Encouraging boyfriend to be healthy

Jow Forums, I need your help

>be a 20 year old female
>struggled with PCOS since puberty
>diet consists of lean meats, leafy salads, roasted vegetables, toast, etc.
>Junk food is a rarity because BEETUS
>stays in decent shape because my health is in danger if I'm not
>thanksobama.jpeg
>takes control of own health because thats the bare minimum

>be dating 20-something male
>he regularly eats crap in alarming quantities
>I'm talking over $20 worth of KFC for lunch for one person
>also considers hotdog and chips acceptable dinner
>last time he ate vegetables was coleslaw drenched in mayonnaise
>his diet is giving me heart attacks by proxy

How do I get this guy to take control over his fucking portions like jesus christ do you want to die from atherosclerosis at age 30
Don't get me wrong, I love the dude, but I'm at the age where I hold everyone I date to husband standards. He needs to take control of his diet and exercise regime but I don't know how to break it to him without coming across as nasty

what do?

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Shut the fuck up bitch, the man can do whatever he wants.

Cunt.

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You don't, you find a guy with a better diet.


I have a better diet op and I could stick you twice a day like your insulin

Why are you dating subhumans then?

I want to kiss your vegana. Get you next week.

Alternatively, you can have a serious talk with him. Males hate that, but if you actually make good points, based on facts. Also, you could try to go with him to train, and cook delicious and healthy meals that you both can share.

If he relapses, don't whine, and just ask him again.

Best of luck. Changing someone's habit is very tough.

You won't change him. He's still at the indestructible age. He won't change his diet unless he sees his health go south. I've never seen another human being change their entire diet for another person.

show tits or gtfo

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You allright there, Adolf?

>be a 20 year old female
I do NOT believe this for one second. You need to show PROOF

OP literally has PCOS

PCOS makes you fat

Do you really want to see the tits of an obeast? What if she's got walmart cart rider saggy grandma tits?

Lord man, have some standards

You can't. If he doesn't care he doesn't care.

You can tell him how good you feel eating and being healthy. That might not make a difference.

OP worry about fixing your own fat ass before forcing it on others, you hambeast.

grr

She said she watches her diet and exercises

Develop some reading comprehension before shooting your mouth off, you moron

She wont sit on your shriveled up cock, for protecting the hambeasts honor you moron.

>She said she watches her diet and exercises

Doesen't mean shes not a fat mess.

>>I'm talking over $20 worth of KFC for lunch for one person
So having standards = literally Hitler now?

Every body is different

if he can eat it without problems then who are you to stop him?

I can eat like 4 big macs in a row too without problems, a large pizza without problems and feel fine after

as long as you are healthy it doesnt matter

some people cant though, I have a friend and everything he eats just sticks on his body so he has to be very careful, but i am 197cm and skinny so I have no problems eating whatever the fuck I want

maybe it will change once I pass 30 but im still 27 and still skinny, like maybe i get fat after 40 like my dad but untill them im gonna fucking enjoy life

>be a 20 year old female
>I'm at the age where I hold everyone I date to husband standards
I don't get this.

Diabetic midlife crisis, probably

is your boyfriend overweight? are you overweight?

It's basically what bushpigs do, in other words it means "CLINGY AS FUCK". It's the best the bitch could get to sum it up.

OP is most likely really really fat.

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Go back to plebbit.

Dump him and come ride my cock instead.

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>20 year old female
>i'm at the age where i hold everyone i date to husband standards

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Whoever made that photo is a legendary faggot as the third from the bottom is clearly the best option.

OP here, thanks for being decent. This thread got out of hand kinda quickly, huh?
(seriously, what is it with Jow Forums and asking for tit pics. There are hentai and camwhore boards for that. Also has a point, I could be horrifically ugly, but hey, that's anonymity for you)

I used to be obese. I lost a whole lot of weight between 15 and 17 years because I started taking metformin (which also helped with the diabetes). I also made some lifestyle changes, namely eating right and taking care of myself. I don't eat a lot of carbs or processed sugars. I still dream of hot chocolates though, much to my dismay.

Boyfriend is very overweight. His gut hangs out over his pants. He has a kind sweet personality, which is how we fell in love, but I'd rather not lose that sweetness prematurely due to heart attacks, cancer... You get the picture.

My own lifespan will probably be shortened because I was born with shitty genes. Every vegetable that I eat, and every mile that I run, is to help me live that little bit longer. Unlike some people, I chose to take care of myself. Seriously, I hate HAES people for that very reason. I want to minimise the risks because my life is literally at stake.

