Has your ex ever come back?

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I made the mistake of going back to her after 3 weeks. When she said no it was probably the lowest and most vulnerable part of my life. Today I finally deleted her number from my phone and made a tinder, wish me luck lads

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only the ones i was cold to
they don't come back when you let them get to you.

We both will text each other out of the blue every month or two. Always leads to random sexting, plans for one of us to fly out, and then one of us ghosting the other all over again.

>its been four years
>she's gotten kinda fat and inked up
Fucking one-itis

Eventually. You have to pass on her though, as it is absolutely one hundred percent not worth it at all. It sucks when it ends again. And it’s a lot more explosive. Everything comes out of the woodwork at the same time and it fucked me up for months. Do not do it.

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They've all come back at some point or another. As long as it's not a fresh breakup and neither of us are pining for each other, I don't mind staying in touch here and there. I'm even really good friends with one of my exes.

Such posts make me feel better knowing i’m not the only one

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Yes, two of them have. Said no to both. The first one was legit crazy and stalked my sister after I left for college and even tracked me down while I was deployed overseas. Too crazy for me bros.

gl bro you're gonna make it

Yeah and i rejected her.
Never felt any better.

>ex breaks up with me
>still wants my constant attention and to be friends
>tell her that isn't for me and stop all contact with her
>wants to get back together with me 2 weeks later

Reminder women are a meme. They want what they can't have.

Never get back with an ex. If you broke up with her, then you are spineless moron for getting back with her. If she broke up with you, then she is obviously a manipulative person who doesn't care about you. Move on.

But she got big tits man...

Once my ex tried to get back with me after she moved back to town. Had gone to live with her dad in Alabama, came back a few years later. Asked if I still thought about her and missed her, hit her with that "nah not really haha". In retrospect, if I had gotten back with her my life as I know it would be very different. I might have been more well laid, but I also might've been a father at this age and I'm not bout that life.

same man, she cameback after 8years, we fucked a bit and now we cutted contact. One itis is hard, I hope she will comeback again tho

If you let a women dominate your life so much that you would get back with her after she broke up with you then you should probably start training for your future career as a doormat

When girls break up and then want to get back together, it means they wanted to fuck / tried to fuck some other guy and it didn't work out how they wanted it to. Essentially they get to cheat on you without technically cheating you. If you take her back you're a cuck, but not technically a cuck if that makes sense. If that doesn't make sense, it's because I'm using chick logic to call you a cuck. Also many of these bitches break up with you planning to get back together after jumping on some other guy's dick. Don't fall for any of it. Throw them to the curb with the rest of the trash.

There are plenty of big titty women out there for you to mate with bruv. Don’t forfeit your wellbeing just to get easy pussy.

It's been 3 years since she broke up with me, which was the reason I started lifting.

She messaged me on Facebook around Christmas and we met for a coffee which was fun. It felt like nothing had changed really. She threw a house party and we got fucked up on MDMA. Her friend said she'd told her she thought I was more attractive now. Felt bretty good.

We were hanging out a lot then had like 6 weeks of basically no contact. Finally met up again this weekend to say bye because she's leaving for 6 months. Weird vibes man.

How does it make you a doormat? What if years passed between the breakup? What if you were the reason for the breakup (cheated, abusive, moved away)?

The "rule" to never talk to an ex is for people who are still hurt by the relationship. Actual grown, mature people who are capable of moving on don't have this issue.

Yes and i told her to fuck off. She light switched the hell out of me after a two year relationship and then tried to come back after dating some other guys that either were bums or treated her like shit. She gave me the whole "You're the only good man i've been with" crap. Maybe i was, but i already gave her the chance to be a part of my life i've been putting together (Own a place, stable income and working my way up the ladder, Jow Forums, etc.) and she stumbled around it and treated it like something she could just walk away from after year of telling me she loved me. I have no reason to believe she wont do it again.

Trust is more important than anything else in a stable relationship. You can't just beg it back.

