You will never meet the girl who will save you from the darkness and pull you into the warm light

Stop confusing movies with real life dumbass

Not to be an edgelord but do you really want to spend the rest of your life with some woman who is completely incapable of dealing with relationship issues

Unless you force her to kill herself, it's her choice. Do you really think this woman would kill herself?

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Pro tip: most of the people who actually commit suicie dont tell anyone. They usually leave apology letters behind instead.

Most people who shout that they are killing thmesleves just say it for the attenttion.

>Relying on women to do anything for you
>Not manning up and pulling yourself out of the darkness

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No I only have to be with her for like 3 more weeks until summer and then she'll be back home from University and she'll have someone else to bitch at
You never know with crazy ass chicks I guess. But asap after this I'm going no fao for like a year just gaining hard af
Still spoopy shit

But I did user.

this girl doesnt exist user
i broke up with long term gf and got new gf recently.
still just as depressed as i was before i had ever had a gf.

life is suffering.

>No I only have to be with her for like 3 more weeks until summer
Is she not your girlfriend during the summer or something

I can just break up with her and she'll be with her parents and off my fucking hands. She has no personality and didn't make any friends so all she does it sit in her apartment and get fat

She's not gonna kill herself in the next 3 weeks
Just rip the bandaid off and be done with it

You have pull yourself out of the darkness. You’re gonna carry that weight.

Not true. Happened to me two weeks ago.

I guess you're right user. I'll break up with her. I just figured three weeks wasn't that long to wait

The only light that can save you is God, or something similar. Something not really of this world, that you can reach out to through your mind no matter where you are or what is happening.

I don't need a girl to save me from the darkness.
All we must do is continue to lift and continue to become stronger, physically, mentally and emotionally, and in due time we will pull ourselves out.

You are your own person as is she, do not sacrifice yourself for someone or something you don’t love.

dump her and let her kill herself

No one can save you from the darkness. If you’re broken the person best capable of fixing you is you.

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>I did meet her
>went on a couple dates
>connected with her unlike ive ever connected to anyone
>spend a day bar hopping, walking around the city
>Had a chance to tell her how I felt while saying goodbyes
>Didnt say anything
>Never saw her again

I still think about her every now and then. I dont think I'll ever meet anyone like her again.

>tfw when a depressed loser who didn’t know himself
>date a girl
>good for a while but sours bad
>go through really bad last month of relationship+breakup
>come out of bad time with an epiphany about who I am, what I want to do in life, what I need to work on.
>I finally know myself
>people who try to manipulate me are shrugged off now.

I hate the bitch but in a way she gave me the best gift of all. I’ve never been happier in my life.

Let her kill herself user. You don’t owe her a thing. Her weakness is her own and you don’t need to save her.

They don't exist. They only one who can save you is yourself. Women saving men is a meme in stories, it's NOT real. That's why you'll never meet "her".

>thought getting a nice girl would change things
>didn't change shit

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Something similiar happened to me
>be me highscool semi sports normie but never real fit
>not lived by anyone, obvious that parents never wanted to have kids and no “close” friends
>be semi juvenile diliquent would fight steal vandalize ect
>when im 16 meet Christian grill at school
>become friends but quickly fall deeply in love (not dumb love, I still havent felt anything close to it and im currently 24)
>eventually start dating, best times of my life I couldnt wait to spend time with her every single day
>totally changes my life go from being a total fuck up to working hard in school and sports
>divirced dad starts paying attention to me once he sees that im not a total fuck up
>she ends up going to college in another state and I go to a local school due to a sports scholarship, first in family to go to college
>barely ever see her due to our breaks lining up and us having no car but talk on phone all the time
>come back the summer after the 1st year and have a great time and I pop her cherry. literally love her more then anything
>next year she slowly starts getting distant, after about the end of the year she calls me crying that it is too stressful and that she needs to “take a break”
>find out a few months later she got a new BF
>feels.jpg so sad that I cant even get myself out of bed for a few weeks
>we generally avoid eachother over the next 3 years
>over this time I totally avoid other girls as much as possible, have sluts throwing themselves at me but I avoid, bros think im retarded
>graduate from college and become a functioning alcohalic, spend all my free time online (atleast im still Jow Forums)
>her bf and her are getting married in a few months and im invited to the wedding
>grateful for her as without meeting her I would likely be in jail but cant let her go
thanks for reading my faggy blog post

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your post made me feel a feel

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>and i’m invited to the wedding

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Fuck bro

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Don't go to her wedding user. I want to say she had good intentions for inviting you but it will only make you feel worse. You've made it this far and I'm sure you'll find a good girl. Pick yourself up. We'll all make it

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This is my problem, too, minus the bitch part.

