>start off by hooking up with her >gradually get more attached to each other >develop full blown feelings for her (she said it's mutual but who really knows with hoes) >start dating her officially even though I know she's a hoe >suspicious of her every single night because she's friends with lots of guys and I know of her whore past >get extremely jealous anytime we go out because her male friends are way more charismatic and sociable than me >get paranoid and start reading through old messages trying to connect some dots, become convinced she's cheating >break up with her, but still have intense feelings for her >she says "i understand" and nothing else >feel anguish and sadness because despite everything the feelings won't go away >i want to try and repair the damage but it's already done
sorry for the blog post i just really needed to vent some feels...
>>start off by hooking up with her Fuck off reddit
Cooper Russell
unfortunate situation man, experienced similar things before those feelings will fade but they will be rekindled by thoughts of her expel thoughts of her from your mind, expel thoughts of the past learn to meditate on the moment of now learn to silence the mind learn to bathe in the purity of consciousness this is for your benefit
Aiden Rodriguez
Had the same shit happen to me. Sketchy ass girl who was similar. If she didn’t respect how you felt and didn’t even attempt to change her ways or compromise, it’s better she’s out of her life. Even if you get back together, the paranoia will stay
Jordan Lee
> Fit - Fitness
Go to Jow Forums or /soc/ dipshit
Xavier Sanders
You sound neurotic af
Try magic mushrooms
David Bennett
I'll do this, thanks. Fuck off asshole Jow Forums is my home. No just generally anxious.
Isaac Gonzalez
I'm going to get BTFO for this because it's going to trigger the incels, but here goes nothing..
You fucked up when you assumed what her prerogative is. Yes, the "everyone has a past" meme is tiring but it doesn't make it untrue. If you knew what her sexual history was and you presumed that she was still acting that way, that's just looking at a red flag with rose-tinted glasses; that's entirely on you. The fact that you chose to ignore that and still caught feels is entire in your court.
That being said, she probably wasn't doing shit. You jumped to conclusions like it was your job, you unnecessarily compared yourself to her guy friends, and in the end, you assumed she was cheating and broke things off. All on you, buddy.
Hindsight is a bitch and you need to realize that you screwed the pooch on this one but there are going to be so many more than her, and they'll be even better.
Relationships that start on a basis of sex are destined to fail because there's no desire put in the effort when you've already received the reward. You developed feeling because you were intimate and because you're human, don't sell yourself short like that. Just learn from it and find someone better.
Take 5 things from this that you want in your next relationship and 5 things you would have changed (either on your end or her's) and keep those in mind.
Ignore leddit spacing, I hate making point and lumping them into one mushed paragraph.
Asher Diaz
This, doing anything with whores is a dangerous game because it's natural to develop feelings
Cooper Thompson
>she probably wasn't doing shit. You jumped to conclusions Not OP but I've got to disagree. Whores of both sexes inevitably come to see sex as a commodity and very rarely put any serious stock into monogamy. I have a female friend who's bro-tier but a total slut, and every few weeks or month she'll be upset because some new guy she was talking to dumped her because she fucked her ex to make him mad, and paints the guy as the irrational one. The one thing r9k is right about is that roasties will be roasties. Not ALL girls, but effectively all promiscuous girls.
Nicholas Lewis
Pathetic. Lesson for the future OP and any other retard that might be lurking - whores will always be whores. Literally always. The only reason she got attached to you, agreed to be with you, and pretended to love you is because you were literally too stupid to understand what she was. Her other fuckbuddies understand it. They pull her hair and fuck her throat and cum on her ass and show her the door. But you OP...you cuddled. You kissed her on the mouth. You stroked her hair. You gave her the illusion that she could stop being a whore whenever she wanted, that she didn't crave hard dick and disrespect and excitement. Now you know what she meant when she said >"i understand"
>Hindsight is a bitch and you need to realize that you screwed the pooch on this one but there are going to be so many more than her, and they'll be even better. You're right. I made plenty of mistakes along the way, being paranoid to a delusional degree included, and I'd like to think it's because it was my first real relationship. I'll learn from this and hopefully avoid it in the future. >you cuddled. You kissed her on the mouth. You stroked her hair. You gave her the illusion that she could stop being a whore whenever she wanted, that she didn't crave hard dick and disrespect and excitement. >now you know what she meant fuck me that hits hard... I am ashamed and humiliated but I won't let it happen again.
good man I hope you find what you are looking for someday soon
Luis Turner
>I'd like to think it's because it was my first real relationship Bro, stop right there. If anything, this is a just a test run and don't think of it as some sort of benchmark. What was the timeline on this,
Leo White
>Paranoid man creates problems for himself from his own anxieties
Boi I sure am glad a thread had to Zyzz for this.
Lincoln Reyes
All I want is a traditional qt to wife up and have a family with. ~4 months. And I gained a lot of helpful insight from other anons as a result.
John Diaz
Absolutely fucking disgusting, user. Pick yourself up right fucking now.
First of all, never catch feelings for a thot. Here are some first time red flags for you boys:
>Gives it up on the first night >Has a boyfriend >Has more guy than girl friends >Is friends with her exes >"I'm really not into drama" >Emotional baggage >Daddy issues (you can tell when a girl has daddy issues)
I'll add more if I think of some, but right now I'm at a stand still.
Ayden Fisher
>tfw gf meets all of these except daddy issues >still have feels
user, get out before you get your ass handed to you.
Grayson Adams
>I can't stop crying
You need to be over 18 to post here
Carter Brown
Back to r9k with you.
Kayden Allen
>actually crying over a woman who you did not even date for a few years good lord op. not only was the relationship short-lived, but it was with a fucking whore. start off relationships slow if you let your dates turn into sex or just making out and oral, then you will begin to like her for something that anyone on earth can do for you.
take it slow and try to see if the girl is actually someone worth your time, if shes someone who you like.
i know you're a desperate neet, but you'll never have successful relationships until you begin to date girls based on who they actually are.
Jaxon Nguyen
until you go sweat those tears out on hill sprints
Luis Reed
It's not about being anxious. You sound really insecure
Sebastian Rogers
It was short lived but we genuinely vibed together very well, similar to best friends. It's partly why I developed feelings so quickly. But this is good advice, thank you Lifted and did cardio, it helped a little A bit of both, yeah
You also have to acknowledge that it is chemicals in your brain which are making you feel this way, as dumb as it sounds, ignore them.
Connor Long
give or take 4-5 months of sulking and unable to go a day without thinking of her usually, then you'll have a break down and think about suicide then either you'll die or get over her by finding something new that makes you happy
