I got my first BJ today, i were hard during the whole thing which lasted for like 10 min. But I couldnt cum eventho it felt good. What does this mean? i felt like i needed to skull fuck her to cum there, am i porn damaged? she said she couldnt take it deeper(she basically sucked the tip)
I dont watch porn anymore and i fap rarely, i seriously thought i would cum in 30 sec but now i had to finish by fapping my own dick really hard and fast. what do
10 minutes isn't that long. You're probably fine. Just enjoy it and relax. Anxiety can stop you from cumming.
sounds like you got a really shitty BJ. did she even put a finger or two in your ass?
she did actually and i my whole body started to shake, it felt nice. BUT it was so hard to cum
just mouth fuck her like a slut alot of girls like it desu
>I dont watch porn anymore and i fap rarely
if you've over 18
you've been jerking off to fucking porn for 4-5 yrs everyday. couple months isn't going to change shit
also you probably aren't turned on by her and she sucked at her job. and no getting hard doesn't mean you like her dumbass
fuck a different girl.
BJ is for foreplay. 69 her and she probably won't mind getting throat fucked
Or tell her to use more hand
tell her to go deeper and push up on the prostate next time. you'll instacum
>a finger or two
I need a whole hand to even get hard and im not even gay
your penis is too used to your hand, give it some time
Maybe 'porn damage'.
But that on top of you being nervous. (First time you put your jib in a girls mouth.)
Her only suckling the tip. (She's awful at Bjs)
You probably jerk off to much. And when you do you strangle your dick making it so that more force is needed for you to nut. Try and stop doing that as much.
i cum in 6 seconds from a blowjob so can anyone please help me
this
I usually need a huge cock into my ass to make me cum, and I'm not even gay
>you've been jerking off to fucking porn for 4-5 yrs everyday. couple months isn't going to change shit
Not OP but literally me. Also banged this hoe recently but couldn't cum in a fucking hour and a half.
What do?
Kek
fake an orgasm and leave
I cum in about 90 seconds from sex and 20 minutes from a blowjob. I'd definitely switch those around if I could.
Might have been anxiety. Nothing will make it harder for you to cum than over-thinking it. Just lie back, enjoy yourself, let her do the work. Maybe get her to stroke you between mouthfuls if you're sitting on the edge. Getting relaxed around her will help too, when BJs become a regular thing.
Could try asking her to sit on your face next time you get a blowjob.
Be careful though as I did that one time and the girl put her asshole right next to my eye and I shit you not, thing had a few hairs on it. Made it really hard to concentrate as it obviously felt like a mans ass on my face
Its the anxiety. Trust the fact that shell do till youre done. Relaxing is the key. If you think about cumming you wont
I've nearly lost my virginity to a girl three times. Each time I couldn't get it up due to alcohol I presume. But what if I can't get it hard at all? I'm scared that I might have performance anxiety. Anyone have experience with this?
I have a hard time cumming with any woman, I think part of it is I was circumsized and for years I have to have a death grip when I jack off to feel it.
My virgin gf had to try like 5 times but after she got the technique down and i realized clenching my legs/core makes it easier she can finish me off within 10m.
Also stop watching porn.
I can never get hard/stay hard the first time with a new girl so I just went godmode on learning and applying oral.
Take L-Arginine before you go to a party where you're gonna be drinking and might get laid. I used it back in my man whoring days and my dick always worked even when I got blackout drunk.
You should be upset if a shitty BJ got you to cum in 10 minutes. No healthy man should blow his load from a shitty 10 min BJ.
Most girls are bad at bjs, also alot of girls have bad vaginas. All i get hard from is when girls fistfuck their own asses.
Also, since behavioral therapy for pedofiles consists of step by step alteration of what the pedofile views as hot, as kiddos-teens-tweens-etc, i think the uneducated guess from a guy who went on a tinderdate with a shrink is that op should watch more vanillaporn if he wants to enjoy bad sex.
unironically, the best bj advice i can give you is to tell her to sit on your face while she's giving you a bj (69-ing). wait until after she's started a little, but don't wait too long. the goal is to just keep ramping up the excitement.
Most girls are shit at blowjobs, handjobs, and sex. It’s a skill to make yourself cum when she’s fucking it up.
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Hold her head and cheeks with your hands as she is going down and up. Thrust a tiny bit with your hips as well. You'll feel more physically connected to the action and be able to have more feeling and it will feel less alien and you will definitely cum. It's impossible for me to bust on a bj without holding her head and guiding her as she ducks. Trust me and try it. Also have her jerk the bottom of your cock as she sucks the tip.
The only thing I remember from my first time is that we fucked for like an hour or longer.. only because I couldnt come (anxiety). After a while my dick was just numb. Also my legs were shaking like a motherfucker which was really weird.
Nowadays I don’t get the shakes anymore but my dick still gets numb, I don’t know how to explain it. It’s really frustrating because I don’t get much enjoyment from sex because of that.
Your experience sounds like a dream for me. No matter what I do I cum in 30 sec or so.
Jerk off a couple hours before sex. Last 20 minutes minimum, but anything over 40 minutes, most girls will just want you to finish.
Same here but this usually helps me with lasting a little bit longer. I learn which angles work for me the best and use those best ones after she cums and I want to.
Gotta figure it out with every new girl tho so I got god mode at fingering and eating out. If you make her cum before you stick your dick in her, she not going to complain if you only last 10 minutes. Just don’t make it a regular thing.
>betas that aren't hard 20 hours a day
>betas that can't cum when fucking a woman
>betas that can't cum when getting sucked off by a woman
The whole purpose of life is get hard and nut in hot chicks. You all need to kill yourselves. Seriously.
>The whole purpose of life is get hard and nut in hot chicks
that's like saying the whole purpose in life is to poop
roger that.
She probably wasn't using enough spit or her hands enough. Sounds like a shit bj desu.
how do you follow that up when cumming almost instantly?
t. virgin
you do them for a bit and when you're good to go again you fuck for real.
If I might get laid on Saturday does taking it now make ant difference?