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yes, if youd call him an ex
we agreed to take a break because when he'd met me, i was at my lowest point, and since then i'd relied on him way too much for my own validation and happiness.
we spent a month apart; in that month i felt first hand how much i relied on him. it was like having the rug swept from under me. but, little by little, i saw how important it is to love myself and began to work towards that goal
this was january of this year. now we're together again and stronger than ever, and im getting better at not hating myself
moral of the story is you probably need to love yourself before you can love someone else in a healthy way

>gf of 6 years
>Recently starts to ghost/one word reply me
>Breaks up with me, wants to remain friends
>Since then has messaged me everyday talking about literally nothing and tags me all the time on Facebook

What is this?

I stalked her for 3 years until she deleted all her social media and moved out of the city, I'll never see her face again

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>hate myself
>love myself

You sound like somebody with zero self-awareness. You probably wear your sleeves a little around the beginning of your palm don't you?

Thank god she didn't. She's about to marry some soyboy now.
Holding on to her was really one of the worst decisions I've ever made. Completely ruined 3 years of my life

You didn't hoard her pictures? I have and album including 1 (one) picture of my ex's tits that I still jerk off to from time to time.

Sounds like a woman. She doesn't know any better.

Actual grown, mature people don't want to talk to their ex's because they don't give a damn about them.

never said i love myself now mate, just working on it

You can fucking do it bro. I believe in you. When the feels are dragging you down, remember to look at the big picture. Even though she's "the one", and your life is a black pit without her light, remember that she won't want to be with a sad cunt; women take the best thing that's in front of them. Remember that if you lift and progress for you, you will feel better overall, your life will be better, and chicks will see it.

Lift to be the one she wishes she could have when she sees you walking down the street with an honest smile, loving life.

>Breaks up with me, wants to remain friends

Always say no to this. Agreeing to it is beta but mostly you need your space to get over her. Go no contact, work on improving yourself. One day, she'll be missing you and she'll get in contact again. When you're in a better place, maybe years down the line, you can think about being friends but only when you're able to think about it objectively.

She wanted an open relationship and shit and not sure if she wanted to break up. So I left. One day later she begged to have me back and I went back. 4 months later she broke up with me again.

Never go back to an ex OP. I was extremely beta during this whole time. I'll never allow myself to behave like that again. Even if she wanted me back (again), she would hate my guts in no time as I'll tolerate none of her bullshit and I'm not the same person anymore since the breakup.

This image. so. fucking. much. I gained only a little muscle but I lost 15kg since she left. Already the best version of myself in my whole life and I'm not even done yet. Fuck her. She wasn't worth all those years.

>be me
>ex and I break up long distance college sophomore year
> she goes to better ivy than me
>she gets job at top tier consulting firm, me at 2nd tier
>I vault over her and get fit and get a venture capital job
>have an offer for her firm at a level above her

Do I take it just to spite her and so I can fuck all her friends?

I will always, always both hate her and fantasize about getting back together, but she’s a careerist and it would be so great to fuck that up for her

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Sorry to hear that bro. She probably cheated on you but still wants to keep you warm.
Burn this bridge

Does this "being friends" years down the line mean we can fuck? Because that's the only reason to be friends after getting out of a relationship.

No, I didn't and I regret it. I just want to see her beautiful face to think about the old times. Alone that makes me happy.

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>I got feelings for this girl after two weeks of going out before she told me she wanted to just be friends (because I'm retarded)
>try to keep talking and hanging out occasionally but she ghosts me
>still thinking about her all the time she messages me out of nowhere which I still can't wrap my head around
>only to be ghosted again after talking for half a day

guess I reminded her of how awkward and uninteresting I am

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maybe in 20 years when her bodys all used up and she needs some beta to settle down with

>gf breaks up with you
>you work on yourself, try to improve
>years down the line
>thinking about maybe having contact with your ex again

