Son hates the gym

>son hates the gym

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Don't blame your son, blame yourself. Children are the result of their upbringing. How much time did you spend with your boy? How much toxic female influence was there in his education? Did you do any sports with him when he was young?

This is difficult. I grew up with very little sports influence (I did soccer for a tiny bit, some baseball, much less than people who did real sports).
Never was even suggested to go to the gym.
My friend was the epitome of the high school athlete.
I go to the gym 6 days a week because I love it (and I'm a loser with no real hobbies) and he has gone into full skinnyfat, dangerously heading towards chubby since college.

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Did he like the prostate exam?

>Nephew and I with 8 year age difference so he's like a little brother almost
>Seems to have followed a lot of the things I did growing up
>Is about to start high school
>Plays a lot of games on his Nintendo Switch
>Has gotten even fatter than when I was at my fattest
>Wants to do marching band instead of sports like I did (I learned football was way more fun when it was too late)
>I've tried encouraging him to check out his school's lifting club and to try exercising
>Says he has doesn't want to do any excercise and doesn't understand why it's a good thing
>His dad used to be a great soccer player in high school, but now is obese and can't hold a job or pay his bills

I am really worried he's not going to fully realize how much he needs to get his ass in gear before it's too late. I don't want him to experience high school as a fat no gf band kid. I've already done that and while I had plenty of good friends I know that it's kind of miserable. He's not even playing the Chad percussion he's playing the virgin baritone.

Marching band is incredible. If you work at it as if it were a sport it can VERY easily be more physically demanding than other sports. Not even counting the benefits of learning and/or practicing a musical instrument. Literally the best activity a person can do in HS

I got FIVE things to help big time user:
Also just for reference how old is he cause being pre- and intra-puberty plays a big role in these factors?

A few of these are multi-step but they should be among the most sure fire way to get him interested:

First and MOST FUCKING IMPORTANT:
>Get him on a Test boosting and libido boosting diet, subtly at first but if you have to get creative then do so.

The next two go hand in hand really well given Arnold was an action movie hero

>The first and most important for his overall masculinity, get him watching action movies with rippling muscled action heroes like Arnold and Stallone, Predator, Terminator, Rambo, ESPECIALLY the Rocky series,

>Find subtle ways to show him bodybuilding like old clips of Arnold or various action heroes he admires training with a pump, he will see how it's all done behind the scenes

These next two go hand in hand because He will understand the meaning of sexual tension and how other boys his age work towards and achieve success with the opposite sex:

>Get him to hang with other guys his age that are athletic, preferably chads, and even more preferably a cousin or family friend who will gladly guide him along, get him interested in sports and doing whatever is possible to try and get teen pussy

>Get him around (pretty) girls his age or older (cause when we we're all 9 and shit we had no problem droolin' over the 16 y/o hottie baby sitter's milkjugs) It's inevitable unless and (probably even if) they are absolute uggos that he will be extremely attracted to them

Those all work good together:

Another thing, if he does start trying to exercise, make sure he stretches and warms up properly, and executes everything with good form. If he fucks up his spine doing something wrong, it can destroy all his noobgains and make him a suicidal hormonal teen unable to be masculine

Just stress to him how fucked up (so and so) was by not developing right, fix his diet if can

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You didn't answer the question. Did you actually take time out of your day to go to outdoor activities and encourage him to live an active life style through EXAMPLE or are you just a typical boomer retard who wants his son to be a certain way just by telling him so and not leading by example then getting butthurt and crying about millenials.

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Idk I did marching band (drumline) and while I made some good friends and it kept me from getting too out of shape I think I would have been better off doing literally any sport for social and physical gains. I guess it sort of depends on the people involved though. If he starts lifting in the next couple years I'm sure he'll be fine I just want him to get the most out of his time. Maybe if they make him march tuba he'll get in shape.