Tell me about those daddy issues 20 year old girls have

I did the same thing, but I stuck with my girl and have helped her work through her depression and low self esteem. She stopped taking her zoloft and now meditates and does breathing exercises with me. I also got her into the gym, and she is confident in her skin (her ass got thicc too) even though she was an attractive skinny fat to begin with.

IMO if you're willing to invest in someone, they can be saved, after all, we're all gonna make it. But yeah if you don't want to put forth the effort, pump and dump lol.

them saying that they were molested doesn't mean that they were actually molested. 90% of rapes are, in truth, just "regrets". I see it all the time

t. lawyer

she was raped repeatedly by her dad at the age of 7. I seriously doubt that's a consensual "regret" she had, fuckwit

I'm only 23 but you're right, it's fucking true. EVERY hot girl I know has been sexually harassed. the hottest girl I know lost her virginity when someone spiked her drink at a party and had sex with her while she was unconcious. my ex gf has a couple of stories too. some guy in the same uni as her was driving her to a lecture and randomly started groping her thigh (she just instantly left the car and walked lol). some other guy she knew from school got drunk as fuck and kissed her randomly.

I'm not saying there's an evil rape culture conspiracy, but holy shit sexual assault/harassment is widespread. loads of creepy guys in the world.

Had a girlfriend while in college (that's USA speak for uni), she was 20, and a virgin when I met her. She was pretty hot imho, but was kind of nerdy and pushed away dudes because she had standards in a town where chicks get pregnant from drinking water.
She was not molested or fondled in any way by any family member.
She's 1/2 Latina... Mexicans don't put up with that sh*t. You mess around with someone's sister (hermana) or daughter (mia), the entire family is driving their Suburban with a dragging muffler through your door.

>she eventually dumped me because I had a loser job

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blame feminism. men respond to the signals women give. you raise boys with the background signals that girls are sex objects and they will treat them as such. when women were respected homemakers, they were seen as something to cater to and cherish and protect, which few are worth the same these days.

as for the thread, a girl with daddy issues ruined me. i turned into an absolute slayer but i am no longer able to connect meaningfully with another female. they have all fallen head over heels with me and i have to let them go. it is what it is, i guess. i wish i could tell other men not to fall into the same trap but good sex is too hard to ignore.

Daddy? You got home from work early today, mom isnt there yet... why are you looking at me so weirdly? Do you want to take off my clothes again and make me to take these pills? Please no... daddy...

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>men respond to the signals women give

yeah but man I'm talking about cases when the guy is just a creepy weirdo who randomly starts getting sexual with a girl. like the spiked drink thing, I don't think her lying unconcious was a signal of interest.

and this happens A LOT.

No she prefers mature older men.

>drink till i pass out unconscious in a room full of other drunk people
gee this will surely end well. would you get so fucked up you end up lying unconscious somewhere and then blame whatever happened to you on someone else?
or its like "i went for a walk in a bad neighborhood and got robbed/beat up/raped"
would you blame yourself for that one and not do it again? or blame the niggers who did it and keep walking in the neighborhood?

I don't know how many have been actually assaulted/raped but I do know a ton who have been creeped on hard. In high school my sister was harassed for weeks because she rejected this psycho kid. It wasn't even a bad rejection, she just said no when he asked her out. Then he kept calling her a whore and wouldn't stop finding ways to message her this fucked up shit like gore videos and insults. He even started making up straight up lies about her trying to contact him which he did by literally creating fake social media accounts under my sister's name and messaging himself pretending to be her. He then screeshotted those messages and showed them to people. Nobody believed him and we had to get the school involved at that point.

The most bizarre thing was she's always been very shy and extremely nice, she never even had a bf at that point so the "whore" and "slut" insults didn't even make any sense. It wasn't until me and like 3 other of my sister's guy friends all separately threatened to beat the shit out of him and the school threatened legal action that he stopped. That kid is a maniac and it freaks me out that he's just gonna be turned loose in the world.

Sorry for the weird rant, I just think about this sometimes.

agreed.
Rape is rape. Telling a woman she deserved to be raped because she simply looks hot or to blame it on "feminism" is a pretty fucked up mentality.

I'm no chad, but I personally like being able to go out and engage with women who look gorgeous (i.e. not in burkas). I'd hate to live in a society where women are confined indoors and disallowed to engage openly with guys. There's no reason creeps can't learn to control themselves.

the drink was literally spiked, she wasn't drunk on alcohol. the guy who raped her even told her the next day like it was a big fun joke.

You under estimate the amount of poor woman and men preyed on when they're young. Most of these traumatized people are molested and raped as KIDS anywhere btwn childhood and young teenage years 13-16 where they aren't sure how to make decisions. Not 21-25 year old college students rich white girls who regret their mistakes. The problem is only rich 20s regret girls are coming to you for lawyer services. Most of the people fucked up as children don't go to you, they go to therapists

>tfw fatherless male
How do I prevent daddy issues from defining me?

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well that does change things. assuming you believe her telling you that it happened, go beat the shit out of him and she will be yours forever

forgive him so you can find some peace

Should have beat his ass honestly. Would have taught him a good lesson about human interaction if he thinks it's reasonable to treat another person that way, what a fucking shithead, bet you he posts on Jow Forums

avoid being overly subservient to women/eager to please them at your expense

self-educate. There are tons of life lessons you can learn from respectable philosophers+ethicists. But carry this into all aspects of life: intellect, nutrition, health, finance. Define and be the person you want to be. Don't let historical circumstances that were outside of your control define who you are.

be the father you never had

find a male mentor who has a good job and good community ties.