Yeah no man. That is just complete bullshit. Life is not Hollywood movie

I only started lifting to piss of my ex, she left me for a better looking dude.

it has been a 1 year now, im in full best mode. Sometimes i meet her on a street or in a store. i think its fucking working. shes gives me the "look", she even readded me on whatsapp.

im just waiting for her to make a move again so i can tell her BEGONE THOT, it will be the best day of my life

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stupid brainlet

It is impossible to understand women breh. It's not even your fault probably

>be me at university
>see cute girl, she smiles at me
>we regularly see and smile at each other
>finally work up the courage to speak to her while sitting outside of library
>we talk for a really long time, get along great
>date couple of times, kiss, fuck
>she leaves town for a week or two
>basically ghosts me / one word replies
>"I just came out of a long relationship, I need to find myself"
>mfw

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show body senpai, I need some motivation

You sound like a bitter bitch. Only women hold grudges like this.

She found a better guy. Its not rocket science.

Sounds like the kind of shit I would do. I can be a spiteful cunt.

Just focus on you, homie. If the job is right for you (for the right reasons) then by all means consider it but it sounds like you'd be compromising your own happiness just to hurt someone else. You don't have to work at the same firm to show her up.

No, fuck that, man. Fuck that. If she doesn't take the bait, it's her loss. Be ready to give your everything to someone, but also be ready to pull that shit right back in full.

You're better than that. Look at it this way:
>be there for her and pester her, come off as a beta that will further cement you in the friendzone

Or

>either tell her straight up that you want to be more than friends, or pull out without saying a word and move on. While you're sitting there sad and stuck clinging onto her, the girl who will fall in love with you and is driven to be more than friends is out there wasting her time on Tinder.

Do it, bro. Don't settle. Only take the best that comes your way. I believe in you.

Ex who dumped me texts me every now and then asking what I'm up to etc. - shut it down pretty quick. Slept with her friend after too

Ex that I ended it with wants me back , saw her a few days ago. Miss having sex with her a lot

>Implying I ever had a gf

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I broke up with my 2nd girlfriend after only one month of dating, two months ago. I'm not Chad-tier yet, but my body is getting better by the day. I hope she one day tries to snake her way into my life again just so I can rail her once and then dump her if she asks me to get back together. And tell it in a very smug cunt kind of way like "I've changed my life completely and I can't let you be a part of it"

You fuck your own hand so often it might as well be your wife.

Happened to me lmao
>found a avg girl on tinder, She is the equivalent of a beta female, tell me after 5msgs on tinder taht she is depressed etc,
>after 2days of chatting she ask for more and more attention, send me retarded "have a good day" shit every morning.
>meet her at her place, we chitchat a bit, I kiss close and I left
>no news for days
>ask her "wyd, I want to see you in few days"
>user, I need to be alone for a bit
>deleted me on snap and tinder
I bet, either she just wanted a quick fuck or I found a truly retarded one

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Yes, it was a massive mess and shitty 6 months before I literally couldn't take the pain anymore and went no contact again. Really fucked me up. Do not recommend.

>dating hot Latina grill for 3 years
>was her everything, literally carried her through beginning stages of adulthood, paid for everything, helped her start school
>left me 6 months ago because “I seemed like I was losing interest”
>literally 2 days later tells me she slept with a Manlet from work who isn’t Jow Forums
>also, she works at a Sephora to give context of the fuckboi
>day after she tells me she comes over crying saying that the guy told her that was “all he wanted”
>godisreal.png
>still have the feels so I console her and we get back together
>everything is fine until she leaves again saying “things aren’t the same”
>fast forward to today
>even more Jow Forums than before but still dealing with no confidence from that bitch
>been no contact for a couple months, lonely
>have a good job (engineer), 6’, 215 lbs, solid, but I know I don’t have the confidence to ask someone else out
>get a plan
>get drunk one Friday and decide to message one of the hottest grills I had met from uni, that I haven’t talked to in a couple years
>ask her to hang out
>mfw now dating qt3.14 I thought I’d never get
>mfw ex contacts me 2 days after start dating new grill
>mfw she says her life sucks and she will do anything to get back to what we had

I was cucked anons. I was a betafag, I ignored every bit of advice you gave, and went through all the consequences you had said. Now I feel like Chad on his rightful throne fucking the right Stacey

Listen to these people you fucking normies

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>im just waiting for her to make a move again so i can tell her BEGONE THOT

Would use this as a reply to one of my ex's endless essay texts but it'd me explaining what thot meant.