I guess my problem is that my boyfriend doesn't see that. He's seen me do the stomach wall injections (I don't think I'll ever get used to his expression when I do it in front of him) but it doesn't seem to click that these awful needles could be his fate too if he doesn't limit the buckets of grease.
I should probably give the dude some credit. He does do some excercise, but he tends to go for bullshit "6-pack in 30 days" regimes instead of long term calorie burning. He ends up frustrated with his lack of progress, and ends up eating his feelings and ending up at square one.

It's a vicious cycle, one I don't know how to fix. I'm bad with words so I don't know how to initiate the conversation. You see my problem, right?

Are you seriously suggesting some people are just impervious to the standard american diet? How dumb are you?

You shouldnt eat nothing except fast food but I eat 20€ of kfc in one meal easily sometimes and am still skinny yes

Nice work on actually making lifestyle changes to aid your health, so many fail to take initiative. I see your problem yes, I've had an overweight family member that has been put back on the right path. If you are going to incite a change in his behaviour I think you need to make lots of small steps over time rather than big ones. Try and get him to go to the gym with you once a week, try and get him to cook with you sometimes. Over time you can increase the frequency and make it more normal. In my opinion, permanent weight loss isn't achieved by a diet, its achieved by lifestyle changes that can be maintained. All in all though everyone is different and different things will work, just don't give up and let the behaviour become normalised

This is just stupid

Do you do it consistently on a regular basis? Eating an entire cake once a year won't make you fat. Eating an entire cake once a week probably will

hmm nah like once a week really alot and then the occasional big mac menu or whopper menu

not every day but maybe once every 4 days I eat something unhealthy

what I mean is every body is different. Some people cant eat pasta without getting fat others can live on mcdonalds without problems And everything in between

U

Just tell him that

'i am looking for a long term partner'
'my partner needs to have healthy eating habits, it's very important to me'
'can you make some of these changes to your diet?'

My gf literally cried one day because she thought I was eating so unhealthy I was going to die way younger than her, now she tells me that I eat way healthier than her, our diets have changed 0% im still not quite sure how to interpret it :^)

He won't be thrilled if you bottle it up and don't talk about it ever, just let him know what's up

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no u

Absolutely haram

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You hold men you date to husband standards, so meet wife standards..

Cook him dinner, take control of his diet by appealing to him in the form of food he doesn't have to make, or travel for, which is automatically easier, and that he'd appreciate more than anything because YOU made it.

Work him into cooking with you if you want.

Single dudes eat terribly, because when you're alone, who can be bothered cooking, you just want ease and comfort. Show him the food benefits of not being single.

(also, traditional gender roles exist for a reason)

I don't see any boobs with timestamp, faggot

Of course you are calories in calories out but just because you aren’t fat doesn’t mean eating your macros in shit isn’t shortening your life

Meat isn't healthy. Your diet is as unhealthy as his because you both eat meat.

> 20
> holds partners at husband standards

get a hold of yourself

nigger

>PCOS
>looking for a husband
Why? Not like you can pass on your shitty genes.

There's a miniham at work who tells everyone about her PCOS and BPD and how hard it is, then knocks back a sleeve of Pillsbury mini croissants every goddamn day. It is nausea-inducing to watch her wipe butter out of her little beard.

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fuck

checkmate.

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Have you pointed out to him that the injections may end up being his future?

Even still if he doesn't care about being a fat fuck, shit's not gonna be easy to change. I'm transitioning out of being fat, a trans-fat if you will. Nearly 400 lbs at one point and under 260 now. I had to want to change before actually changing, and I was well aware what I was doing to myself was unhealthy as shit, but it was a mixture of actually seeing how much shit I was eating (Like a single meal being a decent bit over 1000 calories) and just being completely fed up with how it felt to be fat that finally got me to change my diet.

You can't go in to a relationship with a goal of changing someone if they themself don't want to change. It doesn't matter if it's eating habits, hobbies, or whatever else. You might be able to make him hide his bad habits from you, but if the guy doesn't want to change he won't change. So many people think that they can change something about someone else, get into a relationship and end up resenting each other.

My fuck buddy eats mainly carbs (pasta and cereal) and is a little skinny fat, wich I don't mind. But me being a health nut it bothers me a bit, at least I can make him to get some exercise by being bottom
TELL HIM HIS CUM TASTES LIKE SHIT BECAUSE OF THAT FUCKING JUNK FOOD AND YOU WILL KEK HIM IF HE DOESN'T CHANGE AND STARTS TO EAT HEALTHIER

>it's the same faggot doing these bait threads again
just fuck off you piece of shit
sage

>So having standards = literally Hitler now?
It just does when it comes to you.

I'm gonna go get KFC now, thanks OP you fucking bitch.

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