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Set aside some cash and go to a strip club every so often. It is literally their job to pay attention to you and be sexy.

Im going to go to the wedding because theres going to be lots of people there that I want to catch up with. Also she would notice if I wasn’t there and I know that it would make her sad if she knew how bitter I was (i’ve kept my feels hidden from her).

I am finally over him but I still feel alone

>Be fagoo
>Meet boy in grade school
>We become best of friends
>We continue to be friends up to middle school
>We both hit puberty and start experimenting
>Freshman year of highschool we go all the way
>All through highschool we fuck
>We never talked about it, but I thought we were boyfriends
>I thought that we were both just keeping it a secret
>We stop having sex one day
>Find out he has a girl friend
>He didn't mention anything to me
>We were still friends and played video games
>He introduced me to her
>21
>They get married and guess who is best man
>I tell him I'll do it, but in my head I freaking out
>Night before I'm crying just wanting to die
>Wedding day
>Watch him get married
>Angry with myself
>I don't see him much anymore
>Fell into a deep depression, gained weight
>Turned 25 and finally got over him
>I'm 26 now and I just started going to the gym

I'm still pretty chubby but I working on it, finally feel like i'm back on my feet.

My best m8s ex pulled that shit. He eventually manned up and dumped her like 7 or 8 years ago. I saw her a few weeks ago so i guess she was full of shit.

Can you tell us more about it?
I would really like to read.

Life isn't an anime user. Probably the girl that you want will put you back in the darkness.

You did this to yourself.

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>Anonymous 04/17/18(Tue)18:40:17 No.45648229▶
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> (OP)
>why are you doing this to me user

A girl won't solve your problems.
No GF is a sympton, not a problem.

>tfw even if i did find a girl who might do that, one who i get along well with, i would be too afraid to ask her out because of a life of no experience so i wont know anyway

t. 26 year old kissless virgin

She's fucking lieing you pussy. She will cheat on you first chance she gets. Dump her fat ass. Get a girlfriend first if you need to and then dump her. Grow a fucking pair. She has zero respect for you.

lmao, more like this

patrice o'neal says to mentally prepare yourself for your girl to leave at any moment, for physical and mental safety. do that then call her bluff

>Have no gf or crush
>No motivation to do anything and just wallow in mediocrity
>Have a gf or a crush
>Suddenly I'm motivated to excel in life in all ways

Why the fuck does this keep happening? Unless I have a girl to motivate me, I can't do anything.

>get gf, she's super sweet
>feeling fuzzy feels when she's not there, or when we're texting
>no feels at all when we're making out
What does it mean? Have I just been alone for too long?

>tfw met a girl just like that, but can never be with her because we're doomed to always be just friends

She's so dreamy, and genuinely has goals and shit in life. It's really cool to see a motivated girl.

>still gets a gf even when "unmotivated'

normie ree

To be fair I wasn't a normie and my gf had major issues in life due to abuse and rape. It lasted a month and she went and fucked another guy in a derelict house.

>relying on someone else to improve your life
t. never gonna make it

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I did though. it was fun the first couple months but it got old fast.
The grass isn't always greener lads.
Chances are, you're already living the life and you just don't have the right mindset.

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Dump her anyway after getting those threats in writing and saving them.
When her friends inevitably call you out on it, point out that you were getting out of an emotionally abusive relationship.
I've been there before and the only way to realize is from the outside looking back in retrospect. She's not the one user. And the more time you spend stuck there, the worse it will be to break things off. Until the point that she gets preggo on you and you're signed up for life.
End it now.

bro are you me?
except my gf wasnt christian she was a whore
we're all gonna make it brah
my ex is a lot of my inspiration in life desu, I want her to regret fucking things up with me for the rest of her life

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>Was a normie by Jow Forums's standards from 2013 to 2015
>Lots of friends, success with women and kind of popular
>Girl I was in-love with for 2 years broke my heart by leading me on
>Become a shut-in after
>Spend my time gaming and shitposting
>Improving my life now after I got a job
>Honestly don't want to be a normie again
>Aiming to be a shitposting gamer that's even more attractive now

I just can't be vulnerable to women anymore and don't even know how to date or court one anymore. Whenever I did, it was natural and I just don't care anymore. Might just use Tinder to get laid occasionally though.

another black phillip pupil in the house???

