What do men have against being a woman's best friend...

What do men have against being a woman's best friend? Why would you rather ruin something beautiful than not be sexually gratified?

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>What do men have against being a woman's best friend?
If you have romantic feelings for them: quite a lot.

>Why would you rather ruin something beautiful than not be sexually gratified?
I would, to be honest. :/

she cant fuck anyone either. only way it can work

>Ruin something beautiful
Women are usually shitty friends, and do what they can to manipulate obvious orbiters in to buying them food/clothes/etc.

They will waste your time on all the shit they want, but put forth any effort in to the things you want to do.


Aside from that, when you obviously have romantic feelings for some one, are rejected, and have to watch and hear about them having a romantic life with some one else, it's naturally going to drive you away.


That's just instinct, and there's nothing wrong with it.

No girl wants me in her life period. As a friend or a boyfriend.

>that feel when you have a girl best friend

It's kawaii as fuck desu. It's what I imagine having a sister is like.

I have never had a female friend, so I don't like the fact that you have a male "best" friend.

I wish you the most painfull death.

what do i get out of a friendship with a girl? she cant provide any of the stuff i get from my dude friends.
cant play vidya with her cause shes either not interested in it or a terrible scrub, cant banter cause she gets butthurt, cant talk about interesting shit cause she doesnt know anything about the nerd shit im interested in.

like, my hobbies and interests include stuff like
>powerlifting
>shooting guns at the range
>programming
>military history
>autistic niche video games
what the fuck am i supposed to do with a girl "friend"? talk about the braindead netflix shows she watches?

They can be best friends and be sexually gratified, fwb type relationship. Duh. I dunno whether sex really complicates a relationship or not, I'm not some kind of expert.

It really blows when you see the alpha of the group raking in the pussy and you get nothing. Sexual selection is a bitch.

If I had a sister I wouldn't want her fucking other guys.

>Girl gets everything from friendship while guy gets nothing.

HE ISN'T ENTITLED TO ANYTHING CISHET REEEEEEEEEEEEEE

That's because you're mentally retarded

>dur i wouldnt want my sister doing something literally everyone else is

Because women are boring people. They aren't good friends at all. A woman won't be there to fight that guy with you. All a woman is good for is sex and emotional support. Both of which are the only good thing about being in a sexual relationship with someone.

>if everyone else does it that makes it right!
>calls others retarded
Have fun watching your "sister" degenerate into a roastie used whore.

Not worth my time
Am I original?

I have a similar problem.

I've just started recently hanging out with this girl. I asked her out on a date, she said she has a boyfriend, let's go as friends. While I'm head over heels to get to spend any quality time with a girl, and I do feel like we're getting along, I can't help but feel like I'm digging my own grave. I'm falling for her more each time we meet, but it crushes me every time she mentions her boyfriend. I was willing to give up on the whole relationship, but she keep re-engaging me. One class mate tells me she's obviously into me, and from stalking her on Facebook (don't you judge me) she takes no pictures / mentions her boyfriend. She doesn't flirt with me, I don't think, but keeps taking the initiative and it's throwing me off.

Am I fooling myself in thinking I have a chance? Or am I actually in the game?

I've had very close/best female friends since the end of high school and the friendships have always been very rewarding, though seemingly more fleeting than some other less rewarding friendships. I find them easier to get on with at a deeper level once the 'romantic' possible preconceptions are out of the picture. I think it's because most men, even if it's just subconsciously, compete with other men.

Either way. Caught feelings for my last female friend and are now dating, which is also my first relationship, so would recommend getting to know women.

She might be looking to move on to you, yeah. Better question is, do you want to start a relationship on those terms?

NB: I know stable marriages that started that way.

You can be friends with a female, nothing wrong with that. AS LONG AS YOU DONT BE A FUCKWIT AND PLACE THEM IN A HIGHER PLACE THAN YOUR REGULAR FRIENDS.

Do you jump out of bed to drive Tom from highschool who you haven't seen in 4 years because his car broke down somewhere in fuckall state highway? FUCK NO so don't drop everything for Janice either.

It's only a problem if you've become an orbiter/slave.

you can be like 3DS or Switch friends and trade items in butumori
that's the full extent of male-female "friendship"

Usually it's women who start acting weird after turning a guy down, not the other way around.

I was friends with a girl for about eight years. She thought I was some kind of asexual because I never made a pass at her.
I think I could have managed a rocky, short-term romantic relationship with her but I knew if anything happened it would fail hard.
I spent years of that friendship holding my tongue when she whined about her shitty boyfriends, because I knew if I said anything it would be a
>you want me for yourself!
Eventually I got tired of the on-again off-again moaning about shitty guys and told her that she should just dump x guy and be done with it and then y guy comes along and I tell her I'm picking up red flags all over the place.
I was right, y guy had a cluster b personality disorder.
At some point I admitted that I'd be down to fuck if she offered and then everything I said was suspect.
>you want me for yourself!
I repeatedly told her to get some fucking female friends to help her screen these guys, so I wouldn't have to say anything about it, she didn't.
There was other reasons we're not friends anymore too but I would advise robots against having friends that are girls.

I think girls like men who take what they want.
Maybe she doesn't want to fuck, who knows.
However it is very likely she doesn't want to fuck a guy who is fine with being friendzoned.
You are not fine with it, show her. If she turns you down stop seeing her.

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Trying to get another guy's girl makes you a cunt. Failing at it makes you both dishonorable and a loser.

When the girl replies to your post asking you to be her bf after posting a face similar to yours asking if you're fucked (which she says is her personal 10/10), you exchange each other's discords, you connect over each other's experiences, and then she says she doesn't like you anymore because of some minor bullshit when she sees your photos, and has the gall to say "I don't ghost people" (aka be my orbiter since you are below my absolute version of perfection), you tell me why I don't want to be your fucking friend.

