Is there such a thing as big boned? My girlfriend was a bit overweight when we met and I waited until I decided to keep her to tell her to lose weight. She went from 58 kg to 46 with my help ( I planned her work outs for my optimal results ) but she's still wide as fuck and I like short petite women.
I thought big boned was a myth but my bitch has 96 cm shoulders and 96 cm hips. Her waist is around 55 cm which is nice but her rib cage/sharp AF hips sticks out of her back/sides and a horse shoe gap shape under her tits. Her calves/thighs are overdeveloped but her ass keeps getting smaller so I'm not sure what's going on there. Will her body adjust, should she lose a bit more weight or do I accept her failure?
Keep her on a strict diet and hardcore routine, she will eventually look good enough to dump your autist ass and land some normal functioning bf
Nicholas Gray
Nah she's 155 cms tall, that's a decent weight.
Ryder Clark
Post pics, both 58 and 46 if possible. She could possibly be salvaged.
Julian Garcia
If the bone structure in the face can vary pretty greatly from person to person, why not the skeleton as a whole. That said good on her for actually losing the weight.
David Young
I tried to get her to take before and after but I didn't get laid that night because of her self esteem baggage; I'm good on that but ill see if I can't find some clothed.
Eli Wood
Big boned the way fat people use it as an excuse? No. Big boned as in having a larger frame? Of course.
Colton Cooper
I guess but that much? I dated a girl with 60 cm shoulders and it was nice. Her face was never fat and has gotten slightly more angular but she was always hot there which is part of why I decided to make her better. I always thought big boned was a fat girl excuse. Apparently before I met her she was 72 kg due to bad health issues, so 72 kg to 46 in one years time. She works hard so I'd hate for all her effort.
Ian Brooks
Effort to be wasted*
Luke Evans
Is there anything you can do to change that? I remember women wearing girdles or that lingerie stuff for awhile for waists but her waist is pretty tiny so that's fine.
Adrian Stewart
You are the failure. You go out with a girl that is not how you like them. You try to change her. When you do you are not satisfied by her skeleton so you talk about her failure. Are you a fucking woman ?
Evan Phillips
I never said she was a bad girlfriend, she's great in that department but there's really no point in staying with a bitch if you'll just end up fucking others with more preferable bodies. I've been willing to work with her and have helped her the entire time we've dated which with her lupis can be incredibly frustrating. So no, I'm not a woman but when's the last time you had to carry your girlfriend because she was too " sore".
Any helpful suggestions?
Samuel Johnson
seek medical help. reported.
Zachary Sullivan
She already sees a dietician and reported for what? This isn't off topic retard im looking for exercise or diet advice.
Xavier Bennett
Post pics. Best case scenario solution: Toning muscles Worst case scenario solution: Plastic surgery We really can't tell by your description alone.
Brandon Carter
I have to wait until she gets home to grab her phone, I filter all of my pictures where as she doesn't. Maybe I'll just remake thread then.
Adam Fisher
Dude. Why did you go out with a chubby girl in the first place if you want a slim petite one ? Also, why are you talking about your frustration ? You are making a girl lose weight to fulfill your fantasy, she is doing her best and you are frustrated ? Fucking hell, you are not some special snowflake that deserves that by default. If you are so worthy of her effort why did you not go for your ideal in the first place ?
Caleb Jones
Needs to build some glute muscles, her thighs are probably over developed because they help compensate for sleeping glutes.
You can date a girl without marrying her calm the fuck down. I went out with her because finding a girl to my preferences that is as hot in the face as she is, without being a bitch, that pays for her own shit and doesn't have a family to drag me around to dinners and shit with is impossible. Its also a plus that she has lupis in a way because she doesn't drink or do stupid shit other than a bit of pot and I always know where she is.
That being said her body is not one of those things compared to other bitches and I'm trying to be decent here by giving her a good shot before I move on.
Back on topic Her legs got that way from variations of squats, lunges, the suggested for asses etc. I limit her cardio to an hour a day and she lifts 3x a week. It was 5x a week but her arms started developing too much muscle so I cut that out as best as possible except for assistance in of course other exercises such as aforementioned squats. She can pretty much hold a wall sit indefinitely.