>tfw had a slim thicc 5'0 pale latina with 10/10 face with the softest, squishest tits
>supported me in everything, constantly encouraged and looked out for me, extremely loyal
>Never was an attention whore or dumb petty bitch, rational and chill down to earth person.
>Didnt have any social media
>each others first everything
>4 years together
>start a new job, end up getting feels for coworker, get distracted by shiny new thing "grass is greener on the other side" mentality
>Get close to cheating, cut off the relationship
>the moment I do I lost all interest in coworker
>realize she was just a basic bitch like almost all girls around that age
>try to come back to ex gf
>she refuses to have any contact with me
>hear through mutual friends she's with someone
>look him up
>he's taller, handsomer, richer and talented than I ever could be and probably has a bigger dick
>kms

There's no one to blame except myself. I've had people tell me that I truly didn't love her because if I had I would have never left her but I did. I was just a weak bitch and took what I had for granted.

I'm just glad the only one I caught feelings for isn't real

I've been fit most of my life, but when she came around. I cranked my dials and went on overdrive

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>4channer saying he had a "10/10 face slim thicc latina"

lying in your first line is dumb

>Wasn't terrible with women and had many approach me
>Play Persona 4 Golden
>Ever since then, real women just can't compare with 2D
>Genuinely have stronger feelings of attraction to vidya and anime characters now

for real?
tell me more

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get help user. go to therapy, go to AA, put in the level of effort you lift with into yourself. its okay to ask for help.

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why do you have to say such things. why do you have to say such a real thing bruh.

Yea that game rocks nanako is so hot

You are a *man*, you are supposed to save yourself and then the girl from the darkness.

some of us are supposed to be in the dark
some ofus will just pull others into it

dump her
that shit is gay

what if the girl i want is black

>But asap after this I'm going no fao for like a year just gaining hard af
what?
just dump her and move on

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it means you like flirting more than her
probably
or she has bad breath
that's the closest I have to relating to you
sorry, bro

are you me but younger?

I don't think that's it, but thanks m8 for answering.

Just in case: invest in bitcoin
it explodes in 2017
I'm not sure I'm doing this right

Women don’t want to baby you, you have to save yourself.

>Leaving that job to a women

She’s responsible for her own life user. Leave.

>meet girl
>we become really good friends
>start to like her a lot
>overthink things for weeks
>eventually can't take it anymore and ask her out on a date
>she says yes
>it goes great
>we're becoming super close and go out together all the time now
I never thought I could love again brahs

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I have persona 5 (bought it for my ex fiancee) should I play it? Your life sounds better than mine because you have a reason to keep going other than a survival instinct. Even if it's a seemingly retarded reason, it would be nice to have a somewhat tangible one.

that's the opposite of true

for the first two to four years, you're right

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ManicPixieDreamGirl

If that is what you’re looking for, you’re an idiot.

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>And I am invited to her wedding
Jesus...

..you poor bastard

You have patrician tastes then.

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>and i’m invited to her wedding

why do women do shit like this?

Timeshare

tfw when i already did but i lost her and know that she was irreplaceable.

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>never
Proposing to her in a month, lads. Never say never.

>gf dumps me
>I am devastated for 2 weeks
>Get a new job with more money
>All lifts increase
>Make new friends
>Meanwhile she has stopped going to the gym and is looking worse

Why am I still not happy?

I sorta did, but not in the way you'd expect
>have class with pretty girl
>eventually work up the courage to hit on her
>her pupils are visibly dilated, oblivious to the world around her, even gives me an opening to invite her out right then
>I screw it up anyway
>it hurts more than it should
>can't figure out why
>realized I was projecting my own problems and hopes onto her
>but why? Where did this though process come from
>dig through my head some more
>remember my first time
>remember how I said no, but she basically forced herself on me
>talk about it
>start feeling better about myself
>start shopping around for a therapist
Things are looking a'little better. I hope you enjoyed my blog