I fucking wonder why, champ.

bet that doesn't stop you from pursuing the case though does it

LMAO

He probably thinks he's not abusing trauma for personal gain too kek

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I get what your saying user, I do. You leave your car unlocked on MLk and it gets stolen, then at some point you should know better than that.

At the same time, being a decent person isn’t that hard. We’re taught from fucking childhood basic morals like don’t harm people and steal. Even if you should know better at some point, it doesn’t excuse the actual perpetrators from the crime.

...and crossdress for him in private and call him daddy, right?

This. I’ve encountered several and every single one of them have only had male friends, lots of tattoos, dye their hair and like rough sex. Get in and get out.

I know that fits this description perfectly and looks like pic related but without the rough sex part. She isn't interested me and I've entered the "orbiter chauffeur" zone.

What should I do?

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>young guy hates it when older man when more resources scores hot legal chicks
every single day in this fucking forum. they should raise the minimum age to lurk here to 30.

>the hottest girl I know lost her virginity when someone spiked her drink at a party and had sex with her while she was unconcious.
>go to party
>get drugged
>be surprised
Zero sympathy. The reason most women claim to be have been raped or harassed nowadays is because they saw how much attention and sympathy other women who claimed the same got. I doubt even half of it is true.

any more pics breh?

I mean i would agree that you shouldn't put yourself in a bad situation by drinking too much but is it so bad to like going to a party without expecting drink spiked?

>not making your own drink
>not drinking only sealed things
>not watching your drink being made
>not holding your solo cup by the top like some kind of suave, paranoid loser
>having a drink long enough for someone to spike it
>not keeping track of exactly how many drinks you've had minus 1 standard drink per hour
>being female and leaving the house without your guard up
>not having friends to watch over you when you're blackout or vulnerable
>not knowing who all your gay friends are if you're at risk
>not absolutely ignoring all of this so you can take too many drugs willingly just for the fun stories you get to tell, later
>not skinny dipping in the retention pond at parties
>not being the blasted naked guy at a festival and forcing the tripping rangers to watch over you
>not becoming an unstoppable force of nature that cannot be contained by mere commercial goods such as tents
I forgot what I was talking about.

fucking this. Dated daddy issues girl and this was the exact result

uhhh should we tell him that mexican sexual abuse rates are insanely higher than any other race in north america or na?

Why the fuck are you all obsessed with this "daddy issues" nonsense?
I was close with my father as a little girl until he died in a rather traumatic fashion. I ended up becoming a socially stunted shut-in as opposed to a slut.

Picture this if you will; your situation but there's something worse. My father got divorced from my mom at 3 years old and left where I saw him about once every 1-3 sometimes 4 years. He thinks we are cool and buddy-buddy when I do see him and like nothing happened. He likes to give me advice and joke around saying things like "don't ask me for any money or support because you didnt need it before haha". This dude left me with no male family members, a mentally unstable mother and it's no wonder I'm a complete loser and failure at 27. I feel for you though bro but sometimes I wish mine hadn't ever met me if it's going to be like this.

The crazy thing is it’s been going on since prehistory but it pretty much stayed under wraps until digital technology and the internet dragged it out into the public eye.

Men viewed women as sex objects long before feminism became a thing. They were “cherished” as property, the same way you’d cherish a prize cow or a well built barn.

>tfw 26 year old kissless virgin and wouldn't even be able to detect daddy issues in any girls no matter what age they are because i have no idea what they even look like

its nkay not like ill even be in a relationship anyway lol

I dated a 33 year old girl (10 year older than me at the time) whose father cheated on her mother repeatedly, until the mother died of pneumonia.

She was as stable as you may guess. She believed that spirits actually may possess you if you walk near a "bad" location, and she also thought she could see the aura of each person.

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you could always turn gay and date older men

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Thats beyond fucked up. To be honest it depresses me to realize the amount of men who cannot control their urges.

We say that women are slaves to their emotions, which is true. My mom fucked me up emotionally as a child. But men very clearly have trouble controling their sexual desires. Its beyond disgusting what people will do when they think they can "get away with it", like spiking the punch at a party and raping a girl.

Shit like this this influences my politics greatly. The idea of manipulating and destroying lives because the instigator thinks they can "get away with it". Like molesting a child or mentally abusing them. Even in relationships, an ex gf of mine broke up with a strong and reliable relationship with me, simply because she wanted to be "independant". That urge was worth the years of joy we spent together. Shits powerful the amount people will do to other people.

>rub their thigh

>tfw at work today the female coworker i flirt with was wheeling in her chair and hit a table or something and started saying how she hurt her knee and was whining so i went over and rubbed it like i was healing it

why did i do that... im a fucking rapist. im gonna apologize to her tomorrow

That’s literally sexual harassment. Unless she’s into you but you sound like a weirdo

Pretty gay thread you got going here guys.

reminds me of myself after having a 5 year relationship you just think those types of things are normal and don't know who to take dating slow, kill me

>but is it so bad to like going to a party without expecting drink spiked?
Yes, it's degenerate.

>But men very clearly have trouble controling their sexual desires. Its beyond disgusting what people will do when they think they can "get away with it", like spiking the punch at a party and raping a girl.
Do you have even a shred of evidence that women don't do the same at the same rate? It isn't men in particular that act abhorrent it's human beings. It's hard to appreciate just how fucking stupid and little better than an animal most people are, but if you forget they will remind you to your great cost.

Most of them were probably hit by their father or had some other sort of father figure that hurt them.

t. Guy who had a relationship with a bipolar chick for far too long.