It just seems so abstract to me.
There's this girl I know for a FACT likes me (sources and previous interactions), and I've talked to her a bit on facebook but the idea of going on a date is just unreal.
Like I know I should decide a place and pick her up, but then what happens?
>"Hey Annonette let's go for coffee tomorrow at x'o'clock"
>show up to coffee
>or pick her up and go get the coffee
>talk with her, make her laugh
>ARE small talk method
>FORD talking principle, unless you already know each other well
>finish your coffee, she finishes hers, etc.
>sit there for a while longer assuming it's a cafe talking and stuff
>attempt touching her on her knee, outer thigh, hands, shoulders - don't be autistic about it but break the touch wall and flirt with her a bit
>get up and leave, take her back to her place
>walk her to her door step, make sure she's in safe and if she stands there for a second looking at you go in for kiss - don't be autistic about it
>if she offers you to come inside, go in and fuck her brains out
>remember you're cool and don't be retarded
>The more you overthink it the more likely you are going to fail.
It's a way for you to get to know her better and to see if she's someone you would want to keep seeing
that seems like a lot of effort user
How old are you?
it's literally taking a woman out for coffee and talking with her. Touch her in non-private areas and drop her off at home.
Its like hanging out with one of your buddies, but then at the end there's penetration
So no different for you
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OP IS NOW DEAD
>just make her laugh and be interesting
Oh I got it, thanks user.
Gee whiz silly me why didn't I think of that?
if youre handsome they enjoy spending time with you and if shes pretty you will enjoy spending time with her lol
thnx for the gold kind stranger xD
you said she likes you retard. I even gave you ways on how to make conversation. Literally Google FORD method of conversation and the ARE method to small talk and you'll be flying.
almost 19
>just be pretty lol
sure, I love being in silence for 20 minutes staring at each other in a date with a person I just met. Not awkward at all
but if I use some methods to interact with her, wouldn't it come off as non-genuine?
Ask about what she likes to do, her interests, hobbies. If you find that you share something in common, just go with it. Women love to talk about themselves and if you can get them going all you have to do is nod and say uh-huh every so often.
Talked to my current girlfriend about what anime she liked and that was the door to get her over to my place to bang. Been together for almost three years now.
The first date I ever had we both just stared at each other in awe for like 20 seconds at a time. Smiling, winking, and just admiring each other. I was 12 then.
Fast forward to age 25, when I go on a date with the woman that will eventually become my wife, and do the exact same thing. Stare at each other for ages in complete sexual and emotional bliss. That first date with my wife was a Skype call and it ended up lasting 6 fucking hours. I went in work with basically no sleep. The point of this story is that if you both really like each other you don't fucking have to do shit, it will all come naturally.
>ARE method
google is giving me nothing
>FORD method
occupation talk is the most boring form of communication in my experience, the other points are good though
>hey anonette let’s go out for lunch.
>ask her about herself, people love to talk about themselves and it shows your interested.
>talk some but at appropraite times. If you ask her questions about herself, she’ll do the heavy talking.
>kiss her goodbye, even ask if your a super scared autist, she might thinks it’s cute if she likes you a lot.
There.
Yeah, just ask basic questions about her until you find something you have in common and then talk about then and then keep it moving from there, if that topic dies ask another question you want to know about her
job, family, school, hobbies, books, movies, food, music etc etc
you're over thinking it so it's going to go bad, just learn from the experience and get better at it
Also an off chance she might think it's cute that you're nervous
this if you want to rationalize why its like this its because words arent the end all be all for expressing yourself
>my hobbies are, I don't know watching netflix and eating delicious food I guess haha!
If you ask this question you're going to fail
You need to understand what women want. They want to pretend they're in a movie, the guy has a cool and unique spot he takes her, comes up with witty comments, and ends up being a gentlemen
Yeah you're not doing any of that shit, but at least try
lol youre all fucking virgins if you think this way women just wanna be with a good looking guy that is interested in them, it doesnt matter what hes gonna say
Fuck Ive taken some time off Chan and this list of responses reminds me why.
OP it's all good to not know what to do or be unsure etc but mate it's as simple as this.
You're a human, and so is she.
All a date is, is spending some time together learning about eachother and working out if you like what you see and vice versa.
All this shit about FORD and BACK chat methods and fucking secrets and "what women want".. god damn, fuck off. What do women want? A date that isn't a fucking science experiment orchestrated by a Serbian rock collecting Forum.
Message her, ask her to something simple and easy, go for a walk, take her to a lookout if there's one close by. Get uber eats/food delivery and watch a movie, get a coffee if you really want but it's a little shallow because it's so common and scripted. Just do something simple that you'd enjoy and show her who you are, and she'll do the same.
Run the conversation when you're there. You can't plan it and expect it to go well.
Just be you, it's cliche because it's right. No point being someone you're not unless you wanna portray that image forever.
I swear to god hey this boards fucked.
Niggas can't even be around the female race without being like "woah look at that stunner. I'd hit that!"
But they'll give advice.
if you have no idea how to talk to her, you need to at least pretend to be interested in her interests, her job, her studies. It's much easier if you have some in common.
Ask her about them, let her talk more.
Try to have fun and a honest conversation.
Try to make her laugh.
Tell funny stories that are related to the current conv you're having. could be anything from something that happened to you or some fucking movie.
Show interest casually commenting she's cute or interesting whenever you see a chance.
Don't take it too seriously.
Laugh at yourself.
Worst you can do is not trying.
Good luck.
This couldn't be further from the truth. If the girl has been around you she's seen how you interact with people and she's interested in who you are, not whatever perfect man you hope to be. If you go out just enjoy the moment. It might feel overwhelming and awkward when you're inexperienced, but women often value sharing a genuine experience more than being a part of some pua-tryout.
you put your penis in her vagina
Literally "b urself"
See how fast a girl gets turned off when you as the man don't take initiative. Answer "uhh idk xD" whenever she asks how to do something or where to go. It's a trick question; I'm more attractive than you and seen it first hand. Regardless of how attractive you are or your personality, you CAN turn people off with your behavior
I don't know if you're still in high school or what, but if you do t know proper etiquette with girls and dates with older college girls, you're going to get ghosted