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>It is impossible to understand women breh
No, you're just stupid. Women are easy to understand. In your case you acted needy, so she found a better dick to ride.

Former, she was on the blob and you weren't dominant enough.

women are a meme. listen:

>be me
>tell my gf to get fit so we can have a hiking holiday togehter
>she loves the nature and me, so she says yes
>gf gets gym membership
>she goes there like two times in three weeks
>tell her she can piss off and i dont waste my time with people without willpower
>stop all contact with her for three weeks
>she texts me: "hey user, i went to the gym every other day and lost 5kg. i want to show my new self to you ;)"
>i invite her over
>she told the truth. she looks fit and hotter than ever.
>we fuck like hell
>go to gym togehter next day
>have two busy weeks.
>invite her over for fucking
>SHE IS FAT AGAIN! tells me, she had no time for gym and blablabla

tl;dr: women are a meme.

found the man

Block her on Facebook and every social media account you can think of.
Trying to get over someone you still see occasionally is like trying to quit drinking while working at a bar.

I broke up with my gf when we realised we had different aspirations in life. She wanted to travel and do stuff, while I want to settle down and maybe slowly start a family togeather.

We managed to stay apart for a week then we both came crying back togeather like little bitches. That has 1,5 years ago and we've since done a bit of traveling since. In two weeks we'll be visiting Rome and I'm going to propose to her. I know she'll say yes (because I let her chose the ring beforehand) and we'll start planning the wedding and building our own house soon after that. We've been togeather for over 8 years I think we'll be getting babies within the next 3 years.

I have a stable job and I've never been happier.

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No. 6 months and no sign from her. Not even a single word.
Shit, it hurts.

>with gf since I was 17 and she was 15
>22 now
>basically lived together and did everything together this whole time
>she suffers depression and cuts contact essentially with all our friends
>she grows cold and breaks up with me a month ago
>she consoles in a co-worker and fucks him
>I find out the next day and tell her off
>she immediately starts crying and says it was a mistake
>give her her stuff back and leave to go out with friends even though I’m dying inside
>she keeps ringing
>meet up the next day she cries for hours and hours begging me to get back with her and that she regrets what she did more than anything
>this goes on for a few days then we fuck and get back together
>everything is pretty good and I’m putting my foot down more
>have a 5 week holiday booked
>she says she feels depressed again today and acts cold
>says I’m all she wants in the world

What do I do bros this whole situation has fucked me up. I just want to be with her but don’t know if I can trust her.

Get into BDSM with her.

Cuck.
Dump her.

Don't let her push you around and decide your life. If she left you once she'd do it again. Focus on lifting and dating others, and when (not if) she talks to you again, tell her she had her chance.
It sounds harsh but you'll only be miserable if you're thinking about her.

got me chucklin' user
have a (You)

No I don't want her back. I just love the stories here from other Jow Forumsizens that had the chance to tell their exes to go fuck themselves.

My gf just broke up with me literally 30 minutes ago. You guys are the first ones I'm telling (which is kinda sad but whatever).

