourself or others, you won't be forced to take any meds.
A single conversation can be enough to lift you out of this. You also have to find a good therapist, my 4th was the one that finally helped me get my shit together
how do I decide if a therapist is good or not?
if I don't feel any better after 1 meeting find another?
Invest time in something that affects and develops you and you only. Even better if it's something you suck at today.
I'm talking about creating something that is not muscle or wealth or social status. I'm talking music, drawing, sculpting, writing or reading, design, photography or fucking anything creative. Find a form you want to express yourself within and start developing that skill. If you don't know shit youtube and books are your friends.
I think you will find after a while that you have other ways to express yourself and connect with your partner and probably new people as well. Tldr; Invest in yourself and in the long run make yourself a more interesting person for yourself and those around you.
The only way to have a truly satisfied life to just give up and give in to the will Of Jesus Christ. Your creator and God. The Bible says that we know the source of our unhappiness comes from our inborn knowledge of the law. Romans 7:7-25
Give yourself over to true purpose through Christ and His will for your life.
desu I can't even imagine myself in your life to begin thinking about a solution. I think you'll be able to figure it out.
I don't recommend adding an additional layer of delusion to your depression OP
>having a job
>having a gf
>being a normie
i found your problem!
>live with gf
>never happy
Gee I wonder
How blessed are those whose way is blameless, Who walk in the law of the Lord . How blessed are those who observe His testimonies, Who seek Him with all their heart. They also do no unrighteousness; They walk in His ways.
Psalms 119:1-3 NASB
think about how much insight in yourself youre getting and if its helpful or not. My 2nd and 3rd were absolute wastes of time, their advice was shit and I didn't get to know anything new about myself or any other insights into my life.
P.S.
I should have worded myself better. A single conversation won't magicaly fix everything, but it can be enough to get you to start unfucking your shit.
do you only feel this way seasonally? I found out I have seasonal affective disorder and got the fuck out of minneapolis
Is that actually different than a vitamin D deficiency and dopamine withdrawl from lack of sunlight?
I have no idea. I tried taking vitamin D supps (I didn't get a vitamin D test, to be fair). I've lived in a much sunnier environment for about 2 years now and I have a much more stable mood.
>pick catholicism because of these Russian Orthodox authors
Brainlet.
can vouch for man and his symbols. I got high and read the first 2 chapters and shit my pants
cocaine
Opiate of the masses, huh?
Do you actually enjoy what you do for your job? I’ve found that if you don’t particularly like your work then it really drags everything else down.
happiness is incredibly shallow and also fleeting. OP is after meaning you stupid faggot
Well it works for most of them.
I used to play the flute, then the guitar, then sax, but realized I dont like playing instruments
how do I into writing?
why jesus christ, why not any other prophet? why the bible?
are you proud of being an incel virgin neet? is this how you actually planned to live your life? what an embarrassment you are
why not quote another religious book, also whats wrong with living with my gf, see my earlier post
I feel like this all the time, but its worse in the winter
I take vit d supplements
Can't help but notice that their works strongly advocate for Orthodoxy, which is found in Catholicism. Orthobros make same of the best arguments against western degeneracy.
Anybody who just comes in here quoting their holy book randomly probably has some pretty intense issues of their own. Don't get sucked into that trap.
Ever played instruments with others?
There are so many forms of writing, if you are a musician you might enjoy poetry. Novels are kind of hard to just start with, maybe find something you enjoy reading yourself and try writing a simple draft? There are a ton of website to publish and share ideas and getting published in smaller magazines (short stories) and the likes isn't to hard to get started.
Either way I think you would find a way if you spent time on it. Writing is also extremely therapeutic.
Jesus Christ is the son of the one and only true God. Everyone knows deep down that there is a God. Everyone. That God is Jesus Christ.
its not their holy book, whoever you are. Its yours too whether you agree with it or not
answer my question, why jesus christ, why not any other prophet? why the bible? there are dozens of holy books for other religions
never had that, as I said earlier I was always shit at making friends
but I dont really like playing instruments anymore, feels like a chore, feels like it requires such precision to be actually good that its not worth it for me
Christ be with you