Xavier Jenkins
Wait so in freedom units she’s 5’1 and 100 lbs. That’s almost at IMAGINE levels what do you mean she’s big boned.
Wyatt Fisher
You can have a wider bone structure than average. It will be visible in the way of shoulders, hip bones, wrist and knees, as well as the ribcage.
While it does have a correlation with skeletal muscle mass, it will not be visible in the prominence of soft tissue.
Jonathan Williams
Look at the measurements I gave for her shoulders and hips. Her weight isn't an issue its the span of her width. I was just wondering if losing a few more pounds would help bring her boney hips in.
Adam Edwards
So the fact that her hips stick out like reversed shoulder blades could be influenced by more muscle gain or will that just make it worse?
Her stomach has a tiny bit of loose skin ( natural after the 30 kg loss in one years time ) but there are abdominals beginning to show. I was actually thinking about having her stop training that area though because I don't like defined abs on women.
Grayson Nguyen
>dating a womanlet Next thing you know she """accidently""" gets pregnant and in 18 years we have the next generation of manlets complaining on Jow Forums. Stop. Get some help.
As a chick with a big ass ribcage and somewhat wide shoulders, there's not much you can do. I work on building my legs and ass to even out, and try not to overbuild my back because I look more like a fridge if I do, despite DL being my favorite lift. Also I wear things that make me look more proportionate
Alexander Reed
>45629962 No (You) for you >as a chick Stopped reading. Tits or gtfo
Training has fairly little impact on ab definition, but, on the contrary, it helps fill out the loose skin a bit (that is because the increase in volume is more significant than the increase in the volume that makes up the texture you can differentiate over the skin).
Areas where bones protude usually don't significant muscle volume, being a point of attachment instead, so it wouldn't make it worse. It will, instead, help: when you increase the volume of the sharp area's surroundings, the sharpness is toned down, like you'd expect.
Hudson Fisher
Just offering a useful perspective :p :p :p :p :p :p :p :p :p
Easton Price
usually don't feature significant muscle*
Owen Anderson
Yes but it has nothing to do with weight, or rather very little to do with weight. My gf is a marathoner, and weighs 105# at 5’5, but wears a 34 band size on her bra because she has big bones. She’s still skinny as fuck.
Sebastian Wood
If she's tall and she's hot she's psychotic. In comparison a quiet short sick bitch that can walk with her legs behind her head on her hands... Yeah I'm not retarded.
Thank you for the first useful info on this thread.
Any ideas as to why her ass is getting squared and smaller while her legs and her calves especially are becoming developed. Her calves are trucks, which I hated at first but now I adore them.
Henry Barnes
I do: people, and woman a bit more so, in particular, tend to accumulate fat in their butt and hips to a greater proportion than other areas of the body.
So while losing weight and working out, areas which accumulate fat, like so, tend to decrease in size, while areas that already have little fat to start with, like the calves, gain size due to muscle, not having much in the way of fat to start with.
Dylan Brooks
women*
Gavin Rogers
So in trying to get her ass bigger I've made it tiny by.. Having her do the exercises suggested to make her ass appear larger which gave her huge calves/thighs.. What the fuck?
Robert Clark
This may interest you: the body doesn't quite gain and lose body fat following the same proportion; you may end up with different rates, starting at a certain amount of body fat, and slimming down then going back to that amount. That is usually only relevant for people that were meaningfully overweight in the past, though.
But the breasts and butt in particular are mostly fat; ab definition is a good measuring tool for whether your girlfriend is overweight, rather than the size of any given bodypart.
I personally find women tend to look best at a certain sweetspot where you can see the outer ab lines but not the inner definition of the abs themselves.
Adrian Brooks
So what should she do to make her ass bigger then? Most of her fat left is just tiny loose amounts around her belly when she sits and a small triangle on her arms near the pit. Her back doesn't have any of that just protruding bones and veins.