Because male emotions are different than female emotions.
I dont know about you, but if i see a girl genuinely treating me with kindness and respect, and always being there to support me, i would want to have her for myself untill the day i draw my last breath.

>Why would you rather ruin something beautiful
she'll still get fucked by other guys you idiot

Thats right faggot

Where do you find girls like this?

From what i've seen so far, only in works of fiction (ex anime and manga)

It's not all about sexual gratification, GTFO of here with your over simplification and gross generalizations. You have the intellect of a toddler and any guy you friend zone has dodged a bullet.

The problem is modern women blur the lines between friendship and relationship so I can't tell which she wants to be in. Case in point: one time a girl had a serious crush on me and I friendzoned her, fearing I'd be "creepy" if I made a move. Two years later I met another girl and we hit it off. I was about to make a move but then we got to talking about relationships and how she was in one already.

Also I feel that females would rather be best friends with another females, because they gain comfort from having someone of the same gender nearby.

Id like a female friend desu but they have to be unattractive or it wont work
men and women can only be friends if theres no romantic feelings on one side

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>be best friends with a woman
>she gets a bf and stops talking to you

cause if one party wants more and cant get it from the other party, then it is not "something beautiful" but painful, draining experience

You can only be friends with a girl you don't find a attractive, or a girl less attractive than you, would you fuck her? Ofc, would you wanna be in a relationship with her? Nah.

Friendship is cheap

I don't wanna listen to hours of girly bullshit if I'm not getting my cock wet
I already have enough friends

nice hobbies, reminds me a lot of the type of stuff I like to do. Agree with your take on OP's question here, there really just isn't a lot of incentive for me to be purely platonic friends with a woman since most likely we won't have much in common to be friends over

My son stand tall and let that bitch go, someone already beat you to it.

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Daily reminder the truest form of love as in friendship is between straight men, as their friendship is based on how much they actually like each other and not on how bad they wanna fuck

It's not possible you fag.

I have too much pride for this bullshit.

You and me both, never surrender your pride no matter how iniquitous.

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In truth we robots are just lazy and don't know how or refuse to find the right way to become normal and like everyone else. We support socialists like Sanders and feel entitled to have more than the basic social security we need. We expect to be paid and provided for. Once reality sets in and we realize that we shall never achieve even the average lifestyle of the average human,
>Why would you rather ruin something beautiful than not be sexually gratified?
The age old 'sour grapes' mindset sets in and we begin putting down what we do not have or can't get, or else we put down ourselves and refuse to even try at improving ourselves because we do not see hope or light at the end of the tunnel.

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I'll post it every time one of these shitty threads are made.

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Summed up perfectly.

Kek, fuck off you absolute beta cuck.

>t. subhuman virgin with no social or personal skills
Betas over you anyday

It works when the friendship is built on no sexual tension, but if there's any of that then it leads to failure 80 to 90 percent of the time, once you both get it out of your system it either builds into a relationship, goes back to being a friendship (rare) or the fun goes away and the lack of attraction means the friendship is no longer fun.

The reason it's rare for it to go back to being a friendship is usually because one side or the other, usually the guy, is that certain type of guy that's wanted sex and more from early on.

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>We support socialists like Sanders
Speak for yourself bernigger.

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BECAUSE WHO THE FUCK WANTS TO BE FRIENDS WITH A WOMAN

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Been friends with girls before. We probably would have been better friends if we fucked.

Friendship with women is for beta males. Could you imagine Frank Sinatra just hanging out with the gals? Of course not, you giant pussy.

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I have two sisters and they are completely emotionless around me.

You do not have a sister.

>I'll post it every time one of these shitty threads are made.
I'd normally say doing God's work but I can't since he made women in the first place.

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They both deserve the gallows.

Because if, and its really fucking often, you fall in love with her you can't really be friends with her in the same way. If you are her best friend this probably means she is one of your closest friends as well, and losing this because of romantic feelings feel like shit. Not saying you cant be friends with women, but fall in love and it'll hurt like hell.

as you see ITT, most robots can only think about sex.

this isn't a complicated discussion. in the real world nobody gives a shit who you're friends with. its unusual to be "best friends" with a girl, and people might wonder what your intentions are, but that will have no impact on your life.

It's just that my dad is always helping people. So I would have the impulse even if I looked down on him for doing that all the time.

I have a hard enough time not killing my self already; no thanks.

>We
There is no we only you I have had 1 women friend it is mentally exhausting

No it's not there are people saying that they had women friends and it went to shit

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Here's your you.

Its not something beautiful, it's just a one sided exchange of services. Because women aren't worth shit as friends.

I don't mind being friends but I always think they want me to put more effort in than I do

If women cant be good enough friends to make us stop desiring them sexually, thats on them.

Why are women agiasnt sexually gratifying their freinds? Why potential ruin a beautiful thing by letting hornyness get in the way.

See user I can make reatarted statements too.

>that feel when you have a girl best friend
These things never end well because one of these two friends is in love with the other.

male-female friendships are for fags and chads
if you aren't those then all they see you as is their emotional tampon/ATM but without any reciprocal feelings meaning they don't see you as a friend just or human so when you try to tell them about the shit you are going through or ask for help on something they just drop you and or mock you.

What if both are unattractive and so there isn't any attraction?

Why can't women at least suck their best guy friends cocks or something? Wouldn't that be a nice friendly thing to do? And I hear women love to suck cock.

>What do men have against being a woman's best friend?
because its always one way. no girl gives back to a guy friend, they aren't there for him or to help. its always what can the guy do for her

I want to be killed for knowing that exists.