The worst thing is her reason why though. She said she doesn't feel like she can trust me. First of all, wtf does that even mean, and second of all, I have never given her a reason not to trust me. In fact, I've always done the opposite, or at least that has been my intention. My personal character and my values are very important to me, and I take great pride in the fact that everyone I know, know me as a good person; someone to be trusted. I am studying what I'm studying to help people. I'm investing a lot to earn a lot of money, so I can use it to help people and support noble causes. I take this shit seriously. I'm just trying to be a good person. So it really hurts when she basically tells me "I'm breaking up with you because I think you're a bad person", when that's everything I try not to be. I really am baffled by this, honestly any other reason would be better. I seriously wish she had told me that she was seeing someone else, it would hurt a lot less. Not only do I not have a gf anymore, she told me the most hurtful thing she could. I just hope I'm not deluded and that she's wrong.

She seriously got into my head with this. How do I make the feels stop u guys

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she cheated and in order to avoid responsibility she convinced herself you are a bad person and forced her into his arms rather than she’s a whore.

>She said she doesn't feel like she can trust me. First of all, wtf does that even mean, and second of all, I have never given her a reason not to trust me.

The old reverse psychology game, she basically saying you can't trust her. As in, she's either cucked you already or is about to.

all 5 (five) of them, never get back with them, just casual sex.

just fuck around but don't mess with her directly
she'll get buttmad & fuck it up herself

start thinking about leaving her, she will do that to you again and again. man the fuck up

trully analyze yourself. after a few days/weeks of that, find out if you really are some sneaky fucker or not. and dont belive everything she said, never. she is just 1 opinion and a highly biased one (by her own shit roastie crazy person)

in general, for all of you, stop idealizing women and caring that much about what they think. they are just people, more inestable and less confiable than anything else.
focus on yourself, always. think about what you did good or not, improve that, be analitic in order to adapt in the next situations to come. be confident in the way you act, be always a man of logic, reason and honor. but your own version of that.

Idk man I have a really hard time seeing her cheat on me. Not because I don't want to consider that possibility (as I said, I would've preferred if that was the case and she just told me), but because she's a fairly shy and introverted person, and she doesn't exactly have an easy time meeting new people. I just don't see it. Then again she's really attractive so idk, maybe she did cheat.

You’re definitely the problem in that story

>trully analyze yourself. after a few days/weeks of that, find out if you really are some sneaky fucker or not. and dont belive everything she said, never. she is just 1 opinion and a highly biased one (by her own shit roastie crazy person)
Thanks man. You and me seem to have same way of thinking, because what you wrote is exactly what I had planned on doing. First be brutally honest with myself, see if there's anything about me that could validate her opinion, and if there is, work on that so that I become the person I aspire to be.

I don’t idolize her I love her and we had a life planned. But I guess she threw that away. I don’t want to but I’m going to break it off tonight. Gutted about the holiday also because it’s all payed for but guess in the big picture it’s not a big deal

Be strong man, you are worth it, keep bettering yourself.

lol dude a girl being shy doesn’t mean anything, if she’s pretty guys approach her all she needs to do is smile and nod. it’s not the same as a guy being shy, women can never be alone like a guy can.

Don't fret. Hit the gym and blow off some steam.
>gf dumped me after I took her to an art museum and a nice dinner
>said I wasn't a good person/ god squad enough but I was an amazing boyfriend
>womenaredumb.jpg
>6 months later contacts me about how much dating anyone other than me sucks
>tell her I'm not interested in dating
>convince her to hook up with me anyways
>ghostthatbitch.tif

It's not all bad.

>Has your ex ever come back?

no she married some faggot fuck

fucking do it bro

yeah I guess. But still, I have a hard time seeing it, and typically I'm very good at reading people. By all means, it might be true, but just from an objective standpoint, knowing what I know about her, I view it as very unlikely. That being said, I don't have a better explanation...

the gym is closed unfortunately, it's about midnight here... but yeah, thanks for taking the time bro. It just feels nice to talk to someone about it, and I don't want to talk to my close friends or family about it yet because it's still so fresh.

>fucks him
just kys senpai, ure welcome

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It's cool. I told my bro and he was much more upset about it than me.
I just realized how much more time and money I saved without having a relationship.
It's nice to just to go to the gym, run business, and go to the range.