Nathaniel Wilson
>I like short petite women >but she's wide as fuck This means you should find someone else, if you have options
I'm 6'9" and I like short petite women. But they don't like me so my gf is 6'1"
Aiden Nelson
Slim down until she has full ab definition, then slowly regain it until it fades back.
If it still looks too small after that, only surgically adding fat or implants to the area will make it bigger without losing definition in the rest of her body.
You can be the best you can be, after that it is up to just accepting what is possible and what isn't, and that is the line for that one.
Xavier Gray
I wouldn't mind an definition if her ribs didn't stick out like a barrel but as was stated earlier maybe that might make it better. Still waiting on her to get home to show pics. Pic related Her ribs kind of looks like this thots but the middle is a much more pronounced horse shoe and my bitchs ribs stick out individually quite a bit more because she's not as fat as pic related.
Throw in the reverse shoulder blade hips that stick out of both ends and are wide AF, a much tinier waist than pic related, linebacker sharp boney shoulders and you'll see why I'm confused about her proportions but maybe I've been telling her to do the wrong shit.
What weight would you recommend she's around 96-100 amerifat weight if that helps.
For the other Americans she is five foot one, 96 to 100 lbs, has a 38/20-21/38 ( shoulders, waist, hips ) in your inches, and ill take her other measurements for legs tonight.
Anthony Anderson
>tfw when you're a male womanlet
Robert Bell
To be honest I don't really care about definition just making her less fucking wide and her having a big(ger) ass. The rest is just frosting. I will have her switch to "core" and see if that doesn't help with the protruding ribs situation. She reminds me of a feral cat in winter in body proportion.
Isaac Hall
Take 20 pounds off pic related, make her hips stick out by a few inches from her stomach, and give her muscular legs. This is what she looks like fuck it was hard to find a relatable picture. Maybe her structure is just weird.
So she's... Starving? Because you're describing a holocaust victim. I think she should gain more weight and build muscle where as your strategy seems to be to starve, do an hour of cardio a day, and weight lift until she's by your words too exhausted to walk and expecting a medal for being a " decent boyfriend". If she were on a high calorie diet she would have noticeable gains by now but it sounds like she doesn't have any caloric intake to back it up and youre essentially causing her body to slowly cannibalize itself.
Imo.
Jack Morales
jheeze you need to back off your girlfriend, let her gain a bit of weight and be healthy again . . .
Jace Watson
test
Daniel Thomas
>Can you change her skeletal structure? Sure just per her in a vice and squeeze her into the right shape.
Benjamin Price
That girl has a bmi of 19,14. Make her loose just 1,55kg more and she's officially underweight and below the legal limit for professional models. I use derogatory language very sparingly so you can feel special when I tell you, you are either a massive shithead or an abusive asshole! Cut that poor girls cardio back to at last half of what you make her do now and give her enough kcals for her needs! Better yet make sure she gets a better bf than you.
Caleb Brooks
Don't encourage
Nicholas Sanders
lmao @ this thread. Dumbass OP and dumbass landwhales calling his gf starving. OP if it bothers you that much then break up with her and if you can overlook it then continue to date her. stop whining about it online you fucking beta
Lucas Perez
How to find pedophile or biz bf
Lucas Bell
Jesus, I hope that girl doesn't have Lupus and you just misspelled something less severe that's curable.
Ryder Morris
Look man, you're retarded. You can't change somebody's skeletal frame with diet and exercise. If you're seeing "sharp bone," then that's as narrow as she can possibly get. She won't get smaller.
Please break up with her. I feel bad that she's dating somebody like you.
Henry Cook
where's all my draft prospects at? don't want to waste my genes on a womanlet to bring manlets into this world
Luke Diaz
If you can see fucking veins in her back, then she's grossly underweight. You're describing a concentration camp prisoner. >Self esteem issues No shit. She's going to talk about you on Dr. Phil one day.
Austin Bailey
This, you’re probably making her life shitty by forcing all of your ideals on her. Apologize for being a shithead and part ways so you can go find some vain slut that satiates your wants.